The Heart Gone Wrong, Part 2 (A Father’s Wisdom)

Proverbs 23:26

How do we realign our hearts with God’s purpose? Discover the profound truth that the gospel encourages us to come as we are to Jesus and receive a new heart from Him.

Join us as we delve into the story of Solomon and his son Rehoboam, exploring the wisdom Solomon offered and the choices Rehoboam made. Could there be areas in our own hearts that need recalibrating? Pastor Colin guides us through recognising where our hearts might go astray and how Jesus Christ promises to set them right.

If you’ve ever felt like you didn’t have a right heart or want to understand more about transforming your heart through faith, this episode is for you.

100:00:01,000 –> 00:00:05,400The message of the gospel is not200:00:05,400 –> 00:00:09,440get your heart right so that you can come to God.300:00:09,440 –> 00:00:13,480The message of the gospel is come to God400:00:13,480 –> 00:00:20,480in order that you may get your heart right. You do not come to Jesus Christ500:00:20,480 –> 00:00:22,559because you have a right heart.600:00:22,559 –> 00:00:27,240You come to Jesus Christ because you need a right heart and you know today700:00:27,240 –> 00:00:28,639that you don’t have it.800:00:29,200 –> 00:00:31,920Welcome to Open The Bible with Pastor Colin Smith.900:00:31,920 –> 00:00:34,480I’m David Pick, glad you could join us today1000:00:34,480 –> 00:00:37,959and Colin, there may be some listening today who would say,1100:00:37,959 –> 00:00:42,560well, I know I don’t have a right heart – what would you say to them?1200:00:42,560 –> 00:00:46,240I’d say, well that’s precisely why Jesus Christ came into the world1300:00:46,240 –> 00:00:49,200and thank God that He has not said to us,1400:00:49,200 –> 00:00:52,000hey, get yourself right and then come to me,1500:00:52,000 –> 00:00:55,040He said, come to me and I will put you right.1600:00:55,040 –> 00:00:56,880I will give you a new heart.1700:00:56,880 –> 00:00:59,000That’s the promise of the gospel.1800:00:59,000 –> 00:01:02,439Well, today we’re going to look at all the ways in which the heart goes wrong.1900:01:02,439 –> 00:01:04,879How does a person veer onto the wrong track?2000:01:04,879 –> 00:01:06,320Where does it actually begin?2100:01:06,320 –> 00:01:10,120What’s at the root of actually moving away from2200:01:10,120 –> 00:01:13,120God and his purpose and His will for our lives?2300:01:13,120 –> 00:01:16,360And once we’ve discovered what makes the heart wrong,2400:01:16,360 –> 00:01:19,279the bigger thing is how Jesus Christ puts it right.2500:01:19,279 –> 00:01:23,879There’s a message of great hope today about how Jesus changes the heart.2600:01:23,879 –> 00:01:25,519Well, let’s get started with that.2700:01:25,519 –> 00:01:27,599We’re in Proverbs 23 today.2800:01:27,599 –> 00:01:30,959As we continue the message A Heart Gone Wrong.2900:01:30,959 –> 00:01:32,480Here is Pastor Colin.3000:01:32,480 –> 00:01:37,879I want to suggest to you three places where the heart most often goes wrong.3100:01:37,879 –> 00:01:42,000I suspect these were the things, because Solomon says them here,3200:01:42,000 –> 00:01:46,879that he was seeing emerging in the heart of his own son.3300:01:46,879 –> 00:01:52,839The first is that the heart goes wrong with regards to who you admire.3400:01:52,879 –> 00:01:54,400Verse 17.3500:02:07,720 –> 00:02:11,759Now we have every reason to believe that Rehoboam in his early years3600:02:11,759 –> 00:02:16,360conformed to the faith of his grandfather, David,3700:02:16,360 –> 00:02:18,279and of his father Solomon,3800:02:18,279 –> 00:02:20,199the faith that had been passed on,3900:02:20,240 –> 00:02:22,039the faith with which he was raised.4000:02:23,479 –> 00:02:26,520But it seems from this that when Rehoboam looked at4100:02:26,520 –> 00:02:30,600Godless people, people who live without God in their lives,4200:02:32,000 –> 00:02:35,320it seems he found their life, their model, their example4300:02:35,320 –> 00:02:36,279to be attractive.4400:02:36,279 –> 00:02:37,839That’s the significance, surely, of4500:02:41,979 –> 00:02:43,759And so, here’s Solomon’s fear.4600:02:44,960 –> 00:02:48,440He