Learn to Wait, Part 1

Jude 20-25

While our fast-paced world sees waiting as something to endure, God presents it as an opportunity for us to grow in faith and develop patience. Join Colin as he explores how waiting can transform your spiritual journey, shaping your relationship with God as you embrace life’s disappointments. Don’t miss “Learn to Wait” from our series “Keeping Yourself in Spiritual Shape,” as we unpack how waiting is a critical spiritual discipline that can lead to deeper discoveries of God’s grace.

100:00:00,440 –> 00:00:07,500We think of waiting primarily as something that we have to200:00:07,600 –> 00:00:13,320endure in order to get what we want, but God speaks of waiting300:00:13,420 –> 00:00:19,879as the way in which we grow when we don’t have what we want,400:00:19,980 –> 00:00:23,160and there’s all the difference in the world between these two500:00:23,260 –> 00:00:24,700things.600:00:24,799 –> 00:00:27,059Welcome to Open The Bible with Pastor Colin Smith.700:00:28,059 –> 00:00:30,459I’m David Pick, glad you could join us today.800:00:30,559 –> 00:00:32,660And Colin, none of us like waiting.900:00:32,759 –> 00:00:35,119We live in a world where we expect things to happen1000:00:35,220 –> 00:00:37,259immediately, if not sooner.1100:00:37,360 –> 00:00:40,959So if God wants us to wait, does that mean we have to change1200:00:41,060 –> 00:00:42,439our whole mindset?1300:00:42,540 –> 00:00:44,500Well, I think it’s a completely different way1400:00:44,599 –> 00:00:47,340about thinking about our whole relationship with God.1500:00:47,439 –> 00:00:49,480God is not like a kind of slot machine1600:00:49,580 –> 00:00:53,080who’s there for me to manipulate and get what I want.1700:00:53,180 –> 00:00:54,939And hey, I just have to wait a little longer,1800:00:55,040 –> 00:00:56,779and then I’m going to get what I want from God.1900:00:56,799 –> 00:00:59,700God may actually grow me in my faith2000:00:59,799 –> 00:01:02,639precisely in the situation where I don’t get what I want,2100:01:02,740 –> 00:01:05,599and it’s there that his mercy and his grace2200:01:05,699 –> 00:01:08,000begins to bear fruit within my life.2300:01:08,120 –> 00:01:10,120So sometimes when I don’t have what2400:01:10,220 –> 00:01:13,120I want, that’s the most critical moment of development2500:01:13,220 –> 00:01:14,379in the Christian life.2600:01:14,480 –> 00:01:16,699Often when we look back, we realise2700:01:16,779 –> 00:01:19,019those are the times when our faith grew,2800:01:19,120 –> 00:01:20,779when we were dependent on God.2900:01:20,900 –> 00:01:22,620It’s just fascinating listening to people3000:01:22,720 –> 00:01:24,260talk and giving their testimony.3100:01:24,360 –> 00:01:25,639How many people have you ever heard3200:01:25,639 –> 00:01:27,760who say, you know, I really grew as a Christian3300:01:27,860 –> 00:01:29,760when I was being fantastically successful?3400:01:29,860 –> 00:01:31,260Usually not the case.3500:01:31,360 –> 00:01:34,860And fruit comes in some of the situations of disappointment3600:01:34,959 –> 00:01:37,459where we’re not receiving what we wanted3700:01:37,559 –> 00:01:40,620and we’re learning to look to the Lord in a way that’s3800:01:40,720 –> 00:01:41,959different from other times.3900:01:42,059 –> 00:01:44,839So, join us if you can today in Jude4000:01:44,940 –> 00:01:47,739verse 21 as we begin a message.4100:01:47,839 –> 00:01:48,980Learn to wait.4200:01:49,080 –> 00:01:50,180Here is Colin.4300:01:50,279 –> 00:01:52,699Now we’re returning today to our series entitled4400:01:52,940 –> 00:01:55,680keeping yourself in spiritual shape,4500:01:55,779 –> 00:01:57,779where we’re learning seven workouts4600:01:57,879 –> 00:02:01,239for a healthy Christian life.4700:02:01,339 –> 00:02:03,980And as you have your Bible open at the letter of Jude,4800:02:04,080 –> 00:02:06,779if you look at verse 20, you’ll be reminded there4900:02:06,879 –> 00:02:10,699of the early workouts that we’ve considered and learned5000:02:10,800 –> 00:02:13,199and I trust been practicing together.5100:02:13,300 –> 00:02:18,059Number one, build yourself up in your most holy faith.5200:02:18,160 –> 00:02:21,399Number two, pray in the Holy Spirit.5300:02:21,639 –> 00:02:24,699Number three, keep yourselves in the love of God.5400:02:24,800 –> 00:02:27,380If you want to live a healthy Christian life,5500:02:27,479 –> 00:02:31,139this is how you get yourself in shape.5600:02:31,240 –> 00:02:34,720Now, if we pause there for just a moment,5700:02:34,820 –> 00:02:36,080my observation would be this.5800:02:36,179 –> 00:02:40,419There is nothing surprising there, is there?5900:02:40,520 –> 00:02:45,520If you had been asked to write a list of key things6000:02:45,619 –> 00:02:48,360that you should work on in order to have6100:02:48,460 –> 00:02:49,800a healthy Christian life,6200:02:50,100 –> 00:02:52,559I think you would have come up with these three,6300:02:52,660 –> 00:02:53,759and so would I.6400:02:53,860 –> 00:02:55,699You would have been able to say,6500:02:55,800 –> 00:02:58,399you know, I need to build up my faith,6600:02:58,500 –> 00:03:00,139I need to work on prayer,6700:03:00,240 –> 00:03:02,839and I need to know more about love.6800:03:02,940 –> 00:03:04,279But my question is,6900:03:04,380 –> 00:03:06,539if you had been asked to write this list,7000:03:06,639 –> 00:03:08,979would you have got the fourth one?7100:03:09,080 –> 00:03:12,479Because I don’t think I would have.7200:03:12,580 –> 00:03:15,059Look at it in verse 21.7300:03:15,160 –> 00:03:17,860Keep yourselves in the love of God,7400:03:17,880 –> 00:03:20,500and then here’s the fourth workout.7500:03:20,600 –> 00:03:23,800As you wait, as you wait…7600:03:26,300 –> 00:03:29,839for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ7700:03:29,940 –> 00:03:33,899to bring you to eternal life.7800:03:35,339 –> 00:03:38,479You boil this fourth workout down to one word.7900:03:38,580 –> 00:03:39,940It would be simply this.8000:03:40,039 –> 00:03:42,320Waiting.8100:03:42,419 –> 00:03:44,520Waiting.8200:03:44,619 –> 00:03:45,720What have you got to do8300:03:45,720 –> 00:03:49,660if you’re to keep yourself in good spiritual shape?8400:03:49,759 –> 00:03:54,479You’re going to have to learn to wait.8500:03:55,860 –> 00:03:57,619To wait.8600:03:57,720 –> 00:03:59,259Now, at the beginning of our series,8700:03:59,360 –> 00:04:01,759we noted that a good fitness routine8800:04:01,860 –> 00:04:03,940will exercise all of the muscles of the body.8900:04:04,039 –> 00:04:07,259And we also noticed that the exercises,9000:04:07,360 –> 00:04:10,240if we’re in a training routine, we enjoy the most9100:04:10,339 –> 00:04:12,380are usually the ones that exercise the muscles9200:04:12,479 –> 00:04:13,679that are already the strongest.9300:04:13,779 –> 00:04:14,639That’s why we enjoy it,9400:04:14,660 –> 00:04:16,100and that’s why these muscles are strong9500:04:16,200 –> 00:04:19,559because we enjoy doing that exercise, we’re good at it.9600:04:19,660 –> 00:04:21,040But, of course, the exercise9700:04:21,140 –> 00:04:22,799in any physical fitness routine9800:04:22,899 –> 00:04:25,339that we most need is the one that addresses9900:04:25,440 –> 00:04:30,220the muscle groups that are weakest within the body.10000:04:30,320 –> 00:04:32,579And I think that this fourth workout10100:04:32,679 –> 00:04:35,279develops an area of the spiritual life10200:04:35,380 –> 00:04:40,399in which most, if not all, of us really struggle.10300:04:42,600 –> 00:04:43,720Now, just thinking about this subject,10400:04:43,980 –> 00:04:46,119it struck me there is a lot of waiting10500:04:46,220 –> 00:04:48,920that is going on among us right now.10600:04:49,019 –> 00:04:50,820Some of us are searching for a job.10700:04:50,920 –> 00:04:52,519We’ve been looking and we still are.10800:04:52,619 –> 00:04:56,660But it hasn’t opened up and you’re waiting.10900:04:56,760 –> 00:04:58,920Some of us are looking for that special person11000:04:59,019 –> 00:05:01,899to