Pledge Love

2 Samuel 1
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Pastor Colin Smith of Open The Bible shares insights from the story of Saul and David, focusing on the theme of covenant loyalty. He recounts how Saul, the first king over God’s people, failed and had the kingdom taken away from him, with David anointed as the future king. Despite initial secrecy, David’s anointment was an important part of God’s plan. Colin also discusses the deep friendship between David and Jonathan, Saul’s son, highlighting their conversations and the loyalty they pledged to each other.

Jonathan’s faith in God’s word led him to support David, even though it meant renouncing his own claim to the throne. They made a covenant of loyalty, a concept known as “hesed” in Hebrew, which signifies steadfast love and faithfulness. Pastor Colin illustrates this with references from 1 Samuel, showing how Jonathan urged David to show this unfailing kindness to his family once David became king.

The sermon continues with a reflection on the pain and blessing that come with such covenant loyalty. Colin recounts the eventual death of Jonathan and how David, after becoming king, sought to honour his covenant by showing kindness to Jonathan’s surviving son, Mephibosheth. Despite being crippled, Mephibosheth was given a place at the king’s table, illustrating the profound impact of hesed.

Further, Pastor Colin draws parallels between human covenants and God’s covenant with humanity. He emphasises that God’s steadfast love is the foundation of His actions towards us, and He calls us to reflect this kind of love in our relationships. The sermon concludes with a prayer, thanking God for His unwavering love and asking for the strength to be covenant keepers in our own lives.

1 00:00:00,000 –> 00:00:07,500 You�re listening to a sermon from Pastor Colin Smith of Open the Bible. To contact 2 00:00:07,500 –> 00:00:16,879 us, call us at 1-877-OPEN-365. Or, visit our website, OpenTheBible.org. Let�s get to 3 00:00:16,879 –> 00:00:23,120 the message. Here is Pastor Colin. This is the last of four Sundays when we�ve 4 00:00:23,120 –> 00:00:29,500 been learning from the story of Saul and David. And today, we come to the central theme of 5 00:00:29,500 –> 00:00:34,759 the whole story. Now, for those of you who don�t know the story, Saul was the first 6 00:00:34,759 –> 00:00:41,880 king over God�s people, and he was an absolute disaster. We followed the story of how God 7 00:00:41,880 –> 00:00:47,419 said that the Kingdom would be taken away from him. He never accepted that, but he had 8 00:00:47,419 –> 00:00:54,080 already been told. David was to become the new king, and even when he was a teenager, 9 00:00:54,220 –> 00:00:59,540 was anointed, and God indicated that that would be his future. But this has happened 10 00:00:59,540 –> 00:01:05,820 in private, so only a few people knew about it, but it had already taken place. Then, 11 00:01:05,820 –> 00:01:12,139 as we followed the story, we followed that great day when David killed Goliath, and, 12 00:01:12,139 –> 00:01:19,139 after that, Saul took David onto his staff at the palace, and there, David met Jonathan, 13 00:01:19,940 –> 00:01:26,940 the king’s son, and they formed a deep bond of friendship. Jonathan must have known what 14 00:01:27,339 –> 00:01:34,339 God had said about his father, that Saul’s son, Jonathan, would not sit on the throne. 15 00:01:34,839 –> 00:01:38,940 We know that Saul had never accepted that, and so, no doubt, there were many conversations 16 00:01:38,940 –> 00:01:43,900 in the palace between father and son. Jonathan, you don’t need to worry about that, 17 00:01:44,279 –> 00:01:51,279 prophet, we’re a strong family. You’ll sit on the throne one day, my son, don’t you worry. 18 00:01:51,339 –> 00:01:57,879 I’ll see to it. But Jonathan was not so sure, because he had faith in God, and he knew that 19 00:01:57,879 –> 00:02:04,339 God had spoken. And, so, as Jonathan and David became friends 20 00:02:04,339 –> 00:02:11,059 in the palace, I wish I could have heard their conversations about the future. I picture 21 00:02:11,100 –> 00:02:17,179 them out in the fields one day. And Jonathan says to his closest friend, two teenagers 22 00:02:17,179 –> 00:02:24,179 talking together, you know, David, I’m not sure I’m going to be King. What do you think? 