Gospel Character, Part 1

1 Timothy 3:1-15

Today, we delve into an insightful discussion led by Pastor Colin Smith as we turn to 1 Timothy 3. Whether you’re contemplating a call to ministry or striving to enhance your role within your congregation, today’s message on ‘Gospel Character’ has something for everyone. We’ll explore the qualities and characteristics essential for leadership, and why this passage is relevant to every Christian. Pastor Colin emphasises wise judgement, healthy relationships, and how these elements contribute to an effective Christian life. As always, join us for a time of reflection and learning, and discover how these biblical insights can inspire your personal journey.

100:00:00,000 –> 00:00:05,300But any time in our congregation,200:00:05,300 –> 00:00:09,360there are some folks who are asking these questions.300:00:09,360 –> 00:00:12,220Should I go to seminary?400:00:12,220 –> 00:00:16,100Could it be the God wants me overseas?500:00:16,100 –> 00:00:18,760Should I be in full-time Christian ministry?600:00:18,760 –> 00:00:22,500But if that is where you are at, let me encourage you with this.700:00:22,700 –> 00:00:27,219The first thing, the first thing for you to pursued800:00:27,219 –> 00:00:32,119is what’s right here in 1 Timothy and chapter 3.900:00:32,119 –> 00:00:35,200Welcome to Open the Bible with Pastor Colin Smith.1000:00:35,200 –> 00:00:37,520I’m David Pick, glad you could join us today.1100:00:37,520 –> 00:00:41,619And as we open our Bibles today to 1st Timothy 3,1200:00:41,619 –> 00:00:43,820we can see that it’s about leadership.1300:00:43,820 –> 00:00:45,779So this passage, Colin, is relevant to1400:00:45,779 –> 00:00:47,680each and every one of us.1500:00:47,680 –> 00:00:50,840Well it is, because although not everybody is a leader,1600:00:51,080 –> 00:00:54,340we all have responsibilities within the body of Christ1700:00:54,340 –> 00:00:57,040in regards to discerning who should lead.1800:00:57,040 –> 00:00:59,880And this chapter really gives to us1900:00:59,880 –> 00:01:03,200the things that we should look for in leaders2000:01:03,200 –> 00:01:06,160and the things that those who are called to lead2100:01:06,160 –> 00:01:09,419must pursue as the things of first importance.2200:01:09,419 –> 00:01:11,800It’s wonderful that this is actually laid out2300:01:11,800 –> 00:01:14,000so clearly in the Scriptures.2400:01:14,000 –> 00:01:16,959It’s a very important passage of Scripture,2500:01:16,959 –> 00:01:20,199not only for those who lead, but for every Christian person2600:01:20,239 –> 00:01:23,919because in this area, we all have responsibilities.2700:01:23,919 –> 00:01:25,440So, let’s look at that together2800:01:25,440 –> 00:01:27,320in the first book of Timothy chapter 32900:01:27,320 –> 00:01:29,360in verses 1-15 today3000:01:29,360 –> 00:01:31,879as we begin a message, Gospel character.3100:01:31,879 –> 00:01:33,260Here is pastor Colin.3200:01:33,260 –> 00:01:35,139Now, please open your Bible at 1 Timothy3300:01:35,139 –> 00:01:39,019and chapter 3, 1 Timothy and chapter 3.3400:01:39,019 –> 00:01:42,800Our aim in this series is to be shaped by the Bible,3500:01:42,800 –> 00:01:44,459not only in our personal lives,3600:01:44,459 –> 00:01:46,080but also in the life in ministry3700:01:46,080 –> 00:01:48,480that we share together as a church.3800:01:48,480 –> 00:01:50,040We don’t want simply to drift3900:01:50,279 –> 00:01:51,779with the currents of culture.4000:01:51,779 –> 00:01:54,320We want to be responsive to the holy spirit4100:01:54,320 –> 00:01:58,160and the spirit speaks to us through the word.4200:01:58,160 –> 00:01:59,599And we’ve been saying therefore4300:01:59,599 –> 00:02:02,199that we want to be people who are rooted in truth4400:02:02,199 –> 00:02:04,080and growing in love.4500:02:04,080 –> 00:02:07,720We want to be drawn by grace, not driven by law.4600:02:07,720 –> 00:02:10,779We know that we are sinners who are saved by God’s grace4700:02:10,779 –> 00:02:14,479through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ.4800:02:14,479 –> 00:02:16,039And then we have seen last week4900:02:16,039 –> 00:02:18,619that God calls us to a global ministry5000:02:18,660 –> 