Cultivate Self-Control

Judges 13:1-16:31
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Pastor Colin describes Samson as a gifted believer, set apart from birth for God’s purpose, and endowed with extraordinary strength by the Holy Spirit. Despite his courage and achievements, Samson was an irresponsible fool, making foolish mistakes that led to much self-inflicted pain. The sermon highlights the dual aspects of Samson’s character: a courageous hero and an irresponsible fool.

He delves into the story of Samson, focusing on critical events such as Samson’s ill-fated marriage to a Philistine woman, his feats of strength, and moments of weakness, particularly his entanglement with Delilah. Despite his flaws, God’s purpose prevails as Pastor Colin underscores that even our greatest mistakes cannot derail God’s plans.

Pastor Colin draws parallels between Samson’s fall and struggles with personal passions and temptations, urging the congregation to find hope and strength in Jesus Christ. He encourages belief in God’s grace to overcome worldly passions and highlights the possibility of restoration even after severe failures.

The sermon concludes with a call to prayer, asking for God’s grace to enable the congregation to learn from Samson’s story, avoid similar pitfalls, and to live self-controlled, godly lives through the grace offered in Jesus Christ.

1 00:00:00,000 –> 00:00:04,160 Be grateful if you could open your Bibles at the book of Judges and chapter 13, 2 00:00:04,880 –> 00:00:09,680 we continue our series Dectures on the Titanic, looking at how we can avoid 3 00:00:09,680 –> 00:00:16,160 a plunge to disaster in our lives and learning today from the story of Samson Judges and chapter 4 00:00:16,160 –> 00:00:21,760 13. And as we turn to that opening the Bible, let’s come before God in a moment of prayer. 5 00:00:24,719 –> 00:00:28,719 Father, we’ve come here today to meet with you and to hear your voice. 6 00:00:30,240 –> 00:00:36,880 And so as we open the Bible again now, we ask that you will speak to us through it, 7 00:00:38,400 –> 00:00:45,279 show us ourselves in it and point us to Jesus Christ our Savior and our Lord, 8 00:00:46,720 –> 00:00:56,560 giving us hope in and through him. These things we ask together, in Jesus’ name. Amen. 9 00:00:57,040 –> 00:01:04,239 Now I want you this morning to try and imagine a nightmare scenario. 10 00:01:06,320 –> 00:01:11,440 It’s hard for us to do this because we’ve become so used to the freedom that we enjoy 11 00:01:11,440 –> 00:01:19,199 and sometimes may take for granted, but I want you to imagine tanks rolling up the streets 12 00:01:19,199 –> 00:01:25,599 in Washington. I want you to imagine the unthinkable scenario in which a foreign power 13 00:01:25,599 –> 00:01:33,599 has invaded this country and we are no longer a free people. The FBI and CIA have been taken over. 14 00:01:33,599 –> 00:01:39,360 All of the national security apparatus has been dismantled. A foreign army are on the streets 15 00:01:39,360 –> 00:01:47,360 of every city, and every day, there are atrocities committed by the military on the streets in the 16 00:01:47,360 –> 00:01:55,360 loop against defenseless people on their way to work. Various attempts at resistance have been 17 00:01:55,360 –> 00:02:01,839 made, but whenever anyone gets involved in something to do with resistance, they disappear 18 00:02:02,639 –> 00:02:08,160 and are never heard of again. So gradually, over time, resistance crumbles. 19 00:02:09,119 –> 00:02:18,160 People begin to accept the unthinkable. We lose hope of ever regaining our freedom. 20 00:02:19,839 –> 00:02:25,600 Now, that is the nightmare scenario that applied to God’s people at the beginning of Judges in 21 00:02:25,600 –> 00:02:32,399 chapter 13. Do you see there that the Lord had delivered them into the hands of the Philistines 22 00:02:33,199 –> 00:02:41,759 for 40 years? God’s people at this time had no army. They had no king. There was no organized 23 00:02:41,759 –> 00:02:50,080 resistance movement, and so they were absolutely helpless under the tyranny of a fearful oppressor. 24 00:02:51,199 –> 00:02:58,479 The enemy had rolled into the land, and for 40 years, the people of God had been unable to do 25 00:02:58,479 –> 00:03:07,600 anything about it. 40 years! That’s a whole generation. You think of what 40 years means. 26 00:03:07,600 –> 00:03:14,080 You try and picture your children, or your grandchildren, growing up over a period of 40 27 00:03:14,080 –> 00:03:19,600 years. You’ve known freedom, but they’ve never known it since they were born. All they’ve ever 28 00:03:19,600 –> 00:03:27,039 known is the tanks in the streets. And you’re now seeing them, 20, 30, 38, 39, 40 years old, 29 00:03:27,039 –> 00:03:35,279 and you wonder, will they ever know what it is to be free? And you as you get older begin to cry 30 00:03:35,279 –> 00:03:42,320 out to God, where is deliverance going to come from? You can’t see a hope of it on the horizon. 31 00:03:43,679 –> 00:03:50,399 But God heard the prayers of his people, and he answered in the birth of Samson. 32 00:03:51,759 –> 00:03:55,360 Now we need to know three things about Samson before we get into the story 33 00:03:55,360 –> 00:04:02,000 so that we can understand it rightly. The first is that Samson was a gifted believer. 34 00:04:02,559 –> 00:04:09,039 I say he was a believer, because the New Testament specifically tells us that he was a man of faith. 35 00:04:09,039 –> 00:04:16,239 Hebrews chapter 11, verse 32 lists him along with David and Samuel and Gideon as those who 36 00:04:16,239 –> 00:04:23,440 administered justice, conquered kingdoms, through faith. He was a man of faith. So I expect for that 37 00:04:23,440 –> 00:04:32,160 reason to see Samson in heaven. I don’t expect to see Caine there. I don’t expect to see Esau there. 