Cultivating Godly Sorrow

Psalm 51:1-13
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Pastor Colin explains that spiritual mourning is blessed and leads to significant blessings and joy. He uses the cyclical pattern in the Book of Judges to illustrate how habitual sin hinders spiritual growth. To break free from these cycles, spiritual mourning is essential.

He outlines practical steps to practice spiritual mourning, including reading the Bible to gain spiritual sight, relying on the Holy Spirit to illuminate hidden sins, and seeking honest feedback from other believers. Throughout, he emphasises that genuine mourning focuses on specific sins, not a general sense of failure.

Pastor Colin advises recognising the impact of sin on oneself, others, and Jesus Christ, and urging believers to bring these sins before God. He encourages asking God for total forgiveness, a clean heart, and a renewed spirit, and highlights the importance of moving forward without being crushed by guilt.

Ultimately, spiritual mourning leads to transformation and joy, as believers pursue a holy life and experience God’s comfort. Pastor Colin concludes, pointing to the essential role of Jesus Christ’s love and sacrifice in motivating and enabling Christians to overcome sin.

1 00:00:00,000 –> 00:00:07,140 You’re listening to a sermon from Pastor Colin Smith of Open the Bible. 2 00:00:07,140 –> 00:00:16,620 To contact us, call us at 1-877-OPEN 365, or visit our website openthebible.org. 3 00:00:16,620 –> 00:00:17,780 Let’s get to the message. 4 00:00:17,780 –> 00:00:19,260 Here is Pastor Colin. 5 00:00:19,260 –> 00:00:25,040 Blessed are those who Mourn, for they shall be comforted. 6 00:00:25,040 –> 00:00:28,379 We’ve seen that there are three kinds of mourning. 7 00:00:28,680 –> 00:00:32,299 Spiritual mourning is grieving someone or something you have lost. 8 00:00:32,299 –> 00:00:36,900 Then we saw there’s such a thing as sinful mourning, which is to grieve something that 9 00:00:36,900 –> 00:00:39,500 God never intended you to have. 10 00:00:39,500 –> 00:00:43,919 Then we saw that Jesus is referring here, not to either of these two, but to a third, 11 00:00:43,919 –> 00:00:51,000 to spiritual mourning, which we defined as grieving over your sins against God. 12 00:00:51,000 –> 00:00:56,580 What Jesus tells us here is that this mourning is blessed. 13 00:00:56,580 –> 00:01:04,160 In fact it is so laden with blessing that we are to go after as much of it as we can 14 00:01:04,160 –> 00:01:07,980 possibly get into our lives. 15 00:01:07,980 –> 00:01:15,879 The more of this mourning you know, we saw last time, the more joy you will experience. 16 00:01:15,879 –> 00:01:17,980 We saw last time something else that’s very important. 17 00:01:17,980 –> 00:01:25,120 That this spiritual mourning that Jesus is teaching us here is actually a key to overcoming 18 00:01:25,160 –> 00:01:31,120 what we sometimes call habitual sin, that is sins that we tend to go back to time and 19 00:01:31,120 –> 00:01:32,400 again. 20 00:01:32,400 –> 00:01:36,120 If you’ve read the book of Judges in the Old Testament you’ll know that there’s a sort 21 00:01:36,120 –> 00:01:40,760 of cyclical pattern that runs right the way through the book of Judges. 22 00:01:40,760 –> 00:01:46,379 It covers many generations of the experience of God’s people and once you see this cycle 23 00:01:46,379 –> 00:01:48,639 you’ll see it recurs again and again throughout the book. 24 00:01:48,639 –> 00:01:50,019 It goes like this. 25 00:01:50,019 –> 00:01:55,320 God’s people turn to idols, then God gives them over into the hands of their enemies, 26 00:01:55,320 –> 00:01:58,660 then they cry to God for mercy at the lowest point. 27 00:01:58,660 –> 00:02:02,879 God raises up a deliverer and everything is made well again and then God’s people turn 28 00:02:02,879 –> 00:02:04,099 back to idols. 29 00:02:04,099 –> 00:02:07,839 And round and around the circle goes again and again and again. 30 00:02:07,839 –> 00:02:14,440 If I was to give a sort of a pop title for the book of Judges, I’d call it how not to 31 00:02:14,440 –> 00:02:16,919 live the Christian life. 32 00:02:17,039 –> 00:02:18,440 We are turning round and round in circles. 33 00:02:18,440 –> 00:02:20,380 You know what this looks like. 34 00:02:20,380 –> 00:02:27,800 Toying with sin, falling into sin, asking Christ for forgiveness, experiencing His mercy, 35 00:02:27,800 –> 00:02:32,080 going back to toying with the same sin all over again. 36 00:02:32,080 –> 00:02:36,259 Now, how do you break that cycle? 37 00:02:36,259 –> 00:02:43,940 How do you get out of being a guy who has a faith and doesn’t really change much over 38 00:02:43,940 –> 00:02:45,899 10, 20 or even 30 years? 39 00:02:45,899 –> 00:02:52,960 This happens, we see it around us, and we may see it very much in ourselves as well. 40 00:02:52,960 –> 00:03:01,279 And we are seeing that this spiritual mourning is a key to breaking the cycles of sin that 41 00:03:01,279 –> 00:03:05,820 so easily can gain a grip in a person’s life. 42 00:03:05,820 –> 00:03:11,139 Now, that’s where we were last week in our first part of this journey in the Second Beatitude. 43 00:03:11,139 –> 00:03:14,080 Today, we move on to the question, how? 44 00:03:14,080 –> 00:03:18,300 This is the really practical question, all of today as application. 45 00:03:18,300 –> 00:03:19,699 It’s all application. 46 00:03:19,699 –> 00:03:25,820 It’s all about the question, how can I practice this spiritual mourning that’s going to be 47 00:03:25,820 –> 00:03:29,139 so blessed and lead me into so much joy? 48 00:03:29,139 –> 00:03:34,839 How can I cultivate this godly sorrow that is going to be the means of bringing blessing 49 00:03:34,839 –> 00:03:35,839 into my life? 50 00:03:35,919 –> 00:03:45,679 How can I actually break the cycles of habitual sin and go after real growth and holiness 51 00:03:45,679 –> 00:03:46,679 of life? 52 00:03:46,679 –> 00:03:51,380 I have three very simple headings, so this is easy to follow. 53 00:03:51,380 –> 00:03:55,880 It will be easy for you to take notes and you may want to do that today so you can put 54 00:03:55,880 –> 00:03:59,360 into practice what Jesus is speaking about. 55 00:03:59,360 –> 00:04:05,520 The spiritual mourning that will lead you into a great and wonderful joy. 56 00:04:05,520 –> 00:04:12,580 The three headings are simply this, how to see, how to mourn, and how to find comfort. 57 00:04:12,580 –> 00:04:16,940 How to see, how to mourn, and how to find comfort. 