00:02:20,500of the Word and prayer.5100:02:20,500 –> 00:02:22,059We were rejoicing in the fact5200:02:22,059 –> 00:02:25,399that the gospel fires mission5300:02:25,399 –> 00:02:28,419because Christ died for all and it stands5400:02:28,419 –> 00:02:31,000to reason that if there is one mediator,5500:02:31,000 –> 00:02:33,580there is one gospel and if there is one gospel,5600:02:33,580 –> 00:02:36,360it must be for all people.5700:02:36,360 –> 00:02:38,440And therefore the question that we come to5800:02:38,440 –> 00:02:41,619at the beginning of chapter three really is this.5900:02:41,619 –> 00:02:45,979Since the church is called to a global mission6000:02:45,979 –> 00:02:47,820of the word and prayer,6100:02:48,820 –> 00:02:53,759what kind of people will get this global job done?6200:02:53,759 –> 00:02:57,820That’s the question at the beginning of chapter three.6300:02:57,820 –> 00:02:59,039That’s why we’re looking today6400:02:59,039 –> 00:03:02,000at this great subject of gospel character.6500:03:02,000 –> 00:03:05,960I want us to see the character and the competence6600:03:05,960 –> 00:03:09,160of an effective Christian leader.6700:03:09,160 –> 00:03:10,460And you’ll notice straight away6800:03:10,460 –> 00:03:13,820that chapter three is all about leaders.6900:03:13,839 –> 00:03:17,559If anyone sets his heart on being an overseer,7000:03:17,559 –> 00:03:19,399that word could also be translated7100:03:19,399 –> 00:03:22,080an elder means the same thing,7200:03:22,080 –> 00:03:25,440he desires a noble task.7300:03:25,440 –> 00:03:27,160And we’re going to look at what God says7400:03:27,160 –> 00:03:30,199about leadership in the church today.7500:03:30,199 –> 00:03:35,080Now most of us are not called to be elders or deacons.7600:03:35,080 –> 00:03:36,539So I guess for most of us,7700:03:36,539 –> 00:03:38,759the question is going to be well now what in the world7800:03:38,759 –> 00:03:42,080does this really have to do with me?7900:03:42,080 –> 00:03:43,800I want to give three answers8000:03:43,839 –> 00:03:47,380so that we know how to apply the scriptures to ourselves8100:03:47,380 –> 00:03:49,779because there is something here for every person8200:03:49,779 –> 00:03:51,380in the congregation today.8300:03:51,380 –> 00:03:54,960In fact, there are three things for every person8400:03:54,960 –> 00:03:56,419in the congregation today.8500:03:56,419 –> 00:03:57,919Here’s the first.8600:03:57,919 –> 00:04:01,119This is going to help us with discernment8700:04:01,119 –> 00:04:05,539that is what to look for in the appointing8800:04:05,539 –> 00:04:09,720and calling and sending off leaders.8900:04:09,720 –> 00:04:12,220See, who should lead in the church?9000:04:12,220 –> 00:04:14,699Who should be sent to the mission field?9100:04:14,699 –> 00:04:17,739Who should be called to be a pastor?9200:04:17,739 –> 00:04:21,420What are the marks of those who are going to be most useful9300:04:21,420 –> 00:04:24,600in the cause of Jesus Christ?9400:04:24,600 –> 00:04:26,540Who should we trust?9500:04:26,540 –> 00:04:28,799Who should we follow?9600:04:29,899 –> 00:04:32,660Now these are all issues that are addressed, really,9700:04:32,660 –> 00:04:35,500in 1 Timothy chapter 3.9800:04:35,500 –> 00:04:37,619You should know that with regards to the appointing9900:04:37,619 –> 00:04:39,559of lay leaders in our church,10000:04:39,559 –> 00:04:41,579the way in which we do this here10100:04:41,600 –> 00:04:44,540is through the work of the nominating committee.10200:04:44,540 –> 00:04:47,179And every year, all of us as a congregation,10300:04:47,179 –> 00:04:51,640we are invited to submit to the nominating committee10400:04:51,640 –> 00:04:54,440the names of people who we think might be10500:04:54,440 –> 00:04:59,040suitable to serve as lay leaders in this church.10600:04:59,040 –> 00:05:01,799You were given, earlier this year, that invitation,10700:05:01,799 –> 00:05:05,619and many people responded very helpfully to it.10800:05:05,619 –> 00:05:08,359You were also given, at that time, an outline10900:05:08,359 –> 00:05:11,859of what to look for in potential leaders,11000:05:11,859 –> 00:05:14,820candidates for leadership in the church.11100:05:14,820 –> 