share life with, but we have not found them.11100:05:02,000 –> 00:05:04,779You’re waiting.11200:05:04,859 –> 00:05:06,959Others are longing for a child,11300:05:07,059 –> 00:05:10,540but nothing has happened and you’re waiting.11400:05:10,640 –> 00:05:12,899Others are longing to see a deep change11500:05:13,079 –> 00:05:16,019in someone who you love and have prayed for.11600:05:16,119 –> 00:05:20,399But you have not seen it yet and you’re waiting.11700:05:21,519 –> 00:05:23,299So there is, indeed, an awful lot11800:05:23,399 –> 00:05:25,040of waiting going on among us.11900:05:25,140 –> 00:05:26,480We could multiply examples.12000:05:26,559 –> 00:05:30,140They will tumble through our minds, I’m sure.12100:05:30,260 –> 00:05:33,239And it could well be that learning to wait12200:05:33,339 –> 00:05:35,040in the way that the Bible describes it12300:05:35,140 –> 00:05:37,179to us will turn out to be one of the most12400:05:37,279 –> 00:05:40,519important spiritual disciplines of your whole life12500:05:40,720 –> 00:05:44,339. If you want to keep yourself in spiritual shape,12600:05:44,440 –> 00:05:48,660you need to learn to wait.12700:05:48,760 –> 00:05:50,720Well, that’s our subject this morning.12800:05:50,820 –> 00:05:54,119And we’re going to develop three exercises that will help12900:05:54,220 –> 00:05:57,000us in this fourth workout.13000:05:57,100 –> 00:05:59,299But first I want simply to remind13100:05:59,399 –> 00:06:02,660you of how important the subject of waiting13200:06:02,760 –> 00:06:04,859is in the Bible, because it’s only13300:06:04,959 –> 00:06:07,200when we understand its importance13400:06:07,299 –> 00:06:10,339that we’ll be motivated to get into this fourth workout13500:06:10,339 –> 00:06:14,239and to get ourselves in spiritual shape in this regard.13600:06:14,339 –> 00:06:17,399So let me give you just a very quick sample13700:06:17,500 –> 00:06:20,179of the Scripture that speaks to this very13800:06:20,279 –> 00:06:22,239important subject of waiting.13900:06:22,339 –> 00:06:24,720I want us to have the flavour, so let me just14000:06:24,820 –> 00:06:27,679read to you five verses from the Old Testament14100:06:27,779 –> 00:06:28,980and then five from the New.14200:06:29,079 –> 00:06:33,079And I want simply for us to have the sense of how God repeatedly14300:06:33,179 –> 00:06:35,399speaks to us about waiting.14400:06:35,500 –> 00:06:36,119Wait.14500:06:36,220 –> 00:06:37,220Wait.14600:06:37,320 –> 00:06:38,899Wait.14700:06:39,000 –> 00:06:39,959Psalm 27.14800:06:39,980 –> 00:06:42,279Psalm 37 and verse 14.14900:06:42,380 –> 00:06:44,579Wait for the Lord.15000:06:44,679 –> 00:06:46,720Be strong and take heart.15100:06:46,820 –> 00:06:49,720Wait for the Lord.15200:06:49,820 –> 00:06:52,359Psalm 37 and verse 7.15300:06:52,459 –> 00:06:58,359Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him.15400:06:58,480 –> 00:06:59,579And notice the context.15500:06:59,679 –> 00:07:02,899Do not fret when men succeed in their ways15600:07:03,000 –> 00:07:04,640and they carry out their evil schemes.15700:07:04,739 –> 00:07:07,320You see evil being displayed on the news.15800:07:07,420 –> 00:07:09,739Wait for the Lord.15900:07:09,739 –> 00:07:11,519And verses 5 and 30, verses 5 and 6.16000:07:11,619 –> 00:07:14,779I wait for the Lord, my soul waits.16100:07:14,880 –> 00:07:19,760And in his word I put my hope, my soul waits for the Lord16200:07:19,859 –> 00:07:24,119more than watchmen wait for morning.16300:07:24,220 –> 00:07:27,140Isaiah chapter 8 and verse 17.16400:07:27,239 –> 00:07:32,359I will wait for the Lord who is hiding his face16500:07:32,480 –> 00:07:33,899from the house of Jacob.16600:07:34,000 –> 00:07:35,779Very important verse that16700:07:35,880 –> 00:07:37,380to understand the Christian life.16800:07:37,519 –> 00:07:39,980Sometimes when God, though he does not remove his presence,16900:07:40,079 –> 00:07:44,459hides his face, and I say, where are you, O God?17000:07:44,559 –> 00:07:48,359Isaiah says, I