58 00:04:16,940 –> 00:04:19,040 So, straight away, let’s get into it here. 59 00:04:19,040 –> 00:04:21,440 How to see. 60 00:04:21,559 –> 00:04:25,440 There’s an old saying, and many of you will know it well. 61 00:04:25,440 –> 00:04:33,079 What the eye doesn’t see, the heart doesn’t grieve over. 62 00:04:33,079 –> 00:04:40,399 So, little Johnny is throwing a ball against the wall and manages to crack his mother’s 63 00:04:40,399 –> 00:04:42,959 choice vase. 64 00:04:42,959 –> 00:04:43,959 And what does he do? 65 00:04:43,959 –> 00:04:49,299 He turns the crack towards the wall so that she won’t see it, and he says to himself, 66 00:04:49,299 –> 00:04:55,500 well now, what the eye doesn’t see, the heart won’t grieve over. 67 00:04:55,500 –> 00:04:59,500 Now, we’re talking about spiritual mourning. 68 00:04:59,500 –> 00:05:03,059 What the eye doesn’t see, the heart will not grieve over. 69 00:05:03,059 –> 00:05:09,579 It follows, therefore, does it not, that we only enter into spiritual mourning over sins 70 00:05:09,579 –> 00:05:12,779 that we have come to see. 71 00:05:12,779 –> 00:05:17,299 Here’s the problem folks, that by nature we don’t see very well. 72 00:05:17,299 –> 00:05:19,739 We tend to justify what we do. 73 00:05:19,739 –> 00:05:24,220 We tend to become so used to ourselves that we find it difficult to imagine ourselves 74 00:05:24,220 –> 00:05:30,079 being more holy than we actually are, which often is not very much. 75 00:05:30,079 –> 00:05:36,760 We don’t see ourselves as others see us, let alone seeing ourselves as God sees us. 76 00:05:36,760 –> 00:05:39,179 So how do you get spiritual sight? 77 00:05:39,179 –> 00:05:46,179 And the answer to that is simply that reading the Bible is like putting on a pair of spectacles 78 00:05:48,299 –> 00:05:51,739 for someone who is short-sighted. 79 00:05:51,739 –> 00:05:55,940 Through the Bible you will begin to see what God sees. 80 00:05:55,940 –> 00:06:01,179 You will begin to understand what grieves him, and what offends him. 81 00:06:01,179 –> 00:06:07,619 Reading the Bible will open your eyes to sins that you would not otherwise spot, that may 82 00:06:07,619 –> 00:06:10,940 have been lurking in your life for a long time. 83 00:06:10,940 –> 00:06:12,040 Now the Bible is full of this. 84 00:06:12,220 –> 00:06:17,079 I’m thinking for example of Psalm 19 and Verse 8, which tells us this, that 85 00:06:17,079 –> 00:06:22,720 the commandments of the Lord are pure, and they enlighten the eyes. 86 00:06:22,720 –> 00:06:25,140 They help you to see. 87 00:06:25,140 –> 00:06:27,059 This is written all over the scripture. 88 00:06:27,059 –> 00:06:29,660 It is a wonderful, wonderful gift of God. 89 00:06:29,660 –> 00:06:34,839 As you read the Bible, you are reading the words and the thoughts of God, and so you 90 00:06:34,839 –> 00:06:40,880 are able to enter in to what he sees and to grasp it for yourself. 91 00:06:42,079 –> 00:06:46,660 Now, when I was very young, and some of you will relate to this as well, as a small boy 92 00:06:46,660 –> 00:06:51,519 in a Sunday School class, I was taught to read the Bible using what in Britain was called 93 00:06:51,519 –> 00:06:54,739 the scripture union method. 94 00:06:54,739 –> 00:06:59,359 That very simply was, whenever you read the Bible, ask five questions, and this has been 95 00:06:59,359 –> 00:07:04,119 useful to me all my life, to the present day, I’ve never outgrown it, and it will be useful 96 00:07:04,119 –> 00:07:05,119 to you. 97 00:07:05,119 –> 00:07:07,200 What does this tell me about God? 98 00:07:07,200 –> 00:07:10,040 What does this tell me about myself? 99 00:07:10,040 –> 00:07:15,000 Is there a sin to avoid, a promise to believe, a command to obey? 100 00:07:15,000 –> 00:07:16,779 Very, very simple. 101 00:07:16,779 –> 00:07:19,100 What does it tell me about God? 102 00:07:19,100 –> 00:07:21,040 What does it tell me about myself? 103 00:07:21,040 –> 00:07:27,880 This passage, these verses that I’m reading today, and is there a sin for me to avoid? 104 00:07:27,880 –> 00:07:30,559 Is there a promise for me to believe? 105 00:07:30,559 –> 00:07:33,640 Is there a command for me to obey? 106 00:07:33,640 –> 00:07:38,559 These are the things to look for in the Bible, and particularly you’ll understand that, today, 107 00:07:38,559 –> 00:07:43,160 as we’re focused in on this question, as you read the Bible, always be asking, is there 108 00:07:43,160 –> 00:07:45,739 a sin here for me to avoid? 109 00:07:45,739 –> 00:07:51,380 So let me just take, for example, three verses from the Bible that will be familiar to you, 110 00:07:51,380 –> 00:07:55,640 just so that you see what I mean, and you can do this every day as you’re reading the 111 00:07:55,640 –> 00:07:58,880 Bible and it will be the means by which God opens your eyes. 112 00:07:58,880 –> 00:08:03,320 First Corinthians, chapter 13, you know these words from verse four. 113 00:08:04,200 –> 00:08:10,299 love is kind, love does not envy or boast, it is not arrogant or rude, it does not insist 114 00:08:10,299 –> 00:08:16,440 on its own way, it is not irritable or resentful, it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices 115 00:08:16,440 –> 00:08:17,440 with the truth. 116 00:08:17,440 –> 00:08:24,179 So I read that, but did you see that there are at least seven sins that are quite clearly 117 00:08:24,179 –> 00:08:27,359 identified right there? 118 00:08:27,359 –> 00:08:28,359 What are they? 119 00:08:28,359 –> 00:08:29,660 What are the things that grieve God? 120 00:08:29,660 –> 00:08:32,520 What are the things that are offensive to Him? 121 00:08:32,940 –> 00:08:38,239 Impatience, because love is patient. 122 00:08:38,239 –> 00:08:43,880 Envy, because love doesn’t do that, and if love is occupying my heart, I won’t be doing 123 00:08:43,880 –> 00:08:45,200 that either. 124 00:08:45,200 –> 00:08:47,700 That’s sinful. 125 00:08:47,700 –> 00:08:51,179 Pride because love is not arrogant. 126 00:08:51,179 –> 00:08:56,719 Rudeness, when I’m rude, that’s sinful. 127 00:08:57,119 –> 00:09:00,260 Eluding on your own way. 128 00:09:00,260 –> 00:09:01,700 Love does not do that. 129 00:09:01,700 –> 00:09:03,700 It is not self-seeking. 130 00:09:03,700 –> 00:09:06,580 It is not overbearing. 131 00:09:06,580 –> 00:09:11,059 So when I’m like that, I sin, and I need to see it. 132 00:09:11,059 –> 00:09:13,380 Love is not irritable. 133 00:09:13,380 –> 00:09:15,539 It is not easily provoked. 134 00:09:15,539 –> 00:09:20,820 When I’m easily provoked, I sin. 135 00:09:20,820 –> 00:09:23,479 And love is not resentful. 136 00:09:23,479 –> 00:09:24,659 What does that mean? 137 00:09:24,659 –> 00:09:32,260 Hanging on to past hurts, is offensive towards God, who forgives. 