00:05:18,079And that outline was taken very largely11200:05:18,079 –> 00:05:20,500from this very chapter, 1 Timothy, and chapter three.11300:05:20,500 –> 00:05:23,859So you need to know, and this should be encouraging to you11400:05:23,859 –> 00:05:26,500that those who serve us as a congregation11500:05:26,500 –> 00:05:29,500in interviewing and selecting future leaders,11600:05:29,500 –> 00:05:31,019lay leaders in the church,11700:05:31,019 –> 00:05:34,459are taking this Scripture very seriously.11800:05:34,459 –> 00:05:36,899And as we have the opportunity to give input11900:05:37,000 –> 00:05:38,299into the work that they are doing,12000:05:38,299 –> 00:05:40,279as many of us have done again this year,12100:05:40,279 –> 00:05:42,239and will do in future years,12200:05:42,239 –> 00:05:45,859we need to be familiar with what it is to look for12300:05:45,859 –> 00:05:49,079in discerning who should serve.12400:05:49,079 –> 00:05:50,579It’s good to remember, by the way,12500:05:50,579 –> 00:05:53,540that the biblical pattern is never12600:05:53,540 –> 00:05:55,160that you give a man a job12700:05:55,160 –> 00:05:57,119and then hope that he’ll rise to it.12800:05:57,119 –> 00:06:00,100That’s not how it is in leadership in the church.12900:06:00,100 –> 00:06:01,220You don’t give him the position13000:06:01,220 –> 00:06:03,859and hope he’ll rise to the challenge.13100:06:03,859 –> 00:06:06,420The biblical pattern is to look13200:06:06,420 –> 00:06:11,200for leaders who exemplify the character and competence13300:06:11,200 –> 00:06:13,359we’re going to see in the Bible today.13400:06:13,359 –> 00:06:16,859And where that is already in place in a person’s life,13500:06:16,859 –> 00:06:19,619that is the evidence that God’s hand is upon them13600:06:19,619 –> 00:06:21,660and that they are ready to be trusted13700:06:21,660 –> 00:06:25,279with an enlarged sphere of service.13800:06:25,279 –> 00:06:26,959So what we will learn today13900:06:26,959 –> 00:06:28,839will help us to grow in discernment.14000:06:28,839 –> 00:06:31,200That’s its first application.14100:06:31,200 –> 00:06:32,839What should we be looking for14200:06:32,839 –> 00:06:35,679in the leaders that we elect?14300:06:35,739 –> 00:06:39,660What should we be looking for in the pastors we may call?14400:06:39,660 –> 00:06:41,200What should we be looking for14500:06:41,200 –> 00:06:43,980in the missionaries we may send?14600:06:43,980 –> 00:06:47,100What are the characteristics that point14700:06:47,100 –> 00:06:52,100to future effectiveness in Christian leadership?14800:06:52,880 –> 00:06:54,500So the first aim, discernment.14900:06:54,500 –> 00:06:55,959Here’s the second.15000:06:55,959 –> 00:07:00,600It’s going to help all of us in terms of direction.15100:07:00,600 –> 00:07:02,420Because we’re looking at the question15200:07:02,420 –> 00:07:07,260of what lies behind the greatest usefulness15300:07:07,260 –> 00:07:08,739in Christian service.15400:07:08,739 –> 00:07:12,739We’re going to identify things that all of us can pursue,15500:07:12,739 –> 00:07:15,679cultivate in order to be more useful15600:07:15,679 –> 00:07:17,899to Jesus Christ in the future15700:07:17,899 –> 00:07:20,459than we have been in the past.15800:07:20,459 –> 00:07:21,299Notice verse one.15900:07:21,299 –> 00:07:22,700Here is a trustworthy saying,16000:07:22,700 –> 00:07:26,179if anyone sets his heart on being an overseer,16100:07:26,179 –> 00:07:28,579he desires a noble task.16200:07:29,339 –> 00:07:33,540So Paul is saying that to have it in your heart16300:07:33,540 –> 00:07:36,179to be more useful to Jesus Christ16400:07:36,179 –> 00:07:38,119and to maximize the contribution16500:07:38,119 –> 00:07:40,059that you can make to the work of the gospel16600:07:40,059 –> 00:07:42,359that’s a great thing, that’s a noble thing.16700:07:43,420 –> 00:07:44,899Some of us in the congregation16800:07:44,899 –> 00:07:46,760are wrestling with this question right now.16900:07:46,760 –> 00:07:49,260At any time in our congregation17000:07:49,260 –> 00:07:52,299there are some folks who are asking these questions.17100:07:52,299 –> 00:07:53,920Should I go to seminary?17200:07:55,279 –> 00:07:58,119Could it be that God wants