will wait for the Lord17100:07:48,459 –> 00:07:51,399who is hiding his face from Jacob.17200:07:51,500 –> 00:07:53,399And then Isaiah 40, 31,17300:07:53,500 –> 00:07:55,799perhaps the best-known in the authorized version.17400:07:55,899 –> 00:07:59,079Those who wait upon the Lord17500:07:59,179 –> 00:08:01,179shall renew their strength.17600:08:01,279 –> 00:08:03,000They shall soar on wings like eagles.17700:08:03,100 –> 00:08:04,779They shall run and not grow weary.17800:08:04,779 –> 00:08:07,559They shall walk and not faint.17900:08:07,660 –> 00:08:09,559Now, when we come into the New Testament,18000:08:09,660 –> 00:08:13,119it’s fascinating that the whole Christian community,18100:08:13,220 –> 00:08:16,119the church, is described as a community18200:08:16,220 –> 00:08:19,119of people who are waiting.18300:08:19,220 –> 00:08:21,6401 Corinthians 1, and verse 7.18400:08:21,739 –> 00:08:24,059You do not lack any spiritual gift,18500:08:24,160 –> 00:08:26,299Paul says, to the Corinthians church18600:08:26,399 –> 00:08:30,040as you eagerly wait18700:08:30,140 –> 00:08:33,280for our Lord Jesus Christ to be revealed.18800:08:33,340 –> 00:08:35,679Or 1 Thessalonians 1, 9 and 10,18900:08:35,780 –> 00:08:37,479speaking of the testimony of these people19000:08:37,580 –> 00:08:39,479who’d come to faith in Jesus Christ.19100:08:39,580 –> 00:08:41,780You turned to God from idols19200:08:41,880 –> 00:08:43,659to serve the living and true God19300:08:43,760 –> 00:08:49,260and to wait for His Son from heaven.19400:08:49,359 –> 00:08:52,500Or Titus, speaking about holiness of life.19500:08:52,599 –> 00:08:54,599The grace of God teaches us19600:08:54,700 –> 00:08:57,960to say no to ungodliness and worldly passions19700:08:58,059 –> 00:09:00,900and to live self-controlled and upright and godly lives19800:09:00,960 –> 00:09:06,799in this present age while we wait for our blessed hope.19900:09:06,900 –> 00:09:10,900The glorious appearing of our God and Savior, Jesus Christ.20000:09:11,000 –> 00:09:13,280Or Hebrews 9.28,20100:09:13,380 –> 00:09:15,299Christ was sacrificed once20200:09:15,400 –> 00:09:17,140to take away the sins of many people.20300:09:17,239 –> 00:09:19,640He will appear a second time not to bear sin20400:09:19,739 –> 00:09:21,440but to bring salvation to who?20500:09:21,539 –> 00:09:25,419Those who are waiting for Him.20600:09:25,520 –> 00:09:27,260You see, that’s what the Christian community is.20700:09:27,359 –> 00:09:29,820It is a community of people who are waiting,20800:09:30,140 –> 00:09:32,820looking, longing for the appearing20900:09:32,919 –> 00:09:34,340of the Lord Jesus Christ.21000:09:34,440 –> 00:09:36,919And then finally our verse this morning, Jude 1.21.21100:09:37,020 –> 00:09:39,479Keep yourselves in the love of God21200:09:39,580 –> 00:09:44,159as you wait for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ21300:09:44,260 –> 00:09:47,200to bring you to eternal life.21400:09:47,299 –> 00:09:49,799Now, that’s just a very, very small sample.21500:09:49,900 –> 00:09:52,760Could have gone on throughout our entire time.21600:09:52,859 –> 00:09:55,140The Bible is full of it,21700:09:55,239 –> 00:09:58,880and it’s one of the most neglected disciplines21800:09:58,940 –> 00:10:01,380in the whole of the spiritual life21900:10:02,679 –> 00:10:05,119in our instant society.22000:10:06,479 –> 00:10:07,679You’re listening to Open The Bible22100:10:07,780 –> 00:10:09,280with Pastor Colin Smith22200:10:09,380 –> 00:10:12,140and a message called Learn to Wait.22300:10:12,260 –> 00:10:13,679We’ve got to pause briefly there,22400:10:13,780 –> 00:10:16,359but you won’t have to wait for long.22500:10:16,460 –> 00:10:20,320It’s part of our series Keeping Yourself in Spiritual Shape22600:10:20,419 –> 00:10:22,219based on the book of Jude.22700:10:22,320 –> 00:10:23,919And if you ever miss one of the programs22800:10:24,039 –> 00:10:25,260or if you want to go back and listen22900:10:25,359 –> 00:10:27,500to any of them or all of