Ten Keys to Effective Parenting, Part 2

2 Timothy 3:10

In this episode, we delve into the importance of sharing your Christian journey with your family through the lens of 2 Timothy chapter 3. Discover insights from Pastor Colin on why it is vital for children to understand not only the beliefs of the church but also the personal faith and principles of their parents. This message, “10 Keys to Effective Parenting,” highlights how living out your testimony can profoundly impact your kids as they grow into adulthood.

100:00:00,520 –> 00:00:10,140If you belong to Christ, you have a testimony, open that up to your kids, bring them on the200:00:10,140 –> 00:00:15,860inside of your Christian life. That is one of the most marvelous things you can do for300:00:15,860 –> 00:00:18,660them as they grow up into adulthood.400:00:18,660 –> 00:00:23,200Welcome to Open the Bible with Pastor Colin Smith, I’m David Pick, and Colin, that’s a500:00:23,200 –> 00:00:27,680great truth. some parents feel they need to protect their kids from knowing that there600:00:28,280 –> 00:00:33,560to be paid, and now you’re saying that it’s important for them to see that you are paying700:00:33,560 –> 00:00:34,520a price.800:00:34,520 –> 00:00:38,880Yeah. Jesus didn’t protect his disciples from seeing that there was a price and knowing900:00:38,880 –> 00:00:42,279that there was a price. In fact, he laid it out there and said, look, this is the thing1000:00:42,279 –> 00:00:47,639that is of supreme value and therefore it is worth any price, and my own experience1100:00:47,639 –> 00:00:53,840was just looking at the level of commitment that my father had as I was growing up as1200:00:54,840 –> 00:01:00,759in Scotland, seeing what it cost him to pursue integrity in his chosen profession, and at1300:01:00,759 –> 00:01:05,680times it was very, very costly for him, seeing what it meant for him to extend himself as1400:01:05,680 –> 00:01:10,459a leader in the Church, where life was already full and he took on additional responsibilities.1500:01:10,459 –> 00:01:14,660Why? Because he loves Christ. So this love of Christ must be something that is very,1600:01:14,660 –> 00:01:21,660very valuable. See, deeds communicate in ways that go even further in terms of reinforcing1700:01:22,120 –> 00:01:28,680the words that are spoken. So these are powerful things. And not to be hidden, especially as1800:01:28,680 –> 00:01:30,580our children are growing up into adulthood.1900:01:30,580 –> 00:01:35,220It’s important therefore for us to be sharing that with our family, so join us today if2000:01:35,220 –> 00:01:41,699you can in 2 Timothy chapter 3, as we continue the message, 10 Keys to Effective Parenting.2100:01:41,699 –> 00:01:43,019Here is Colin.2200:01:43,019 –> 00:01:50,019Number one. You know all about says Timothy, number one, my teaching. Now the important2300:01:51,839 –> 00:01:57,779point here is that it’s personal. He doesn’t say, Timothy, you know all about the Old Testament2400:01:57,779 –> 00:02:01,879teaching. He doesn’t say, you know, all about the apostolic teaching. That was true, but2500:02:01,879 –> 00:02:06,879that’s not the point here. This is the language of relationship. And so what Paul says is,2600:02:06,879 –> 00:02:10,720you know all about my teaching.2700:02:10,720 –> 00:02:16,740See your children will learn what the church believes. But your kids desperately need to2800:02:16,740 –> 00:02:23,080know what you believe. It is one thing for your kids to grow up knowing that the church2900:02:23,080 –> 00:02:28,979believes in heaven and hell. It is entirely another thing for your kids to grow up and3000:02:28,979 –> 00:02:37,880understand, my father believes in hell and heaven. That has an altogether different impact.3100:02:37,880 –> 00:02:44,559They need to know that. So what do your children know about what you believe? Your kids know3200:02:44,559 –> 00:02:52,699what you believe about creation. About the effects of sin in the human personality. About3300:02:52,699 –> 00:02:58,759the Bible. About who Jesus is, why he