23 00:02:28,119 –> 00:02:35,119 Long silence. And then David says, Jonathan, can I tell you something that I’ve never told 24 00:02:35,960 –> 00:02:42,960 anyone else in all of my life? Yeah, tell me. I’m your best friend. You can tell me 25 00:02:45,339 –> 00:02:52,339 anything. I’m not sure I can tell you this. Tell me. Well, one day the prophet came privately 26 00:02:55,199 –> 00:03:02,199 to my house. He said that God had told him to anoint a new king. I was out in the fields 27 00:03:03,080 –> 00:03:09,600 when he arrived. He met all my brothers, and then he sent for me. I was absolutely astonished. 28 00:03:09,600 –> 00:03:14,639 When I arrived at the house, you know what he did. He took a flask of oil, and he poured 29 00:03:14,639 –> 00:03:21,639 it over my head, and he said, God is anointing you to be the king over his people. Jonathan, 30 00:03:23,679 –> 00:03:28,139 if your father finds out that I’ve been anointed to be the next king, he’s going to kill me. 31 00:03:28,139 –> 00:03:34,860 What on earth are we going to do? And suddenly the two friends knew that their loyalty would 32 00:03:34,860 –> 00:03:41,779 be tested to the limit. And poor Jonathan, he was, of course, in an impossible position. 33 00:03:41,779 –> 00:03:48,220 His father would try and destroy his best friend, and he was caught right in the middle 34 00:03:48,220 –> 00:03:55,220 and he had to choose which side to take. Either he would accept the word of God and then he 35 00:03:55,259 –> 00:04:01,940 would give up his own claim to the throne and he would side with his friend. Or he would 36 00:04:01,940 –> 00:04:07,020 resist the word of God, he’d fight against it, he’d pursue his claim to the throne, and 37 00:04:07,020 –> 00:04:12,679 he’d take his stand with his father. But either way Jonathan knew that he was right in the 38 00:04:12,679 –> 00:04:19,679 middle of a great conflict. Well, Jonathan made his decision. If God had chosen David 39 00:04:20,459 –> 00:04:27,459 to be the next king of Israel, who was Jonathan to fight against it? Though Jonathan was the 40 00:04:28,239 –> 00:04:33,380 old King’s son, he would give David his full loyalty. 41 00:04:33,380 –> 00:04:37,739 And if you want to follow the story, we’ll be going in different places as we track through 42 00:04:37,739 –> 00:04:44,739 it. We’re really picking it up now at 1 Samuel chapter 18 verse 3. 1 Samuel chapter 18 verse 43 00:04:45,739 –> 00:04:52,739 3 where we read that Jonathan made a covenant – important word. He made a covenant with 44 00:04:54,100 –> 00:05:01,100 David because he loved him as himself, 1 Samuel 18 verse 3. He says to David, now look here 45 00:05:04,220 –> 00:05:11,220 David, whatever the cost, whatever the future, whatever it takes, I want you to know that 46 00:05:11,880 –> 00:05:18,880 you can count on me. Now this covenant loyalty that we’re going to think about from the 47 00:05:21,380 –> 00:05:27,179 Bible this morning is really a special kind of love. The Hebrews in their language had 48 00:05:27,179 –> 00:05:34,179 a particular word for covenant loyalty. They called it hesed. Hesed. And hesed simply means 49 00:05:35,079 –> 00:05:42,079 steadfast love. It means a love that will last. It means a love that you can count on. 50 00:05:49,399 –> 00:05:56,040 It’s sometimes translated in the Bible in the NIV faithfulness, or you could simply 51 00:05:56,040 –> 00:06:03,040 call it loyalty. And if you turn over a couple of pages to 1 Samuel in chapter 20 you will 52 00:06:03,220 –> 00:06:10,220 find there that that word is used twice, in verse 8 and in verse 15, both times it’s translated 53 00:06:10,339 –> 00:06:17,339 faithfulness. By this point in the story Saul has begun his attacks on David’s life. He’s 54 00:06:17,359 –> 00:06:22,299 thrown a spear at him trying to pin him to the wall in the palace, and David has fled 55 00:06:22,299 –> 00:06:27,480 for his life, and now he meets up with the King’s son, his closest friend. And David 56 00:06:27,820 –> 00:06:34,820 says to Jonathan verse 8, as for you show hesced to me, show kindness to your servant, 57 00:06:37,239 –> 00:06:44,239 show faithful love for you have brought him into a covenant with you before the Lord. 58 00:06:46,480 –> 00:06:53,480 He looks Jonathan in the eye and he says your father’s thrown a spear at me. This has really 59 00:06:53,579 –> 00:07:00,579 hit the fan now. Now can I count on you? You made a covenant with me, now please, show 60 00:07:01,420 –> 00:07:08,420 me hesced. I need you to be the one person that I can count on. Will you be that person?” 