138 00:09:32,260 –> 00:09:37,239 So here I’ve just read a couple of very, very familiar verses just to illustrate how 139 00:09:37,239 –> 00:09:43,400 to read the Bible, and to ask the question as you’re reading the Bible, now what here 140 00:09:43,400 –> 00:09:44,960 is a sin that I should avoid? 141 00:09:44,960 –> 00:09:47,440 And there are three verses and there are seven straight away. 142 00:09:47,440 –> 00:09:49,239 You won’t find it hard to do this. 143 00:09:49,239 –> 00:09:52,580 You will find, wherever you’re reading in the scripture, that when you begin to read 144 00:09:52,580 –> 00:09:58,799 it with these lenses, you will find that the Spirit of God uses the word of God to 145 00:09:58,799 –> 00:10:04,239 convince you of sin, to show you where it lies. 146 00:10:04,239 –> 00:10:09,859 God’s Word will open your eyes toward sin, quite candidly. 147 00:10:09,859 –> 00:10:15,200 Guys who rarely read the Bible don’t have a Bible in their hands, don’t read it much 148 00:10:15,200 –> 00:10:19,059 on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday. 149 00:10:19,059 –> 00:10:22,159 Guys who don’t read the Bible don’t see very many sins in their own life. 150 00:10:22,219 –> 00:10:24,979 Their eyes are closed. 151 00:10:24,979 –> 00:10:30,799 Close the Bible and your eyes will be closed towards the sins that lurk in your own life, 152 00:10:30,799 –> 00:10:34,820 but open the Bible and start reading the Bible in this way. 153 00:10:34,820 –> 00:10:40,039 And you will find that the Lord uses it so that you begin to see. 154 00:10:40,039 –> 00:10:44,140 And that’s the first part of spiritual morning, you see, you can’t grieve over what you don’t 155 00:10:44,140 –> 00:10:45,140 see. 156 00:10:45,739 –> 00:10:50,179 It has to begin here if you are going to enter into this joy and experience this change of 157 00:10:50,179 –> 00:10:51,719 life. 158 00:10:51,719 –> 00:10:55,520 The second way in which we see is through God’s spirit. 159 00:10:55,520 –> 00:10:59,960 These are three wonderful gifts here, how to see through the gift of God’s word and 160 00:10:59,960 –> 00:11:02,320 through the gift of God’s spirit. 161 00:11:02,320 –> 00:11:05,739 Now let me give to you a very simple picture. 162 00:11:05,739 –> 00:11:09,359 Imagine that you’re walking through a dark basement. 163 00:11:09,359 –> 00:11:16,599 There are some hidden treasures in there, and there are some unopened gifts, but there 164 00:11:16,599 –> 00:11:20,080 is also all kinds of junk. 165 00:11:20,080 –> 00:11:25,200 And there are all kinds of trash. 166 00:11:25,200 –> 00:11:30,859 There’s a bad smell because some animals have got in through a broken window well and they’ve 167 00:11:30,859 –> 00:11:34,500 died there, and they’ve been lying there for a very, very long time. 168 00:11:34,500 –> 00:11:38,280 And because there’s still a break in the window well there are some living ones that are lurking 169 00:11:38,320 –> 00:11:39,500 in the corners as well. 170 00:11:39,500 –> 00:11:42,940 Have you got this rather unpleasant picture? 171 00:11:42,940 –> 00:11:46,520 And here you are, you’re beginning to go through this basement. 172 00:11:46,520 –> 00:11:55,880 And I’m telling you that that is a biblical picture of your soul. 173 00:11:55,880 –> 00:12:05,640 Now think of this darkened basement with all this stuff that’s there. 174 00:12:05,679 –> 00:12:16,719 God could show you all the junk that’s in your soul in a moment by turning on a floodlight. 175 00:12:16,719 –> 00:12:22,299 But if He were to do that, you would be completely and utterly devastated. 176 00:12:22,299 –> 00:12:26,460 You’d never recover from it. 177 00:12:26,460 –> 00:12:33,359 Not one of us here, including the one who speaks, could bear an instant sight of the 178 00:12:33,380 –> 00:12:42,599 full extent of our own sins if it was to be revealed to us on earth at one time. 179 00:12:42,599 –> 00:12:49,280 And so thank God who is gracious and kind that He does not show us our souls with a 180 00:12:49,280 –> 00:12:58,559 floodlight, but by His Holy Spirit, He leads us through the murky basement with a flashlight. 181 00:12:58,640 –> 00:13:03,719 And that, by the way, is why sanctification is a lifelong process. 182 00:13:03,719 –> 00:13:12,340 Because the Holy Spirit is always shining the flashlight into hidden corners of your 183 00:13:12,340 –> 00:13:19,700 soul, where there lurks stuff that you were not aware of before. 184 00:13:19,700 –> 00:13:22,059 Jesus said this about the Holy Spirit. 185 00:13:22,460 –> 00:13:28,679 When he comes, he will convict the world concerning sin. 186 00:13:28,679 –> 00:13:33,580 And thank God he does that with a flashlight and not with the floodlight. 187 00:13:34,940 –> 00:13:42,979 Because there is more sin in all of our lives than any of us are able to see at any moment 188 00:13:42,979 –> 00:13:45,219 on the Christian journey. 189 00:13:45,219 –> 00:13:47,659 Thank God he is so patient with us. 190 00:13:47,780 –> 00:13:53,780 And that folks is why we must also be patient with one another. 191 00:13:53,780 –> 00:13:58,099 But here’s what you can do given the work of God’s Spirit. 192 00:13:58,099 –> 00:14:05,900 When the Bible identifies particular sins, we read just a list of them from a couple 193 00:14:05,900 –> 00:14:09,099 of verses a few moments ago. 194 00:14:09,320 –> 00:14:19,020 What you can then do is, you can ask the Holy Spirit to show you where these particular 195 00:14:19,020 –> 00:14:22,320 sins may actually be lurking in your life. 196 00:14:22,320 –> 00:14:25,159 In other words, you can ask Him to use the flashlight. 197 00:14:25,159 –> 00:14:30,559 So going back to 1 Corinthians 13, love does not insist on its own way. 198 00:14:30,559 –> 00:14:33,039 Oh Lord, show me! 199 00:14:33,059 –> 00:14:40,359 Help me to see if there is a place where I’ve been insisting on my own way. 200 00:14:40,359 –> 00:14:44,880 Love is not resentful. 201 00:14:44,880 –> 00:14:52,219 Holy Spirit, show me, is there a place where I’m holding on to a past hurt and resentment 202 00:14:52,219 –> 00:14:56,280 is being allowed to fester? 203 00:14:56,280 –> 00:14:57,280 Love is patient. 204 00:14:57,479 –> 00:15:03,940 O Holy Spirit, show to me, where is there impatience in my life? 205 00:15:03,940 –> 00:15:11,119 So that the Word identifies what the sins are and the spirit with the flashlight points 206 00:15:11,119 –> 00:15:15,719 to where they may hide. 207 00:15:15,719 –> 00:15:19,460 Use the prayer that’s right at the end of Psalm 139. 