had to die, about the resurrection, about the3400:02:58,759 –> 00:03:03,960power of the Holy Spirit, the life of a believer, about the church, about baptism, about communion,3500:03:03,960 –> 00:03:08,380about the second coming of Christ, about the new heaven and the new earth. Don’t try to3600:03:08,380 –> 00:03:12,419cover all that in one evening.3700:03:12,419 –> 00:03:18,919But if you want your kids to follow in your path they need to know what you believe. Paul3800:03:18,919 –> 00:03:28,919says you know all about my teaching. Second, you know all about my way of life. See it’s3900:03:28,919 –> 00:03:36,479not just what you believe, it’s how live. It’s how you spend your money. Your kids have4000:03:36,500 –> 00:03:43,500a pretty good picture of that. It’s how you live within your means. Your kids have a pretty4100:03:43,740 –> 00:03:50,740good picture of that too. It’s about integrity. If you can think of a way in which your kids4200:03:52,860 –> 00:03:59,860have seen a lack of integrity in you, I want to urge you today to confess it to them. It4300:04:00,580 –> 00:04:07,580will give them hope if you do that. You may well find that God uses your confession to4400:04:10,479 –> 00:04:17,480further his work in their life. My teaching, my way of life, my purpose.4500:04:21,040 –> 00:04:26,019Isn’t this a great statement? Paul could say to Timothy, I just want you to keep the4600:04:26,980 –> 00:04:33,899Is this a great statement? Paul could say to Timothy…4700:04:35,239 –> 00:04:39,079You know what’s important to me, Timothy. You know what I’m trying to do and what I’m4800:04:39,079 –> 00:04:43,239trying to achieve in life. You know what I’m trying to become. You know about my purpose.4900:04:43,239 –> 00:04:49,839Does your son or your daughter know your purpose? If your kids were asked, what matters more5000:04:50,359 –> 00:04:57,359to Mom, what matters more to Dad than anything else, what would they say? Ask them. What5100:04:57,859 –> 00:05:04,859do you think is the most important to me in life? The answer might be very revealing.5200:05:09,000 –> 00:05:15,640Fourth, my faith. You know, says Timothy, all about my faith. Now notice again that5300:05:15,920 –> 00:05:22,859my faith is personal. He’s not talking about the faith, he’s talking about my faith. He5400:05:22,859 –> 00:05:29,859says you know my personal trust and personal confidence in God. So here’s the question5500:05:31,119 –> 00:05:38,119that comes on this fourth key. Do your children see you? Do they hear you? Do they perceive5600:05:38,239 –> 00:05:45,239you? Do they perceive you exercising faith in God through the tough passages of your5700:05:45,959 –> 00:05:52,859life? Because your exercise of faith when you’re going through a struggle in life5800:05:52,859 –> 00:05:58,179may just be one of the most powerful ways in which the reality of faith speaks to them.5900:05:58,179 –> 00:06:05,179This is what they’re watching. Here’s the fifth thing, my patients. You6000:06:05,600 –> 00:06:09,239know all about my patients. This is a hard one.6100:06:09,239 –> 00:06:16,239I can’t imagine that patience came to the Apostle Paul easily, can you? Timothy knew6200:06:16,700 –> 00:06:21,720about the times, evidently, when things did not move forward in the way that the Apostle6300:06:21,720 –> 00:06:28,720Paul would have wanted and he had to be patient. Patience is tough in an instant society.6400:06:29,040 –> 00:06:30,239Why?6500:06:30,239 –> 00:06:37,239We plant the seed and we want it to grow now. We take an initiative with our children and6600:06:38,760 –> 00:06:43,739we want their lives to be reshaped now.6700:06:43,739 –> 00:06:46,559After a few weeks, a few months, of doing the same thing, what happens?6800:06:46,559 –> 00:06:51,059We get discouraged.6900:06:51,059 –> 00:06:58,059Don’t expect someone else to learn in 10 weeks or 10 months what it took you 10 years7000:06:59,380 –> 00:07:04,519to learn before the Lord.7100:07:04,519 –> 00:07:09,799It’s going to be 3 steps forward and it’s sometimes going to be 2 steps back.7200:07:09,799 –> 00:07:14,559Paul’s able to say to Timothy, you know all about my patience.7300:07:14,559 –> 00:07:19,880Thank God for that!7400:07:19,880 –> 00:07:24,339Number six, you know all about my love.7500:07:24,339 –> 00:07:29,079Here’s another dimension that we want to be clear in our communication.7600:07:29,079 –> 00:07:31,140What a marvellous statement.7700:07:31,140 –> 00:07:34,079Notice he does not say who this love is for?7800:07:34,079 –> 00:07:38,899He does not tell us whether he’s referring to his love for Timothy, or his love for the7900:07:38,899 –> 00:07:40,739church, or his love for the Lord.8000:07:40,739 –> 00:07:46,579In fact, he doesn’t need to, because of course love is indivisible.8100:07:46,579 –> 00:07:50,720And if it is in you, it will radiate from you.8200:07:50,959 –> 00:07:54,339Paul is filled with the love of Christ.8300:07:54,359 –> 00:07:57,980He is living and pursuing a life of love.8400:07:57,980 –> 00:08:02,179And when Timothy comes to know Paul, he thereby experiences that love.8500:08:02,179 –> 00:08:05,959If you had come to know Paul, you would have experienced it too.8600:08:05,959 –> 00:08:14,179Now, your kids will come to know your love, not just by you telling them or showing them8700:08:14,179 –> 00:08:18,459how much you love them, but they’ll come to know your love by what they see of your love8800:08:18,459 –> 00:08:19,959towards other people.8900:08:20,200 –> 00:08:23,600Especially the folks who are most difficult in your life.9000:08:23,600 –> 00:08:25,079And that’s a real test.9100:08:25,079 –> 00:08:28,359Easy to tell your kids you love them.9200:08:29,619 –> 00:08:35,859Try and live so that your kids, or anyone else looking at your life, could say,9300:08:35,859 –> 00:08:40,679you know, I see in him love consistently.9400:08:40,679 –> 00:08:44,280You know about my love for you, son.9500:08:44,280 –> 00:08:47,219You know about my love for your mom.9600:08:47,219 –> 00:08:48,799You know about my love for the Lord.9700:08:48,820 –> 00:08:50,700You know about my love for the gospel.9800:08:50,700 –> 00:08:52,140You know about my love for the church.9900:08:52,140 –> 00:08:55,700You know about my love even for the person who’s most difficult in my life.10000:08:57,979 –> 00:08:59,799You know all about my love.10100:09:01,260 –> 00:09:02,380Its indivisible.10200:09:03,419 –> 00:09:07,280You’re listening to Open the Bible with pastor Colin Smith and a message called10300:09:07,280 –> 00:09:13,73910 Keys to Effective Parenting, part of our series in Unless The Lord Builds the House.10400:09:13,739 –> 00:09:17,419If you ever miss one of our series, or if you have to leave the program early,10500:09:17,539 –> 00:09:21,359don’t forget, it’s easy to catch up or go back and listen again online at our10600:09:21,359 –> 00:09:24,719website, openthebible.org.uk.10700:09:25,559 –> 00:09:29,419You can also find pastor Colin’s messages as a podcast, if that’s a better way for10800:09:29,419 –> 00:09:30,299you to keep up with them.10900:09:30,599 –> 00:09:32,640And they’re on all the main podcast sites.11000:09:32,840 –> 00:09:36,979You can find them by searching for openthebibleuk, or indeed, follow the11100:09:36,979 –> 00:09:40,479link from our website.11200:09:40,479 –> 00:09:42,179Back to the message now here again is Colin.11300:09:42,760 –> 00:09:43,179Seven11400:09:44,080 –> 00:09:45,159My endurance.11500:09:45,760 –> 00:09:49,900You know, all about my endurance.11600:09:51,619 –> 00:09:53,619You know, Timothy, I’m not a quitter.11700:09:55,460 –> 00:09:57,619Now, there may be times when it’s right to quit.11800:09:58,840 –> 00:10:02,080The problem with quitting is that it is habit forming.11900:10:03,400 –> 00:10:09,000Once you walk away from pain once, there will be a strong impulse within you to do12000:10:09,000 –> 00:10:11,299it again, and again, and again, and again.12100:10:11,320 –> 00:10:14,599And eventually that undermines character.12200:10:15,900 –> 00:10:17,739But Paul was no quitter.12300:10:18,719 –> 00:10:22,479He stuck with what God was