38 00:04:32,799 –> 00:04:38,320 But I think that we can expect to see Samson there, because for all his flaws, the Bible tells 39 00:04:38,320 –> 00:04:46,880 us he was a man of faith. Not only that, God made it clear before Samson was born that he was to be 40 00:04:47,200 –> 00:04:52,880 apart for a very special purpose for God. Chapter 13 of Judges and verse 5, 41 00:04:52,880 –> 00:05:00,720 this boy is to be a Nazirite. He’s to be set apart from birth and he will begin the deliverance of 42 00:05:00,720 –> 00:05:07,279 Israel from the hands of the Philistines. Now this bit about being a Nazirite was somewhat unusual. 43 00:05:07,920 –> 00:05:14,720 You can read about it in Numbers and chapter 6. Basically, when a person wanted to give themselves 44 00:05:14,720 –> 00:05:20,880 with a special devotion to God for a period of time or for a particular purpose, they would 45 00:05:20,880 –> 00:05:26,079 take a vow in which they would not cut their hair, in which they would abstain from any 46 00:05:26,079 –> 00:05:33,279 alcoholic drink, and in which they would not touch nor go near any kind of dead body or carcass. 47 00:05:34,239 –> 00:05:38,959 This was in order to keep them ceremonially pure so that they could continually be 48 00:05:38,959 –> 00:05:44,559 as it were in the presence of God. Now a Nazarite vow was normally taken 49 00:05:44,559 –> 00:05:49,119 for a particular period of time, a few months or whatever, for a special reason. 50 00:05:49,920 –> 00:05:55,679 But what was unique about Samson was that this vow applied to the whole of his life. 51 00:05:56,320 –> 00:06:01,279 From the moment that he was born, God said, you’re set apart for a particular purpose. 52 00:06:01,920 –> 00:06:06,239 And it was for that reason that, unlike any other college student, 53 00:06:06,239 –> 00:06:13,119 his mother never once said to him, son, go to the barber’s and get a haircut. 54 00:06:13,119 –> 00:06:16,480 She never said that to him. And so., throughout his life, 55 00:06:16,480 –> 00:06:19,679 his hair grew. Now notice third, that he was gifted. 56 00:06:19,679 –> 00:06:23,839 He was a believer. He was set apart for God. He was unusually gifted by the Holy Spirit. 57 00:06:24,399 –> 00:06:30,959 Chapter 13 and verse 24, the Spirit of the Lord began to stir in him. 58 00:06:31,760 –> 00:06:38,559 It was the Holy Spirit who gave him this gift of remarkable strength. 59 00:06:38,559 –> 00:06:45,359 It was a charisma. It was what we might call a spiritual gift and it was used to extraordinary 60 00:06:45,359 –> 00:06:51,279 effect. So if we are to understand Samson properly, we need to start from what the Bible tells us, 61 00:06:51,279 –> 00:06:58,559 that he was a gifted believer, set apart from God, empowered by the Holy Spirit for a special task 62 00:06:58,559 –> 00:07:06,799 to which God had called him. Secondly, he was a courageous hero. I think of Samson as 63 00:07:06,799 –> 00:07:14,880 the Arnold Schwarzenegger of the Old Testament. He is this larger-than-life hero who comes into 64 00:07:14,880 –> 00:07:20,079 a desperate situation and gives hope when everything else seems lost. In this country 65 00:07:20,079 –> 00:07:28,239 that is defeated and overrun, here is one man who is ready to put up a fight for the liberation of 66 00:07:28,239 –> 00:07:35,359 God’s people from their enemies. And he does it with awesome results. When we read about Samson 67 00:07:35,359 –> 00:07:46,480 taking out a thousand Philistines, we are not to thumb our chins and pull long faces and say, 68 00:07:46,480 –> 00:07:52,320 oh dear, what terrible moral problems there are in the Old Testament. No, we’re meant to 69 00:07:52,320 –> 00:07:59,839 cheer at that point, because we’re finding one hero who is prepared to face up to the enemy 70 00:07:59,839 –> 00:08:05,119 in a situation where the people of God have been cruelly oppressed for forty years and nobody 71 00:08:05,119 –> 00:08:12,079 around seems to be prepared to do anything about it. He becomes a one-man army in a nation that 72 00:08:12,079 –> 00:08:20,160 is otherwise defenceless. He would have merited the highest honours that our military could bestow 73 00:08:20,160 –> 00:08:26,480 for valour and courage in battle. But then the third thing to know about Samson is that he 74 00:08:26,480 –> 00:08:34,000 was an irresponsible fool, and this is the great irony of this man’s life. Here’s a man with godly 75 00:08:34,159 –> 00:08:42,960 parents, with spiritual gifts, extraordinary courage and greatly used by God. And yet at times as we’ll 76 00:08:42,960 –> 00:08:50,559 see he does the most stupid, stupid things. And so as you follow the story of Samson, sometimes 77 00:08:50,559 –> 00:08:56,400 you don’t know whether you should be cheering for him or weeping over him. And of course, 78 00:08:56,400 –> 00:09:02,400 the story therefore raises a very relevant question for us. How can a man who is such a 79 00:09:02,400 –> 00:09:11,119 gifted believer, so greatly used by God in his purpose, at the same time be such an irresponsible 80 00:09:11,119 –> 00:09:17,919 fool? How is it possible for a man to be given so much strength by God, and yet at the same 81 00:09:17,919 –> 00:09:25,280 time, as pursuing a wonderful ministry, make so many foolish mistakes? Now if you’ve never 82 00:09:25,280 –> 00:09:31,919 seen that contradiction, then you don’t live in the same world as I do. Samson speaks 83 00:09:31,919 –> 00:09:38,719 right to the heart of the questions that we face today. He reminds us that it is possible 84 00:09:38,719 –> 00:09:44,479 to have the gift of the spirit, that it is possible to be called by God to ministry. 85 00:09:45,039 –> 00:09:50,559 That it is possible to be used by God in his kingdom, and to take a plunge to disaster. 86 00:09:51,440 –> 00:09:56,479 And there isn’t one of us here who wants that to be true of us. And so our purpose 87 00:09:56,479 –> 00:10:05,200 today as we follow the story is to make sure that we learn from Samson so we don’t follow his path. 88 00:10:06,559 –> 00:10:11,679 Now as we turn to the story you have to use your imagination now to picture Samson. 