208 00:15:19,460 –> 00:15:21,640 Use it regularly in your own life. 209 00:15:21,640 –> 00:15:24,880 You will find it very helpful as I do. 210 00:15:25,119 –> 00:15:28,700 Search me, O God, and know my heart. 211 00:15:28,700 –> 00:15:30,140 That’s the prayer you see. 212 00:15:30,140 –> 00:15:32,580 Holy Spirit shine the flashlight. 213 00:15:32,580 –> 00:15:34,340 Not the floodlight but the flashlight. 214 00:15:34,340 –> 00:15:39,460 I want to know where there’s the stuff that needs to be brought into the open and dealt 215 00:15:39,460 –> 00:15:43,219 with even today. 216 00:15:43,219 –> 00:15:45,580 So how to see. 217 00:15:45,580 –> 00:15:50,419 We want to get into the spiritual mourning that is going to lead us on to the path of 218 00:15:50,419 –> 00:15:53,760 joy but the heart won’t grieve over what the eye does not see. 219 00:15:53,760 –> 00:16:00,260 It has to begin here by identifying particular sins and seeing where they hide out in our 220 00:16:00,260 –> 00:16:02,080 lives. 221 00:16:02,080 –> 00:16:04,900 And you do that through three gifts. 222 00:16:04,900 –> 00:16:12,340 God’s Word was number one, God’s Spirit is number two, here’s number three, God’s people. 223 00:16:12,340 –> 00:16:14,340 God’s people. 224 00:16:14,340 –> 00:16:21,400 The Bible says to us, to believers, confess your sins one to another so that you may be 225 00:16:21,400 –> 00:16:22,960 healed. 226 00:16:23,059 –> 00:16:26,239 That’s James chapter five and verse 16. 227 00:16:26,239 –> 00:16:30,919 And this may be a neglected opportunity as far as some of us are concerned, but other 228 00:16:30,919 –> 00:16:38,280 believers will be able to help you to see where you need to grow. 229 00:16:38,280 –> 00:16:44,780 That is why relationships within the body of Christ are such a special gift from God. 230 00:16:44,780 –> 00:16:48,640 So, we’re talking about practice. 231 00:16:49,539 –> 00:16:56,840 So, here is a challenge for all the men in the Congregation who would regard themselves 232 00:16:56,840 –> 00:16:59,780 as happily married. 233 00:16:59,780 –> 00:17:05,239 I have something for you to do this week, and here it is. 234 00:17:05,239 –> 00:17:17,239 Ask your wife what is one sin that I should be fighting against more strongly? 235 00:17:17,540 –> 00:17:24,239 Because the person God has placed close to you will be a help to see what you may not 236 00:17:24,239 –> 00:17:26,239 be seeing. 237 00:17:26,239 –> 00:17:33,140 Now, folks, it’s very important, as all of you know, that a preacher practices what he 238 00:17:33,319 –> 00:17:34,479 preaches. 239 00:17:34,479 –> 00:17:36,959 So, I have already done this this week. 240 00:17:36,959 –> 00:17:38,640 Let me tell you what happened. 241 00:17:38,640 –> 00:17:45,619 Karen and I were taking a long drive to Iowa where we had an appointment to speak at a 242 00:17:45,619 –> 00:17:52,420 conference over there and somewhere crossing over the Mississippi, I asked her this question. 243 00:17:52,420 –> 00:18:01,560 I said, I’m really thinking about this, and I want you to tell me what is one sin that 244 00:18:01,560 –> 00:18:07,619 I should be fighting more strongly against. 245 00:18:07,619 –> 00:18:13,099 And she thought for a little bit, and she said, can I give you two? 246 00:18:14,020 –> 00:18:18,140 And she did. 247 00:18:18,140 –> 00:18:27,040 She identified with great insight to areas where I need to grow. 248 00:18:27,040 –> 00:18:29,239 What she said was insightful. 249 00:18:29,239 –> 00:18:34,599 It has continued to be helpful to me this week. 250 00:18:34,599 –> 00:18:42,099 Ladies, if your husband musters the courage to ask you this question, don’t you bottle 251 00:18:42,439 –> 00:18:48,459 out with some kind of a statement about what a wonderful fellow he is, except that you 252 00:18:48,459 –> 00:18:49,920 wish he would fold his socks. 253 00:18:49,920 –> 00:18:53,939 That’s not what we’re after here. 254 00:18:53,939 –> 00:19:00,119 What would help him grow as a Christian, really? 255 00:19:00,119 –> 00:19:04,420 What hinders him from being more useful to God than he is, because he wants to be more 256 00:19:04,420 –> 00:19:07,339 useful to God than he is? 257 00:19:07,339 –> 00:19:12,239 And I’ll tell you, these are not easy questions to answer. 258 00:19:12,239 –> 00:19:17,959 You need spiritual light to be helpful here. 259 00:19:17,959 –> 00:19:21,880 Now if you’re not married or if your marriage is not at a point where it is the kind of 260 00:19:21,880 –> 00:19:28,520 trust to ask that kind of a question, then ask it of someone else who knows you well. 261 00:19:28,520 –> 00:19:34,839 But please find someone who can speak into your life honestly, and then listen to what 262 00:19:34,839 –> 00:19:37,859 that person has to say. 263 00:19:37,859 –> 00:19:43,339 This is great stuff for honest conversation, where relationships are beginning to go deeper 264 00:19:43,339 –> 00:19:46,579 in life groups this week. 265 00:19:46,579 –> 00:19:50,979 God did not call you to be a follower of Jesus Christ with the intent that you should be 266 00:19:50,979 –> 00:19:57,180 largely unchanged for 10, 20, 30 years in your, quote, Christian life. 267 00:19:57,180 –> 00:20:05,660 So let’s help one another to be on the growing edge of what it really means to be a follower 268 00:20:05,660 –> 00:20:06,839 of Jesus Christ. 269 00:20:06,839 –> 00:20:08,060 And it begins what? 270 00:20:08,060 –> 00:20:09,060 With seeing. 271 00:20:09,060 –> 00:20:12,560 I can’t address what I don’t see. 272 00:20:12,560 –> 00:20:17,959 So God has given me the help of his Word, I need to open it, the help of his Spirit, 273 00:20:17,959 –> 00:20:22,839 I need to call upon the Holy Spirit in prayer and the help of people who know me and who 274 00:20:23,160 –> 00:20:31,239 love me and I need to have honest and open relationships on a continuing basis with those 275 00:20:31,239 –> 00:20:36,839 God has placed strategically in my life. 276 00:20:36,839 –> 00:20:38,699 How to see. 277 00:20:38,699 –> 00:20:42,180 How to see. 278 00:20:42,199 –> 00:20:45,359 Second, how to mourn. 279 00:20:45,359 –> 00:20:50,680 The whole point of this is that we want to be able to see sins in order that we may enter 280 00:20:51,199 –> 00:20:55,880 into what Jesus is calling us to, blessed are those who mourn. 281 00:20:55,880 –> 00:20:57,839 Mourning over them. 282 00:20:57,839 –> 00:20:59,380 For they shall be comforted. 283 00:20:59,380 –> 00:21:06,760 Now the question obviously arises how then do I mourn a sin once I have seen it. 284 00:21:06,760 –> 00:21:11,520 Let me give you four answers or steps in regard to that question. 285 00:21:11,520 –> 00:21:21,640 Number one, state your sin clearly without excuse and without evasion. 