Fear, Part 1

Proverbs 8:1-11

In today’s episode, we dive into the book of Proverbs with a focus on understanding the difference between principles and promises. Pastor Colin provides insightful reflections on Proverbs 22:6, reminding us that while good parenting is treasured, it doesn’t guarantee specific outcomes. He highlights the importance of not bearing undue guilt or claiming unearned credit in our children’s spiritual journeys, as our ultimate reliance is on God’s grace. Throughout the series, titled “Wisdom for Life,” we are encouraged to explore the rich wisdom offered in the scriptures that guides our daily decisions, friendships, family life, and work. Join us as Pastor Colin eloquently shares how following these principles enriches our lives here and now, underlining that wisdom in God and through Christ is indispensable.

100:00:00,520 –> 00:00:04,840When the book of Proverbs200:00:04,840 –> 00:00:08,880says train up a child in the way he should go300:00:09,140 –> 00:00:13,260and even when he is old he will not depart from it,400:00:13,940 –> 00:00:18,400that does not mean that good parenting500:00:18,520 –> 00:00:20,480guarantees godly children.600:00:21,559 –> 00:00:25,360It is a proverb, not a promise, it is a proverb and the proverb700:00:25,360 –> 00:00:29,719describes the normal pattern that prevails in this world.800:00:29,879 –> 00:00:33,419It does not guarantee a particular outcome.900:00:34,119 –> 00:00:36,680Welcome to Open the Bible with Pastor Colin Smith,1000:00:36,680 –> 00:00:39,299I am David Pick, glad you could join us today.1100:00:39,459 –> 00:00:42,240And Colin, it’s good to be reminded right from the start1200:00:42,299 –> 00:00:45,279that in Proverbs, what we see is principles1300:00:45,279 –> 00:00:47,400and not necessarily promises.1400:00:47,900 –> 00:00:50,299Yeah, that’s right. And it’s very practical to.1500:00:50,299 –> 00:00:53,000I was just speaking the other day, with a father1600:00:53,000 –> 00:00:56,020who was really grieving over his son who had moved1700:00:56,020 –> 00:00:58,119far away from the things of God.1800:00:58,560 –> 00:01:03,119And he said to me, Pastor, I feel like it’s my fault.1900:01:03,860 –> 00:01:07,580And I said to him, now, you cannot be taking the blame.2000:01:07,580 –> 00:01:08,660And here’s why.2100:01:09,279 –> 00:01:12,080Because if all was well with your son,2200:01:12,260 –> 00:01:13,959you wouldn’t take the credit.2300:01:14,000 –> 00:01:16,580You would say it’s God who has done this2400:01:16,580 –> 00:01:19,320and his grace that has given me this marvellous gift.2500:01:19,320 –> 00:01:21,900You wouldn’t take the credit if all was well.2600:01:22,419 –> 00:01:24,699And now you must not take the blame2700:01:24,900 –> 00:01:27,360when things are not as you would wish them to be.2800:01:27,559 –> 00:01:31,519So it’s very important that there are general principles2900:01:31,519 –> 00:01:33,660that are taught to us in scripture and they’re3000:01:33,820 –> 00:01:37,699of huge value because they direct the kind of decisions3100:01:37,699 –> 00:01:38,660that we’re to make.3200:01:38,900 –> 00:01:40,519And that’s what we’re going to look at together3300:01:40,519 –> 00:01:41,559in this series.3400:01:41,559 –> 00:01:44,900It’s a wonderful part of the scripture and immensely helpful.3500:01:45,019 –> 00:01:45,900But you’re so right.3600:01:45,980 –> 00:01:48,320We’re not looking at particular promises3700:01:48,320 –> 00:01:49,400in most of this series.3800:01:49,400 –> 00:01:51,779We’re looking at principles of wisdom3900:01:51,779 –> 00:01:53,940that God has given to us to follow.4000:01:54,139 –> 00:01:56,820Well, the series is called Wisdom for Life4100:01:57,239 –> 00:01:58,860and we’re in Proverbs 8 today.4200:01:58,860 –> 00:02:00,180So join us, if you can.4300:02:00,400 –> 00:02:02,139As we begin the message, Fear.4400:02:02,279 –> 00:02:03,440Here is Pastor Colin.4500:02:04,019 –> 00:02:06,279Let’s begin with a very simple definition.4600:02:06,320 –> 00:02:09,179We’re talking about wisdom and wisdom is very simply4700:02:09,179 –> 00:02:14,899the skill that you need to put together a successful life.4800:02:14,899 –> 00:02:15,639That’s what it is.4900:02:15,639 –> 00:02:19,100Another way of saying this would be life skills.5000:02:19,320 –> 00:02:21,740Wisdom is different