89 00:10:12,719 –> 00:10:18,880 This guy’s been working out in the weight room for years when he walks 90 00:10:19,679 –> 00:10:30,559 his muscles ripple under his bronzed skin. Are you getting the picture here? His deep set dark eyes 91 00:10:32,799 –> 00:10:40,080 and his chiseled features and his perfectly toned six pack of abs 92 00:10:41,840 –> 00:10:45,840 attract attention wherever he walks. And now that 93 00:10:45,840 –> 00:10:51,760 you’ve got him firmly pictured in your imagination, I want you to see this Old Testament hunk 94 00:10:53,039 –> 00:10:59,520 walking down the road to a place called Tymna. And there at the beginning of chapter 14, 95 00:11:00,559 –> 00:11:08,640 we’re told that Samson sees a Philistine woman. Now, she must have been an absolute stunner 96 00:11:09,359 –> 00:11:15,440 because as soon as Sampson saw her, he was absolutely smitten. He comes home chapter 14 97 00:11:15,440 –> 00:11:21,200 and verse 2, and he says, I have seen a Philistine woman in Tymna. And he says to his mother and 98 00:11:21,200 –> 00:11:28,559 father, now get her for me as my wife. You have to get the inflection that’s there in the original 99 00:11:28,559 –> 00:11:35,359 in what he said here. It kind of was like this, I saw a woman 100 00:11:35,359 –> 00:11:43,760 in Tymna and he says to his mother and father, This is the one, no doubt I have seen her, 101 00:11:43,760 –> 00:11:49,679 no one else like her I have ever seen. Now, of course, Sampson is wanting to do the right 102 00:11:49,679 –> 00:11:54,880 thing in getting married, but of course he is doing it for all the wrong reasons. 103 00:11:55,599 –> 00:12:01,599 He didn’t even know this woman, it wasn’t until later that he even spoke to her. 104 00:12:01,679 –> 00:12:05,039 All he knew at this point was what he saw. 105 00:12:06,880 –> 00:12:10,960 Sampson’s mother and father of course are absolutely horrified by this. 106 00:12:10,960 –> 00:12:15,280 The Philistines are the enemy who have been oppressing God’s people for forty years. 107 00:12:16,080 –> 00:12:18,960 How can you possibly marry the enemy? 108 00:12:20,159 –> 00:12:23,039 But Sampson had made up his mind. Verse 3 of chapter 14, 109 00:12:23,599 –> 00:12:27,359 Get her for me, he says, she’s the right one 110 00:12:27,359 –> 00:12:30,479 for me. Well, talk about the strong-willed child! 111 00:12:31,679 –> 00:12:34,880 He’s so smitten, he’s not listening to anybody else. 112 00:12:35,599 –> 00:12:39,359 And of course as we saw last time, that’s the first step on the road to disaster. 113 00:12:40,400 –> 00:12:44,960 Now, there may be some parents who can identify with Sampson’s mother and father at this point 114 00:12:44,960 –> 00:12:51,200 today. You’ve sought to raise the child or children that God has given to you. 115 00:12:52,320 –> 00:12:54,000 You’ve poured yourself into that, 116 00:12:54,000 –> 00:12:57,919 and you’ve done everything you know how to direct them on right paths. 117 00:12:58,479 –> 00:13:02,479 But they have a will of their own, and there comes a point as they grow into maturity 118 00:13:03,440 –> 00:13:04,640 where you can’t stop them. 119 00:13:05,919 –> 00:13:09,440 You wish that you could, but you know that you can’t. 120 00:13:11,039 –> 00:13:15,679 And you can see pain further down the road and you kind of wince as you think about it. 121 00:13:16,880 –> 00:13:20,239 But all that you can do is to live with your pain, 122 00:13:20,880 –> 00:13:26,559 and to trust that God may do something remarkable to bring good out of it. 123 00:13:28,559 –> 00:13:31,760 Now if that’s where you are, this is a wonderfully encouraging story, 124 00:13:32,320 –> 00:13:34,640 because God did do something remarkable. 125 00:13:35,760 –> 00:13:41,119 And though Samson brought a great deal of self-inflicted pain into his own life, 126 00:13:42,320 –> 00:13:43,760 God never let go of him. 127 00:13:44,719 –> 00:13:46,960 And through all the tragedies of his life, 128 00:13:48,159 –> 00:13:55,679 God wove his foolish decisions into a bigger purpose that God used to advance his kingdom. 129 00:13:56,479 –> 00:14:00,559 You find this referred to particularly in chapter 14 in verse 4, 130 00:14:00,559 –> 00:14:07,520 where we’re told that Samson’s parents did not know that this was from the Lord. 131 00:14:08,400 –> 00:14:12,000 Now that does not mean that the Lord validated this marriage. 132 00:14:12,000 –> 00:14:15,200 It was a breaking of a principle that God had already given. 133 00:14:15,760 –> 00:14:19,599 It was a dreadful mistake and it led to all kinds of pain. 134 00:14:20,400 –> 00:14:25,919 But the good news is that even your most dreadful foolish stupid mistake 135 00:14:26,559 –> 00:14:29,280 cannot overwhelm the purposes of God. 136 00:14:30,000 –> 00:14:34,799 And God has a wonderful way of taking even the stupid mistakes of our lives 137 00:14:35,599 –> 00:14:44,799 and weaving them into the wider purpose that he can still accomplish in and through his people. 138 00:14:45,840 –> 00:14:47,359 Well, we’re going to see that story. 139 00:14:48,320 –> 00:14:52,239 Now, it’s interesting that as they go on the way to Timna, 140 00:14:52,239 –> 00:14:54,400 to meet up with this lady for the first time 141 00:14:55,119 –> 00:15:01,200 that Samson has his first experience of the Spirit of God coming on him in power. 142 00:15:02,000 –> 00:15:03,280 Chapter 14 and verse 5, 143 00:15:04,479 –> 00:15:06,799 as they approach the vineyards of Timna, 144 00:15:07,679 –> 00:15:11,280 a young lion came roaring toward Samson. 145 00:15:12,239 –> 00:15:15,119 The spirit of the Lord came upon him in power 146 00:15:16,080 –> 00:15:20,479 so that he tore the lion apart with his bare hands. 