has a son who professes faith.4700:02:48,479 –> 00:02:52,559He professes to believe the faith that was handed4800:02:52,559 –> 00:02:54,240down from his grandfather, David,4900:02:54,240 –> 00:02:56,279and now his father, Solomon.5000:02:58,080 –> 00:03:03,080But there seems to be in this son a secret longing.5100:03:04,300 –> 00:03:07,979An attraction of his heart, a drawing of his heart5200:03:07,979 –> 00:03:10,820to move in a different direction.5300:03:12,720 –> 00:03:14,639Solomon says, verse 24,5400:03:14,639 –> 00:03:19,639he who fathers a wise son will be glad in him.5500:03:20,940 –> 00:03:23,160But at this point, you see, Solomon’s not sure5600:03:23,160 –> 00:03:24,839if he’s got a wise son or not.5700:03:26,020 –> 00:03:30,880He fears that his son’s heart may be somewhere else.5800:03:30,880 –> 00:03:33,039He admires the wrong people.5900:03:34,399 –> 00:03:37,520He envies sinners.6000:03:37,520 –> 00:03:40,880He looks up to the example of people6100:03:40,880 –> 00:03:42,119who live without God.6200:03:42,119 –> 00:03:44,020They’re the role models for him6300:03:45,520 –> 00:03:47,559and they’re the ones he wants to be like.6400:03:51,320 –> 00:03:52,880Now I want to speak from the heart6500:03:52,880 –> 00:03:55,800to every son and daughter of whatever age6600:03:56,720 –> 00:03:58,559who’s been raised in a Christian home.6700:03:58,559 –> 00:04:01,199You have Christian parents or Christian grandparents.6800:04:02,600 –> 00:04:04,600And here’s the burden of my heart today.6900:04:06,860 –> 00:04:11,000I can think of no greater tragedy7000:04:11,960 –> 00:04:15,000than that while people who had7100:04:15,000 –> 00:04:17,279no knowledge of the truth in their early years7200:04:17,279 –> 00:04:21,040and were exposed to all kinds of evils,7300:04:22,679 –> 00:04:26,519while so many of them are pressing their way7400:04:26,519 –> 00:04:29,739into finding peace and joy in Jesus Christ,7500:04:29,739 –> 00:04:34,739you who have had more blessings than you may ever realize,7600:04:37,019 –> 00:04:40,019some of you seem ready to throw it all up.7700:04:41,700 –> 00:04:43,260That’s a tragedy.7800:04:44,940 –> 00:04:47,899That others who had none of the blessings you have enjoyed7900:04:47,899 –> 00:04:50,700should end up pressing into the knowledge of Christ8000:04:50,700 –> 00:04:53,779and all the good that comes from that forever and forever,8100:04:53,779 –> 00:04:56,200and that you, who had all the opportunity,8200:04:56,200 –> 00:05:00,299should sit with your heart envying the wicked8300:05:00,299 –> 00:05:04,220and end up throwing it all away.8400:05:06,540 –> 00:05:07,820And do you know what the first sign8500:05:07,820 –> 00:05:09,820of being ready to throw it all away is?8600:05:11,480 –> 00:05:13,500You start envying sinners.8700:05:15,100 –> 00:05:18,279You start looking at people who live without God8800:05:18,279 –> 00:05:19,959and you say, that’s what I want to be like.8900:05:19,959 –> 00:05:21,299I want to be like Her.9000:05:22,660 –> 00:05:23,899I want to be like Him.9100:05:25,320 –> 00:05:27,619I see how they live and that’s how I want to live9200:05:29,279 –> 00:05:31,760and when I get the chance, that’s what I’m gonna do.9300:05:32,899 –> 00:05:33,980And here you are in church9400:05:33,980 –> 00:05:36,119and that’s where some of you are right now.9500:05:37,820 –> 00:05:39,480Second place the heart goes wrong9600:05:39,519 –> 00:05:41,980and it’s not simply in who you admire9700:05:41,980 –> 00:05:44,299but it’s in how you decide.9800:05:45,720 –> 00:05:48,040Look at verse 18, here’s something else9900:05:48,040 –> 00:05:50,480that surely Solomon discerned in his son.10000:05:50,480 –> 00:05:54,160He says to him, surely there is a future10100:05:56,059 –> 00:05:59,200and your hope will not be cut off.10200:06:00,739 –> 00:06:04,359Now, I think that this shows to us10300:06:04,359 –> 00:06:08,079that Solomon saw in his son a growing tendency10400:06:08,079 –> 00:06:10,040to live only in the present10500:06:10,040 –> 00:06:12,559and to lose sight of the future.10600:06:13,880 –> 00:06:16,579In other words, Solomon is seeing that his son10700:06:16,579 –> 00:06:19,079is