from knowledge in the sense5100:02:21,740 –> 00:02:25,360that it is clearly possible to amass a very great deal5200:02:25,479 –> 00:02:27,360of knowledge to be absolutely brilliant5300:02:27,360 –> 00:02:30,820and yet not to live wisely, not to have the skills5400:02:30,820 –> 00:02:34,119to put a successful life together.5500:02:34,699 –> 00:02:37,679So here in the scriptures, God is speaking to us5600:02:37,679 –> 00:02:40,559about the skills that we need for life, the skills,5700:02:40,559 –> 00:02:42,820in other words, that we need for building friendships,5800:02:43,179 –> 00:02:46,360raising a family, managing money,5900:02:46,699 –> 00:02:50,679developing the ability to talk in a way that builds6000:02:50,679 –> 00:02:53,960others up rather than pushing them down6100:02:54,300 –> 00:02:57,699and becoming effective in the particular work6200:02:57,699 –> 00:03:00,580that God has given to you to do.6300:03:00,860 –> 00:03:03,820All of that and much more is included6400:03:03,820 –> 00:03:06,740in what the bible calls wisdom.6500:03:07,300 –> 00:03:10,240Now, the bible of course, is full of wisdom.6600:03:10,240 –> 00:03:12,300It runs right throughout the scriptures.6700:03:12,460 –> 00:03:15,240Our Lord Jesus Christ speaks about a wise6800:03:15,240 –> 00:03:16,580and a foolish builder.6900:03:16,960 –> 00:03:19,559He speaks, on one occasion, about a rich man7000:03:19,559 –> 00:03:22,800who God said was a fool.7100:03:23,800 –> 00:03:26,119But there are five books in the bible7200:03:26,119 –> 00:03:29,520that are regularly described as wisdom books7300:03:29,520 –> 00:03:34,240because they deal with these great issues of wisdom.7400:03:34,240 –> 00:03:36,720They are Job, Psalms, Proverbs7500:03:36,979 –> 00:03:38,580that we’re looking at over these weeks,7600:03:38,639 –> 00:03:42,000Ecclesiastes and Songs of Solomon.7700:03:42,559 –> 00:03:44,100They’re referred to as wisdom books7800:03:44,100 –> 00:03:47,699because their focus is on what we need7900:03:47,839 –> 00:03:51,279in order to put life together.8000:03:51,899 –> 00:03:54,539Now I know that this part of the bible8100:03:54,539 –> 00:03:56,240or expect that this part of the bible8200:03:56,240 –> 00:04:01,240may be new or less familiar to some of us at least,8300:04:01,539 –> 00:04:04,300and so, let me begin to oriented us8400:04:04,300 –> 00:04:08,119to this new part of the bible that we’re coming to today8500:04:08,119 –> 00:04:11,500with three very simple observations.8600:04:11,500 –> 00:04:13,619The first of these, the most obvious I think,8700:04:13,619 –> 00:04:16,559is the proverbs are proverbs, there you are.8800:04:16,559 –> 00:04:20,220Very simple statement but it’s actually very very important8900:04:20,220 –> 00:04:23,299always remember that the proverbs are proverbs.9000:04:23,299 –> 00:04:27,799In other words, they are a collection of wise sayings9100:04:27,799 –> 00:04:30,959or proverbs and what a proverb is,9200:04:30,959 –> 00:04:35,260is proverbs describe the normal pattern9300:04:35,260 –> 00:04:38,380that prevails in life and this world.9400:04:38,380 –> 00:04:40,239Try and settle that phrase in your mind.9500:04:40,239 –> 00:04:42,179That’s what a proverb is,9600:04:42,179 –> 00:04:44,299it describes the pattern9700:04:44,299 –> 00:04:48,940that prevails normally in this world.9800:04:48,940 –> 00:04:50,339Now here’s why that’s important,9900:04:50,339 –> 00:04:54,760always remember proverbs are not promises,10000:04:55,660 –> 00:04:57,040it’s a different category.10100:04:57,940 –> 00:05:01,899And if you confuse them, then you’ll come into difficulties.10200:05:01,899 –> 00:05:05,420For example, when the Book of Proverbs says,10300:05:05,420 –> 00:05:08,420train up a child in the way he should go10400:05:08,420 –> 00:05:13,200and even when he is old, he will not depart from it.10500:05:13,200 –> 00:05:17,799That does not mean that good parenting10600:05:17,799 –> 00:05:19,940guarantees godly children.10700:05:20,839 –> 00:05:23,779It is a proverb, not a promise, it is a proverb10800:05:23,779 –> 00:05:27,500and the proverb describes the normal pattern10900:05:27,500 –> 00:05:29,160that prevails in this world,11000:05:29,160 –> 00:05:33,700it does not guarantee a particular outcome.11100:05:33,700 –> 00:05:36,019and I’ve had many conversations over the years11200:05:36,019 –> 00:05:38,100with folks particularly in a verse like this11300:05:38,140 –> 00:05:39,500they said, well now I’ve read this verse,11400:05:39,500 –> 00:05:41,160we’re trying to be a good and a godly parent11500:05:41,160 –> 00:05:42,380and I can’t make any sense of it11600:05:42,380 –> 00:05:45,239and I’m saying, oh you’re taking this to be a promise.11700:05:45,239 –> 00:05:46,459You have not understood the difference11800:05:46,459 –> 00:05:47,739between a promise and a proverb.11900:05:47,739 –> 00:05:49,320It’s very, very important.12000:05:49,320 –> 00:05:52,100Let me give you an example just to press home12100:05:52,100 –> 00:05:55,019how important it is that we understand12200:05:55,019 –> 00:05:58,059that proverbs are describing for us12300:05:58,059 –> 00:06:02,000the normal pattern that prevails in this world.12400:06:02,000 –> 00:06:04,260Proverbs 11 and verse 16.12500:06:05,179 –> 00:06:07,440A gracious woman gets honor12600:06:09,500 –> 00:06:11,760and violent men get riches.12700:06:14,119 –> 00:06:16,420Now, how are you gonna understand that one?12800:06:16,420 –> 00:06:19,260Clearly, this is not telling us12900:06:19,260 –> 00:06:21,619that we should all go out and pursue violence13000:06:21,619 –> 00:06:23,899in order to get money.13100:06:23,899 –> 00:06:25,980No, the proverbs, what are they?13200:06:25,980 –> 00:06:28,899The proverbs are describing a normal pattern13300:06:28,899 –> 00:06:31,100that prevails in this world,13400:06:31,100 –> 00:06:33,720and the sad reality is that in this fallen world,13500:06:33,720 –> 00:06:37,640as all of us know well, large massive amounts of money13600:06:37,640 –> 00:06:40,660are accumulated by men who do violence.13700:06:41,940 –> 00:06:45,359Now, of course, the point of the proverb is this,13800:06:45,359 –> 00:06:48,019that even in this fallen world, think about this,13900:06:48,019 –> 00:06:52,260even in this fallen world, one gracious woman,14000:06:52,260 –> 00:06:54,799notice it’s singular, a gracious woman.14100:06:55,940 –> 00:07:00,619So a single gracious woman, a woman of grace,14200:07:00,660 –> 00:07:05,660who clearly cannot hope to match the strength14300:07:05,899 –> 00:07:09,339of a whole gang of violent men, plural,14400:07:10,959 –> 00:07:15,179this one gracious woman gets something14500:07:15,179 –> 00:07:17,079more valuable than money.14600:07:17,940 –> 00:07:19,279She gets honor.14700:07:20,220 –> 00:07:25,220So grace that looks so weak in this world14800:07:25,540 –> 00:07:29,059actually gets more than violence14900:07:29,079 –> 00:07:31,239that looks so strong in this world.15000:07:31,239 –> 00:07:33,000That’s the point of the proverb.15100:07:33,000 –> 00:07:34,940And it’s rightly understood when you see15200:07:34,940 –> 00:07:38,600that it is describing the normal pattern15300:07:38,600 –> 00:07:41,299that prevails in this world.15400:07:41,299 –> 00:07:44,420So remember that the proverbs are proverbs.15500:07:44,420 –> 00:07:45,619They are promises.15600:07:45,619 –> 00:07:48,920They are descriptions of the normal pattern15700:07:48,920 –> 00:07:51,399of life in this world.15800:07:51,399 –> 00:07:55,420Second, always remember as we come to this book15900:07:55,420 –> 00:07:59,000that the proverbs assume a relationship.16000:07:59,000 –> 00:08:01,320They assume a relationship.16100:08:01,320 –> 00:08:03,079That’s the significance if you turn back16200:08:03,079 –> 00:08:06,720to chapter two, verse one, or chapter three in verse one.16300:08:06,720 –> 00:08:08,399They both begin in the same way.16400:08:08,399 –> 00:08:09,480Chapter three and verse one,16500:08:09,480 –> 00:08:13,779my son do not forget my teaching,16600:08:13,779 –> 00:08:16,480but let your heart keep my commandments.16700:08:16,480 –> 00:08:17,579My son.16800:08:19,040 –> 00:08:23,519Now the words, my son, occur 23 times.16900:08:23,519 –> 00:08:26,859They’re strewn all the way through the book of proverbs.17000:08:26,880 –> 00:08:31,140And my son indicates that these words are being spoken17100:08:31,140 –> 00:08:35,739out of and into a relationship of love.17200:08:35,739 –> 00:08:40,419This is a father speaking to his son.17300:08:40,419 –> 00:08:41,780And in the first instance,17400:08:41,780 –> 00:08:45,159most of these proverbs would have been spoken by Solomon.17500:08:45,159 –> 00:08:47,419That’s