calling him to do, even when that was difficult.12400:10:22,479 –> 00:10:26,679He could say to Timothy, You know about my endurance.12500:10:26,679 –> 00:10:27,640You’ve seen this.12600:10:27,640 –> 00:10:30,179You know that I don’t walk away when it gets tough.12700:10:30,179 –> 00:10:31,559You’ve seen it in me.12800:10:32,700 –> 00:10:33,719Now, you want your kids.12900:10:33,719 –> 00:10:35,679You want your grandkids.13000:10:35,679 –> 00:10:40,380You want someone whose life you’re trying to build into, to see that, and to know it13100:10:40,460 –> 00:10:43,599and to hear the story and to understand what it meant.13200:10:46,500 –> 00:10:49,840Number 8, my persecutions.13300:10:51,020 –> 00:10:54,900You know all about my persecutions.13400:10:57,500 –> 00:11:02,679Persecution, of course, is what it costs you to follow Christ.13500:11:02,679 –> 00:11:08,900And so this raises the very important question, do your kids know what it has cost you to13600:11:09,500 –> 00:11:14,580follow Jesus Christ?13700:11:14,580 –> 00:11:21,580My own father’s life has shaped me in many ways.13800:11:21,580 –> 00:11:27,200But none more so than what it cost my dad to be a Christian.13900:11:27,200 –> 00:11:30,159Dad was a policeman.14000:11:30,159 –> 00:11:34,719He served in the city of Edinburgh as a Detective.14100:11:34,760 –> 00:11:40,719He worked preparing evidence for presentation in court.14200:11:40,719 –> 00:11:44,719There was a case early in his career in which his boss told him to say something14300:11:44,719 –> 00:11:49,780about a piece of evidence that wasn’t actually true.14400:11:49,780 –> 00:11:52,619It wasn’t a big deal.14500:11:52,619 –> 00:11:57,119It would not have changed the outcome.14600:11:57,119 –> 00:12:01,460It was a technical point about who had actually worked on a particular piece of evidence.14700:12:01,460 –> 00:12:03,780But what he was being asked to say was not true.14800:12:04,559 –> 00:12:11,859And he wouldn’t do it.14900:12:11,859 –> 00:12:17,099So, he was branded as uncooperative.15000:12:17,099 –> 00:12:25,599And there is no doubt in his mind, or in mine, that that significantly affected15100:12:25,599 –> 00:12:31,659and impeded his career.15200:12:31,659 –> 00:12:34,219Bottom line,15300:12:34,219 –> 00:12:42,419if my dad had shaded the truth, we would have had more money when I was growing up.15400:12:42,419 –> 00:12:48,140What I had instead was a father I admired.15500:12:48,140 –> 00:12:55,460I still remember in my early teens when he told me that story.15600:12:55,460 –> 00:12:58,859The pressure.15700:12:59,820 –> 00:13:03,739The ridicule in the office.15800:13:03,739 –> 00:13:08,099The cost.15900:13:08,099 –> 00:13:14,820And it was the cost that captured my teenage imagination.16000:13:14,820 –> 00:13:24,059I felt, as I picture it now with him telling me, as if I had just heard something heroic.16100:13:24,260 –> 00:13:33,400Loyalty to Jesus Christ matters more than money, than popularity.16200:13:33,400 –> 00:13:40,580It matters more than getting your foot on the next rung on the ladder.16300:13:40,580 –> 00:13:43,539And that is with me still.16400:13:43,539 –> 00:13:48,900See, our kids know that integrity is costly.16500:13:49,400 –> 00:13:52,619What they need to know is do you think it is worth it.16600:13:52,619 –> 00:13:58,799Then they will have something to follow.16700:13:58,799 –> 00:14:03,900But if your kids never see you paying a price, why would they think that what you have is16800:14:03,900 –> 00:14:07,780of any value?16900:14:07,780 –> 00:14:15,039So I do want my kids to know what it costs me to follow Jesus.17000:14:15,039 –> 00:14:22,320And most of all, I want them to know I’m convinced it’s worth it.17100:14:22,320 –> 00:14:24,419My persecutions.17200:14:24,419 –> 00:14:29,0209, my sufferings.17300:14:29,020 –> 00:14:34,940Now if persecution refers to the cost of following Jesus, then suffering obviously refers more17400:14:34,940 –> 00:14:38,059widely to things that are common in this life.17500:14:38,059 –> 00:14:43,739The experience of suffering