going more and more with what he thinks10800:06:19,079 –> 00:06:21,760and feels at any given point in time10900:06:22,799 –> 00:06:25,359and so what Solomon says to him in this verse is,11000:06:25,359 –> 00:06:28,779look, son, surely there is a future.11100:06:30,119 –> 00:06:34,660In other words, don’t make your decisions in life11200:06:34,660 –> 00:06:37,540on the basis of short-term comfort.11300:06:37,540 –> 00:06:39,320Son, there’s a future.11400:06:39,320 –> 00:06:41,200You make your decisions in life11500:06:41,200 –> 00:06:45,040on the basis of long-term outcomes.11600:06:46,440 –> 00:06:48,040Surely there is a future.11700:06:49,720 –> 00:06:51,980Now friends, this is obviously a huge importance11800:06:51,980 –> 00:06:55,839for us today because our culture is bombarding us11900:06:55,839 –> 00:07:00,160with a philosophy that says live in the moment.12000:07:01,600 –> 00:07:05,459It seems to be a new phrase but it’s around us everywhere.12100:07:06,399 –> 00:07:09,619If it means that we are to be fully present12200:07:09,619 –> 00:07:12,420and fully engaged in whatever we are doing12300:07:12,420 –> 00:07:14,760at any given time rather than have our mind12400:07:14,760 –> 00:07:16,899distracted off at a dozen other places12500:07:16,899 –> 00:07:18,959trying to do multiple things at the same time,12600:07:18,959 –> 00:07:22,480then that would be a very good thing, live in the moment.12700:07:22,480 –> 00:07:26,320But, I have noticed often enough12800:07:26,320 –> 00:07:28,760to want to comment on this today,12900:07:28,760 –> 00:07:33,260I have noticed the phrase live in the moment13000:07:33,260 –> 00:07:35,220being used too often.13100:07:36,299 –> 00:07:39,100By people who are very clearly moving away13200:07:39,100 –> 00:07:40,420from Christian faith.13300:07:41,920 –> 00:07:45,720I’m trying to live in the moment pastor.13400:07:47,140 –> 00:07:49,239And if I understand that correctly,13500:07:49,239 –> 00:07:51,660I think what is being said here is this.13600:07:52,779 –> 00:07:55,660I’m going with what I feel13700:07:56,859 –> 00:08:00,399and sometimes I feel I want to know God13800:08:00,399 –> 00:08:02,619and sometimes I don’t.13900:08:03,540 –> 00:08:05,299And I live in the moment.14000:08:07,179 –> 00:08:10,399Now in a world that it’s constantly saying to you,14100:08:10,399 –> 00:08:11,540live in the moment.14200:08:12,500 –> 00:08:15,940I want you to hear the word of our Father in heaven14300:08:15,940 –> 00:08:18,619who says to you surely there is a future.14400:08:19,779 –> 00:08:20,980I want you to hear that.14500:08:22,779 –> 00:08:24,779Always remember this friend.14600:08:26,100 –> 00:08:28,980Your life, the life that God gives to you14700:08:28,980 –> 00:08:32,200comes in two very unequal parts.14800:08:33,580 –> 00:08:37,799You have a very very short life in time14900:08:37,799 –> 00:08:41,859and you have a very very long life in eternity.15000:08:41,859 –> 00:08:44,479That’s the life that God has given to you.15100:08:45,619 –> 00:08:49,159How short is your life in this world?15200:08:50,179 –> 00:08:51,840Listen to how God describes it.15300:08:51,840 –> 00:08:54,239He uses pictures so that we’ll get it.15400:08:55,580 –> 00:08:58,979All flesh is grass.15500:08:59,979 –> 00:09:03,539The grass withers when15600:09:03,539 –> 00:09:08,140the breath of the Lord blows on it.15700:09:08,140 –> 00:09:12,159How long does grass live?15800:09:13,520 –> 00:09:14,919About a week.15900:09:16,940 –> 00:09:21,679Then you cut it and it’s blown and it is gone.16000:09:22,919 –> 00:09:24,520If you don’t cut your grass for three weeks,16100:09:24,520 –> 00:09:26,799hey there you are, time to do it, right?16200:09:27,739 –> 00:09:28,780About a week.16300:09:30,500 –> 00:09:35,500That’s the image that God, our Father, gives to us.16400:09:35,960 –> 00:09:39,719If you want to think rightly about your life,16500:09:39,719 –> 00:09:42,280you have to think of the proportion of what you have16600:09:42,280 –> 00:09:45,080in this world in relation to what you have in eternity.16700:09:45,080 –> 00:09:48,320Let me put it in a picture for you, it’s like grass.16800:09:49,700 –> 00:09:50,640That’s