286 00:21:21,640 –> 00:21:29,880 By the way, this is very important, spiritual mourning is always over particular sins. 287 00:21:29,880 –> 00:21:33,920 Sometimes the devil gets us down just with a general sense of our own failure. 288 00:21:33,920 –> 00:21:39,040 Has anyone ever experienced a struggle with just a general sense of your own failure? 289 00:21:39,199 –> 00:21:43,060 Well, that’s not spiritual mourning, it never moves you forward. 290 00:21:43,060 –> 00:21:45,959 How do you address a general sense of failure? 291 00:21:46,280 –> 00:21:50,680 The only thing you can address are particular sins, which is why seeing is so important, 292 00:21:50,680 –> 00:21:54,819 the other thing is just generally feeling miserable and there’s nothing valuable about that. 293 00:21:54,819 –> 00:22:01,699 By the way, a hypocrite is often glad to admit that he or she is a sinner. 294 00:22:03,020 –> 00:22:06,239 No problem for the hypocrites, oh yes, yes, I’m a sinner. 295 00:22:07,219 –> 00:22:13,239 But what the hypocrite never does is get down to the point of being able to name a single personal sin. 296 00:22:14,579 –> 00:22:18,520 Because, you see, then you’re at the point where, what am I going to do about it? 297 00:22:18,520 –> 00:22:24,660 The hypocrite always avoids that so he keeps at this general level and never goes further. 298 00:22:25,380 –> 00:22:29,280 So, mourning over sin in general is not what we’re talking about here, that can’t move 299 00:22:29,280 –> 00:22:31,900 you forward, it just leaves you feeling miserable. 300 00:22:31,900 –> 00:22:34,939 Spiritual mourning has a clear focus. 301 00:22:34,939 –> 00:22:39,540 It is mourning over particular sins that are brought to your attention by God’s Word, 302 00:22:39,540 –> 00:22:41,540 God’s Spirit and God’s people. 303 00:22:41,540 –> 00:22:46,579 Therefore, this process of mourning, this work of mourning sin, it begins by stating 304 00:22:46,579 –> 00:22:47,900 the sin clearly. 305 00:22:48,680 –> 00:22:50,239 I have acted out of envy. 306 00:22:50,680 –> 00:22:52,900 I have been insisting on my own way. 307 00:22:52,900 –> 00:23:01,939 I have been holding onto a resentment and this is a sin against God. 308 00:23:02,939 –> 00:23:07,619 You were to take it out of the dark place when the Holy Spirit shines the light, and 309 00:23:07,619 –> 00:23:09,900 bring it out and look at it. 310 00:23:09,900 –> 00:23:10,900 This is what it is. 311 00:23:10,900 –> 00:23:13,540 This is what has been causing the problem. 312 00:23:13,540 –> 00:23:14,479 This is it. 313 00:23:15,599 –> 00:23:17,560 Look it square in the face. 314 00:23:17,560 –> 00:23:18,680 State it clearly. 315 00:23:18,680 –> 00:23:20,180 No evasions. 316 00:23:21,119 –> 00:23:24,420 Boys, Satan will fight to keep you from doing that. 317 00:23:25,339 –> 00:23:27,300 Psalm 51, which was read for us. 318 00:23:27,300 –> 00:23:31,459 I hope you have it open in front of you, because we’ll be picking up from now on many things 319 00:23:31,500 –> 00:23:34,780 from it, because this is David going into spiritual mourning. 320 00:23:34,780 –> 00:23:36,579 Look at what he says in verse four, 321 00:23:36,579 –> 00:23:41,239 against you, you only have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight. 322 00:23:41,239 –> 00:23:44,439 Sure, there were others wounded by what David did, 323 00:23:44,439 –> 00:23:48,920 but at his heart, sin is an offense against God. 324 00:23:48,920 –> 00:23:53,119 And by the way there is no such thing as a small sin against a great God. 325 00:23:54,359 –> 00:23:55,439 Cannot be. 326 00:23:56,239 –> 00:24:00,619 State your sin clearly without excuse, without reservation. 327 00:24:01,760 –> 00:24:03,680 Then do this. 328 00:24:03,680 –> 00:24:09,640 Weigh what this sin has done to you. 329 00:24:09,640 –> 00:24:14,219 David says in verse three, my sin is ever before me. 330 00:24:14,219 –> 00:24:18,479 He’s looking at its effect upon his own soul. 331 00:24:19,880 –> 00:24:20,680 That’s important. 332 00:24:21,719 –> 00:24:24,979 Otherwise, you just say sorry, and then go on pretty much unchanged. 333 00:24:26,420 –> 00:24:30,660 Think about the life of holiness that God has called you to pursue. 334 00:24:32,380 –> 00:24:37,000 Think of where you might have been by now with Christ, 335 00:24:37,000 –> 00:24:39,780 if this had not been holding you back so long. 336 00:24:41,859 –> 00:24:46,140 Consider how this sin has limited your usefulness to Christ. 337 00:24:46,140 –> 00:24:51,079 Look back and take in the full scope of its effect in your life. 338 00:24:51,079 –> 00:24:53,500 That’s like pulling the thing up from the root, you see. 339 00:24:55,420 –> 00:24:58,739 Reflect on how this has dampened your worship over the years. 340 00:24:59,459 –> 00:25:03,079 Reflect on how it has dulled your testimony. 341 00:25:03,079 –> 00:25:06,979 Think about how it has kept you at a distance from God that you have 342 00:25:06,979 –> 00:25:08,719 become sort of used to. 343 00:25:10,300 –> 00:25:14,339 Think about the other sins that this one has led you into. 344 00:25:14,339 –> 00:25:17,020 Sins of deception, sins of pretense. 345 00:25:17,020 –> 00:25:22,060 Look at what this sin is costing you and total up the bill. 346 00:25:24,280 –> 00:25:26,459 Think of what your life could be 347 00:25:26,800 –> 00:25:31,280 if this sin was left behind. 348 00:25:34,140 –> 00:25:38,219 So state it clearly, name it, look it at it in the face. 349 00:25:39,859 –> 00:25:43,339 And then seriously, weigh what this sin has done to you. 350 00:25:45,660 –> 00:25:49,780 You see how this is getting us into taking the thing more seriously now 351 00:25:49,780 –> 00:25:53,780 than a quick flip, sorry, and carrying on. 352 00:25:53,780 –> 00:25:59,719 One, third, recognize what this sin has done to others. 353 00:26:01,500 –> 00:26:06,020 Friend, nobody ever sins to himself or herself alone. 354 00:26:07,699 –> 00:26:13,400 The people God has placed around you are affected by all of your sins, 355 00:26:13,400 –> 00:26:16,380 even the ones that they don’t know and may never know. 356 00:26:17,579 –> 00:26:18,239 Why? 357 00:26:19,219 –> 00:26:24,219 Because these sins have had an effect on you and you are in relation to them. 358 00:26:24,219 –> 00:26:29,640 These sins have made you less than you would have been in relation to them 359 00:26:29,640 –> 00:26:33,780 and therefore have robbed them of what they might otherwise have had from you. 360 00:26:36,180 –> 00:26:38,219 But of course, most sins are obvious. 