is common to all, but of course in a special way it tests the17600:14:43,780 –> 00:14:46,460faith of a Christian believer.17700:14:46,460 –> 00:14:50,799And so there will be some aspects of your life that have not come particularly because17800:14:50,799 –> 00:14:53,619you’re a Christian, they’re just part of life, they would have happened anyway.17900:14:53,619 –> 00:14:58,140The loss of a job, the collapse of a business, the death of a loved one, the experience of18000:14:58,140 –> 00:15:01,799an illness, a battle with depression or whatever it is.18100:15:01,799 –> 00:15:06,539But do your kids know about your suffering?18200:15:06,539 –> 00:15:09,859Wouldn’t you want them to know that?18300:15:09,859 –> 00:15:13,320Wouldn’t you want them to know how your faith has been tested and tried and how you’ve proved18400:15:13,479 –> 00:15:15,119and come through?18500:15:15,119 –> 00:15:21,320You know, as they are growing, why would you not want to bring them into your struggles?18600:15:21,320 –> 00:15:29,840Let them know that your faith has been tested and how it has stood the test.18700:15:29,840 –> 00:15:35,119Your suffering is part of your testimony to Jesus Christ.18800:15:35,119 –> 00:15:41,820Your journey through it can provide a map for somebody else.18900:15:41,820 –> 00:15:47,799When a soldier is wounded on the field of battle, he or she is awarded a purple heart.19000:15:47,799 –> 00:15:51,820And the purple heart, of course, is a mark of great honor.19100:15:51,820 –> 00:15:54,580You were wounded in the field of battle.19200:15:54,580 –> 00:15:57,700You stood under fire.19300:15:57,700 –> 00:16:00,719The purple heart.19400:16:00,719 –> 00:16:08,580Now listen, spiritually there are many, many purple hearts in this congregation.19500:16:08,580 –> 00:16:12,179Your faith has been under fire.19600:16:12,179 –> 00:16:16,700You have been tested in the crucible of suffering.19700:16:16,700 –> 00:16:21,299And here you are, you’ve been wounded, but you’re still standing as one who loves and19800:16:21,299 –> 00:16:22,919worships Jesus.19900:16:22,919 –> 00:16:27,179Now you’re not always going to wear your purple heart.20000:16:27,179 –> 00:16:31,619You’re not going to flash it around as it were, but there will be times when you should20100:16:31,619 –> 00:16:33,340share it.20200:16:34,320 –> 00:16:38,820There will be folks in your life now and in the future, and it is part of the purpose20300:16:38,820 –> 00:16:43,280of God that you will be able to minister strength to them through the testimony that has come20400:16:43,280 –> 00:16:47,239from your sufferings.20500:16:47,239 –> 00:16:55,500God has given you a testimony, and it is part of the example that you are able to share20600:16:55,500 –> 00:17:00,940with someone whose life you have the opportunity to shape.20700:17:00,960 –> 00:17:03,440Number 10, my deliverance.20800:17:03,440 –> 00:17:09,760You know all kinds of things happened to me in Antioch Iconium lystra verse 11, the persecutions20900:17:09,760 –> 00:17:14,439I endured yet the Lord rescued me from them all.21000:17:14,439 –> 00:17:16,640That’s the last point, the Lord rescued me.21100:17:16,640 –> 00:17:20,800Paul says, you know about my deliverance, you know about how the Lord has brought me21200:17:20,800 –> 00:17:25,680through, do your kids know how the Lord has helped you?21300:17:25,680 –> 00:17:30,060If you’re kids were asked to name three ways in which the Lord has really helped Dad in21400:17:30,060 –> 00:17:34,579the last year or so, or one way in which he has really helped Dad in the last year or21500:17:34,579 –> 00:17:38,060so what would he or she say?21600:17:38,060 –> 00:17:40,839They need to know how the Lord has helped you.21700:17:40,839 –> 00:17:46,640This is a living thing into which you’re trying to bring them as you seek to shape another21800:17:46,640 –> 00:17:49,099life.21900:17:49,099 –> 00:17:55,500The more I’ve looked at this the clearer it’s become that this is a most marvelous and helpful22000:17:55,500 –> 00:17:59,520grid for parenting and for