your whole life.16900:09:50,640 –> 00:09:52,659If you lived about 100 years and more,17000:09:52,659 –> 00:09:54,159that’s what your life in this world17100:09:54,159 –> 00:09:55,900is like in relation to eternity.17200:09:57,739 –> 00:09:59,080You haven’t got much time.17300:10:00,039 –> 00:10:01,239See, here’s one of the pressures,17400:10:01,239 –> 00:10:02,940especially on younger people, today.17500:10:02,940 –> 00:10:04,960We hear all the time this phrase, don’t we?17600:10:04,960 –> 00:10:08,679We want to be on the right side of history.17700:10:08,679 –> 00:10:10,640Here’s our answer to that friends.17800:10:10,640 –> 00:10:14,960We need to be on the right side of eternity.17900:10:15,840 –> 00:10:17,140You’re listening to Open the Bible18000:10:17,140 –> 00:10:19,820with Pastor Colin Smith and a message called18100:10:19,820 –> 00:10:20,739The Heart Gone Wrong18200:10:20,739 –> 00:10:21,880and I hope you’ll stay with us18300:10:21,880 –> 00:10:25,919because, in a moment, we’ll hear how the heart gets right.18400:10:25,919 –> 00:10:28,080A message was originally part of a series18500:10:28,080 –> 00:10:29,799called A Father’s Wisdom18600:10:29,799 –> 00:10:31,659and it was one of the most requested18700:10:31,659 –> 00:10:34,840and downloaded programs of the past 12 months.18800:10:34,840 –> 00:10:37,679So we’ve bundled it up with all the other best 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invest.20400:11:19,080 –> 00:11:20,020Look at verse 23,20500:11:21,979 –> 00:11:23,859where Solomon says to his son this,20600:11:23,859 –> 00:11:28,859”Buy truth and do not sell it20700:11:31,099 –> 00:11:35,619”by wisdom, instruction and understanding.’20800:11:35,619 –> 00:11:38,460Buy truth, invest20900:11:39,500 –> 00:11:40,340truth.21000:11:42,500 –> 00:11:45,219I wonder since Solomon says that21100:11:45,219 –> 00:11:48,039as he speaks with his candor to his son.21200:11:48,039 –> 00:11:51,340I wonder if that indicates that Solomon’s son21300:11:51,340 –> 00:11:53,380was losing interest in the truth.21400:11:54,840 –> 00:11:58,299They would have had the five books of Moses,21500:11:58,299 –> 00:11:59,140the Pentateuch.21600:12:00,739 –> 00:12:02,640And they would have read21700:12:02,640 –> 00:12:05,059from that part of the scripture that they had21800:12:05,059 –> 00:12:09,659I wonder if one of the Old Testament books of Moses21900:12:09,659 –> 00:12:11,239were brought out when they were read22000:12:11,239 –> 00:12:14,020I wonder if Solomon saw his son’s eyes22100:12:14,020 –> 00:12:16,299rolling in the corner of the room.22200:12:17,919 –> 00:12:20,500I wonder if when they went to worship22300:12:20,500 –> 00:12:23,780in Solomon’s great temple22400:12:24,059 –> 00:12:26,320whether Solomon noticed that his son22500:12:26,320 –> 00:12:28,299looked as if he had absolutely22600:12:28,299 –> 00:12:30,320not the faintest bit of interest22700:12:30,320 –> 00:12:32,679in what was going on in all of the world.22800:12:34,020 –> 00:12:35,840And he thinks to himself22900:12:35,840 –> 00:12:38,159my son’s heart’s in another place23000:12:40,059 –> 00:12:41,479and he’s anxious.23100:12:42,780 –> 00:12:45,119The son once was learning the truth23200:12:45,119 –> 00:12:46,619and showed some interest in truth23300:12:46,619 –> 00:12:48,580but now there seems to be no interest23400:12:48,580 –> 00:12:50,979in it at all and he says this23500:12:50,979 –> 00:12:52,659by the truth23600:12:54,099 –> 00:12:57,219notice that there is such a thing as the truth23700:12:57,219 –> 00:13:01,179and that it is worth23800:13:01,179 –> 00:13:04,739whatever it costs you to get it.23900:13:06,539 –> 00:13:08,500Solomon doesn’t tell his son24000:13:08,500 –> 00:13:11,659what it will cost him to stand for the truth24100:13:11,659 –> 00:13:14,080he doesn’t know, there isn’t one of us here24200:13:14,080 –> 00:13:15,859who knows what it will cost our children24300:13:15,859 –> 00:13:16,960to stand for the truth24400:13:16,960 –> 00:13:19,780or our grandchildren to stand for the truth.24500:13:19,780 –> 00:13:22,460Not a single one of us,24600:13:22,460 –> 00:13:23,380none of us knows.24700:13:23,380 –> 00:13:24,960It