chapter one in verse one tells us17600:08:47,419 –> 00:08:48,340that they come from him,17700:08:48,340 –> 00:08:52,239though there are some proverbs from others later in the book.17800:08:52,239 –> 00:08:54,419They would have been spoken by Solomon,17900:08:54,419 –> 00:08:58,799loving father to his son, Rehoboam.18000:08:58,799 –> 00:09:03,799They come out of and flow into a relationship of love.18100:09:05,760 –> 00:09:10,099Now, seeing that, we must remember that the Bible of course,18200:09:10,099 –> 00:09:13,200is more than the wisdom of Solomon.18300:09:13,200 –> 00:09:16,739And this book is more than the wisdom of Solomon.18400:09:16,739 –> 00:09:19,640The book of proverbs is in holy scripture18500:09:19,640 –> 00:09:22,679because it is the word of God,18600:09:22,679 –> 00:09:25,820and God breathed out these proverbs through Solomon18700:09:25,820 –> 00:09:28,140and in the same way as God breathed out the Psalms18800:09:28,140 –> 00:09:30,440through David and breathed out the book of Romans18900:09:30,440 –> 00:09:32,599through the Apostle Paul.19000:09:33,619 –> 00:09:38,099So when we read My Son, we are to understand19100:09:38,099 –> 00:09:40,679that behind the loving voice of King Solomon19200:09:40,679 –> 00:09:43,500speaking to his son, Prince Rehoboam,19300:09:44,640 –> 00:09:47,140there is actually the loving voice of God,19400:09:47,140 –> 00:09:51,039our heavenly father, speaking to His own children.19500:09:51,080 –> 00:09:56,039A relationship is assumed, this is our God speaking to us19600:09:57,059 –> 00:10:01,960and He’s calling us to walk in paths of wisdom.19700:10:03,159 –> 00:10:05,080We’ve got to pause the message briefly there19800:10:05,080 –> 00:10:08,739but we’ll be back very shortly, so do stay with us.19900:10:08,739 –> 00:10:11,460You’re listening to Open the Bible with Pastor Colin Smith20000:10:11,460 –> 00:10:13,320and A Message Called Fear,20100:10:13,320 –> 00:10:16,719part of our series Wisdom for Life, all about the proverbs20200:10:16,719 –> 00:10:18,440and we’re being reminded that20300:10:18,440 –> 00:10:21,000proverbs are proverbs not promises.20400:10:21,840 –> 00:10:24,679And they assume a relationship.20500:10:24,679 –> 00:10:27,080If you ever miss one of the messages in this series,20600:10:27,080 –> 00:10:28,799don’t forget you can easily catch up20700:10:28,799 –> 00:10:30,679or go back and listen to them again20800:10:30,679 –> 00:10:32,900by coming online to our website,20900:10:32,900 –> 00:10:35,919that’s at openthebible.org.uk21000:10:35,919 –> 00:10:38,840and you can also find Pastor Colin as a podcast21100:10:38,840 –> 00:10:41,400and those are on all the podcast sites,21200:10:41,400 –> 00:10:44,280search for openthebible.uk21300:10:44,280 –> 00:10:47,880and subscribe if you want to receive regular reminders.21400:10:47,900 –> 00:10:51,280Back to the message now, here again is Pastor Colin.21500:10:51,280 –> 00:10:54,239Proverbs are proverbs, they’re not promises,21600:10:54,239 –> 00:10:56,559proverbs assume a relationship21700:10:56,559 –> 00:10:58,440and here’s the third introductory point21800:10:58,440 –> 00:11:01,239just to get ourselves settled in this book,21900:11:01,239 –> 00:11:04,919the proverbs point to Jesus.22000:11:04,919 –> 00:11:08,080Look at chapter eight in verse one that was read for us,22100:11:08,080 –> 00:11:11,340does not wisdom call,22200:11:11,340 –> 00:11:16,239does not understanding raise her voice?22300:11:17,000 –> 00:11:21,679Now wisdom raises her voice22400:11:21,679 –> 00:11:23,280and so that raises the question22500:11:23,280 –> 00:11:27,200now whose voice then are we listening to?22600:11:28,719 –> 00:11:30,559And as many of you know very well,22700:11:30,559 –> 00:11:31,679in the New Testament,22800:11:31,679 –> 00:11:36,679we are told that Jesus Christ is the wisdom of God.22900:11:37,219 –> 00:11:39,080First Corinthians chapter one and verse 30,23000:11:39,080 –> 00:11:41,520Christ has made for us wisdom,23100:11:41,520 –> 00:11:44,479he’s become for us wisdom.23200:11:44,479 –> 00:11:46,700Or Colossians chapter two in verse three,23300:11:46,700 –> 00:11:50,520in Christ are hidden all the treasures23400:11:50,520 –> 00:11:54,159of wisdom and of knowledge.23500:11:54,159 –> 00:11:56,200We preach Christ crucified23600:11:56,200 –> 00:11:57,440and to those who