147 00:15:21,200 –> 00:15:24,320 Very interesting, God can bless you even when you’re on the wrong path. 148 00:15:26,479 –> 00:15:29,840 And God’s power came to Samson at this moment in his life, 149 00:15:29,840 –> 00:15:31,520 he’s attacked by this lion 150 00:15:32,559 –> 00:15:34,479 and to his own absolute astonishment, 151 00:15:34,479 –> 00:15:36,080 he finds he has the strength to tear 152 00:15:36,080 –> 00:15:38,159 the lion apart limb from limb. 153 00:15:38,159 –> 00:15:40,799 He must have been amazed when he saw what he’d done. 154 00:15:41,760 –> 00:15:44,880 It happened only because of the direct power of God 155 00:15:44,880 –> 00:15:46,799 coming at that moment upon him, 156 00:15:47,599 –> 00:15:49,679 but it was a kind of sneak preview 157 00:15:50,320 –> 00:15:53,840 of what God would enable him to do in the future. 158 00:15:54,559 –> 00:15:59,599 With power like that, all things are possible. 159 00:16:01,520 –> 00:16:03,760 Now sometime later the family returned 160 00:16:04,320 –> 00:16:08,400 for what turned out to be a nightmare of a wedding. 161 00:16:08,400 –> 00:16:10,000 Now lots of people have good stories 162 00:16:10,000 –> 00:16:11,520 about things that went wrong in weddings, 163 00:16:11,520 –> 00:16:14,080 you know, cakes that fell over, and so forth and so on. 164 00:16:14,719 –> 00:16:20,820 But this is the mother of all wedding nightmares I tell you. 165 00:16:22,500 –> 00:16:23,700 The family come back 166 00:16:24,479 –> 00:16:26,880 and as they’re coming down for the wedding, 167 00:16:26,880 –> 00:16:28,000 approaching Timnah, 168 00:16:28,640 –> 00:16:30,640 Samson pulls off the road to see 169 00:16:31,359 –> 00:16:34,239 if the carcass of the lion he killed is still there. 170 00:16:34,239 –> 00:16:35,359 And sure enough it is. 171 00:16:36,000 –> 00:16:37,280 And to his astonishment 172 00:16:37,280 –> 00:16:41,200 some bees have made a hive within the carcass, 173 00:16:41,200 –> 00:16:42,960 the bones of this lion. 174 00:16:42,960 –> 00:16:44,320 And there’s honey there. 175 00:16:44,320 –> 00:16:45,919 It must’ve made Samson laugh. 176 00:16:46,640 –> 00:16:48,799 And he made up a little rhyme about it. 177 00:16:49,520 –> 00:16:52,239 Out of the eater, something to eat. 178 00:16:53,200 –> 00:16:57,119 Out of the strong, the lion, something sweet. 179 00:16:58,320 –> 00:17:00,799 Now when Samson arrived in Timnah 180 00:17:00,799 –> 00:17:04,400 he was responsible for organizing the wedding reception 181 00:17:04,400 –> 00:17:07,199 and we’re told in verse 10 of chapter 14 182 00:17:07,599 –> 00:17:11,359 that he was given 30 companions. 183 00:17:12,079 –> 00:17:13,599 Now I don’t know how it is for you 184 00:17:13,599 –> 00:17:16,400 when you’ve had experience perhaps of organizing a wedding 185 00:17:16,400 –> 00:17:18,319 but being told there’s an extra 30 guests 186 00:17:18,319 –> 00:17:20,000 who you don’t know who want to turn up 187 00:17:20,000 –> 00:17:22,000 is really not very good news at the last minute 188 00:17:22,000 –> 00:17:22,719 wouldn’t you think? 189 00:17:23,359 –> 00:17:24,959 Everybody who has ever planned a wedding 190 00:17:24,959 –> 00:17:27,760 knows how difficult it is to get the guest list 191 00:17:27,760 –> 00:17:29,760 squeezed down to fit the budget 192 00:17:30,880 –> 00:17:33,040 and now here’s Samson finds 193 00:17:33,040 –> 00:17:34,880 that he has to have 30 people 194 00:17:34,880 –> 00:17:37,680 who he doesn’t even know in his wedding 195 00:17:37,680 –> 00:17:39,520 and he’s not at all pleased. 196 00:17:40,160 –> 00:17:41,839 I don’t know how it was put to him 197 00:17:41,839 –> 00:17:43,760 perhaps his wife put it something like this 198 00:17:45,040 –> 00:17:48,959 Well dear, there are already 300 guests 199 00:17:48,959 –> 00:17:51,520 on my philistine side of the family 200 00:17:52,319 –> 00:17:53,520 And of course there’s only you 201 00:17:53,520 –> 00:17:54,880 your mother and father on yours 202 00:17:55,839 –> 00:17:57,520 Only three on one side of the church 203 00:17:57,520 –> 00:17:58,239 not very many 204 00:17:58,800 –> 00:18:00,880 I tell you what we’ve got some other relatives 205 00:18:01,439 –> 00:18:03,839 maybe they can come as your guests also 206 00:18:03,839 –> 00:18:06,319 another 30 they can stand with you 207 00:18:06,319 –> 00:18:08,000 Well Samson’s not at all amused 208 00:18:08,000 –> 00:18:10,560 because of course he is paying for the wedding 209 00:18:11,439 –> 00:18:14,479 so he decides to have a little bit of fun 210 00:18:15,040 –> 00:18:17,280 with the unwanted guests 211 00:18:17,280 –> 00:18:18,400 He tells them the riddle 212 00:18:19,680 –> 00:18:22,000 Out of the eater, something to eat 213 00:18:22,000 –> 00:18:22,479 He says 214 00:18:23,280 –> 00:18:26,400 Out of the strong, something sweet 215 00:18:27,359 –> 00:18:28,959 And then he makes a bet with them 216 00:18:29,760 –> 00:18:30,959 If you can tell me 217 00:18:30,959 –> 00:18:33,359 he says to the 30 unwanted guests 218 00:18:33,359 –> 00:18:34,959 the meaning of this riddle 219 00:18:35,839 –> 00:18:38,400 then I’ll pay for your tuxedos 220 00:18:39,040 –> 00:18:40,560 Now it doesn’t actually say tuxedos 221 00:18:40,560 –> 00:18:41,599 but it says suits 222 00:18:41,599 –> 00:18:43,839 and we’re talking about a wedding 223 00:18:43,839 –> 00:18:45,920 so what do you think they would have been? 224 00:18:47,680 –> 00:18:48,479 And then he says 225 00:18:48,479 –> 00:18:52,880 but if you can’t tell me the meaning of this riddle 226 00:18:52,880 –> 00:18:55,119 you’ll be paying your own expenses 227 00:18:55,119 –> 00:18:59,760 which the 30 guests were not too amused about 228 00:19:00,479 –> 00:19:00,959 By the way 229 00:19:00,959 –> 00:19:02,880 if this is a little bit of free advice 230 00:19:02,880 –> 00:19:04,400 thrown in for nothing this morning 231 00:19:04,400 –> 00:19:06,239 if you want to promote family harmony 232 00:19:06,239 –> 00:19:08,719 don’t play games with your in-laws 233 00:19:08,719 –> 00:19:12,079 about who should pay what in the wedding reception 234 00:19:12,079 –> 00:19:13,839 it always leads to trouble 235 00:19:13,839 –> 00:19:16,079 and of course it did here 236 00:19:16,959 –> 00:19:19,839 These wedding celebrations went on for days 237 00:19:19,839 –> 00:19:21,119 and in verse 15 238 00:19:21,760 –> 00:19:25,920 we find that the guests are leaning on Samson’s wife 239 00:19:25,920 –> 00:19:27,520 to find out the answer 240 00:19:28,000 –> 00:19:28,560 Verse 15 241 00:19:28,560 –> 00:19:30,959 On the fourth day they said to Samson’s wife 242 00:19:31,680 –> 00:19:34,959 coax your husband into explaining the riddle to us 243 00:19:36,079 –> 00:19:37,920 or we’ll burn you 244 00:19:37,920 –> 00:19:38,959 some wedding guests 245 00:19:39,760 –> 00:19:41,439 and your father’s household 246 00:19:42,239 –> 00:19:42,959 to death 247 00:19:42,959 –> 00:19:43,920 well this poor woman 248 00:19:43,920 –> 00:19:46,560 fancy being told that by your guests in the middle of your wedding 249 00:19:48,000 –> 00:19:49,599 this woman is desperate 250 00:19:50,319 –> 00:19:53,680 and this is the fourth day of a prolonged kind of celebration 251 00:19:53,680 –> 00:19:56,160 so talk about ruining the honeymoon 252 00:19:57,520 –> 00:19:58,400 Verse 16 253 00:19:58,400 –> 00:20:02,160 Samson’s wife threw herself on him sobbing 254 00:20:03,119 –> 00:20:03,920 You hate me 255 00:20:04,880 –> 00:20:06,160 You don’t really love me 256 00:20:07,199 –> 00:20:10,239 I was a bit rich to start this in the middle of the honeymoon, don’t you think? 257 00:20:11,199 –> 00:20:14,400 You have given my people a riddle but you haven’t told me the answer 258 00:20:15,599 –> 00:20:19,520 and she went on and on until eventually Samson told her and 259 00:20:20,160 –> 00:20:24,959 she told the guests and Samson lost the bet and he had to pay for the tuxedos 260 00:20:25,760 –> 00:20:32,160 So Samson’s absolutely furious he goes off and he takes the lives of 30 philistines 261 00:20:32,160 –> 00:20:35,680 takes their clothes brings them back to the reception 262 00:20:35,680 –> 00:20:40,640 gives them to the 30 guests and then stomps off home in a furious rage 263 00:20:40,640 –> 00:20:44,000 leaving his bride stranded at the altar 264 00:20:44,959 –> 00:20:47,920 And if that’s not enough of a wedding nightmare for you 265 00:20:47,920 –> 00:20:50,719 then I have to tell you it gets worse afterwards 266 00:20:50,719 –> 00:20:54,079 because at the beginning of Chapter 15 Verse 1 there 267 00:20:54,160 –> 00:20:59,119 Samson turns up at his bride’s house at Timnah again 268 00:20:59,119 –> 00:21:02,079 He arrives with a bunch of red roses 269 00:21:02,079 –> 00:21:04,160 Well it doesn’t actually say that 270 00:21:04,160 –> 00:21:05,920 Actually it was a young goat 271 00:21:05,920 –> 00:21:09,199 But the significance is exactly the same 272 00:21:09,760 –> 00:21:11,359 Because what he wants to do is 273 00:21:11,359 –> 00:21:14,880 he wants to say he’s very sorry about all that happened at the wedding 274 00:21:14,880 –> 00:21:18,959 and he’d very much like to kiss and make up in the bedroom 275 00:21:18,959 –> 00:21:20,640 Look at Chapter 15 in Verse 1 276 00:21:20,640 –> 00:21:21,439 That’s what he says 277 00:21:22,640 –> 00:21:23,760 To his father-in-law 278 00:21:24,479 –> 00:21:26,719 I’m going to my wife’s room 279 00:21:26,719 –> 00:21:27,219 he says 280 00:21:28,400 –> 00:21:33,439 So here’s a guy who seems to think that he can walk in and out of a relationship at will 281 00:21:33,439 –> 00:21:36,319 that he can cause all kinds of trouble and sorrow 282 00:21:36,319 –> 00:21:42,000 and then that he can just come back at a moment’s notice and take out what he left off 283 00:21:42,400 –> 00:21:45,119 The father of the bride is having nothing to do with it 284 00:21:46,160 –> 00:21:48,800 And breaks to Samson the bad news 285 00:21:50,239 –> 00:21:53,119 Samson, you left your bride at the altar 286 00:21:54,079 –> 00:21:57,439 Tough luck son, she married the best man 287 00:21:58,880 –> 00:22:03,680 And of course at this, Samson is more furious than he has ever been before 288 00:22:03,680 –> 00:22:07,520 And in an act of wanton cruelty in his rage 289 00:22:07,520 –> 00:22:11,760 he takes foxes, sets their tails on fire 290 00:22:11,760 –> 00:22:17,280 and releases them into the wheat harvest that was ready to be brought in for the philistines 291 00:22:17,839 –> 00:22:20,719 Of course the whole of the fields begin to go up in smoke 292 00:22:20,719 –> 00:22:23,760 and once that blaze has started, like a forest fire 293 00:22:23,760 –> 00:22:25,119 it cannot be stopped 294 00:22:25,119 –> 00:22:29,520 and it continues on until the whole harvest of the philistines is destroyed 295 00:22:30,400 –> 00:22:35,040 And now he is philistine public enemy number one 296 00:22:36,400 –> 00:22:40,400 And even his own people now want to disown him 297 00:22:41,119 –> 00:22:44,000 The men of Judah come over to him to negotiate 298 00:22:44,640 –> 00:22:48,079 They meet him at a cave, there are 3000 of them who come 299 00:22:48,079 –> 00:22:49,439 Just a small delegation 300 00:22:50,079 –> 00:22:50,800 Verse 11 301 00:22:51,760 –> 00:22:57,359 Don’t you realize that the philistines are rulers over us, they ask 302 00:22:58,400 –> 00:23:00,160 Chapter 15, verse 11 303 00:23:00,160 –> 00:23:02,719 What have you done to us? 304 00:23:04,239 –> 00:23:05,680 Now, you see where these folks are at 305 00:23:07,119 –> 00:23:12,239 We’ve been oppressed by this military regime for 40 years 306 00:23:13,359 –> 00:23:16,319 We’ve learned that the best way is not to provoke them 307 00:23:17,280 –> 00:23:20,079 You go around burning their fields, you’re going to bring down 308 00:23:20,079 –> 00:23:23,599 an iron fist on us and cause all kinds of trouble 309 00:23:23,599 –> 00:23:28,079 Samson, you’re a liability 310 00:23:28,319 –> 00:23:31,839 And so they suggest that they want to give him up to the philistines 311 00:23:31,839 –> 00:23:32,880 and Samson agrees 312 00:23:34,000 –> 00:23:36,640 He allows them to bind him with ropes 313 00:23:37,680 –> 00:23:41,839 and he’s handed over as a prisoner to