might cost friends24800:13:25,919 –> 00:13:29,179for you to embrace by the truth,24900:13:29,179 –> 00:13:31,859it might cost opportunities in your life,25000:13:31,859 –> 00:13:33,659it might cost your life,25100:13:35,780 –> 00:13:38,059But you see what Solomon is saying to his son here,25200:13:38,059 –> 00:13:42,119he’s saying, buy the truth at any price.25300:13:43,859 –> 00:13:45,500Now those of you who are investors25400:13:45,500 –> 00:13:47,739know you wouldn’t do that with anything else.25500:13:48,859 –> 00:13:50,380With any other investment25600:13:50,380 –> 00:13:51,539that you’d look at the price25700:13:51,539 –> 00:13:53,460and then you’d look at the options.25800:13:54,960 –> 00:13:56,820But what Solomon says to his son is,25900:13:56,820 –> 00:13:59,400look, son, when it comes to the truth,26000:13:59,400 –> 00:14:02,619it’s in a whole different category26100:14:02,619 –> 00:14:06,400because the price is never too high for the truth26200:14:06,400 –> 00:14:10,859because the truth has a value that is supreme26300:14:10,859 –> 00:14:14,179because it has a value that is eternal.26400:14:15,260 –> 00:14:17,640And your life in this world is very short,26500:14:18,500 –> 00:14:22,719but your life in eternity is very, very long indeed.26600:14:22,719 –> 00:14:25,359So buy the truth, whatever it costs you.26700:14:26,419 –> 00:14:31,020You bind the truth like a belt around your waist26800:14:31,020 –> 00:14:33,400and do not sell it.26900:14:34,419 –> 00:14:39,419Judas sold the truth, but he’s not an example for you.27000:14:42,179 –> 00:14:43,539No, says this wise father,27100:14:43,539 –> 00:14:45,460the truth is worth more than anything27200:14:45,479 –> 00:14:48,820that you could ever, ever gain by giving it up.27300:14:48,820 –> 00:14:50,940Whatever you think you will gain in life27400:14:50,940 –> 00:14:54,500by giving up the truth, the truth is worth more27500:14:55,419 –> 00:15:00,419than anything you will ever gain by giving up the truth.27600:15:01,099 –> 00:15:04,440So buy the truth and do not sell it.27700:15:06,460 –> 00:15:09,760But very obviously, this raises the question for all of us,27800:15:09,760 –> 00:15:12,840men, women, fathers, sons, mothers, daughters,27900:15:13,700 –> 00:15:16,119where is your heart today?28000:15:18,000 –> 00:15:20,900When Jesus was asked what is the very first commandment,28100:15:20,900 –> 00:15:22,039what is the very first thing28200:15:22,039 –> 00:15:24,580that God requires of every one of us?28300:15:26,000 –> 00:15:29,239He said, love the Lord your God with all your heart.28400:15:29,239 –> 00:15:32,419Where do you stand in relation to that first calling28500:15:32,419 –> 00:15:34,239of God upon your life today,28600:15:34,239 –> 00:15:39,239to love the Lord with all your heart.28700:15:40,200 –> 00:15:41,659And you had better guard your heart28800:15:41,659 –> 00:15:45,840because from it flow the springs of your life.28900:15:48,780 –> 00:15:53,780I pondered, do we go to the outcome of this story today29000:15:53,780 –> 00:15:55,739or do we hold it for next week?29100:15:55,739 –> 00:15:57,760Big, big preachers decision.29200:15:58,799 –> 00:16:00,940So I did the only wise thing to do.29300:16:02,280 –> 00:16:04,119I asked my wife.29400:16:04,119 –> 00:16:07,760And she said,29500:16:07,760 –> 00:16:10,219You better tell them the end of the story today.29600:16:11,719 –> 00:16:13,780And here’s why I hesitated29700:16:13,780 –> 00:16:18,520because the outcome of the story isn’t good.29800:16:20,659 –> 00:16:21,979But I’ve taken her advice29900:16:21,979 –> 00:16:26,140and I think it’s right to follow the story30000:16:26,140 –> 00:16:27,059to its conclusion30100:16:27,059 –> 00:16:29,099because today we’re looking at the heart gone wrong.30200:16:29,099 –> 00:16:31,880Next week, we’re going to look at the heart getting right.30300:16:32,979 –> 00:16:34,659If you want the conclusion of the story,30400:16:34,659 –> 00:16:37,739you’ll find it in Second Chronicles chapter 1230500:16:37,739 –> 00:16:39,299in verses 13 and 14.30600:16:39,919 –> 00:16:41,159And the words that are used there30700:16:41,159 –> 00:16:43,880are very, very