me overseas?17300:07:59,059 –> 00:08:01,980Should I be in full-time Christian ministry?17400:08:03,019 –> 00:08:05,220Now it’s a wonderful thing that we have folks among us17500:08:05,220 –> 00:08:07,920who are asking these questions.17600:08:07,920 –> 00:08:09,299But if that is where you’re at17700:08:09,299 –> 00:08:10,660let me encourage you with this.17800:08:10,660 –> 00:08:15,660The first thing, the first thing for you to pursue17900:08:15,779 –> 00:08:20,220is what’s right here in 1 Timothy and chapter three.18000:08:21,739 –> 00:08:25,779Then I want to sound the trumpet in a loud blast18100:08:25,779 –> 00:08:30,779of joy with regards to lay leaders in the church.18200:08:32,200 –> 00:08:35,520Because you know, when Paul talks about overseers, elders,18300:08:35,520 –> 00:08:37,000and he talks about deacons here18400:08:37,000 –> 00:08:40,039he’s talking about lay leaders.18500:08:40,039 –> 00:08:43,700Folks who earn their living in the market place18600:08:43,700 –> 00:08:48,640and who give themselves voluntarily as lay leaders18700:08:48,640 –> 00:08:50,039in the ministry of the Church.18800:08:50,039 –> 00:08:53,520And Paul says here that is a noble task.18900:08:53,520 –> 00:08:56,440It is a wonderful thing for a person19000:08:56,440 –> 00:08:59,219to serve in this kind of way.19100:08:59,219 –> 00:09:02,000And I would want that there would be many young people19200:09:02,000 –> 00:09:04,539among us who even today you would have it in your heart19300:09:04,539 –> 00:09:06,919to say you know, when I go to college19400:09:06,919 –> 00:09:10,260I want to train to be an engineer19500:09:10,260 –> 00:09:13,619and I want to be most useful19600:09:13,619 –> 00:09:15,539in my local church.19700:09:15,539 –> 00:09:17,239I want to be a teacher.19800:09:17,239 –> 00:09:19,520I want to be in business, whatever it is.19900:09:20,159 –> 00:09:23,940And I want to maximize my usefulness20000:09:23,940 –> 00:09:27,960as a servant of Jesus Christ in my church.20100:09:27,960 –> 00:09:28,940That’s a wonderful thing.20200:09:28,940 –> 00:09:31,159That’s a noble thing,20300:09:31,159 –> 00:09:33,979and Paul commends it to us.20400:09:33,979 –> 00:09:36,359Now let me just raise one or two other applications20500:09:36,359 –> 00:09:39,280so that we’re seeing the breadth of this.20600:09:39,280 –> 00:09:41,500Everyone who is a father here.20700:09:42,400 –> 00:09:45,299Everyone who is a grandfather here.20800:09:45,299 –> 00:09:47,4401 Timothy 3 is for you20900:09:47,460 –> 00:09:52,460because to be a father means that God has appointed you21000:09:52,500 –> 00:09:56,020as an elder in your own house.21100:09:56,020 –> 00:09:57,580That’s what it means to be a father.21200:09:57,580 –> 00:10:00,260You are the spiritual leader21300:10:00,260 –> 00:10:04,020of the family God has trusted to you.21400:10:04,020 –> 00:10:05,460So for every father,21500:10:05,460 –> 00:10:08,299what we’re learning here, this is for you.21600:10:08,299 –> 00:10:09,780For every Christian here,21700:10:09,780 –> 00:10:11,539that’s going to be the great majority of us.21800:10:11,539 –> 00:10:14,460Not all of us, but the great majority of us.21900:10:14,460 –> 00:10:15,700For every Christian,22000:10:15,739 –> 00:10:16,700this is for you.22100:10:16,700 –> 00:10:17,840Why?22200:10:17,840 –> 00:10:20,820Well, because leaders are not called to a different life22300:10:20,820 –> 00:10:22,020from the congregation.22400:10:22,020 –> 00:10:25,460Leaders are called to model the same life22500:10:25,460 –> 00:10:27,219to which we are all called.22600:10:27,219 –> 00:10:29,940God looks for this character and this competence22700:10:29,940 –> 00:10:31,960that we’re going to look at today,22800:10:31,960 –> 00:10:35,380in leaders first because leaders are to be an example22900:10:35,380 –> 00:10:38,299of this to the rest of the flock,23000:10:38,299 –> 00:10:39,780but they’re not called to something different,23100:10:39,780 –> 00:10:41,940they’re called to lead all of us23200:10:41,940 –> 00:10:44,419in what God is calling us to as well.23300:10:44,419 –> 00:10:48,940If you’re young, this is for you.23400:10:48,940 –> 00:10:52,140If you’re in high school, if you’re in