are called,23700:11:57,440 –> 00:11:59,280Christ is the power of God23800:11:59,280 –> 00:12:04,039and we know that he is the wisdom of God.23900:12:04,039 –> 00:12:05,840So when we read as Christian’s24000:12:05,840 –> 00:12:07,200back in the book of Proverbs24100:12:07,200 –> 00:12:10,080that wisdom calls and we know24200:12:10,080 –> 00:12:11,719that this is the very word of God,24300:12:11,719 –> 00:12:14,239we are to understand that the voice24400:12:14,539 –> 00:12:17,200of the eternal Son of God24500:12:17,200 –> 00:12:20,479is speaking to us in and through the scripture24600:12:20,479 –> 00:12:21,919in the book of Proverbs24700:12:21,919 –> 00:12:24,320and calling us to follow after him24800:12:24,320 –> 00:12:27,280because he himself indeed is wisdom.24900:12:28,179 –> 00:12:29,719And I want you to notice chapter eight25000:12:29,719 –> 00:12:31,659in verse two and three,25100:12:31,659 –> 00:12:34,119where wisdom takes her stand,25200:12:34,119 –> 00:12:36,840where it is that Christ speaks to us25300:12:36,840 –> 00:12:39,559at the crossroads, verse two,25400:12:39,559 –> 00:12:44,080beside the gate in front of the town, verse three,25500:12:44,080 –> 00:12:46,159which translated into our day means25600:12:46,159 –> 00:12:50,260at the shopping mall and at the workplace.25700:12:50,260 –> 00:12:51,580So, try and imagine this,25800:12:51,580 –> 00:12:53,080you arrive at the shopping mall,25900:12:53,080 –> 00:12:56,239whatever the place is that you most like to go,26000:12:57,159 –> 00:12:59,760and as you’re parking your car there26100:12:59,760 –> 00:13:02,280and you’re just about to head into the store26200:13:02,280 –> 00:13:04,340where you’re gonna begin your shopping,26300:13:05,239 –> 00:13:06,580there’s a voice that calls to you.26400:13:06,580 –> 00:13:09,500Hey, before you go in there, come over here.26500:13:10,400 –> 00:13:13,400I’ve got something that you’re going to need26600:13:13,400 –> 00:13:14,479when you’re shopping.26700:13:15,739 –> 00:13:17,299Or, imagine you’re getting into the train26800:13:17,299 –> 00:13:18,919to begin the commute to your work,26900:13:18,919 –> 00:13:19,880or you’re getting into the car.27000:13:19,880 –> 00:13:21,559However you make that journey.27100:13:22,520 –> 00:13:23,820And as you do there’s a voice27200:13:23,820 –> 00:13:25,020that calls out to you right there.27300:13:25,020 –> 00:13:26,119Hey, before you go there,27400:13:26,119 –> 00:13:29,679before you get into your long list of to-dos today,27500:13:29,679 –> 00:13:31,179I’ve got something for you27600:13:31,179 –> 00:13:33,760that you’re going to need in your work today.27700:13:33,760 –> 00:13:37,299This is where wisdom calls to us.27800:13:37,299 –> 00:13:39,880This is where Christ speaks to us27900:13:39,880 –> 00:13:42,739in the book of Proverbs.28000:13:43,719 –> 00:13:48,559And wisdom is presented to us as a person28100:13:48,559 –> 00:13:52,159who offers something of great value.28200:13:53,299 –> 00:13:56,219Notice chapter eight and verse 10.28300:13:56,219 –> 00:13:59,179More precious than silver,28400:13:59,179 –> 00:14:01,440of more value than gold.28500:14:02,340 –> 00:14:04,919Verse 11 better than jewels,28600:14:06,140 –> 00:14:10,559nothing you desire can compare with her.28700:14:11,500 –> 00:14:14,200So as Christians we understand that God,28800:14:14,200 –> 00:14:16,340very wonderfully, has given us something28900:14:16,340 –> 00:14:19,580more than wisdom in a book.29000:14:20,580 –> 00:14:24,539He has given us wisdom in the flesh.29100:14:24,539 –> 00:14:25,659That’s Jesus Christ.29200:14:25,659 –> 00:14:26,940The word made flesh.29300:14:26,940 –> 00:14:31,659Wisdom made flesh for us.29400:14:31,659 –> 00:14:34,380And to all who are in Christ by faith,29500:14:34,380 –> 00:14:37,039He gives us the Holy Spirit,29600:14:37,039 –> 00:14:40,000who is the Spirit of Wisdom.29700:14:40,000 –> 00:14:43,000That’s Ephesians Chapter 1 in verse 17,29800:14:43,000 –> 00:14:44,919the spirit of wisdom29900:14:44,919 –> 00:14:48,599in order that you may know God better.30000:14:48,599 –> 00:14:50,539That’s who’s given to you.30100:14:50,539 –> 00:14:52,880And so putting these things together,30200:14:52,880 –> 00:14:57,400we understand that we gain wisdom through the word.30300:14:57,400 –> 00:14:59,520That’s why we’re looking into the book