them again,23000:10:27,619 –> 00:10:29,760they’re all up there on the internet23100:10:29,859 –> 00:10:33,820at our website OpenTheBible.org.uk.23200:10:33,919 –> 00:10:36,919Or alternatively, you can find them as a podcast23300:10:37,020 –> 00:10:38,719on all the main podcast sites23400:10:38,840 –> 00:10:41,280by searching for Open The Bible UK.23500:10:41,380 –> 00:10:44,039Or you can follow a link from our website.23600:10:44,140 –> 00:10:46,280I know many of you listen to podcasts23700:10:46,380 –> 00:10:47,919and we’re excited to tell you23800:10:48,020 –> 00:10:50,539about a new podcast for Open The Bible.23900:10:50,640 –> 00:10:53,479It’s a companion to Pastor Colin’s book24000:10:53,580 –> 00:10:55,159Hike Through The Bible.24100:10:55,159 –> 00:10:57,979And each week I’ll read a chapter from the book24200:10:58,080 –> 00:11:00,599and then I get to discuss it with some friends.24300:11:00,700 –> 00:11:03,840So if you join us on the podcast in 50 weeks,24400:11:03,940 –> 00:11:06,940we’ll cover 50 chapters of the Bible together.24500:11:07,039 –> 00:11:11,419Then in a year you’ll have hiked through the entire Bible story.24600:11:11,520 –> 00:11:14,219Now, if you think hiking sounds like hard work,24700:11:14,320 –> 00:11:16,179don’t worry, I promise you24800:11:16,280 –> 00:11:19,200this hike will be an easy, gentle pace.24900:11:19,299 –> 00:11:20,700There’s a link to the podcast25000:11:21,000 –> 00:11:22,539and lots more information,25100:11:22,640 –> 00:11:24,039on our website at25200:11:26,859 –> 00:11:29,140Back to the message now, here again is Colin.25300:11:29,239 –> 00:11:31,940The problem, of course, with waiting25400:11:32,039 –> 00:11:33,539is that it always seems25500:11:33,640 –> 00:11:37,039like a complete waste of time, doesn’t it?25600:11:37,140 –> 00:11:39,739I’m waiting for a train.25700:11:39,840 –> 00:11:42,919I’m waiting for my appointment.25800:11:43,020 –> 00:11:46,219So we look for things to do while we’re waiting,25900:11:46,320 –> 00:11:48,320which is why there are magazines26000:11:49,020 –> 00:11:50,960in a doctor’s waiting room.26100:11:51,059 –> 00:11:54,219We try and fill up the time that is redundant.26200:11:54,320 –> 00:11:56,080You take a book in my pocket26300:11:56,179 –> 00:12:00,820because I don’t want to waste the time while I’m waiting.26400:12:00,919 –> 00:12:03,960So we think of waiting primarily26500:12:04,059 –> 00:12:06,960as something that we have to endure26600:12:07,059 –> 00:12:10,099in order to get what we want.26700:12:11,799 –> 00:12:14,940But God speaks of waiting26800:12:15,039 –> 00:12:17,700as the way in which we grow26900:12:17,700 –> 00:12:20,400when we don’t have what we want.27000:12:20,500 –> 00:12:22,559And there’s all the difference in the world27100:12:22,659 –> 00:12:25,599between these two things.27200:12:25,700 –> 00:12:28,359Waiting, as God speaks to us about it,27300:12:28,479 –> 00:12:32,799is never wasted time.27400:12:32,900 –> 00:12:35,280Waiting is one of the workouts27500:12:35,380 –> 00:12:40,919that will properly used shape your Christian life.27600:12:41,020 –> 00:12:45,159Waiting can be one of the greatest growth opportunities27700:12:45,280 –> 00:12:48,859in your entire walk with God.27800:12:48,960 –> 00:12:50,859And if we could grasp that, it will27900:12:50,960 –> 00:12:53,400change our whole perspective on some28000:12:53,500 –> 00:12:56,159of the situations we find most difficult and most28100:12:56,260 –> 00:12:59,299frustrating in our lives.28200:12:59,400 –> 00:13:01,440Now, I want to suggest three ways in which you28300:13:01,539 –> 00:13:06,000can grow while you’re waiting.28400:13:06,099 –> 00:13:12,119The first is simply this, grow in patience28500:13:12,179 –> 00:13:18,419as you embrace the disappointments of your life.28600:13:18,520 –> 00:13:20,260Listen to our verse again, keep yourselves28700:13:20,359 –> 00:13:25,059in God’s love as you wait for the mercy of our Lord28800:13:25,159 –> 00:13:29,599Jesus Christ to