striking, indeed.30800:16:43,880 –> 00:16:47,440So, King Rehoboam grew strong in Jerusalem30900:16:47,440 –> 00:16:48,599and he reigned.31000:16:48,599 –> 00:16:50,479So, this is the son.31100:16:50,479 –> 00:16:52,239Solomon has now died.31200:16:52,239 –> 00:16:56,159Rehoboam is 41 years old when he began to reign31300:16:56,159 –> 00:17:01,159and he reigned for 17 years in Jerusalem.31400:17:01,760 –> 00:17:03,419And then notice what the scripture says.31500:17:03,419 –> 00:17:06,459And he did evil.31600:17:07,160 –> 00:17:09,520Why did he do evil?31700:17:09,520 –> 00:17:10,599Notice what it says.31800:17:10,599 –> 00:17:15,599For he did not set his heart to seek the Lord.31900:17:20,599 –> 00:17:25,040He did not listen to his father’s wisdom.32000:17:27,660 –> 00:17:28,859You know, think about this.32100:17:28,859 –> 00:17:30,739And I see this for the father32200:17:30,739 –> 00:17:34,979and for the mother who wrestles with a rebel son32300:17:35,119 –> 00:17:37,640or a daughter and so often you go over and over32400:17:37,640 –> 00:17:40,140what might we have done different and all of that.32500:17:42,420 –> 00:17:45,699The wisest father who ever lived had a rebel son.32600:17:47,979 –> 00:17:50,959In fact, if you have a rebel son or a rebel daughter32700:17:50,959 –> 00:17:53,380or if you are anxious about a grandchild,32800:17:54,859 –> 00:17:57,239you will want to have made a very clear note32900:17:57,239 –> 00:17:59,540of Isaiah chapter one and verse two,33000:17:59,540 –> 00:18:01,719where God says this,33100:18:01,780 –> 00:18:06,780I raised children and they rebelled against me.33200:18:06,880 –> 00:18:08,500Can you take that in?33300:18:08,500 –> 00:18:11,680God says, I raised children.33400:18:11,680 –> 00:18:13,420He’s referring to Israel of course.33500:18:14,979 –> 00:18:16,380And they rebelled against me.33600:18:19,060 –> 00:18:20,219Well, you cannot have a better33700:18:20,219 –> 00:18:22,180or a wiser father than God.33800:18:24,060 –> 00:18:27,020Rehoboam, I think, is one of the saddest characters33900:18:27,020 –> 00:18:30,300in all of the Bible because he was so privileged34000:18:30,920 –> 00:18:32,099and gave it all away.34100:18:34,119 –> 00:18:37,219Think of this, the Scripture is very precise34200:18:37,219 –> 00:18:41,199in its language and it tells us about David34300:18:41,199 –> 00:18:46,060who was Rehoboam’s grandfather,34400:18:46,060 –> 00:18:50,859that his heart was wholly true to the Lord.34500:18:52,180 –> 00:18:54,000We then read, later in the story,34600:18:54,000 –> 00:18:56,900that Rehoboam had a grandson,34700:18:56,900 –> 00:19:01,380and the same words, precisely the same words34800:19:01,380 –> 00:19:03,660are used of him, his name was Esau34900:19:03,660 –> 00:19:06,780and it is said of Esau that his heart35000:19:06,780 –> 00:19:09,260was wholly true to the Lord.35100:19:09,260 –> 00:19:11,359So, here’s Rehoboam standing in the middle,35200:19:11,359 –> 00:19:14,339he’s got a grandfather wholly true to the Lord,35300:19:14,339 –> 00:19:17,339he’s got a grandson wholly true to the Lord35400:19:17,339 –> 00:19:20,839and he’s in the middle and he’s given it all away35500:19:22,579 –> 00:19:25,180because he did not set his heart35600:19:25,859 –> 00:19:29,060to seek the Lord.35700:19:30,680 –> 00:19:34,939We’re gonna look throughout the message next week35800:19:34,939 –> 00:19:39,180at what it means to get the heart right35900:19:39,180 –> 00:19:41,939but let me just leave you with this in just two minutes,36000:19:43,739 –> 00:19:47,260I think there are two prayers that Rehoboam’s granddad36100:19:48,939 –> 00:19:51,619prayed that would’ve greatly helped him36200:19:51,619 –> 00:19:54,040and would be of great help to any36300:19:54,180 –> 00:19:57,140who find ourselves with a heart that is astray today.36400:19:59,739 –> 00:20:01,800One of the reasons that David had a heart36500:20:01,800 –> 00:20:03,199that was wholly true to the Lord36600:20:03,199 –> 00:20:04,979was that he learned to pray like this.36700:20:04,979 –> 00:20:06,719He asked God to search his heart.36800:20:06,719 –> 00:20:09,260Search me, oh God, and know my heart.36900:20:09,260 –> 