61 00:07:12,119 –> 00:07:18,559 And Jonathan pledges his allegiance. And then as we go to verse 13, he asks for something 62 00:07:18,600 –> 00:07:25,100 in return. Jonathan knows because it was the Word of God that one day David would be the 63 00:07:25,100 –> 00:07:31,579 king. He also knows that in those days when a new king came to the throne, the way in 64 00:07:31,579 –> 00:07:38,179 which he consolidated his power was to wipe out all the descendants of the old king. That 65 00:07:38,179 –> 00:07:44,260 was simply how you consolidated power. And everyone did it across cultures in those days. 66 00:07:44,260 –> 00:07:49,119 So Jonathan says, chapter 20 in verse 13, may the Lord be with you as He has been with 67 00:07:49,119 –> 00:08:00,640 my father, but show me hesed. Show me unfailing kindness, like that of the Lord. As long as 68 00:08:00,640 –> 00:08:07,100 I live so that I may not be killed. And then he goes further, do not ever cut of your hesed 69 00:08:07,100 –> 00:08:13,799 from my family. Don’t ever cut off your loyal love, your kindness from my family. Not even 70 00:08:13,799 –> 00:08:19,339 when the Lord has cut off every one of David’s enemies from the face of the earth. 71 00:08:19,339 –> 00:08:26,500 So Jonathan says to David, look you can count on my pledged loyalty, but can I count on 72 00:08:26,500 –> 00:08:36,940 yours? And David says yes. Verse 17, he reaffirms his Oath. And then as they part, after this 73 00:08:36,940 –> 00:08:42,159 important conversation, Jonathan kind of looks back in verse 23 and he makes the point, just 74 00:08:42,219 –> 00:08:46,559 one more time in case David should ever forget. Now he says about the matter that you and 75 00:08:46,559 –> 00:08:58,380 I discussed remember the Lord is witness between you and me forever. We made each other a promise 76 00:08:58,380 –> 00:09:06,000 and God was witness to that promise and God holds us accountable to fulfill that promise 77 00:09:06,359 –> 00:09:14,659 forever. Now I love this pledge of loyalty that’s made here. You don’t find Jonathan saying, 78 00:09:14,659 –> 00:09:19,599 Well, I don’t know, David. My father thinks there’s a chance that I could become King 79 00:09:19,599 –> 00:09:25,679 and so I’d like to keep my options open right now. You don’t find David saying, 80 00:09:25,679 –> 00:09:29,559 Well, now you’re asking me to make a promise on through the end of my life. Well, 81 00:09:30,440 –> 00:09:37,200 there’s life and there’s politics, and it’s asking a bit much. No, Jonathan knows 82 00:09:37,200 –> 00:09:41,559 that loyalty to David will be the greatest and most costly choice of his life and 83 00:09:41,559 –> 00:09:45,979 David knows that the same is true of his covenant with Jonathan. This will be the 84 00:09:45,979 –> 00:09:54,700 most important thing. And so they choose to seal it with a covenant. Now this 85 00:09:54,700 –> 00:09:59,400 reminds us and speaks to us powerfully today that there are still some things in 86 00:09:59,400 –> 00:10:09,280 life that are so important that we want to put them beyond the range of impulse. 87 00:10:09,280 –> 00:10:15,099 We want to protect them because they’re so important from swings in our moods and 88 00:10:15,099 –> 00:10:20,900 in our feelings. That’s why people get married. 89 00:10:20,900 –> 00:10:27,260 We count this relationship to be so sacred. We know that honoring it at some 90 00:10:27,260 –> 00:10:32,979 points will prove very costly, but we don’t want it to be open-ended. 91 00:10:32,979 –> 00:10:37,239 We don’t want it to be just a private understanding between the two of us. 92 00:10:37,239 –> 00:10:42,820 We want to raise it to the level of a covenant that is sealed with God as our 93 00:10:42,820 –> 00:10:49,580 witness to hold us accountable. So we come and we say to this person for 94 00:10:49,580 –> 00:10:54,340 whom God has given us the gift of love, you can count on me. 95 00:10:54,539 –> 00:10:57,880 You can count on me for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer. 96 00:10:57,880 –> 00:11:04,280 I pledge chesed to you. Whatever the cost, whatever the future 97 00:11:04,280 –> 00:11:14,179 holds, a love that you can count on. And it’s not just a piece of paper. 98 00:11:14,179 –> 00:11:23,979 It is a sacred covenant that gives direction and security to the whole of life. 99 00:11:23,979 –> 00:11:25,440 Loyalty makes a promise. 100 00:11:25,440 –> 00:11:31,179 Do you know I’ve only ever made four vows in my life? 101 00:11:31,179 –> 00:11:33,659 I don’t expect ever to make any others. 102 00:11:35,900 –> 00:11:40,460 But the four vows that I have made in my life are the navigating points, 103 00:11:40,460 –> 00:11:42,400 the pillars of life. 104 00:11:42,400 –> 00:11:48,059 They are the foundational identity of who I am. 105 00:11:48,059 –> 00:11:51,260 Let me just tell you about them in order. 106 00:11:51,260 –> 00:11:55,940 The order in which they happened in my life. 107 00:11:55,940 –> 00:12:00,520 The first was a vow that was made on the day that I was baptized. 