mentoring, isn’t it?22100:17:59,520 –> 00:18:01,780It has a cost in your life to follow in Christ.22200:18:01,780 –> 00:18:06,219You’ve got your sufferings, your love, your patience, your way of life, your teaching.22300:18:06,219 –> 00:18:08,219You have all these things to share.22400:18:08,219 –> 00:18:12,660Why are you not seeking to share that with your kids?22500:18:12,660 –> 00:18:14,300Make a plan to do it!22600:18:14,300 –> 00:18:15,300Use this as a grid.22700:18:15,300 –> 00:18:20,660Here are 10 areas of life at least that I would want to bring my children into, bring22800:18:21,660 –> 00:18:27,680into as they grow so that there’s an opportunity of a meaningful, life-shaping relationship.22900:18:27,680 –> 00:18:30,579If you belong to Christ, you have a testimony.23000:18:30,579 –> 00:18:37,020Open that up to your kids, bring them on the inside of your Christian life.23100:18:37,020 –> 00:18:43,140That is one of the most marvelous things you can do for them as they grow up into adulthood.23200:18:43,140 –> 00:18:45,339You’re in the faith, Timothy.23300:18:45,339 –> 00:18:46,339Why?23400:18:46,339 –> 00:18:50,219Because you know from whom you have learned it.23500:18:50,219 –> 00:18:52,520You’ve seen it.23600:18:52,520 –> 00:18:55,839We’ve shared it.23700:18:55,839 –> 00:18:57,880You know it from me.23800:18:57,880 –> 00:19:01,900You’ve seen it in me.23900:19:01,900 –> 00:19:06,50010 things you would want your children or your grandchildren to know.24000:19:06,500 –> 00:19:12,64010 things that you would share with someone you’re trying to mentor.24100:19:13,500 –> 00:19:16,859Now, the last thing is simply this.24200:19:16,859 –> 00:19:21,000Some folks at this moment may be feeling discouraged.24300:19:21,000 –> 00:19:24,359And here’s the sort of thing that might be going through your head.24400:19:24,359 –> 00:19:28,160I wish I’d heard this 20 years ago.24500:19:28,160 –> 00:19:34,099What we’ve seen here in the Bible isn’t what my kids saw in me.24600:19:34,099 –> 00:19:41,079And so you look back on what you see as wasted years, a sense of regret over missed opportunities.24700:19:41,819 –> 00:19:49,719So many folks who have come to Christ later in life wish that they had come to Christ24800:19:49,719 –> 00:19:56,140earlier and could have these years back again.24900:19:56,140 –> 00:20:00,000Maybe you read these Scriptures and you say, Oh, I’d like to be that kind of man.25000:20:00,000 –> 00:20:03,000I’d like to be that kind of woman, patience, love, faith.25100:20:03,000 –> 00:20:05,300It sounds great, but I can’t do it.25200:20:05,300 –> 00:20:07,180It’s not in me.25300:20:07,180 –> 00:20:10,359Here’s the very last thing this morning.25400:20:10,479 –> 00:20:12,699Hear the source.25500:20:12,699 –> 00:20:17,719Who’s talking here?25600:20:17,719 –> 00:20:30,520Who is it who’s saying, Timothy, you know all about my teaching, my way of life.25700:20:30,520 –> 00:20:32,400Paul.25800:20:32,400 –> 00:20:43,959This is the man who was once known for two things, anger and blasphemy.25900:20:43,959 –> 00:20:53,319Check it out 1 Timothy 1 and verse 13, I was a blasphemer, a persecutor and a violent man,26000:20:53,319 –> 00:20:59,359but Christ changed him.26100:20:59,359 –> 00:21:12,400That same Lord Jesus Christ who changed the angry, blaspheming Saul into the mentor apostle26200:21:12,400 –> 00:21:19,199Paul, that same Christ can change you.26300:21:19,199 –> 00:21:27,920And what your kids didn’t see 5 or 10 years ago, what they didn’t see last week, they26400:21:27,959 –> 00:21:31,400could begin to see now.26500:21:31,400 –> 00:21:37,280For that Christ can change you.26600:21:37,280 –> 00:21:43,800And those who know you will see the difference.26700:21:44,660 –> 00:21:48,520What an encouraging message there for parents who might feel that they haven’t done everything26800:21:48,520 –> 00:21:50,400right with their children.26900:21:50,400 –> 00:21:54,979Pastor Colin reminding us there that it’s never too late to put things right with Jesus.27000:21:55,400 –> 00:22:00,699The message was called Ten