bring you to eternal life.28900:13:29,700 –> 00:13:32,239Now, waiting is of course what we29000:13:32,340 –> 00:13:37,280do when things have not worked out as we had hoped.29100:13:37,359 –> 00:13:39,940Somewhere within every heart there29200:13:40,039 –> 00:13:46,179is a dream, a dream of life as we would like it to be.29300:13:46,280 –> 00:13:51,859That dream is placed in your heart by God himself.29400:13:51,960 –> 00:13:55,159And when Jude uses the word wait he29500:13:55,260 –> 00:13:58,299reminds us that the dream in your heart29600:13:58,400 –> 00:14:01,760will never be fulfilled in this world.29700:14:01,859 –> 00:14:04,539That’s a fundamental Christian conviction29800:14:04,700 –> 00:14:08,000if to order our thinking by the Bible.29900:14:08,099 –> 00:14:10,539Our first parents, this is one of the first things30000:14:10,640 –> 00:14:12,679you learn in the Bible, our first parents30100:14:12,780 –> 00:14:16,739were driven out of the Garden of Eden.30200:14:16,840 –> 00:14:20,140Paradise was lost.30300:14:20,239 –> 00:14:24,059And the dream cannot be fulfilled here30400:14:24,159 –> 00:14:28,200because this world though blessed in so many ways30500:14:28,299 –> 00:14:31,599by the goodness of God, is none-the-less under a curse.30600:14:31,719 –> 00:14:37,359It is a fallen world in which we live this life.30700:14:37,460 –> 00:14:42,039Now if you and I lived in a land that was blighted by famine,30800:14:42,140 –> 00:14:46,239and if your total net worth was a small shack30900:14:46,340 –> 00:14:49,299at the side of a track, and a couple of buffalo,31000:14:49,400 –> 00:14:54,000you would understand that absolutely clearly.31100:14:54,099 –> 00:14:56,840But it is very hard for us to understand31200:14:56,940 –> 00:15:01,119this Bible principle living in the Northwest suburbs.31300:15:01,200 –> 00:15:06,419You see, we are so blessed that we easily31400:15:06,520 –> 00:15:11,299confuse this with paradise.31500:15:11,400 –> 00:15:14,299We think that if we’re not in paradise now,31600:15:14,400 –> 00:15:16,700we’re nearly there and if we just have a little bit more,31700:15:16,799 –> 00:15:17,320we will be.31800:15:20,140 –> 00:15:22,539I enjoyed the testimony of one of our high schoolers31900:15:22,640 –> 00:15:24,979few years ago, now coming back from the Jamaica trip.32000:15:25,080 –> 00:15:26,539She’d been greatly helped and it had32100:15:26,640 –> 00:15:28,179had a profound impact on her life.32200:15:28,299 –> 00:15:33,119She said, you know, it really helped me to go to Jamaica32300:15:33,219 –> 00:15:37,619because my idea of suffering before I went32400:15:37,719 –> 00:15:42,080was not getting a new car at graduation.32500:15:42,179 –> 00:15:46,059Now, we smile and we understand that32600:15:46,159 –> 00:15:47,400and it was good for her to go.32700:15:50,260 –> 00:15:52,239But you see, we’re living in a culture32800:15:52,340 –> 00:15:58,039that is sold out in the pursuit of paradise now,32900:15:58,700 –> 00:16:01,159and if you give yourself, whatever age you are,33000:16:01,260 –> 00:16:03,940high school, or at any other stage of life,33100:16:04,039 –> 00:16:08,380if you give yourself to the pursuit of paradise now,33200:16:08,479 –> 00:16:12,479you will be disappointed.33300:16:12,580 –> 00:16:13,919You will live in disappointment.33400:16:16,580 –> 00:16:19,020And when that happens, I’ll tell you what you’ll do.33500:16:19,119 –> 00:16:21,020You’ll be angry with God because you’ll say,33600:16:21,119 –> 00:16:24,260God, you haven’t fulfilled my dream.33700:16:24,359 –> 00:16:25,919That’s what you’ll say.33800:16:25,919 –> 00:16:27,820And that is what a great number of people33900:16:27,919 –> 00:16:30,020in our culture who call themselves Christians34000:16:30,119 –> 00:16:32,280are right now.34100:16:32,380 –> 00:16:34,580It’s where we are.34200:16:34,679 –> 00:16:37,479And God has one word to say to us about all of this,34300:16:37,580 –> 00:16:42,299and it’s the word, wait.34400:16:42,400 –> 