middle school,23500:10:52,140 –> 00:10:54,539so grateful for all the high schoolers and middle schoolers23600:10:54,539 –> 00:10:56,820and the congregations today.23700:10:56,820 –> 00:10:59,059You know in chapter 4 and verse 7,23800:10:59,059 –> 00:11:03,159Paul says, train yourself to be godly.23900:11:04,539 –> 00:11:06,820And to all who are young,24000:11:06,820 –> 00:11:09,900here’s my prayer for the message this week.24100:11:10,760 –> 00:11:15,059It is that God will place a deep desire in your heart24200:11:15,059 –> 00:11:18,520now, that you will live now in a way24300:11:18,520 –> 00:11:21,020that is going to make you the most useful24400:11:21,020 –> 00:11:23,900kind of person you can be24500:11:23,900 –> 00:11:26,059in the kingdom of the Lord Jesus Christ24600:11:26,059 –> 00:11:30,219in your future years and in your adult life.24700:11:30,219 –> 00:11:31,700And just one more thing here,24800:11:31,700 –> 00:11:35,340I want to say that if you’re disappointed in your own life,24900:11:35,340 –> 00:11:38,020this is for you, there will be some folks25000:11:38,020 –> 00:11:39,820in this congregation today25100:11:40,580 –> 00:11:42,380even in hearing the reading25200:11:43,260 –> 00:11:44,820and the description of the life25300:11:44,820 –> 00:11:48,239that God is calling leaders to,25400:11:48,239 –> 00:11:49,159you will say, well you know,25500:11:49,159 –> 00:11:52,440I haven’t done what I wanted to do in my life25600:11:52,440 –> 00:11:54,179and I am not in the place25700:11:54,179 –> 00:11:57,179that I would have wanted to be in my life.25800:11:57,179 –> 00:11:59,419Frankly, I wish I could rerun my life25900:11:59,419 –> 00:12:02,380and undo some of the things that have happened,26000:12:02,380 –> 00:12:05,340the mistakes that I’ve made.26100:12:05,340 –> 00:12:09,299I want you to hear this, Jesus Christ came to redeem.26200:12:09,299 –> 00:12:12,460Jesus Christ came to restore what was lost.26300:12:12,460 –> 00:12:15,919Jesus Christ came to recreate what has been destroyed.26400:12:17,020 –> 00:12:20,859And what we are learning today can be your future,26500:12:20,859 –> 00:12:23,500even if it has not been your past.26600:12:23,500 –> 00:12:25,419That’s good news, isn’t it?26700:12:25,419 –> 00:12:28,619That’s what it means to believe in the Lord Jesus Christ,26800:12:28,619 –> 00:12:31,099that a man or a woman or a family can indeed26900:12:31,099 –> 00:12:34,099in Christ pursue a different track in the future27000:12:34,099 –> 00:12:36,780from what has been the character in the past.27100:12:36,780 –> 00:12:38,780That’s the hope of the gospel.27200:12:38,780 –> 00:12:41,640And so I want you to hear what we’re being called to hear27300:12:41,640 –> 00:12:43,739in that context and to say,27400:12:43,739 –> 00:12:47,599now the Lord Jesus Christ can lead me into this27500:12:47,599 –> 00:12:52,599and my future can be different from my past.27600:12:52,599 –> 00:12:54,140You realize this is all the wrong way around.27700:12:54,140 –> 00:12:55,840You’re getting the application first27800:12:55,840 –> 00:12:57,780and then the content afterwards.27900:12:57,780 –> 00:13:01,520But I want us to hear the content rightfully.28000:13:01,520 –> 00:13:03,619It’s gonna help us discern.28100:13:03,619 –> 00:13:06,520It’s gonna help us know what to pursue.28200:13:06,520 –> 00:13:07,659And then one more thing,28300:13:07,700 –> 00:13:09,179it’s going to help us in knowing28400:13:09,179 –> 00:13:13,099what to thank God for, gratitude.28500:13:13,099 –> 00:13:16,719And I hope this comes through in the message today.28600:13:16,719 –> 00:13:21,719As I have studied the scripture again this week,28700:13:22,299 –> 00:13:27,299I felt both the challenge of it afresh in my own life28800:13:27,719 –> 00:13:31,340and I have felt gratitude to God28900:13:31,340 –> 00:13:35,119for every way in which I see this character29000:13:35,880 –> 00:13:40,880in others who lead in this church at this time.29100:13:40,979 –> 00:13:45,580I’m thinking of our pastors, I’m thinking of our elders,29200:13:45,580 –> 00:13:47,400I’m thinking of our board members,29300:13:47,400 –> 00:13:49,320I’m thinking of our missionaries,29400:13:49,320 –> 