108 00:12:00,520 –> 00:12:02,340 In what? 109 00:12:03,419 –> 00:12:11,919 Yes, God gives us baptism because some things are too important to be left open-ended. 110 00:12:11,919 –> 00:12:17,900 And God gives us the opportunity of raising our commitment to Christ above the level of 111 00:12:18,059 –> 00:12:26,340 private thought or prayer, to a public confession and a publicly sealed vow in the presence 112 00:12:26,340 –> 00:12:29,020 of God – that’s what baptism is all about. 113 00:12:29,020 –> 00:12:32,700 If a Christian says to me while they’re not interested in being baptized, I’d feel 114 00:12:32,700 –> 00:12:37,219 the same way as with a couple who say they’re in love, but they don’t want to get married. 115 00:12:37,219 –> 00:12:42,020 I feel like saying why wouldn’t you want to? 116 00:12:42,020 –> 00:12:49,020 So I made a vow when I was baptized – a vow of chesed to Christ. 117 00:12:49,020 –> 00:12:57,659 The second was when I was married – a vow of chesed to Karen. 118 00:12:57,659 –> 00:13:03,280 The third was at a service of ordination charged with the responsibility of leading the church 119 00:13:03,340 –> 00:13:06,500 and preaching the Bible. 120 00:13:06,500 –> 00:13:11,559 I gave a vow of chesed to the church. 121 00:13:11,559 –> 00:13:17,380 And the fourth, in the order in which they happened, happened on two occasions. 122 00:13:17,380 –> 00:13:23,320 When our two boys were born and we had a dedication service back in London and Karen and I together 123 00:13:23,320 –> 00:13:30,320 made vows of chesed as a mother and as a father. 124 00:13:30,919 –> 00:13:36,460 And these four covenants are the greatest privilege of my life. 125 00:13:36,460 –> 00:13:39,059 They’re my highest calling. 126 00:13:39,059 –> 00:13:42,280 My most costly commitment. 127 00:13:42,280 –> 00:13:49,280 Not one of them is open-ended, because loyalty makes promises. 128 00:13:49,900 –> 00:13:53,340 And what are the covenants of your life? 129 00:13:53,340 –> 00:14:00,080 Do you have a covenant to follow Christ? 130 00:14:00,140 –> 00:14:04,679 What are the covenants that God has trusted into your life? 131 00:14:04,679 –> 00:14:08,340 Well, they’ll be different for different ones among us. 132 00:14:08,340 –> 00:14:16,039 But I want us to see three things about the covenants of our lives, these great commitments 133 00:14:16,039 –> 00:14:22,400 that God trusts to us that define who we are. 134 00:14:22,400 –> 00:14:34,020 And the first is this, that hesed, loyalty, covenant commitment will bring you great pain. 135 00:14:34,020 –> 00:14:37,099 It’s always costly. 136 00:14:37,099 –> 00:14:41,479 Turn over if you would to 2 Samuel and chapter 1. 137 00:14:41,479 –> 00:14:46,119 David is still on the run from Saul as we’re following the story. 138 00:14:46,119 –> 00:14:51,700 And then one day, as he’s in his temporary home that he’s set up in this place called 139 00:14:51,700 –> 00:14:55,619 Ziklag, a messenger arrives with news from the battlefield. 140 00:14:55,619 –> 00:15:05,739 He arrives and he, he says, news for you, Saul is dead and all but one of his sons have 141 00:15:05,739 –> 00:15:09,320 died with him, right there on the field of battle. 142 00:15:09,320 –> 00:15:12,640 He’s been struck down. 143 00:15:12,640 –> 00:15:23,380 Then comes the news that David never wanted to hear in verse 4 and Jonathan is dead, your 144 00:15:23,380 –> 00:15:30,820 best friend, the one person in life you could really trust, the person that was ready to 145 00:15:30,820 –> 00:15:39,520 give up everything for you is dead, David. 146 00:15:39,640 –> 00:15:44,760 And David is absolutely broken-hearted and he writes a lament that is recorded in 2 Samuel 147 00:15:44,760 –> 00:15:46,460 chapter 1 and verse 17. 148 00:15:46,460 –> 00:15:51,940 It’s an outpouring of grief for the tragedy of Saul’s life and the loss of his best friend 149 00:15:51,940 –> 00:15:52,940 Jonathan. 150 00:15:52,940 –> 00:15:59,640 Verse 19, your glory, O Israel lay slain on your heights, how have the mighty fallen! 151 00:15:59,640 –> 00:16:05,440 Verse 25, I grieve for you, Jonathan, my brother, you were very dear to me. 152 00:16:05,440 –> 00:16:10,239 Your love for me was wonderful, more wonderful than that of women. 153 00:16:10,239 –> 00:16:12,380 Do you see what he’s saying, Jonathan. 154 00:16:12,380 –> 00:16:16,359 You showed a different kind of love to me. 155 00:16:16,359 –> 00:16:22,440 You showed me the kind of love that would lay aside your own interest in a crown. 