00:20:11,040Try me and know my thoughts37000:20:11,040 –> 00:20:13,920and see if there is any grievous way in me37100:20:13,920 –> 00:20:16,140and lead me in the way everlasting.37200:20:16,140 –> 00:20:18,479Oh, make that your prayer today.37300:20:20,359 –> 00:20:21,180It’s a great prayer.37400:20:21,180 –> 00:20:22,979Lord, show me where my heart is.37500:20:23,079 –> 00:20:25,300I don’t even understand my own heart,37600:20:25,300 –> 00:20:27,359but you do, you’re able to look into it37700:20:27,359 –> 00:20:30,140as no one else ever can and no one else ever will.37800:20:30,140 –> 00:20:33,479Now, will you reveal to me what you see in my heart today?37900:20:33,479 –> 00:20:35,959Show me when I’m grieving you right now.38000:20:37,880 –> 00:20:39,959Show me where I’m admiring the wrong people.38100:20:39,959 –> 00:20:42,439Show me what I’m making the wrong decisions38200:20:42,439 –> 00:20:46,400and show me when I’m investing myself in the wrong ways.38300:20:48,280 –> 00:20:50,239And then as you ask God to search your heart,38400:20:50,239 –> 00:20:52,760ask God to change your heart.38500:20:53,099 –> 00:20:55,680Oh, Rehoboam’s grandfather knew what it was38600:20:55,680 –> 00:20:56,660to pray like this,38700:20:56,660 –> 00:21:01,239create in me a clean heart, Oh God,38800:21:01,239 –> 00:21:04,900and renew a right spirit within me.38900:21:06,199 –> 00:21:07,540Friends, the message today,39000:21:07,540 –> 00:21:09,819the message of the gospel is not39100:21:09,819 –> 00:21:14,160get your heart right so that you can come to God.39200:21:14,160 –> 00:21:16,500The message of the gospel is39300:21:16,500 –> 00:21:20,979come to God in order that you may get your heart right.39400:21:21,859 –> 00:21:24,819You do not come to Jesus Christ39500:21:24,819 –> 00:21:26,599because you have a right heart.39600:21:26,599 –> 00:21:30,500You come to Jesus Christ because you need a right heart39700:21:30,500 –> 00:21:33,020and you know today that you don’t have it.39800:21:34,079 –> 00:21:36,219So you’ve come to the Lord Jesus Christ39900:21:36,219 –> 00:21:37,939in whom this great promise is ours.40000:21:37,939 –> 00:21:39,599I will give you a new heart40100:21:39,599 –> 00:21:42,180and I will put a new spirit within you.40200:21:42,180 –> 00:21:43,260And you say, Oh God,40300:21:43,260 –> 00:21:48,160give me a clean heart through Jesus Christ.40400:21:48,160 –> 00:21:49,079Change me.40500:21:49,920 –> 00:21:52,420And then God will indeed do that.40600:21:52,420 –> 00:21:56,680And he will say, son, daughter, give me your heart.40700:21:58,660 –> 00:22:00,900You’ve been listening to open the Bible40800:22:00,900 –> 00:22:02,219with Pastor Colin Smith40900:22:02,219 –> 00:22:04,540and a message called the Heart gone wrong.41000:22:04,540 –> 00:22:06,459We’ve been hearing about King Solomon41100:22:06,459 –> 00:22:08,699and his son, Rehoboam.41200:22:08,699 –> 00:22:12,520If you’ve missed any of the messages in our present series,41300:22:12,520 –> 00:22:15,680then it’s easy to catch up or go back and listen again.41400:22:15,680 –> 00:22:17,180When you come to our website,41500:22:17,180 –> 00:22:20,020that’s at openthebible.org.uk.41600:22:20,020 –> 00:22:22,540And you can also find them on all the main podcast sites41700:22:22,540 –> 00:22:25,540by searching for open the Bible UK.41800:22:26,719 –> 00:22:28,380What if you could go on a hike41900:22:28,380 –> 00:22:31,300with Pastor Colin through the Bible story?42000:22:31,300 –> 00:22:33,099See how it all fits together42100:22:33,099 –> 00:22:35,739and how it all points to Jesus.42200:22:35,739 –> 00:22:37,180Well, now you can42300:22:37,180 –> 00:22:40,300with the new podcast, Hike through the Bible.42400:22:40,300 –> 00:22:42,239Yeah. And this is for everyone42500:22:42,239 –> 00:22:44,520who wants to understand the Bible better42600:22:44,560 –> 00:22:47,800and for everyone who wants to love Jesus more.42700:22:47,800 –> 00:22:49,119In each episode42800:22:49,119 –> 00:22:52,040I’ll read a chapter from my book, Hike Through the Bible42900:22:52,040 –> 00:22:54,520and then I’ll discuss it with some friends.43000:22:54,520 –> 00:22:56,880A new episode