of Proverbs.30400:14:59,520 –> 00:15:01,359It’s all about wisdom for life.30500:15:01,359 –> 00:15:03,260We gain wisdom through the word.30600:15:03,260 –> 00:15:07,679We do it as we walk with Christ who is the wisdom of God30700:15:07,679 –> 00:15:12,020in the power of the spirit, who is the spirit of wisdom.30800:15:12,960 –> 00:15:17,200In other words, walking the way of wisdom30900:15:17,200 –> 00:15:18,799is another way of describing31000:15:18,799 –> 00:15:21,219what the New Testament calls discipleship.31100:15:22,479 –> 00:15:25,719Because to follow wisdom is to follow Jesus.31200:15:26,859 –> 00:15:31,359To listen to wisdom is to listen to Jesus.31300:15:31,359 –> 00:15:36,359And to grow in wisdom is to grow in Jesus.31400:15:36,719 –> 00:15:39,900And the book of Proverbs describes31500:15:39,900 –> 00:15:43,719what this looks like in very practical areas of life.31600:15:43,719 –> 00:15:44,880What does it mean?31700:15:44,880 –> 00:15:47,679To follow and listen to and grow in Jesus31800:15:47,679 –> 00:15:49,039in regards to your friendships,31900:15:49,039 –> 00:15:50,559in regards to your family,32000:15:50,559 –> 00:15:54,159in regards to your words, your work, and your wealth?32100:15:54,159 –> 00:15:56,159Well, the book of Proverbs is here32200:15:56,159 –> 00:15:58,359to answer these questions.32300:15:58,359 –> 00:16:01,599It lays out the life to which wisdom calls us,32400:16:01,599 –> 00:16:03,799it lays out to put it in other terms,32500:16:03,900 –> 00:16:07,039the life of a disciple of Jesus.32600:16:09,500 –> 00:16:12,200Now, that’s the journey that lies ahead of us,32700:16:12,200 –> 00:16:15,359and I really want that all of us here today32800:16:15,359 –> 00:16:19,440will be motivated for this journey.32900:16:19,440 –> 00:16:22,599Some of you may be asking at the beginning of a new series33000:16:22,599 –> 00:16:23,900and trying to introduce this,33100:16:23,900 –> 00:16:25,760and you’re trying to figure it out now,33200:16:25,760 –> 00:16:28,440what’s in this for me?33300:16:28,440 –> 00:16:30,200And that’s always a good question.33400:16:30,200 –> 00:16:33,400Why should I be interested in this?33500:16:34,799 –> 00:16:36,119Let me try and encourage you33600:16:36,119 –> 00:16:38,299by answering that question this way.33700:16:40,200 –> 00:16:41,760The Bible makes it clear33800:16:42,700 –> 00:16:47,599that the path of following Jesus is often costly.33900:16:47,599 –> 00:16:52,599The path of pursuing wisdom, same thing, is often costly.34000:16:52,900 –> 00:16:56,099Jesus tells us that the gate is narrow,34100:16:56,099 –> 00:16:58,260that the way is hard,34200:16:58,260 –> 00:17:00,219and that only a few people find it.34300:17:00,719 –> 00:17:04,719But he then tells us that there is this marvelous incentive34400:17:04,719 –> 00:17:07,680that this hard way on which the few find34500:17:07,680 –> 00:17:12,020and the gate is narrow, it does lead to life.34600:17:14,579 –> 00:17:18,439Now the normal way in which I think we understand34700:17:18,439 –> 00:17:23,439that is we tend to think that living a godly life34800:17:24,319 –> 00:17:25,900in this world is hard,34900:17:26,339 –> 00:17:29,839but there is at least this payoff35000:17:29,839 –> 00:17:33,199that there will be a great reward for all of us in heaven35100:17:34,280 –> 00:17:37,099and of course, that is wonderfully true,35200:17:38,599 –> 00:17:41,520but when Jesus says that the narrow way leads to life,35300:17:41,520 –> 00:17:43,219there’s something more in his word35400:17:43,219 –> 00:17:45,119than a reference to heaven35500:17:46,380 –> 00:17:50,640and the book of Proverbs draws out another truth35600:17:50,640 –> 00:17:54,300that we also need to grasp,35700:17:55,300 –> 00:17:59,060which is that those who walk the path of godly wisdom,35800:17:59,060 –> 00:18:03,040those who press hard as disciples after Jesus35900:18:04,680 –> 00:18:07,239will be blessed in this life36000:18:09,239 –> 00:18:11,640as well as in the world to come.36100:18:12,579 –> 00:18:14,579Do you remember how Jesus spoke about this36200:18:14,579 –> 00:18:17,859on one occasion when the disciples were complaining36300:18:17,859 –> 00:18:20,959about the fact that they’d given up a lot to follow Jesus36400:18:20,959 –> 00:18:23,640and Jesus said to them, this is Mark chapter 10.36500:18:24,859 –> 