00:13:51,979I’m thinking of our lay ministry leaders29500:13:53,039 –> 00:13:56,179and the reason I have been refreshed29600:13:56,179 –> 00:13:58,400with thanksgiving this week29700:13:58,400 –> 00:14:03,099is that I see so much of what Paul talks about here29800:14:03,099 –> 00:14:04,820in the leaders who are serving us29900:14:04,840 –> 00:14:05,859in this congregation.30000:14:05,859 –> 00:14:08,340I hope you see that, too.30100:14:08,340 –> 00:14:11,219And as you see it, you will want with me30200:14:11,219 –> 00:14:13,099to give thanks for it.30300:14:14,059 –> 00:14:15,859Folks, you don’t need me to tell you30400:14:15,859 –> 00:14:18,299how many churches have been ruined30500:14:18,299 –> 00:14:20,760by the wrong people being in leadership.30600:14:22,080 –> 00:14:24,140And so when there are godly people30700:14:24,140 –> 00:14:25,780in leadership of a local church,30800:14:25,780 –> 00:14:28,539that is something for which all the people of God30900:14:28,539 –> 00:14:31,219ought to be thankful and grateful31000:14:31,219 –> 00:14:33,679and have hearts full of praise.31100:14:34,559 –> 00:14:35,840You’re listening to Open The Bible31200:14:35,840 –> 00:14:37,239with Pastor Colin Smith31300:14:37,239 –> 00:14:39,780and the message called Gospel Character,31400:14:39,780 –> 00:14:42,280part of our series 10 Distinctives31500:14:42,280 –> 00:14:44,280of a Gospel-Centered Life.31600:14:44,280 –> 00:14:45,919We’ll pause the message briefly there31700:14:45,919 –> 00:14:47,880but we’ll be back very shortly.31800:14:47,880 –> 00:14:49,700Just to remind you that if you ever miss31900:14:49,700 –> 00:14:51,200one of Pastor Colin’s messages32000:14:51,200 –> 00:14:52,380or if you want to catch up32100:14:52,380 –> 00:14:54,880or go back and listen to earlier messages,32200:14:54,880 –> 00:14:56,760they’re all available on our website.32300:14:56,760 –> 00:15:00,239That’s at openthebible.org.uk,32400:15:00,239 –> 00:15:02,039also available as a podcast32500:15:02,080 –> 00:15:03,840and on all the main podcast sites,32600:15:03,840 –> 00:15:06,400you can find those by searching on the podcast site32700:15:06,400 –> 00:15:09,280for Open The Bible UK.32800:15:09,280 –> 00:15:10,539Back to the message now.32900:15:10,539 –> 00:15:12,979Here again is Pastor Colin.33000:15:12,979 –> 00:15:15,419So here are my three aims33100:15:15,419 –> 00:15:17,979that we will grow in discernment,33200:15:17,979 –> 00:15:19,440that we will grow in clarity33300:15:19,440 –> 00:15:21,859in what to pursue in direction33400:15:21,859 –> 00:15:24,000and that our hearts may be refreshed33500:15:24,000 –> 00:15:26,140with a sense of thanksgiving33600:15:26,140 –> 00:15:27,880for the abundant goodness of God33700:15:27,880 –> 00:15:30,880to us in this congregation.33800:15:30,900 –> 00:15:32,880Now just one more thing before we get into it33900:15:32,880 –> 00:15:35,179and that is an important observation.34000:15:36,539 –> 00:15:39,880The Bible makes clear to us34100:15:39,880 –> 00:15:43,539the principles and for leadership34200:15:43,539 –> 00:15:45,859but it does not give to us34300:15:45,859 –> 00:15:50,119a fixed pattern or structure for leadership.34400:15:51,219 –> 00:15:52,580And one of the evidences of that34500:15:52,580 –> 00:15:55,619is when you look at the qualities34600:15:55,619 –> 00:15:58,500or characteristics of elders34700:15:58,500 –> 00:16:00,159and then you look in the same chapter34800:16:01,000 –> 00:16:02,659of what Paul says about deacons,34900:16:02,659 –> 00:16:05,340if you lay them out in two columns side by side35000:16:05,340 –> 00:16:07,299and draw lines across between them,35100:16:07,299 –> 00:16:10,159you will be struck by how similar they are.35200:16:11,080 –> 00:16:12,799The similarities in these qualities35300:16:12,799 –> 00:16:15,479are much more evident than the differences35400:16:15,479 –> 00:16:17,099that are relatively minor.35500:16:19,880 –> 00:16:23,479Throughout history, there has been great debate35600:16:23,479 –> 00:16:28,479about what is the appropriate structure for a church.35700:16:28,659 –> 00:16:30,400And some of you know well35800:16:30,400 –> 00:16:34,500that episcopalians have their bishops35900:16:34,500 –> 00:16:38,520and they appealed to 1 Timothy 3 for it,36000:16:38,520 –> 00:16:41,140presbyterians have their presbyteries36100:16:41,140 –> 00:16:43,900and appealed to 1 Timothy 3 for it,36200:16:43,900 –> 00:16:45,700and Baptists have their deacons36300:16:45,700 –> 00:16:48,539and appealed to 1 Timothy chapter 3 for it,36400:16:48,539 –> 00:16:51,840and Free Churches have their elders and their boards36500:16:51,840 –> 00:16:54,460and will appeal to 1 Timothy chapter 3 for it.36600:16:54,460 –> 00:16:56,580In other words, folks, we could discuss36700:16:56,619 –> 00:16:59,020what is the right structure for church leadership36800:16:59,020 –> 00:17:02,460for the rest of our lives, and we’d never resolve it.36900:17:02,460 –> 00:17:07,079What matters is not the particular structure37000:17:07,079 –> 00:17:08,599of leadership within a church,37100:17:08,599 –> 00:17:10,699which frankly will vary from church to church37200:17:10,699 –> 00:17:13,060and may vary over time as well.37300:17:13,060 –> 00:17:17,880What really matters is the quality of leadership37400:17:17,880 –> 00:17:19,579at every level of a local church,37500:17:19,579 –> 00:17:21,900and that’s what Paul is concerned about here,37600:17:23,079 –> 00:17:25,420and that’s what we’re concerned about.37700:17:25,420 –> 00:17:28,640And that’s what too we are grateful for.37800:17:28,640 –> 00:17:32,260So, the questions before us then are really these.37900:17:32,260 –> 00:17:34,880What kind of people should we trust?38000:17:34,880 –> 00:17:37,219What kind of people should we follow?38100:17:37,219 –> 00:17:39,760What kind of people should lead?38200:17:40,619 –> 00:17:42,160What kind of people should we seek38300:17:42,160 –> 00:17:45,959to become in order to be more useful to Jesus Christ?38400:17:46,880 –> 00:17:51,060And what kind of people should fill us with thanksgiving38500:17:51,099 –> 00:17:55,599as we see godly character and fruit in their lives?38600:17:57,339 –> 00:17:59,579Well, let’s look then at the character and competence38700:17:59,579 –> 00:18:01,859of an effective Christian leader,38800:18:01,859 –> 00:18:03,640and let’s begin with character,38900:18:03,640 –> 00:18:05,560and there are three things I think39000:18:05,560 –> 00:18:08,459that we are to look for here.39100:18:08,459 –> 00:18:12,020The first I’ve summarized as wise judgment.39200:18:12,020 –> 00:18:13,900You see that in the words temperate,39300:18:13,900 –> 00:18:16,180self-controlled, respectable,39400:18:16,180 –> 00:18:19,599and not given to drunkenness in verse two and three.39500:18:20,599 –> 00:18:24,400Temperate simply means thoughtful.39600:18:24,400 –> 00:18:26,180Someone who doesn’t make rash39700:18:26,180 –> 00:18:29,060or impulsive decisions.39800:18:29,060 –> 00:18:30,219Someone who is watchful,39900:18:30,219 –> 00:18:31,579someone who is vigilant,40000:18:31,579 –> 00:18:33,839someone who is careful in the way that they speak,40100:18:33,839 –> 00:18:36,500and careful in the way that they act.40200:18:37,420 –> 00:18:39,020To be temperate is developed40300:18:39,020 –> 00:18:42,040as you pursue self-control, verse two,40400:18:42,040 –> 00:18:43,400which of course is the fruit40500:18:43,400 –> 00:18:46,540of the Holy Spirit in a person’s life.40600:18:46,540 –> 00:18:48,560Self-control means that with God’s help,40700:18:48,560 –> 00:18:52,439you over time increasingly master your life,40800:18:52,439 –> 00:18:55,660your tongue, your moods,40900:18:55,660 –> 00:18:57,800and your passions.41000:18:57,800 –> 00:19:00,719And when a person grows in self-control,41100:19:00,719 –> 00:19:04,119that will lead them to be held in high respect.41200:19:04,119 –> 00:19:07,900That’s why the word respectable is in verse two.41300:19:07,900 –> 00:19:10,119Not given to drunkenness clearly comes41400:19:10,119 –> 00:19:11,640in here in verse three,41500:19:11,640 –> 00:19:15,099because drunkenness makes all these qualities impossible.41600:19:15,099 –> 00:19:18,060A man who indulges in too much wine,41700:19:18,060 –> 00:19:20,459loses his self-control,41800:19:20,459 –> 00:19:24,300and with it he loses the respect of other people.41900:19:24,300 –> 00:19:27,739He is