00:16:44,559Wait.34500:16:44,659 –> 00:16:48,960You will not find paradise in this world.34600:16:52,739 –> 00:16:54,200You have to get that into your head34700:16:54,320 –> 00:16:58,059if you’re going to be a Christian believer.34800:16:58,159 –> 00:17:00,059It is a fundamental point at which34900:17:00,159 –> 00:17:03,260the Bible and our culture are in headlong opposition.35000:17:03,359 –> 00:17:08,199You will not find paradise in this world.35100:17:11,599 –> 00:17:12,699Now I’ve got a little idea.35200:17:12,800 –> 00:17:15,479Here’s a practical suggestion for you.35300:17:15,579 –> 00:17:20,160I’ve been thinking that we could design a little sign,35400:17:20,219 –> 00:17:22,579And it would say on it four words.35500:17:22,680 –> 00:17:27,459This is not paradise.35600:17:27,560 –> 00:17:30,819And I’m going to ask you to be creative in your minds35700:17:30,920 –> 00:17:32,780now, and you can talk about this over lunch35800:17:32,880 –> 00:17:37,640as to all kinds of places where you could put this sign.35900:17:37,739 –> 00:17:41,939This is not paradise.36000:17:42,040 –> 00:17:43,739I mean, you might want to hang it36100:17:43,839 –> 00:17:47,380over the front door of your home.36200:17:47,380 –> 00:17:51,140And it would greatly help you, because some of us36300:17:51,239 –> 00:17:55,920are so sold out on the pursuit of this perfect family36400:17:56,020 –> 00:17:59,459life, which we cannot attain within this world,36500:17:59,560 –> 00:18:02,420that we become utterly crushing for everyone around us.36600:18:02,520 –> 00:18:05,380Take a great deal of pressure off you.36700:18:05,500 –> 00:18:07,520If you could just acknowledge the truth of the Bible36800:18:07,619 –> 00:18:09,660and put a little sign over your home that says this36900:18:09,760 –> 00:18:13,439is not paradise.37000:18:13,560 –> 00:18:19,400You could put it over your desk at work.37100:18:19,500 –> 00:18:23,000You could put it in your new car,37200:18:23,099 –> 00:18:25,040because it would really help you when you’re37300:18:25,140 –> 00:18:26,479there on the Kennedy, and you’re so37400:18:26,579 –> 00:18:28,079frustrated with this marvelous car,37500:18:28,180 –> 00:18:29,719and you can’t go anywhere because you’re37600:18:29,819 –> 00:18:32,119in a traffic jam.37700:18:32,219 –> 00:18:34,420I’d be more than happy to put it on the entrance37800:18:34,520 –> 00:18:35,579to the church here.37900:18:35,680 –> 00:18:37,020This is not paradise.38000:18:37,119 –> 00:18:39,359If you came here looking for perfect believers38100:18:39,459 –> 00:18:41,560in a perfect church, you certainly haven’t found it.38200:18:41,660 –> 00:18:42,920You have come to the wrong place.38300:18:43,099 –> 00:18:44,939Keep looking, but you’ll be very disappointed.38400:18:48,180 –> 00:18:49,339Some couples might want to put it38500:18:49,439 –> 00:18:52,319over the door to the bedroom.38600:18:52,420 –> 00:18:53,859Take a lot of pressure off.38700:18:53,959 –> 00:19:01,859My kids might want to put it over the door to their bedroom.38800:19:01,959 –> 00:19:06,699This is not paradise.38900:19:06,800 –> 00:19:11,979But the problem is that many of us think it should be,39000:19:12,040 –> 00:19:15,479because we don’t believe the Bible.39100:19:15,579 –> 00:19:18,380We expect more than God has promised in this life.39200:19:18,479 –> 00:19:20,180And the result is that we live a level39300:19:20,280 –> 00:19:24,640of constant frustration and constant disappointment.39400:19:24,739 –> 00:19:28,280The baseline for us, the baseline39500:19:28,380 –> 00:19:30,959is health and wealth and emotional fulfillment,39600:19:31,060 –> 00:19:34,160to be loved, to be honored, to be appreciated.39700:19:34,260 –> 00:19:37,300We want the sinners around us to be saints.39800:19:37,400 –> 00:19:38,739But at the same time, of course, we39900:19:38,839 –> 00:19:41,660want the saints around us to understand that we are sinners.40000:19:41,739 –> 00:19:43,719We want to work the minimum number of hours40100:19:43,819 –> 