00:18:27,760Well there’s no one who’s left fields or family36600:18:27,760 –> 00:18:30,880or father or mother for me will not receive36700:18:30,880 –> 00:18:35,280a hundred times as much in this life, in this life36800:18:36,640 –> 00:18:41,640and on top in the world to come, everlasting life as well.36900:18:45,119 –> 00:18:50,119Now, the this life piece is the particular truth37000:18:50,939 –> 00:18:53,239that the book of Proverbs emphasizes37100:18:53,239 –> 00:18:56,060for us again and again and again,37200:18:56,060 –> 00:18:58,760the blessing of following the Lord Jesus Christ37300:18:58,760 –> 00:18:59,939in this life.37400:19:00,800 –> 00:19:02,079And I want you to see this.37500:19:02,079 –> 00:19:04,020I’m trying to motivate us for the journey.37600:19:04,020 –> 00:19:06,579I want us to feel like this is a part of scripture37700:19:06,579 –> 00:19:10,280that we must get into us in a deeper way.37800:19:10,280 –> 00:19:11,520So turn with me for a moment,37900:19:11,520 –> 00:19:14,819if you would back to Proverbs in chapter three38000:19:14,819 –> 00:19:16,959and remember what we said right at the beginning.38100:19:16,959 –> 00:19:21,020We’re looking here at Proverbs, not promises.38200:19:21,020 –> 00:19:24,839But I want you to look at the normal pattern38300:19:24,839 –> 00:19:27,959that prevails in this world.38400:19:27,959 –> 00:19:30,540Look at Proverbs three in verse 13.38500:19:30,540 –> 00:19:34,560Blessed is the one who finds wisdom38600:19:35,380 –> 00:19:38,459and the one who gets understanding,38700:19:38,459 –> 00:19:42,900for the gain from her is better than the gain from silver38800:19:42,900 –> 00:19:46,359and her profit is better than gold.38900:19:47,479 –> 00:19:49,979She is more precious than jewels.39000:19:49,979 –> 00:19:53,119Hey, something better than diamonds.39100:19:53,119 –> 00:19:58,119And nothing you desire can compare with her.39200:19:58,280 –> 00:19:59,560Well that’s quite a statement.39300:19:59,560 –> 00:20:01,979So we immediately say, hey, why?39400:20:01,979 –> 00:20:05,900Okay, where’s the value, what then will wisdom bring for us?39500:20:05,900 –> 00:20:09,040And notice line on line that question39600:20:09,040 –> 00:20:10,119is answered right here.39700:20:10,119 –> 00:20:14,800First, long life, chapter three in verse 16.39800:20:14,800 –> 00:20:19,800Long life is in her right hand.39900:20:22,359 –> 00:20:26,780Now remember we’re talking about a proverb, not a promise.40000:20:27,800 –> 00:20:29,959We are talking about the normal pattern40100:20:29,959 –> 00:20:32,239that prevails in this world.40200:20:33,140 –> 00:20:35,359Think this through with me please.40300:20:36,599 –> 00:20:41,599Everyone understands that eating a proper diet40400:20:42,099 –> 00:20:46,880will lead to better health than living on junk food.40500:20:46,880 –> 00:20:48,900Can we have agreement on that here?40600:20:48,900 –> 00:20:51,300Universal agreement, we all agree whatever we actually do40700:20:51,300 –> 00:20:55,640we know that this is true, that if we eat a proper diet40800:20:55,640 –> 00:21:00,640we will be more healthy then if we live on junk food.40900:21:01,599 –> 00:21:05,319Now by the way that doesn’t mean that if you eat41000:21:05,319 –> 00:21:08,300vegetables and tomatoes every day you will never get cancer.41100:21:08,300 –> 00:21:10,479There’s no promise like that.41200:21:10,540 –> 00:21:12,660We’re talking about a general principle that prevails41300:21:12,660 –> 00:21:14,579in this world, that if you eat a healthy diet41400:21:14,579 –> 00:21:16,739you will be healthier then if you live on junk food.41500:21:16,739 –> 00:21:19,020Everyone knows that, we all agree with it.41600:21:19,020 –> 00:21:20,839Now here’s the point.41700:21:20,839 –> 00:21:24,939The same principle that applies to your body41800:21:24,939 –> 00:21:27,540also applies to your soul.41900:21:28,500 –> 00:21:31,239This is why Peter says in the New Testament42000:21:31,239 –> 00:21:35,540whoever would love life, you wanna have a good life,42100:21:36,280 –> 00:21:41,280and would see good days, length of days,42200:21:41,699 –> 00:21:43,540here’s what you should do.42300:21:43,540 –> 00:21:46,180Let him keep his tongue from evil,42400:21:46,180 –> 00:21:49,020let him turn away from evil and do good.42500:21:49,020 –> 00:21:53,400Let him seek