361 00:26:39,219 –> 00:26:43,660 Many of them are evident because they are committed against other people in our 362 00:26:43,660 –> 00:26:44,099 lives. 363 00:26:44,219 –> 00:26:54,439 Our sins make us harder to live with, more difficult to work with, harder to love. 364 00:26:56,239 –> 00:27:00,900 You take an honest look at your sin, look at it’s effect on yourself, look at its 365 00:27:00,900 –> 00:27:02,160 effect on others. 366 00:27:02,160 –> 00:27:06,060 Even on others who do not know, because you’re made less by this. 367 00:27:07,900 –> 00:27:11,300 Fourth step, getting into what it means to mourn a thing, 368 00:27:11,300 –> 00:27:12,880 spiritually now. 369 00:27:13,839 –> 00:27:20,839 Consider what your sin did to Christ and what Christ has done for you. 370 00:27:23,439 –> 00:27:26,000 We sometimes sing a line in one of the songs, 371 00:27:26,000 –> 00:27:27,719 break my heart 372 00:27:27,719 –> 00:27:29,719 for what breaks yours. 373 00:27:32,400 –> 00:27:36,319 And our hearts begin to break for what breaks the heart of God, 374 00:27:36,319 –> 00:27:43,560 when we see what it did for Christ and what Christ has done for us. 375 00:27:45,619 –> 00:27:47,060 Think of this, friend. 376 00:27:47,060 –> 00:27:53,560 Jesus Christ did not hang on the cross for sin in general, 377 00:27:53,560 –> 00:27:56,339 but for sin in particular. 378 00:27:57,400 –> 00:27:59,439 How do we know that? 379 00:27:59,439 –> 00:28:01,739 Because on the cross, 380 00:28:01,739 –> 00:28:04,880 He bore the punishment of sin. 381 00:28:05,839 –> 00:28:10,520 And God being just, does not punish sin in general, 382 00:28:10,520 –> 00:28:11,459 what does He do? 383 00:28:11,459 –> 00:28:15,020 He punishes sins in particular. 384 00:28:15,900 –> 00:28:20,000 Therefore the punishment that Jesus Christ bore on the cross 385 00:28:20,000 –> 00:28:26,619 is the aggregate punishment of all of our sins of all of the people of God 386 00:28:26,619 –> 00:28:28,420 throughout all of history 387 00:28:28,420 –> 00:28:33,099 and this sin that I am mourning now that I have identified 388 00:28:33,099 –> 00:28:35,359 and I’ve seen the effect in my own life 389 00:28:35,359 –> 00:28:38,280 and I’ve seen the effect in the lives of other people as well, 390 00:28:38,280 –> 00:28:43,599 I am now to see and understand this that this sin 391 00:28:43,599 –> 00:28:50,739 played its part in what Jesus Christ suffered in agony there on the cross. 392 00:28:50,739 –> 00:28:54,400 This resentment was part of that. 393 00:28:54,400 –> 00:28:57,420 It needed dying for. 394 00:28:58,300 –> 00:29:01,280 There was a punishment for this 395 00:29:01,300 –> 00:29:06,640 that would have been upon me that was commuted to Him. 396 00:29:06,979 –> 00:29:08,900 We’ve been asking the question, friend, 397 00:29:08,900 –> 00:29:15,260 how do you break the pattern of habitual sin? 398 00:29:15,540 –> 00:29:18,739 How can you get to the place where in your heart of hearts 399 00:29:18,739 –> 00:29:23,319 you really begin to hate what you once found very attractive and loved? 400 00:29:23,579 –> 00:29:30,900 How can you get to the place where you actually despise what you once often chose? 401 00:29:31,719 –> 00:29:38,939 The answer to that is that spiritual mourning happens at the cross. 402 00:29:39,380 –> 00:29:43,880 It happens at the cross. 403 00:29:43,880 –> 00:29:47,500 Come and see. Come and see. 404 00:29:47,880 –> 00:29:51,020 Come and see the King of Love. 405 00:29:51,300 –> 00:29:57,339 See the purple robe and the crown of thorns that he wears. 406 00:29:57,339 –> 00:30:01,380 Soldiers mock, rulers sneer as he lifts the cruel cross. 407 00:30:01,380 –> 00:30:07,839 He’s lone and friendless now as he climbs towards the hill. 408 00:30:07,839 –> 00:30:18,719 Come and weep, come and mourn, for your sin that pierced him there. 409 00:30:19,599 –> 00:30:24,880 So much deeper than the wounds of thorn and of nail. 410 00:30:24,880 –> 00:30:38,939 All our pride, all our greed, all our fallenness and shame and the Lord has laid the punishment 411 00:30:38,939 –> 00:30:41,800 on him. 412 00:30:41,800 –> 00:30:48,920 We worship at your feet, where wrath and mercy meet, and a guilty world is washed by love’s 413 00:30:48,920 –> 00:30:50,199 pure stream. 414 00:30:50,199 –> 00:30:56,819 For us, he was made sin, O help me take this in! 415 00:30:56,819 –> 00:31:00,640 Deep wounds of love cry out, Father forgive. 416 00:31:00,640 –> 00:31:10,339 I worship, I worship, the Lamb who was slain. 417 00:31:11,280 –> 00:31:19,699 I’m reading at the moment the diary of Andrew Boner, a godly pastor from the 19th century 418 00:31:19,699 –> 00:31:24,599 who kept a journal of his own spiritual life. 419 00:31:24,599 –> 00:31:31,000 And he struggled, especially in his early life, over how he could come to hate sin more. 420 00:31:31,000 –> 00:31:35,479 He saw patterns within his own life that he longed to be free from. 421 00:31:35,479 –> 00:31:37,400 And he struggled over this whole question. 422 00:31:37,400 –> 00:31:39,180 Why do I go back to the same thing? 423 00:31:39,180 –> 00:31:40,239 And so forth. 424 00:31:40,239 –> 00:31:44,040 How could he make more progress in overcoming? 425 00:31:44,040 –> 00:31:55,319 And he writes this in his journal, Thursday, May 7th, 1829. 426 00:31:55,319 –> 00:32:05,619 It has been much impressed upon me that if I am to be convinced of sin at all I must 427 00:32:05,619 –> 00:32:15,280 be so by the view of it in Christ’s love. 428 00:32:15,280 –> 00:32:18,099 And Andrew Bonner’s story is very fascinating. 429 00:32:18,099 –> 00:32:21,339 There was a manifestation of the love of Christ. 430 00:32:21,339 –> 00:32:25,780 He glimpsed the love of Christ through the ministry of the word. 431 00:32:25,780 –> 00:32:31,359 He began to see in a way that he hadn’t seen before the breadth and length and depth and 432 00:32:31,420 –> 00:32:36,060 height of the love of Christ, just what Paul prays for, for you and for me and for every 433 00:32:36,060 –> 00:32:37,439 believer. 434 00:32:37,439 –> 00:32:43,699 And from that, he not only found that he began to make more progress in his Christian life. 435 00:32:43,699 –> 00:32:54,619 He found as a pastor that his life’s work was to help people turn from sin by showing 436 00:32:54,619 –> 00:32:58,739 them the love of Christ. 437 00:32:59,560 –> 00:33:05,479 Friend, when you look at the cross, there’s more to it than seeing what your sin did to 438 00:33:05,479 –> 00:33:08,079 Jesus. 439 00:33:08,079 –> 00:33:13,459 It’s also about seeing what Jesus did there for you. 440 00:33:13,459 –> 00:33:22,020 At the cross, you will see how much you are loved. 