156 00:16:22,440 –> 00:16:25,239 You protected me when my life was on the line. 157 00:16:25,239 –> 00:16:27,880 You encouraged me when I was at the point of giving up. 158 00:16:27,880 –> 00:16:30,659 You gave me strength. 159 00:16:30,659 –> 00:16:37,460 You gave up your rights to a throne, and you stood with me so that God’s purpose would 160 00:16:37,460 –> 00:16:39,299 be fulfilled in my life. 161 00:16:39,299 –> 00:16:42,340 What kind of love is that? 162 00:16:42,340 –> 00:16:50,780 That’s hesed, and there’s pain in hesed, always. 163 00:16:50,780 –> 00:16:58,739 You see, those who choose to really care will find that caring makes you vulnerable to hurt. 164 00:16:59,460 –> 00:17:03,919 Is there a mother who doesn’t know this? 165 00:17:03,919 –> 00:17:17,859 To love deeply is to enter into, at some points and in some ways, the deepest of grief. 166 00:17:17,859 –> 00:17:25,140 And those who have chosen to care with all their hearts will at some point and in some 167 00:17:25,500 –> 00:17:32,140 way feel the pain that comes with hesed. 168 00:17:32,140 –> 00:17:39,880 Where there are hills, there are valleys. 169 00:17:39,880 –> 00:17:41,579 The two always go together. 170 00:17:41,579 –> 00:17:46,699 There can be no peaks where there are no valleys. 171 00:17:46,699 –> 00:17:50,260 That’s the main problem that I have with Illinois, I have to say. 172 00:17:50,260 –> 00:17:54,380 It is neither one nor the other. 173 00:17:55,060 –> 00:18:05,219 Covenant love will take you to the highest peaks and it will bring you into the deepest 174 00:18:05,219 –> 00:18:07,780 valleys. 175 00:18:07,780 –> 00:18:14,959 If you choose this kind of love, it will be both your highest calling and your most costly 176 00:18:14,959 –> 00:18:17,699 commitment in all of your life. 177 00:18:17,699 –> 00:18:23,680 It will be your greatest blessing, and at the same time it will be your deepest sorrow. 178 00:18:23,680 –> 00:18:31,060 Think about Mary, the mother of our Lord. 179 00:18:31,060 –> 00:18:33,260 That was exactly how it was for her. 180 00:18:33,260 –> 00:18:38,500 The angel Gabriel comes and tells her that she will give birth to the Son of God. 181 00:18:38,500 –> 00:18:40,839 He will take flesh from her. 182 00:18:40,839 –> 00:18:48,819 Could there be any higher privilege given to any woman in all of the world? 183 00:18:48,819 –> 00:18:51,719 That’s the peak. 184 00:18:52,239 –> 00:18:58,300 And then she takes little Jesus, in his infancy, to the Temple and Simeon the 185 00:18:58,300 –> 00:19:03,040 old prophet takes the infant Christ in his arms, and prophecies, and blesses 186 00:19:03,040 –> 00:19:08,680 over this baby. And then he looks Mary straight in the eye and he says, 187 00:19:08,680 –> 00:19:15,839 This child will be for the falling and rising of many, and a sword will pierce 188 00:19:15,920 –> 00:19:27,280 your soul too. And I ask you, could any of the disciples have had a clue what was 189 00:19:27,280 –> 00:19:38,319 going on in her heart as the Son she bore was stretched out and crucified on a 190 00:19:38,319 –> 00:19:47,459 cross? Well today we thank God for mothers who know about Chesed, mothers 191 00:19:47,459 –> 00:19:54,719 who have laid aside your own interest to take your stand with your children. It’s 192 00:19:54,719 –> 00:20:01,619 a costly choice, but you do it because God has given you a sacred calling. 193 00:20:01,619 –> 00:20:07,619 Mothers who are anxious about their children and father’s too, those who 194 00:20:07,619 –> 00:20:12,540 have chosen to love deeply and because you love so deeply and your love will 195 00:20:12,540 –> 00:20:18,560 not let go, you feel a great burden for a son or for a daughter, that’s part of 196 00:20:18,560 –> 00:20:26,119 Chesed. And it’s a reflection of the very heart of God it’s a costly, but it’s a 197 00:20:26,119 –> 00:20:33,760 glorious thing. Loyalty brings you pain. But the second thing that I want us to 198 00:20:33,920 –> 00:20:40,260 see is that loyalty brings great blessing. Turn on in the story, would you? To 2 199 00:20:40,260 –> 00:20:46,479 Samuel and chapter 9. 2 Samuel and chapter 9. The story is now ruled 200 00:20:46,479 –> 00:20:53,260 forward several years and God’s remarkable promise has been fulfilled 201 00:20:53,260 –> 00:20:58,540 and David is indeed king and the kingdom is established under him. Saul and 202 00:20:58,540 –> 00:21:03,420 Jonathan and all but one of Saul’s sons have died on the battlefield. 203 00:21:03,420 –> 00:21:08,219 The other one ended up dying sometime later and David’s position now is 204 00:21:08,219 –> 00:21:15,660 absolutely secure. His enemies have all been vanquished. And then in 2 Samuel 205 00:21:15,660 –> 00:21:21,119 and chapter 9, David sitting there and he has a question. 