peace and pursue it.42600:21:55,219 –> 00:21:59,380Now see, some of us actually can become quite unhealthy42700:21:59,380 –> 00:22:03,099because we have allowed patterns of conflict42800:22:03,119 –> 00:22:07,380to so characterize our lives, that it stunts us42900:22:07,380 –> 00:22:09,300and we would be much more healthy43000:22:09,300 –> 00:22:11,099if we could live in peace.43100:22:12,560 –> 00:22:16,239And that’s precisely what wisdom calls us to,43200:22:17,959 –> 00:22:20,560for you to build patterns of life43300:22:20,560 –> 00:22:25,560that will be healthy for you and you will be blessed.43400:22:25,599 –> 00:22:26,819You’re listening to Open the Bible43500:22:26,819 –> 00:22:28,219with pastor Colin Smith43600:22:28,219 –> 00:22:31,540and the first part of our message called Fear,43700:22:31,560 –> 00:22:36,020is from our series on proverbs called Wisdom for Life.43800:22:36,020 –> 00:22:38,719And if you ever miss one of the messages in the series,43900:22:38,719 –> 00:22:40,979you can catch up or go back and listen again44000:22:40,979 –> 00:22:45,780online at our website, openthebible.org.uk.44100:22:45,780 –> 00:22:49,780Join us again next time for the second part of this message.44200:22:49,780 –> 00:22:52,339Open the Bible is supported by our listeners.44300:22:52,339 –> 00:22:54,939We’re able to bring you pastor Colin’s teaching44400:22:54,939 –> 00:22:57,780on the radio, internet and podcasts44500:22:57,780 –> 00:23:01,060as a result of the generosity of listeners like you.44600:23:01,119 –> 00:23:03,599So if you already give to support our work,44700:23:03,599 –> 00:23:06,739thank you so much, we do appreciate it.44800:23:06,739 –> 00:23:08,500This month when you begin to support44900:23:08,500 –> 00:23:10,219Open the Bible for the first time,45000:23:10,219 –> 00:23:12,339we’d love to say thank you by sending you45100:23:12,339 –> 00:23:14,800a copy of Pastor Colin’s brand new book,45200:23:14,800 –> 00:23:15,979Grow in Faith.45300:23:15,979 –> 00:23:18,939This devotional book is not yet available in the UK45400:23:18,939 –> 00:23:21,619so our offer is very exclusive.45500:23:21,619 –> 00:23:24,160Colin, why did you write this book?45600:23:24,160 –> 00:23:27,060Well the Bible speaks to us repeatedly45700:23:27,060 –> 00:23:29,500about the central importance of faith45800:23:29,500 –> 00:23:31,939and of hope and of love.45900:23:31,939 –> 00:23:33,640At the end of first Corinthians 13,46000:23:33,640 –> 00:23:36,660Paul speaks about everything else is going to pass away46100:23:36,660 –> 00:23:38,540but these things are going to remain,46200:23:38,540 –> 00:23:40,660faith, hope and love.46300:23:40,660 –> 00:23:42,380So they’re of central importance46400:23:42,380 –> 00:23:46,339and of course they speak to the needs of our world today.46500:23:46,339 –> 00:23:47,599I mean we’re living in days46600:23:47,599 –> 00:23:50,479where so many people experience fear46700:23:50,479 –> 00:23:52,619and a sense of gloom46800:23:52,619 –> 00:23:54,459and where there’s so much conflict.46900:23:54,459 –> 00:23:56,839We need faith, hope and love.47000:23:56,839 –> 00:23:59,040And so Grow in Faith is actually47100:23:59,040 –> 00:24:02,520the first of a series of three books47200:24:02,520 –> 00:24:04,819that are coming out beginning this month47300:24:04,819 –> 00:24:07,020and then in the two months that follow.47400:24:07,020 –> 00:24:11,199Really excited and grateful for the opportunity to do this.47500:24:11,199 –> 00:24:14,599If God’s people can grow in faith,47600:24:14,599 –> 00:24:18,380grow in hope, and grow in love,47700:24:18,380 –> 00:24:21,780then the world is going to see something distinct about us47800:24:21,780 –> 00:24:24,739that is very powerfully attractive.47900:24:24,739 –> 00:24:26,420And so I hope that these books48000:24:26,420 –> 00:24:28,339are going to be a means of God’s blessing48100:24:28,339 –> 00:24:29,939and encouragement to many.48200:24:29,939 –> 00:24:32,219Start this month with Grow in Faith48300:24:32,219 –> 00:24:34,900and follow up next month with Grow in Hope48400:24:34,900 –> 00:24:37,339and the month after that with Grow in Love.48500:24:37,339 –> 00:24:39,660Well, Pastor Colin’s book, Grow in Faith,48600:24:39,660 –> 00:24:42,219is our special offer to you this 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