releases every week.43100:22:56,880 –> 00:23:00,280And so you can take this hike at a gentle pace.43200:23:00,280 –> 00:23:04,040In a year, you’ll have covered the entire Bible story.43300:23:04,040 –> 00:23:06,400I really hope that you’ll join me43400:23:06,400 –> 00:23:07,219on this journey43500:23:07,219 –> 00:23:09,680and it’s not too late to get started now.43600:23:09,680 –> 00:23:13,060Well, you can subscribe to Hike Through the Bible podcast43700:23:13,060 –> 00:23:15,000wherever you get your podcasts43800:23:15,000 –> 00:23:17,280and you can find out more information43900:23:17,280 –> 00:23:22,060on our website, open thebible.org.uk.44000:23:22,060 –> 00:23:24,459Open the Bible is able to be on this station44100:23:24,459 –> 00:23:27,219as well as our website and the podcasts44200:23:27,219 –> 00:23:29,900because listeners like you give generously44300:23:29,900 –> 00:23:31,459to support our work.44400:23:31,459 –> 00:23:32,819So if you’re already support44500:23:32,819 –> 00:23:35,939Open the Bible in this way, thank you so much.44600:23:35,939 –> 00:23:37,520If supporting Open the Bible44700:23:37,520 –> 00:23:40,099is something you want to start doing this month,44800:23:40,099 –> 00:23:41,420we’d love to say thank you44900:23:41,420 –> 00:23:44,140by sending you Pastor Colin’s brand new book,45000:23:44,140 –> 00:23:45,540Grow in Hope.45100:23:45,540 –> 00:23:48,160It’s a 30-day devotional study45200:23:48,160 –> 00:23:52,420drawing on scripture and years of Pastoral experience.45300:23:52,420 –> 00:23:54,939Colin, who is this book for?45400:23:54,939 –> 00:23:58,219Well this is for everybody who wants to have hope45500:23:58,219 –> 00:24:00,719and I think that’s absolutely every person,45600:24:00,719 –> 00:24:02,140we all need hope45700:24:02,140 –> 00:24:05,619and if you would like to have hope drip fed45800:24:05,619 –> 00:24:08,020into your life for 30 days45900:24:08,020 –> 00:24:10,900then Grow in Hope is a devotional46000:24:10,939 –> 00:24:11,979that will do just that.46100:24:11,979 –> 00:24:15,020It’s full of the promises of God.46200:24:15,020 –> 00:24:18,060It shows that hope comes from God,46300:24:18,060 –> 00:24:20,859it comes to us through the Lord Jesus Christ46400:24:20,859 –> 00:24:24,280and it comes to us by His marvelous grace.46500:24:24,280 –> 00:24:25,619So 30 days of hope,46600:24:25,619 –> 00:24:27,619I think that’s something that everyone can use46700:24:27,619 –> 00:24:28,979and I hope it’s going to be a blessing46800:24:28,979 –> 00:24:30,099to everyone who reads it.46900:24:30,099 –> 00:24:32,540So Pastor Colin’s book Grow in Hope47000:24:32,540 –> 00:24:33,640is our gift to you47100:24:33,640 –> 00:24:35,660when you set up a new direct debit47200:24:35,660 –> 00:24:38,219of five pounds per month or more47300:24:39,020 –> 00:24:40,420or a one-off gift of 60 pounds or more47400:24:40,420 –> 00:24:43,939to support the work of Open the Bible this month.47500:24:43,939 –> 00:24:46,280Full terms and conditions are on our website47600:24:46,280 –> 00:24:48,920at openthebible.org.uk47700:24:48,920 –> 00:24:50,920and you can give online.47800:24:50,920 –> 00:24:53,680Don’t forget though to leave your full name and address47900:24:53,680 –> 00:24:54,579when you donate,48000:24:54,579 –> 00:24:57,880so we’ll be able to send you your gift.48100:24:57,880 –> 00:25:00,020For Open the Bible and Pastor Colin Smith48200:25:00,020 –> 00:25:01,339I am David Pick.48300:25:01,339 –> 00:25:02,780Thanks for being with us today48400:25:02,780 –> 00:25:04,199and we look forward to having you48500:25:04,199 –> 00:25:06,160join us again next time.48600:25:06,800 –> 00:25:07,920Welcome!48700:25:14,160 –> 00:25:15,500The mission of Open the Bible48800:25:15,500 –> 00:25:17,640is to create a movement of people48900:25:17,640 –> 00:25:19,959who love to open the Bible themselves49000:25:19,959 –> 00:25:23,280and are equipped to open the Bible with others.49100:25:23,280 –> 00:25:24,959Join us for a special interview49200:25:24,959 –> 00:25:26,719with Pastor Colin Smith.49300:25:26,719 –> 00:25:29,020That’s next time on Open the Bible.

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