therefore unable to exercise wise judgment,42000:19:27,739 –> 00:19:31,060and therefore is very limited in his usefulness42100:19:31,060 –> 00:19:33,319in the ministry of the church.42200:19:34,540 –> 00:19:37,079So in discerning who should lead and who to trust42300:19:37,079 –> 00:19:39,739and who to send and who we should follow,42400:19:40,839 –> 00:19:43,579look at the decisions,42500:19:43,579 –> 00:19:46,020or the lack of decisions,42600:19:46,020 –> 00:19:49,599that a person has made in his or her life.42700:19:49,599 –> 00:19:51,579What came of them?42800:19:51,579 –> 00:19:53,819Did they bear the marks of wisdom?42900:19:55,020 –> 00:19:59,260What in this person’s life have they said or done?43000:19:59,260 –> 00:20:01,239What positions have they taken?43100:20:01,239 –> 00:20:03,540Particularly in times of difficulty,43200:20:03,540 –> 00:20:06,900do you see evidence of wise judgement here?43300:20:06,900 –> 00:20:08,739These are the questions to ask.43400:20:10,180 –> 00:20:11,380And then secondly,43500:20:11,380 –> 00:20:14,420there’s the whole area of healthy relationships.43600:20:14,420 –> 00:20:16,140Paul speaks in verse three about someone43700:20:16,140 –> 00:20:19,180who’s not violent, but gentle.43800:20:20,579 –> 00:20:23,660The elder, of course, cannot be weak.43900:20:23,660 –> 00:20:27,479The elder has to be able to confront false doctrine.44000:20:27,479 –> 00:20:29,660That’s chapter one in verse three,44100:20:29,660 –> 00:20:31,699and defend true doctrine.44200:20:31,699 –> 00:20:35,420The elder has to watch his life and his doctrine closely.44300:20:35,420 –> 00:20:38,459But while the elder must have the strength to confront,44400:20:38,459 –> 00:20:40,640he must have compassion.44500:20:40,640 –> 00:20:42,060He must have understanding.44600:20:42,060 –> 00:20:43,140He must have sympathy.44700:20:43,680 –> 00:20:46,640He must be redemptive in his spirit44800:20:46,640 –> 00:20:48,880because he is to reflect the spirit44900:20:48,880 –> 00:20:51,400of the Lord Jesus Christ.45000:20:51,400 –> 00:20:54,319And the elder must not be quarrelsome.45100:20:54,319 –> 00:20:55,180That’s verse three.45200:20:55,180 –> 00:20:57,479That’s a relational quality as well.45300:20:58,520 –> 00:21:00,640Have you noticed that there are some people in life45400:21:00,640 –> 00:21:04,239who seem to just carry conflict within them?45500:21:04,239 –> 00:21:06,160Wherever they go, they seem to pick a fight.45600:21:06,160 –> 00:21:09,339They’re always in some debated issue over this or that.45700:21:09,339 –> 00:21:12,319They have a contrarian spirit.45800:21:12,359 –> 00:21:13,920They promote controversies.45900:21:13,920 –> 00:21:15,880That’s chapter one in verse three.46000:21:16,760 –> 00:21:18,219They stir up trouble.46100:21:19,420 –> 00:21:22,219So in discerning who should lead46200:21:22,219 –> 00:21:24,060because that kind of person, in leadership,46300:21:24,060 –> 00:21:27,260will cause all kinds of trouble for the church,46400:21:27,260 –> 00:21:28,979we should ask questions46500:21:28,979 –> 00:21:32,979about the relational health of a person.46600:21:32,979 –> 00:21:35,619Is this person contentious?46700:21:35,619 –> 00:21:39,160Does trouble follow them from place to place?46800:21:39,680 –> 00:21:42,260We’ll, unfortunately, we’ve got to pause the message there,46900:21:42,260 –> 00:21:44,900but we’ll be back with the second half of this message47000:21:44,900 –> 00:21:48,079in our next broadcast, so hope you’ll join us for that.47100:21:48,079 –> 00:21:50,020You’ve been listening to Pastor Colin Smith47200:21:50,020 –> 00:21:51,119on Open the Bible47300:21:51,119 –> 00:21:53,660and a message called Gospel Character,47400:21:53,660 –> 00:21:56,000one of the messages in our series47500:21:56,000 –> 00:21:58,819Ten Distinctives of a Gospel-Centered Life.47600:21:58,819 –> 00:22:01,140And if you’ve missed any of the series so far47700:22:01,140 –> 00:22:04,099or if you want to catch up or go back and listen again,47800:22:04,099 –> 00:22:06,459you can do that by coming to our website.47900:22:06,459 –> 00:22:09,839That’s at openthebible.org.uk48000:22:09,839 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