206 00:21:21,119 –> 00:21:26,760 In his memory, he goes back to that day that we remembered earlier when he 207 00:21:26,760 –> 00:21:33,280 was with Jonathan and Jonathan pledged loyalty to David and then Jonathon asked 208 00:21:33,540 –> 00:21:44,500 him for one thing, please show your chesed to my family forever. 209 00:21:44,500 –> 00:21:49,339 And David thinks to himself after the sons of Saul have died on the battlefield 210 00:21:49,339 –> 00:21:56,060 before he ever became king. What can I do to fulfill that promise that I made to 211 00:21:56,060 –> 00:22:01,719 my best friend? Is there any descendant of Saul who’s still around to 212 00:22:01,719 –> 00:22:08,459 whom I can show this kind of love? And so they find a man by the name of Zeba, 213 00:22:08,459 –> 00:22:13,339 who in the old times had been a servant of Saul’s household and they call him in. 214 00:22:13,339 –> 00:22:18,459 And David in verse 3 of 2 Samuel 9, really is stressing this question. 215 00:22:18,459 –> 00:22:24,760 Is there no one left to whom I can show God’s chesed? It’s the same word that is 216 00:22:24,760 –> 00:22:30,979 used again. God’s kindness. God has shown unfailing love to me. 217 00:22:30,979 –> 00:22:35,439 God’s blessing has been poured into my life. I’m looking for a way to reflect 218 00:22:35,439 –> 00:22:39,260 faithfulness to the covenant that I made all these years ago with Jonathan. 219 00:22:39,260 –> 00:22:43,280 What opportunity is there for me to show this kind of love? 220 00:22:43,280 –> 00:22:48,760 That’s his question. And Zeba tells David that there is a son 221 00:22:48,760 –> 00:22:54,180 of Jonathan and he’s crippled, verse 4, in both feet. 222 00:22:54,180 –> 00:22:58,140 In fact, a little earlier in the book in 2 Samuel 4, we’re told about the story of 223 00:22:58,140 –> 00:23:03,859 how this happened, apparently when this lad was just 5-years old. 224 00:23:03,859 –> 00:23:08,979 The battle in which Saul and Jonathan died was raging and the news 225 00:23:08,979 –> 00:23:12,540 of their death came back to the nurse who was looking after 226 00:23:12,540 –> 00:23:15,880 the little 5-year-old. And of course, quite rightly, 227 00:23:15,880 –> 00:23:20,119 with the enemies of Saul and Jonathan running rampant on the battlefield, 228 00:23:20,119 –> 00:23:24,079 she realized that the best thing she could do to protect the little fellow was 229 00:23:24,079 –> 00:23:27,699 to take him away from his home and to hide him as quickly as possible. 230 00:23:27,739 –> 00:23:31,719 So she gathered up the stuff, she gathered the 5-year-old under her arms, 231 00:23:31,719 –> 00:23:35,500 and in the process of it, guess what, she dropped the 5-year-old. 232 00:23:37,979 –> 00:23:44,260 And he broke his ankles or something. But the result of that was that he 233 00:23:44,260 –> 00:23:48,819 was crippled for the rest of his life from the age of 5. 234 00:23:51,520 –> 00:23:56,579 And apparently as David has come to the throne, the nurse has continued to feel 235 00:23:56,579 –> 00:24:02,760 that it would be wise and safe to raise this lad in seclusion and to keep 236 00:24:02,760 –> 00:24:10,680 him in hiding. And, so, he grew up in a place called Lodibar, 237 00:24:10,680 –> 00:24:17,599 which means No Pasture, which shows you what kind of place it is. 238 00:24:17,599 –> 00:24:25,400 No Pasture. This little boy’s name was unpronounceable. 239 00:24:25,400 –> 00:24:34,479 No, actually it was Mafibosheth, and you can practice that as I have 240 00:24:34,479 –> 00:24:40,359 occasionally throughout the week. When Ozibah tells David, 241 00:24:40,359 –> 00:24:43,880 there’s this one lad, a cripple. Of course, now he’s not a five-year-old. 242 00:24:43,880 –> 00:24:46,560 He’s now grown up and I expect by this point in the story, 243 00:24:46,560 –> 00:24:51,459 he would’ve been perhaps in his late teens. So, David sends out the 244 00:24:51,459 –> 00:24:56,640 commander of his army to bring Mafibosheth to the family. 245 00:24:56,640 –> 00:25:00,040 I want you to imagine what this must’ve been like for this lad, 246 00:25:00,040 –> 00:25:06,280 who’s been growing up in hiding in a place called No Pasture. 247 00:25:06,280 –> 00:25:10,880 One day the commander of the king’s army arrives at his door. 248 00:25:10,920 –> 00:25:13,199 Is your name unpronounceable? 249 00:25:13,199 –> 00:25:17,800 It certainly is, sir. 250 00:25:17,800 –> 00:25:23,380 Well, I need you to come with me, the king wants to see you in the palace. 