Keys to Effective Parenting, it’s part of our series, Unless27100:22:00,699 –> 00:22:04,839the Lord Builds the House and if you’ve missed any of the series, or if you want to go back27200:22:04,839 –> 00:22:12,000and listen again it’s easy to do that by coming online to our website openthebible.org.uk27300:22:12,000 –> 00:22:18,000or find us as a podcast on all the main podcast sites, search for open the Bible UK.27400:22:18,000 –> 00:22:22,520Open the Bible is supported by our listeners financially and if that’s something you’ve27500:22:22,560 –> 00:22:27,319been considering doing, this month we have an offer for you. If you were able to set27600:22:27,319 –> 00:22:33,160up a new direct debit in the amount of five pounds per month or more, or a one-off gift27700:22:33,160 –> 00:22:39,239of fifty pounds or more this month we’ll send you two copies of the book Christmas Stories27800:22:39,239 –> 00:22:46,239by Colin Smith and also five beautiful Christmas cards with illustrations from the book. Christmas27900:22:47,420 –> 00:22:52,359Stories is a retelling of the Christmas story from the point of view of several biblical28000:22:52,400 –> 00:22:59,400characters. Characters like Adam, Joseph, Herod, Mary’s cousin Elizabeth, and even the Angel28100:22:59,579 –> 00:23:00,540Gabriel.28200:23:00,540 –> 00:23:06,760You know I have really enjoyed telling the Christmas story from the perspective of different28300:23:06,760 –> 00:23:12,300characters who were involved and the one exception to that is Herod. I can’t say I enjoyed that28400:23:12,300 –> 00:23:17,560because of course he was on the wrong side of the Christmas story, absolutely opposed28500:23:17,560 –> 00:23:23,280the coming of the Lord Jesus Christ into the world, whereas telling the story from Mary28600:23:23,280 –> 00:23:28,959and Joseph’s perspective or Simeon’s perspective, you know you’re able to think about here’s28700:23:28,959 –> 00:23:35,160a person who’s in heaven looking back on this most marvelous good news of the birth of Jesus28800:23:35,160 –> 00:23:40,800into the world, well Herod’s certainly not there and the message that comes from his28900:23:40,800 –> 00:23:45,839rejection of Jesus is it’s too late now for him to change direction but it’s not too29000:23:45,839 –> 00:23:52,979late for you and what a marvellous thing it is that we are in the day of God’s grace29100:23:52,979 –> 00:23:58,800where mercy and love are extended towards every person in Jesus Christ and what a marvellous29200:23:58,800 –> 00:24:03,719thing to be able to invite our friends and our loved ones to receive that mercy and that29300:24:03,719 –> 00:24:10,020grace. I hope that this book will be a real help to many folks in sharing the gospel.29400:24:10,020 –> 00:24:14,780It’d be a lovely gift just to give to someone, it’s twenty-four pages, beautifully produced29500:24:14,959 –> 00:24:19,780and it tells the Christmas story from these different angles in the first person through29600:24:19,800 –> 00:24:24,119the eyes of people who were actually involved. Well, we’d love to send you two copies of29700:24:24,119 –> 00:24:29,880this book and the five beautiful Christmas cards if you were able to set up a new direct29800:24:29,880 –> 00:24:36,920debit of £5 per month or more or a one-off gift of £50 or more this month. Full terms29900:24:36,920 –> 00:24:44,239and conditions are on our website openthebible.org.uk and please remember if you want to take advantage30000:24:44,280 –> 00:24:50,479of this offer, don’t give anonymously and remember to leave your full name and address30100:24:50,479 –> 00:24:53,199so we can send you your free gift.30200:24:53,199 –> 00:24:58,119For Open the Bible and Pastor Colin Smith, I’m David Pick and I hope you’ll join us again30300:24:58,119 –> 00:25:05,119next time on Open the Bible.30400:25:07,079 –> 00:25:12,560Some people have the idea that the gospel is good and the law is bad. Find out what30500:25:12,560 –> 00:25:15,160the Bible says next time on Open the Bible.

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