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Forgiveness

We exercise faith by believing God in what He has revealed, and by trusting Him in what He has kept secret. Faith unites us to Jesus Christ, so that we become His, and His life flows in us.

Jesus told a story about a son who left home, wasted his father’s money and, in the end, became so desperate that he decided to return to his father. He expected a rather cold reception, but when he was still a long way off, his father saw him, came running to greet him, and welcomed him home with joy. This is a picture of how God receives us. When we come to Him in repentance and faith, He embraces us with the wonderful gift of forgiveness.

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Jesus teaches us that we should ask God to forgive our sins, which He describes as debts: “Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors” (Matthew 6:12; see also Luke 11:4).

Each of us has an obligation to God and to others that can be summed up in a single word: love. We can see this in Luke 10:27

“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbour as yourself.” 

When we think of our sins, we usually think first of wrong things we have done. But the starting point here is what we have failed to do. We owe God a life of devoted love every day, and what we owe, we have not paid.

We owe it to our neighbours to always seek their best interest. We owe a debt of love to our husbands, wives, parents, children, friends, coworkers, and even our enemies. And, however much we love, that debt is never fully paid.

Jesus fulfilled all that God requires of us, and then laid down His perfect life on our behalf. Jesus paid the debt we owe.

Forgiveness is God dropping all charges against you and wiping your record clean forever, Psalm 103 and Romans 8 both describe this wonderful gift.

We also all have debtors (Matthew 6:12; see also Luke 11:4). Debtors means that there will be people in your life who will not give you what they owe.

In Ephesians 4:32, God calls us to forgive those who have wronged us, failed us, and disappointed us, as He has forgiven us.

Forgiveness is never easy. The starting point for our forgiving others is the forgiveness we can receive in Christ. God forgives sinners as we look to His Son, Jesus, in faith and repentance (Luke 24:46–47). 

Jesus taught us to pray, “Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors” (Matthew 6:12). There is a close connection between us receiving forgiveness from God and us releasing forgiveness to others. The connection lies in the words us and our. The prayer is not “Forgive me my debts.” It is “Forgive us our debts.”

In praying this prayer, you are asking God to forgive not only the debts you owe, but also the debts that others owe to you.

Luke 15

1 Now the tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to hear him. And the Pharisees and the scribes grumbled, saying, “This man receives sinners and eats with them.”

So he told them this parable: “What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the open country, and go after the one that is lost, until he finds it? And when he has found it, he lays it on his shoulders, rejoicing. And when he comes home, he calls together his friends and his neighbours, saying to them, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found my sheep that was lost.’ Just so, I tell you, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no repentance.

The Parable of the Lost Coin

“Or what woman, having ten silver coins, if she loses one coin, does not light a lamp and sweep the house and seek diligently until she finds it? And when she has found it, she calls together her friends and neighbours, saying, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found the coin that I had lost.’ 10 Just so, I tell you, there is joy before the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”

The Parable of the Prodigal Son

11 And he said, “There was a man who had two sons. 12 And the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of property that is coming to me.’ And he divided his property between them. 13 Not many days later, the younger son gathered all he had and took a journey into a far country, and there he squandered his property in reckless living. 14 And when he had spent everything, a severe famine arose in that country, and he began to be in need. 15 So he went and hired himself out to one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs. 16 And he was longing to be fed with the pods that the pigs ate, and no one gave him anything.

17 “But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have more than enough bread, but I perish here with hunger! 18 I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.”’ 20 And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. 21 And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’22 But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. 23 And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. 24 For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.’ And they began to celebrate.

25 “Now his older son was in the field, and as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 And he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant. 27 And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf, because he has received him back safe and sound.’ 28 But he was angry and refused to go in. His father came out and entreated him, 29 but he answered his father, ‘Look, these many years I have served you, and I never disobeyed your command, yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might celebrate with my friends. 30 But when this son of yours came, who has devoured your property with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him!’ 31 And he said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. 32 It was fitting to celebrate and be glad, for this your brother was dead, and is alive; he was lost, and is found.’”

  • Would you agree that you owe a debt to God and need His forgiveness? Why or why not?
  • Is there someone in your life you are struggling to forgive? How does this help you in this?
  • How do you think God would respond if you came to Him in faith?

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