00:19:45,359for the maximum amount of pay.40200:19:45,459 –> 00:19:47,380We want it to be absolutely fulfilling work.40300:19:47,479 –> 00:19:49,619We want larger cars, larger homes,40400:19:49,719 –> 00:19:51,560more luxurious vacations.40500:19:51,660 –> 00:19:55,660And in the pursuit of creating this paradise on earth,40600:19:55,760 –> 00:19:59,339we run up massive debt, massive debt.40700:20:02,099 –> 00:20:05,699And then we find out that the paradise that was promised40800:20:05,900 –> 00:20:07,099has eluded us.40900:20:09,520 –> 00:20:13,219That it was an advertiser’s dream.41000:20:13,319 –> 00:20:14,760It faded with the commercials.41100:20:17,560 –> 00:20:20,979We find ourselves living under a burden.41200:20:21,079 –> 00:20:22,500And we don’t know how we got there.41300:20:22,599 –> 00:20:24,579We got there because we didn’t believe the Bible.41400:20:27,439 –> 00:20:33,959Now, when God does not give you what you want,41500:20:33,959 –> 00:20:36,579in this world and this culture where we have so much,41600:20:36,680 –> 00:20:41,160when God does not give you what you want,41700:20:41,260 –> 00:20:44,819he opens a door of critical opportunity41800:20:44,920 –> 00:20:48,160for your spiritual growth.41900:20:48,260 –> 00:20:52,800And I want to encourage you here, embrace that pain.42000:20:52,900 –> 00:20:54,780Love God in that disappointment.42100:20:54,880 –> 00:20:58,500Recognize that in a world of abundance,42200:20:58,599 –> 00:21:00,640this may be one of the most important junctures42300:21:00,739 –> 00:21:03,520in your Christian life.42400:21:03,579 –> 00:21:07,680Here is one place where you have the opportunity42500:21:07,780 –> 00:21:12,959to detach yourself from the headlong pursuit of paradise42600:21:13,060 –> 00:21:17,199in this world and to set yourself apart for Jesus42700:21:17,300 –> 00:21:21,160Christ as Lord and the places where42800:21:21,260 –> 00:21:24,239you may have that opportunity in this life may be42900:21:24,339 –> 00:21:28,000relatively few, so seize them.43000:21:28,099 –> 00:21:29,099Grasp them.43100:21:29,099 –> 00:21:34,359They are critical to your spiritual fitness.43200:21:34,459 –> 00:21:37,540The places where God calls you to wait43300:21:37,640 –> 00:21:40,099are of great importance in your Christian life.43400:21:40,199 –> 00:21:44,500This is a wake-up call to reality that God is giving you.43500:21:44,599 –> 00:21:47,579There are discoveries of grace that you can make while you43600:21:47,680 –> 00:21:51,219are waiting that you will never make while you’re43700:21:51,319 –> 00:21:55,119careering on your way with everything fulfilled.43800:21:55,219 –> 00:21:59,060What you do not have is the place43900:21:59,160 –> 00:22:02,839when God will do a deep work in your life.44000:22:02,939 –> 00:22:08,199So grow in patience as you embrace44100:22:08,300 –> 00:22:12,199the disappointments of your life.44200:22:12,319 –> 00:22:14,339Well, we have to pause the message there,44300:22:14,439 –> 00:22:17,719but we’ll be back again with the second part of this message44400:22:17,819 –> 00:22:19,079in the next program.44500:22:19,180 –> 00:22:21,560The message is called Learn To Wait,44600:22:21,660 –> 00:22:23,819and it’s part of our series, Keeping44700:22:23,920 –> 00:22:27,800Yourself In Spiritual Shape, based on the Book of Jude.44800:22:27,800 –> 00:22:30,260You’ve been listening to Open The Bible with Pastor Colin44900:22:30,359 –> 00:22:33,040Smith, and if you ever miss one of Colin’s messages,45000:22:33,140 –> 00:22:35,739it’s very easy to catch up or go back and listen again45100:22:35,839 –> 00:22:40,979online at our website, openthebible.org.uk.45200:22:41,079 –> 00:22:43,479Open the Bible is able to stay on this station45300:22:43,579 –> 00:22:46,420and the internet, and available as a podcast45400:22:46,520 –> 00:22:48,479because of the generous financial support45500:22:48,579 –> 00:22:49,520of our listeners.45600:22:49,619 –> 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