441 00:33:22,020 –> 00:33:26,339 And if you do not have an overwhelming sense of the love of God streaming towards you in 442 00:33:26,339 –> 00:33:30,400 Jesus Christ, what you need is a glimpse of the cross, and that’s where you’re going to 443 00:33:30,400 –> 00:33:32,560 see the love of Christ. 444 00:33:32,560 –> 00:33:35,920 Here you are, you’ve been sinning against God. 445 00:33:35,920 –> 00:33:38,859 And what does Jesus Christ do in relation to that sin? 446 00:33:38,859 –> 00:33:47,520 He bears it for you in love. 447 00:33:47,520 –> 00:33:55,859 One glimpse of the tru love of Jesus Christ for you will do you more good in your struggle 448 00:33:56,060 –> 00:34:00,859 against sin than a hundred commitments and a hundred disciplines. 449 00:34:00,859 –> 00:34:07,839 That’s why when we come together to worship we want to get our eyes up on Christ and for 450 00:34:07,839 –> 00:34:14,840 you to see how much you are loved because that and that alone is really going to break 451 00:34:16,120 –> 00:34:23,000 your heart over what breaks God, and that in turn is going to lead you into the joy 452 00:34:23,000 –> 00:34:24,520 that Jesus is speaking of. 453 00:34:24,520 –> 00:34:28,040 We’re blessed are those who enter into this spiritual mourning. 454 00:34:28,040 –> 00:34:33,260 They’re blessed why they experience God’s amazing comfort. 455 00:34:33,260 –> 00:34:40,040 So we’ve looked at how to see because what the eye doesn’t see the heart doesn’t grieve 456 00:34:40,040 –> 00:34:40,879 over. 457 00:34:40,879 –> 00:34:47,639 We’ve looked at how to mourn very briefly hour and finally how to find comfort and again 458 00:34:47,639 –> 00:34:54,239 I want just to draw these things out from Psalm number 51 and this is all about asking 459 00:34:54,300 –> 00:34:55,379 God. 460 00:34:55,379 –> 00:34:56,879 You’ve come to see your sin. 461 00:34:56,879 –> 00:34:58,800 You’ve come to mourn over it. 462 00:34:58,800 –> 00:35:01,260 Now you’re at a place where you can really ask God. 463 00:35:01,260 –> 00:35:02,719 And what does David ask God? 464 00:35:02,719 –> 00:35:04,159 Wow here’s the first thing. 465 00:35:04,159 –> 00:35:09,199 Ask God for total forgiveness, total forgiveness. 466 00:35:09,199 –> 00:35:11,280 Notice the emphasis on completeness here. 467 00:35:11,280 –> 00:35:15,939 Verse 1 have mercy on me O God according to your Steadfast love. 468 00:35:15,939 –> 00:35:16,939 See what he’s asking. 469 00:35:16,939 –> 00:35:22,040 I’m asking for mercy that says comprehensive as your love. 470 00:35:22,439 –> 00:35:23,860 What’s the mercy of God to you? 471 00:35:23,860 –> 00:35:28,340 Verse 1 according to your abundant mercy blaught out my transgressions. 472 00:35:28,340 –> 00:35:32,639 Sins are bloughted out by the shed blood of Jesus Christ and when they are bloughted out 473 00:35:32,639 –> 00:35:38,239 they are covered, never to be seen in God’s presence again. 474 00:35:38,239 –> 00:35:42,340 Verse 9, hide your face from my sins, blaught out all my iniqueities. 475 00:35:43,219 –> 00:35:52,199 Friends, it’s not as if God forgets your sin as if he had amnesia. 476 00:35:52,699 –> 00:35:56,179 No, that’s not what the Bible tells us. 477 00:35:56,179 –> 00:35:57,199 God knows you. 478 00:35:57,199 –> 00:35:59,199 God knows everything you have done. 479 00:35:59,199 –> 00:36:04,260 That is what makes His love for us all the more remarkable isn’t it? 480 00:36:04,260 –> 00:36:09,300 But here’s what he says in his love, your sins and your iniquities I will remember no 481 00:36:09,300 –> 00:36:12,120 more. 482 00:36:12,179 –> 00:36:13,659 Does God know my sins? 483 00:36:13,659 –> 00:36:15,620 Yes, every one of them. 484 00:36:15,620 –> 00:36:20,639 Are they on his mind when I come to him in the name of Jesus Christ? 485 00:36:20,639 –> 00:36:22,840 No, they are not. 486 00:36:22,840 –> 00:36:28,300 When I come and when you come to God in the name of Jesus Christ you are to know this. 487 00:36:28,300 –> 00:36:36,479 That he is totally for you and that he is totally with you in love, without reservation, 488 00:36:36,479 –> 00:36:44,459 no matter how many times you have come before, and how many times you will come again. 489 00:36:44,459 –> 00:36:52,959 And remember friend, that we are justified by Christ’s blood not by our tears. 490 00:36:52,959 –> 00:36:57,080 Forgiveness does not flow from the depth of your sorrow. 491 00:36:57,080 –> 00:37:01,159 Forgiveness flows from the cleansing blood of Jesus. 492 00:37:01,159 –> 00:37:07,040 The question is never, have I become sorry enough to earn forgiveness? 493 00:37:07,040 –> 00:37:12,399 The question is, is the Sacrifice of Jesus enough to release forgiveness? 494 00:37:12,399 –> 00:37:16,120 And the answer to that question is yes. 495 00:37:16,120 –> 00:37:19,820 The question is not have I done enough in order to be forgiven? 496 00:37:19,820 –> 00:37:25,560 No, the question is has Christ done enough in order for me to be forgiven, and the answer 497 00:37:25,560 –> 00:37:29,520 to that question is yes. 498 00:37:29,800 –> 00:37:34,159 So ask God for total forgiveness and don’t stop there. 499 00:37:34,179 –> 00:37:37,320 Ask God for a clean heart. 500 00:37:37,320 –> 00:37:40,879 Sin not only brings guilt in the presence of God, which is why we need the shed blood 501 00:37:40,879 –> 00:37:45,919 of the Lord Jesus Christ, it also brings pollution to the heart, which is why we need the sanctifying 502 00:37:45,919 –> 00:37:48,520 work of the Holy Spirit. 503 00:37:48,520 –> 00:37:53,719 That’s why David, when he is asked for forgiveness, then goes on and he doesn’t stop there. 504 00:37:53,719 –> 00:37:59,280 He says, wash me, verse 2, from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin. 505 00:37:59,280 –> 00:38:03,659 Not just that you’ll cover it in your presence, but, more than that, this stuff has had effect 506 00:38:03,659 –> 00:38:08,280 in my life, in my mind, in my heart—how I think, how I feel. 507 00:38:08,280 –> 00:38:12,540 I want you to purge me, verse 7, with hyssop and I shall be clean. 508 00:38:12,540 –> 00:38:16,340 I want you, verse 10, to create in me a clean heart. 509 00:38:16,340 –> 00:38:19,479 You see the focus of that prayer. 510 00:38:19,479 –> 00:38:24,100 David knew that it was his heart that had led him into sin, and he doesn’t want to go 511 00:38:24,100 –> 00:38:27,060 down that same path again. 512 00:38:27,080 –> 00:38:30,340 And so, if he’s not going to go down that same path again, what’s going to make the 513 00:38:30,340 –> 00:38:31,340 difference? 514 00:38:31,340 –> 00:38:39,159 Oh, God, give me a changed heart, a heart that hates what I used to love and despises 515 00:38:39,159 –> 00:38:40,120 what I once chose. 