the philistines 314 00:23:42,959 –> 00:23:44,640 and at the moment where they’re about 315 00:23:44,640 –> 00:23:45,839 to take him captive 316 00:23:46,560 –> 00:23:49,119 chapter 15 in verse 14 we read again 317 00:23:50,160 –> 00:23:55,199 that the spirit of the Lord came upon him in power 318 00:23:56,719 –> 00:24:01,040 Samson tore off the ropes with this power that was given 319 00:24:01,040 –> 00:24:03,439 to him in that moment by the spirit of God 320 00:24:04,479 –> 00:24:08,079 He grabbed the jawbone of a dead donkey 321 00:24:08,880 –> 00:24:13,199 and remember that in those days conflict was hand-to-hand combat 322 00:24:13,199 –> 00:24:16,560 Wielding that as a ferocious and an awesome weapon 323 00:24:17,920 –> 00:24:23,599 He took out one thousand of the enemy’s crack troops on that day 324 00:24:25,199 –> 00:24:26,800 We’re meant to cheer for that one 325 00:24:26,800 –> 00:24:29,599 There were three thousand men from Judah 326 00:24:29,599 –> 00:24:33,119 who weren’t ready to put up any kind of resistance 327 00:24:33,119 –> 00:24:38,800 But Samson, empowered by the spirit of God, did more as one man alone 328 00:24:38,800 –> 00:24:40,319 than three thousand could do 329 00:24:41,199 –> 00:24:46,400 In taking out the cracked troops, a legion of them 330 00:24:46,400 –> 00:24:50,000 from the enemy’s battalion on that day 331 00:24:51,280 –> 00:24:53,119 Now at this point in the story 332 00:24:53,680 –> 00:24:55,280 You kind of feel confused 333 00:24:56,239 –> 00:24:58,640 Because it’s almost like there are two Samsons 334 00:24:59,760 –> 00:25:02,640 There’s this great military hero 335 00:25:03,599 –> 00:25:09,359 who will take on a whole opposing army, single-handed 336 00:25:11,119 –> 00:25:14,560 And at the same time there’s an irresponsible fool 337 00:25:14,560 –> 00:25:16,719 who’s a liability to have around the place 338 00:25:18,239 –> 00:25:21,359 He’s the courageous hero who delivers God’s people 339 00:25:22,479 –> 00:25:26,560 But he’s also the irresponsible fool who’s a liability to God’s people 340 00:25:27,359 –> 00:25:29,280 That’s why I said you don’t know whether to cheer for him 341 00:25:29,280 –> 00:25:30,239 or to weep over him 342 00:25:31,280 –> 00:25:33,760 One minute he seems like a juvenile delinquent 343 00:25:33,760 –> 00:25:37,359 getting up to extraordinary and painful and irresponsible pranks 344 00:25:38,239 –> 00:25:42,160 And the next you find the Spirit of God is on him 345 00:25:42,800 –> 00:25:45,359 And God is doing something through him 346 00:25:45,359 –> 00:25:47,439 for people who know nothing but defeat 347 00:25:48,719 –> 00:25:53,760 And he takes out an entire legion of the army of a wicked regime 348 00:25:55,680 –> 00:26:00,239 How can such courage and such foolishness be bound up in the life of one man? 349 00:26:01,760 –> 00:26:06,000 How can God use a man who shows such dreadful lack of judgment? 350 00:26:08,239 –> 00:26:12,000 Well, the rest of the Samson’s story follows the same pattern 351 00:26:12,000 –> 00:26:16,319 At the beginning of chapter 16 he goes down to Gaza, an enemy city 352 00:26:17,280 –> 00:26:18,800 and he sees a prostitute 353 00:26:19,760 –> 00:26:22,560 and he behaves as an irresponsible fool 354 00:26:23,680 –> 00:26:26,800 While he’s in her house the enemies lie in wait for him 355 00:26:27,439 –> 00:26:28,400 but he escapes 356 00:26:29,040 –> 00:26:32,560 And as he escapes he goes through the gates of the city of Gaza 357 00:26:32,560 –> 00:26:36,000 He takes the gates and the posts on his shoulder with him 358 00:26:36,000 –> 00:26:38,400 and takes them several miles up the road and dumps them 359 00:26:39,040 –> 00:26:40,239 He’s a courageous hero 360 00:26:41,760 –> 00:26:45,680 Then Samson falls in love with a woman called Delilah 361 00:26:46,400 –> 00:26:50,000 He must have known that she was working as an agent of the enemy 362 00:26:51,439 –> 00:26:53,199 But he can’t resist her charms 363 00:26:54,400 –> 00:26:57,920 She begins to ask for the secret of his strength 364 00:26:58,160 –> 00:27:00,160 Then Delilah begins to ask for the secret of his strength 365 00:27:00,160 –> 00:27:06,479 Well now, Samson, a big strong guy like you needs to learn to be vulnerable 366 00:27:09,199 –> 00:27:14,719 And if we’re to be really close, we really shouldn’t have any secrets 367 00:27:16,319 –> 00:27:19,680 Eventually he tells her 368 00:27:20,079 –> 00:27:23,079 If his hair was cut he would lose his strength 369 00:27:23,239 –> 00:27:30,479 Remember his hair was the sign of his special consecration to God and it was from God that his strength came 370 00:27:32,239 –> 00:27:36,439 But if the sign was taken, the reality would go 371 00:27:37,319 –> 00:27:41,160 and one night when Samson was asleep, Delilah cuts his hair 372 00:27:41,160 –> 00:27:45,160 and then when the Philistines come to arrest him, he tries to shake himself 373 00:27:45,160 –> 00:27:48,920 but he discovers to his horror that the strength is gone 374 00:27:48,920 –> 00:27:51,959 that’s where we read for some of the saddest words in the old testament 375 00:27:52,000 –> 00:27:54,000 chapter 16 in verse 20 376 00:27:54,000 –> 00:28:00,439 he did not know, that the Lord had left him 377 00:28:00,439 –> 00:28:02,599 the Philistines bound him in chains 378 00:28:03,880 –> 00:28:06,680 they put out his eyes 379 00:28:06,680 –> 00:28:10,599 and then they sent him to work, grinding in a mill 380 00:28:10,599 –> 00:28:13,520 along with other slaves they had gathered 381 00:28:14,079 –> 00:28:19,479 and that’s where John Milton wrote his magnificent line in his poem about Samson 382 00:28:19,479 –> 00:28:20,920 that some will know 383 00:28:22,099 –> 00:28:25,160 eyeless in Gaza 384 00:28:26,199 –> 00:28:28,160 at the mill 385 00:28:28,160 –> 00:28:29,040 with slaves 386 00:28:29,040 –> 00:28:33,739 four horrible horrible death beats it would seem 387 00:28:33,739 –> 00:28:36,920 eyeless in Gaza 388 00:28:36,920 –> 00:28:39,219 the