251 00:25:23,380 –> 00:25:27,439 Well, Mafibosheth of course must have been absolutely terrified. 252 00:25:27,439 –> 00:25:32,800 The new king wipes out the descendants of the old king and this crippled lad has 253 00:25:32,800 –> 00:25:36,699 absolutely no defense. 254 00:25:36,699 –> 00:25:39,359 So, the young man with the unpronounceable name comes to the palace 255 00:25:39,380 –> 00:25:42,099 and he bows low in the new king’s presence. 256 00:25:42,099 –> 00:25:44,979 Verse Seven, wondering what will happen. 257 00:25:44,979 –> 00:25:46,699 And David says, 258 00:25:46,699 –> 00:25:55,699 Don’t be afraid for I will show you, guess what word it is? 259 00:25:56,579 –> 00:26:03,459 Hesed, kindness, for the sake of your father Jonathan. 260 00:26:03,459 –> 00:26:07,260 And I will restore to you all the land that belonged to your grandfather Saul. 261 00:26:07,579 –> 00:26:14,579 And you will always eat at my table. 262 00:26:15,459 –> 00:26:21,819 Mephibosheth must have wondered what on earth was going on. 263 00:26:21,819 –> 00:26:28,819 Picture the king’s sons gathering round this banqueting table. 264 00:26:29,739 –> 00:26:36,739 And think of Mephibosheth on his crutches taking his place with them. 265 00:26:37,180 –> 00:26:43,079 And he’s thinking to himself as he looks round the king’s sons, 266 00:26:43,079 –> 00:26:49,579 and he’s saying what in all the world of I doing here. 267 00:26:49,579 –> 00:26:51,660 It must have been the talk of the nations. 268 00:26:51,660 –> 00:26:53,300 Have you heard about the king in Israel? 269 00:26:53,540 –> 00:26:56,699 He’s got the enemy’s grand kid at his table. 270 00:27:00,020 –> 00:27:06,099 Loyalty brings great pain, loyalty brings great blessing. 271 00:27:06,500 –> 00:27:08,060 Here’s the very last thing this morning. 272 00:27:09,199 –> 00:27:14,479 Loyalty reflects the heart of God. 273 00:27:16,040 –> 00:27:22,099 Do you notice how David says here in verse 3 is there no one left to whom I can 274 00:27:22,140 –> 00:27:25,180 show God’s kindness? 275 00:27:26,339 –> 00:27:28,079 You see what he’s getting this from, don’t you? 276 00:27:28,859 –> 00:27:31,859 God has shown hesed to me. 277 00:27:33,420 –> 00:27:36,780 When Jonathan ask David to make that promise he used the same kind of phrase. 278 00:27:36,900 –> 00:27:42,060 He said will you show hesed like that of the Lord. 279 00:27:43,819 –> 00:27:50,140 And if there is one thing that I would want you to know about God today, it is 280 00:27:50,339 –> 00:27:58,699 you can count on his covenant love, for hesed is in his very nature. 281 00:27:58,900 –> 00:28:00,180 The Bible’s full of this. 282 00:28:00,219 –> 00:28:02,979 This word teams all over the Scriptures. 283 00:28:03,260 –> 00:28:08,540 The Lord is gracious and compassionate, he’s slow to anger, he’s abounding in 284 00:28:09,140 –> 00:28:10,199 steadfast love, hesed. 285 00:28:11,319 –> 00:28:19,380 The steadfast love, the hesed of God never ceases, his mercy is never come to an 286 00:28:19,380 –> 00:28:19,760 end. 287 00:28:20,000 –> 00:28:21,760 They are new every morning. 288 00:28:21,959 –> 00:28:24,119 Great is your faithfulness. 289 00:28:24,420 –> 00:28:26,900 This is what God is like. 290 00:28:28,680 –> 00:28:33,739 And this is the God of the Bible who made a covenant because that’s the sort of 291 00:28:33,739 –> 00:28:35,839 thing that hesed does. 292 00:28:37,540 –> 00:28:44,479 And he made a covenant that he would redeem men and women whatever the cost. 293 00:28:44,520 –> 00:28:51,920 And loyalty to that covenant brought indescribable pain to the heart of God. 294 00:28:52,359 –> 00:28:58,400 That’s what Jesus leaving the throne of heaven and coming all the way to a cross 295 00:28:58,400 –> 00:29:02,079 and laying down his own life so that we should be lifted up. 296 00:29:02,079 –> 00:29:03,599 That’s what that is all about. 297 00:29:03,599 –> 00:29:06,079 He made himself nothing. 298 00:29:06,239 –> 00:29:14,239 And then he rose from the dead, and God exalted him to the highest place so 299 00:29:14,239 –> 00:29:17,719 that he could shower Chesed. 300 00:29:18,839 –> 00:29:23,520 And I think Mephibosheth’s story just gives us a beautiful picture of how God’s 301 00:29:23,520 –> 00:29:25,380 blessing comes to all of us. 302 00:29:25,719 –> 00:29:29,359 Mephibosheth, I mean, he was in the wrong line, wasn’t he? 303 00:29:29,719 –> 00:29:33,260 He was in the line marked for condemnation. 