516 00:38:40,120 –> 00:38:46,719 Third, ask God for a renewed spirit, a renewed spirit. 517 00:38:46,719 –> 00:38:49,360 It’s our last time that spiritual morning. 518 00:38:49,360 –> 00:38:54,879 If it’s spiritual morning, it is always marked by and infused with hope. 519 00:38:55,040 –> 00:39:00,159 One thing that you will notice is this, when you really get serious about mourning your 520 00:39:00,159 –> 00:39:07,179 sins, Satan will switch his tactics on you in a moment. 521 00:39:07,179 –> 00:39:11,060 Because as long as you’re not taking your sins seriously, he’s quite happy just to leave 522 00:39:11,060 –> 00:39:14,120 the dark basement with the door closed and all the junk still there. 523 00:39:14,120 –> 00:39:18,760 You’re not bothered about it, neither is he, because nothing’s changing. 524 00:39:18,760 –> 00:39:23,780 But the moment you’re going in there and the Holy Spirit is shining the light, well then 525 00:39:23,860 –> 00:39:25,620 Satan has to begin to switch tactics. 526 00:39:25,620 –> 00:39:27,399 And what will he do at that point? 527 00:39:27,399 –> 00:39:29,120 He’ll do something like this. 528 00:39:29,120 –> 00:39:32,399 He’ll say, look at all the junk. 529 00:39:32,399 –> 00:39:36,139 Boy, it’s more than you ever thought. 530 00:39:36,139 –> 00:39:37,899 And there ain’t any hope for you. 531 00:39:37,899 –> 00:39:42,300 I mean, look at the mess. 532 00:39:42,300 –> 00:39:49,040 When Satan tempts you to sin, he’s always saying, there’s no harm in it. 533 00:39:49,040 –> 00:39:57,280 And when you come to see your sin, he says, there’s no hope for you because of it. 534 00:39:57,280 –> 00:40:01,860 Remember he’s a liar both times. 535 00:40:01,860 –> 00:40:06,340 And when he says, you cannot overcome this, you cannot make progress, where are you going 536 00:40:06,340 –> 00:40:09,659 to go with this mess? 537 00:40:09,659 –> 00:40:15,260 You look to your Savior, Jesus Christ, and remember that who holds the light that has 538 00:40:15,300 –> 00:40:17,860 just shown this to you? 539 00:40:17,860 –> 00:40:20,860 The Holy Spirit of God who is that your right hand. 540 00:40:20,860 –> 00:40:27,100 And that’s why David, you see, prays about his spirit, restore to me the joy of my salvation 541 00:40:27,100 –> 00:40:30,040 and uphold me with a willing spirit. 542 00:40:30,040 –> 00:40:32,439 Don’t let me be crushed by this, oh God. 543 00:40:32,439 –> 00:40:34,780 It’s a good prayer. 544 00:40:34,780 –> 00:40:39,560 Verse 11, cast me not away from your presence, don’t take your Holy Spirit from me. 545 00:40:39,580 –> 00:40:47,239 Verse eight, let me hear joy and gladness and let the bones that you have broken rejoice. 546 00:40:47,239 –> 00:40:49,520 So ask God. 547 00:40:49,520 –> 00:40:52,600 Ask God for total forgiveness, for a clean heart. 548 00:40:52,600 –> 00:40:56,219 Watch out for the snares of Satan who just wants you to be crushed. 549 00:40:56,219 –> 00:40:58,120 No, give me a willing spirit. 550 00:40:58,120 –> 00:40:59,600 Renew my spirit. 551 00:40:59,600 –> 00:41:04,600 And then here’s the very last thing, ask God for a useful life. 552 00:41:04,620 –> 00:41:12,919 The Bible tells us that God works for good in all things for those who love him. 553 00:41:12,919 –> 00:41:18,280 Now, all things in which God works for good has to include therefore your sins and your 554 00:41:18,280 –> 00:41:20,060 failures. 555 00:41:20,060 –> 00:41:23,719 And you may just find that God’s greatest work in your life begins from the point of 556 00:41:23,719 –> 00:41:26,280 your greatest failure. 557 00:41:26,280 –> 00:41:32,040 Satan tempted you and wanted to destroy you through it, but God can use it for your everlasting 558 00:41:32,040 –> 00:41:33,040 good. 559 00:41:33,040 –> 00:41:40,239 That’s what redeeming love looks like, and it’s focused to a point at the cross. 560 00:41:40,239 –> 00:41:43,419 So don’t waste your failure. 561 00:41:43,419 –> 00:41:45,060 Don’t waste your sin. 562 00:41:45,060 –> 00:41:48,360 You say what good can come out of it? 563 00:41:48,360 –> 00:41:50,840 Verse 13, genuine testimony. 564 00:41:50,840 –> 00:41:55,540 I will teach transgressors your ways, and sinners will return to you. 565 00:41:55,540 –> 00:41:59,620 When you see the grace of God in your own life, you are going to have something to share 566 00:41:59,620 –> 00:42:02,000 with others. 567 00:42:02,000 –> 00:42:09,280 And heartfelt worship, verse 15, oh, God, open my lips, and my mouth will speak forth 568 00:42:09,280 –> 00:42:10,620 Your praise. 569 00:42:10,620 –> 00:42:18,520 The one who has been forgiven much loves much. 570 00:42:18,520 –> 00:42:26,120 Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. 571 00:42:26,120 –> 00:42:29,760 The end of our journey through the First Beatitude, we said Christians are people who know they’re 572 00:42:30,020 –> 00:42:36,100 own poverty, poor in spirit, they look to Jesus for what they do not have, and they 573 00:42:36,100 –> 00:42:39,399 know that in Him they have all that they need. 574 00:42:39,399 –> 00:42:47,159 And as we conclude our reflection on this Second Beatitude, I summarize it here, Christians 575 00:42:47,159 –> 00:42:55,320 are people who know their own sin, they look to Jesus Christ for mercy, and they find joy 576 00:42:55,320 –> 00:42:58,280 in pursuing a holy life. 577 00:42:59,120 –> 00:43:00,659 Is that you? 578 00:43:02,040 –> 00:43:04,219 Let’s pray together, shall we? 579 00:43:05,399 –> 00:43:18,919 Father in heaven, teach us, we pray, the spiritual morning in which a life is changed and joy 580 00:43:19,000 –> 00:43:31,199 is found, that we may pursue it all our days until every tear is wiped from our eyes and 581 00:43:31,199 –> 00:43:40,620 there is no more mourning because there is no more sin and you have made all things new 582 00:43:40,620 –> 00:43:45,580 through your son Jesus Christ in whose name we pray and everyone together said. 583 00:43:45,760 –> 00:43:52,239 You’ve been listening to a sermon with Pastor Collin Smith of Open the Bible. 584 00:43:52,239 –> 00:44:02,040 To contact us, call us at 1-877-OPEN-365 or visit our website openthebible.org

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Colin Smith is the Senior Pastor of The Orchard Evangelical Free Church in the northwest suburbs of Chicago. He has authored a number of books, including Heaven, How I Got Here and Heaven, So Near – So Far. Colin is the Founder and Teaching Pastor for Open the Bible. Follow him on X formerly Twitter.

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