304 00:29:33,619 –> 00:29:36,939 That’s what the Bible says about the human race because of our sins. 305 00:29:37,300 –> 00:29:43,719 And he was absolutely helpless and absolutely defenseless, but the king 306 00:29:43,719 –> 00:29:47,619 from whom he’d been hiding all these years in his life called him. 307 00:29:48,699 –> 00:29:53,739 And he’s brought into the king’s presence, and he experiences the king’seshesed, 308 00:29:53,739 –> 00:29:57,339 and he finds himself dining at the king’s table. 309 00:29:58,199 –> 00:30:03,020 This is what God does for us in Jesus Christ as he draws us to faith in him, 310 00:30:03,020 –> 00:30:07,199 this God that some of us have been hiding from, trying to get away from and then 311 00:30:07,199 –> 00:30:11,479 suddenly we discover he’s the source of the greatest blessing in all of 312 00:30:11,479 –> 00:30:12,420 our lives. 313 00:30:14,319 –> 00:30:18,660 And that he’s not just going to spare your life, but he’s going to bring you 314 00:30:18,660 –> 00:30:22,640 into his own family, he’s going to make you his adopted son and daughter. 315 00:30:22,640 –> 00:30:26,560 He’s going to make you like a king and a priest sitting at his own table. 316 00:30:27,640 –> 00:30:32,199 That’s why every Christian can say with David, surly goodness and mercy will 317 00:30:32,239 –> 00:30:37,140 follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the House of the Lord 318 00:30:37,140 –> 00:30:43,979 forever, and I will feast at the table that is spread for me. 319 00:30:45,800 –> 00:30:50,099 Why would you not want to come to a love like that? 320 00:30:54,260 –> 00:31:01,859 Some of us have known love but we’ve not known hesed. 321 00:31:02,540 –> 00:31:16,160 Some of us have given love, but we weren’t able to give hesed. 322 00:31:16,160 –> 00:31:30,380 God abounds in hesed, and in Jesus Christ he showers kesed on all who will come to receive. 323 00:31:30,599 –> 00:31:35,880 He says to each and every one of us, whatever your background, however long you’ve been 324 00:31:35,880 –> 00:31:44,819 hiding out there in low debar away from the blessing of God, you can come back. 325 00:31:44,819 –> 00:31:51,400 And you will be received with such love, and it’s a love that will never let you go. 326 00:31:51,400 –> 00:31:57,140 It’s a love in which Jesus was ready the go all the way to a cross for you. 327 00:31:57,140 –> 00:32:06,060 And he invites you now so that his Spirit might get inside of your skin, and you might 328 00:32:06,060 –> 00:32:17,739 become capable, having received hesed, of giving hesed. 329 00:32:17,739 –> 00:32:22,859 Think how that will change the world in which we live. 330 00:32:23,619 –> 00:32:28,339 You know, David was a great king of Israel. 331 00:32:28,339 –> 00:32:37,099 He did many things and he won many battles, but I think that there is a sense in which 332 00:32:37,099 –> 00:32:45,459 what he did for a crippled boy called Mephibosheth was one of the greatest things he ever did 333 00:32:45,459 –> 00:32:53,099 in his life, because it reflected the heart of God. 334 00:32:53,099 –> 00:33:04,219 And I want that to be an encouragement, to every mother and to every covenant keeper, 335 00:33:04,219 –> 00:33:07,780 as we bow in God’s presence, today. 336 00:33:07,780 –> 00:33:14,500 Shall we pray together? 337 00:33:14,500 –> 00:33:19,359 Thank you that you are the God of chesed. 338 00:33:19,359 –> 00:33:24,300 We have offended you so many times that if it was not for your chesed, we would be utterly 339 00:33:24,300 –> 00:33:27,459 lost. 340 00:33:27,459 –> 00:33:31,579 So we thank you for a love that we can count on. 341 00:33:31,579 –> 00:33:37,979 A love that streams to us at immeasurable costs through Jesus Christ and lifts us up 342 00:33:38,219 –> 00:33:45,140 make us those who are able to feast at the King’s table. 343 00:33:45,140 –> 00:33:49,099 We thank you that you don’t only do that for us, but your wider purpose is that you would 344 00:33:49,099 –> 00:33:56,099 do that through us that chesed may be birthed in us that we may reflect something of who 345 00:33:57,680 –> 00:34:04,680 you are and so in your mercy and in your grace, grants that we may be covenant-keepers of 346 00:34:08,000 –> 00:34:15,000 yours, whatever the cost, so the blessing may flow. And more than anything else the 347 00:34:17,919 –> 00:34:24,919 character of you, the great and glorious God, may be reflected in me, in my family, in my 348 00:34:29,919 –> 00:34:36,919 world, through my life for Jesus’ sake. 349 00:34:38,139 –> 00:34:38,800 Amen. 350 00:34:42,340 –> 00:34:47,520 You’ve been listening to a sermon with Pastor Colin Smith of Open the Bible. 351 00:34:47,520 –> 00:34:51,399 To contact us call 1-877-Open-365 352 00:34:51,399 –> 00:34:54,760 or visit our website openthebible.org

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