enemy capital 389 00:28:39,219 –> 00:28:42,439 at the mill grinding out flour 390 00:28:43,880 –> 00:28:45,400 with slaves 391 00:28:46,680 –> 00:28:50,300 that is a plunge to disaster 392 00:28:51,160 –> 00:28:55,280 and of course it makes us ask the question of this man so gifted and so 393 00:28:55,280 –> 00:28:58,979 privileged and so endowed by God’s strength 394 00:28:58,979 –> 00:29:03,239 how could that happen to him and the answer is clear 395 00:29:03,239 –> 00:29:08,500 because he never developed self-control 396 00:29:08,500 –> 00:29:10,060 and if you do 397 00:29:10,060 –> 00:29:12,739 not master your passions 398 00:29:12,739 –> 00:29:16,979 your passions will master you 399 00:29:16,979 –> 00:29:19,939 this was the tragedy of this gifted man’s life 400 00:29:20,020 –> 00:29:25,579 so gifted and yet so out of control 401 00:29:25,579 –> 00:29:30,920 Samson’s story of course touches some of the greatest battles of our lives 402 00:29:30,920 –> 00:29:35,939 when we’re talking about learning to control your passions 403 00:29:35,939 –> 00:29:40,420 were talking this morning about some of the greatest struggles 404 00:29:40,420 –> 00:29:43,300 that we face in the christian life 405 00:29:43,300 –> 00:29:46,839 the pull of our passions 406 00:29:46,839 –> 00:29:49,500 can be so strong 407 00:29:49,500 –> 00:29:53,260 and it can be so destructive 408 00:29:53,260 –> 00:29:59,160 and sometimes we feel so defeated right there 409 00:29:59,160 –> 00:30:03,619 for that reason I want to end this morning with two words of encouragement 410 00:30:03,619 –> 00:30:06,040 and they’re simply these 411 00:30:06,040 –> 00:30:09,739 the first 412 00:30:09,739 –> 00:30:12,300 christ can keep you 413 00:30:12,300 –> 00:30:13,479 christ 414 00:30:13,479 –> 00:30:15,060 can keep you 415 00:30:15,060 –> 00:30:18,900 and this takes us to the very heart of the message of the bible 416 00:30:19,579 –> 00:30:22,199 he is able to keep you 417 00:30:22,199 –> 00:30:24,119 from falling 418 00:30:24,119 –> 00:30:25,439 Jude writes 419 00:30:25,439 –> 00:30:28,920 or in the words we read earlier from titus in chapter 2 420 00:30:28,920 –> 00:30:30,939 the grace of god 421 00:30:30,939 –> 00:30:32,579 teaches us 422 00:30:32,579 –> 00:30:34,540 to say no 423 00:30:34,540 –> 00:30:37,239 to worldly passions 424 00:30:37,239 –> 00:30:41,099 there is a grace of god that comes in jesus christ 425 00:30:41,099 –> 00:30:45,420 that teaches us, you have to learn this but you can learn it 426 00:30:45,479 –> 00:30:49,020 the grace of god can teach you 427 00:30:49,020 –> 00:30:51,500 to say no 428 00:30:51,500 –> 00:30:54,040 to worldly passions 429 00:30:54,040 –> 00:30:58,339 and bring you to the place where you live a self-controlled upright and godly 430 00:30:58,339 –> 00:31:00,239 life in this present age 431 00:31:00,239 –> 00:31:02,040 not in heaven in this 432 00:31:02,040 –> 00:31:08,579 present age 433 00:31:08,579 –> 00:31:12,939 you do not need to fall 434 00:31:12,939 –> 00:31:17,800 you do not need to be overwhelmed by the pool 435 00:31:17,800 –> 00:31:20,760 of worldly passions 436 00:31:20,760 –> 00:31:26,520 now the problem for some of us here is that we simply do not believe god 437 00:31:26,520 –> 00:31:31,599 we say that we are believers but we do not believe what god has said to us 438 00:31:31,599 –> 00:31:35,319 all the time we run the same story through our minds 439 00:31:35,319 –> 00:31:38,979 oh, it’s so strong, i can’t overcome it, you don’t know how difficult it is 440 00:31:38,979 –> 00:31:39,599 for me 441 00:31:39,699 –> 00:31:42,459 well, i can manage in other areas but there’s this person and 442 00:31:42,459 –> 00:31:48,359 i can’t do anything there 443 00:31:48,359 –> 00:31:53,339 you go to counseling and you pour out the same thing 444 00:31:53,339 –> 00:31:57,640 you repeat again and again the lie of your enemy 445 00:31:57,640 –> 00:32:01,479 that you fundamentally believe 446 00:32:01,479 –> 00:32:03,119 nothing can be done about this 447 00:32:03,119 –> 00:32:09,219 it’s too strong, the pool is too great 448 00:32:09,439 –> 00:32:12,160 living for you will only begin when you believe God 449 00:32:12,160 –> 00:32:15,479 you say you’re a believer 450 00:32:15,479 –> 00:32:22,239 am asking you to believe what God says on this issue 451 00:32:22,239 –> 00:32:26,239 soak it into your mind right now this morning 452 00:32:26,239 –> 00:32:35,500 the grace of God teaches us to say no to worldly passions 453 00:32:35,500 –> 00:3239,000 the grace that God pours into our lives through Jesus Christ 454 00:32:39,000 –> 00:32:43,420 puts you in the position where you can by His grace 455 00:32:43,420 –> 00:32:48,619 learn to say no 456 00:32:48,619 –> 00:32:52,800 where victory begins where you believed that 457 00:32:52,800 –> 00:32:57,239 over the lie of the enemy who tells you again and again and again 458 00:32:57,239 –> 00:33:03,560 you can’t beat this one 459 00:33:03,560 –> 00:33:07,660 you do not need young folks 460 00:33:07,660 –> 00:33:11,660 to make a bunch of foolish mistakes like Samson 461 00:33:11,660 –> 00:33:15,660 bringing indescribable pain to you and to those who are around you 462 00:33:15,660 –> 00:33:19,640 you don’t need to do that 463 00:33:19,640 –> 00:33:23,859 Jesus Christ has come into the world to make it possible for you to live 464 00:33:23,859 –> 00:33:26,739 a better life 465 00:33:26,739 –> 00:33:29,319 to say no 466 00:33:29,319 –> 00:33:32,479 to worldly passions 467 00:33:32,479 –> 00:33:35,099 however they come to you 468 00:33:35,099 –> 00:33:38,099 through a cable 469 00:33:38,099 –> 00:33:40,520 through an internet 470 00:33:40,520 –> 00:33:43,000 through a person in the office 471 00:33:43,000 –> 00:33:47,640 you can say no to that which will destroy you 472 00:33:47,640 –> 00:33:49,859 don’t let the enemy tell you otherwise 473 00:33:49,859 –> 00:33:54,880 Christ can keep you 474 00:33:54,880 –> 00:33:58,880 believe that 475 00:33:58,880 –> 00:34:02,060 believe Him 476 00:34:02,300 –> 00:34:04,300 and here’s the second thing 477 00:34:04,300 –> 00:34:09,899 not only can Christ keep you and there’s the basis of our confidence 478 00:34:09,899 –> 00:34:13,939 but wonderfully Christ can restore you 479 00:34:13,939 –> 00:34:16,899 this is so wonderful 480 00:34:16,899 –> 00:34:21,899 we haven’t heard the end of samson’s story yet so let’s just go there briefly now 481 00:34:21,899 –> 00:34:25,439 look at chapter sixteen and verse twenty-two one of the most beautiful 482 00:34:25,439 –> 00:34:29,659 verses or pictures in the whole of the old testament 483 00:34:29,659 –> 00:34:36,379 picture samson eyeless, blind 484 00:34:36,379 –> 00:34:39,139 and he’s chained 485 00:34:39,139 –> 00:34:44,379 and he’s at this mill grinding out flour and he’s with the slaves and he’s in this 486 00:34:44,399 –> 00:34:50,739 dark hall in the enemy’s capitol in Gaza 487 00:34:50,739 –> 00:34:54,919 and we are told in chapter sixteen verse twenty-two 488 00:34:54,919 –> 00:34:57,979 the hair on his head 489 00:34:57,979 –> 00:35:01,300 began to grow again 490 00:35:01,300 –> 00:35:03,260 Isn’t that beautiful? 491 00:35:03,260 –> 00:35:06,340 the sign of his strength 492 00:35:06,340 –> 00:35:10,080 the sign of how God had used him 493 00:35:10,080 –> 00:35:14,959 the prospect of some future usefulness 494 00:35:14,959 –> 00:35:21,959 the hair on his head began to grow again 495 00:35:22,659 –> 00:35:25,239 he’s taken a plunge to disaster 496 00:35:25,340 –> 00:35:30,560 but even those who take a plunge to disaster 497 00:35:30,560 –> 00:35:34,399 need not make that the end 498 00:35:34,399 –> 00:35:37,399 there’s salvation for Samson 499 00:35:37,399 –> 00:35:40,800 even here 500 00:35:40,800 –> 00:35:43,000 now there’s a lot of discussion in churches 501 00:35:43,000 –> 00:35:45,679 as you will know about what restoration 502 00:35:45,679 –> 00:35:47,639 should look like 503 00:35:47,639 –> 00:35:49,199 when someone has fallen 504 00:35:49,199 –> 00:35:50,860 like samson did 505 00:35:51,860 –> 00:35:56,659 He’s betrayed the people of God 506 00:35:56,659 –> 00:36:00,780 he’s been with a prostitute in Gaza 507 00:36:00,780 –> 00:36:02,600 what his restoration for this man look 508 00:36:02,600 –> 00:36:04,000 like? 509 00:36:04,000 –> 00:36:07,260 well I think the Samson story really 510 00:36:07,260 –> 00:36:08,840 helps us here let me give you four 511 00:36:08,840 –> 00:36:11,300 principles just very briefly and you can 512 00:36:11,300 –> 00:36:12,820 reflect on how they apply 513 00:36:12,820 –> 00:36:14,780 I can see many applications of them in 514 00:36:14,780 –> 00:36:18,580 the home and in the church 515 00:36:18,919 –> 00:36:23,580 number one restoration did not mean 516 00:36:23,580 –> 00:36:27,419 avoiding the consequences of Sampson’s 517 00:36:27,419 –> 00:36:28,780 actions 518 00:36:28,780 –> 00:36:32,340 he was at the mill in Gaza with the 519 00:36:32,340 –> 00:36:34,840 slaves he would never have been there if 520 00:36:34,840 –> 00:36:36,979 it wasn’t for his folly but he went 521 00:36:36,979 –> 00:36:39,060 there as a result of his folly and he 522 00:36:39,060 –> 00:36:41,239 did time there too 523 00:36:41,739 –> 00:36:44,219 restoration does not mean avoiding the 524 00:36:44,219 –> 00:36:47,060 consequences of our actions if all we’re 525 00:36:47,060 –> 00:36:49,020 interested is avoiding the consequences 526 00:36:49,020 –> 00:36:50,600 of our actions it probably means we’re 527 00:36:50,600 –> 00:36:52,060 not truly repentant 528 00:36:52,060 –> 00:36:54,500 restoration does not mean avoiding the 529 00:36:54,500 –> 00:36:56,419 consequences of your actions 530 00:36:56,419 –> 00:37:00,719 number two restoration may not mean 531 00:37:00,719 –> 00:37:04,100 coming back to your previous position 532 00:37:04,100 –> 00:37:08,860 now think about this Sampson got his 533 00:37:08,860 –> 00:37:13,399 hair back but he never got his eyes back 534 00:37:13,399 –> 00:37:17,020 he was wonderfully restored and as we’ll 535 00:37:17,020 –> 00:37:19,679 see in a moment he was wonderfully used 536 00:37:19,679 –> 00:37:22,479 again by God in fact the greatest work 537 00:37:22,479 –> 00:37:24,479 that God did through him was done at the 538 00:37:24,479 –> 00:37:27,939 end of his life but it wasn’t the same 539 00:37:27,939 –> 00:37:33,159 work as would have been if he had not 540 00:37:33,159 –> 00:37:34,479 fallen in this way 541 00:37:34,479 –> 00:37:38,360 restoration may not mean going back to 542 00:37:38,360 –> 00:37:41,919 the previous position choices have 543 00:37:41,919 –> 00:37:46,280 significance and some choices rightly 544 00:37:46,300 –> 00:37:50,439 move us on to another path the best 545 00:37:50,439 –> 00:37:54,239 thing to do in that case is to accept it 546 00:37:54,239 –> 00:37:59,739 thirdly samson was restored slowly his 547 00:37:59,739 –> 00:38:02,219 hair grew as a process 548 00:38:02,219 –> 00:38:07,340 forgiveness maybe instant but 549 00:38:07,340 –> 00:38:12,260 restoration is always a process and the 550 00:38:12,260 –> 00:38:13,919 fourth thing and I think this is by far 551 00:38:13,919 –> 00:38:16,060 the most wonderful is simply this that 552 00:38:16,060 –> 00:38:19,899 God used the disaster in samson’s life 553 00:38:19,899 –> 00:38:23,760 to bring him into a position where he 554 00:38:23,760 –> 00:38:26,800 made his greatest contribution to the 555 00:38:26,800 –> 00:38:29,260 kingdom of God it wasn’t where you would 556 00:38:29,260 –> 00:38:31,179 have been otherwise he was brought into 557 00:38:31,179 –> 00:38:34,340 a most difficult place at the mail in 558 00:38:34,340 –> 00:38:38,760 gaza but it was from there that God used 559 00:38:38,760 –> 00:38:42,120 him to make his single greatest life 560 00:38:42,120 –> 00:38:44,439 contribution to the advance of the 561 00:38:44,439 –> 00:38:46,860 kingdom of God God used him in an 562 00:38:46,860 –> 00:38:50,120 incredible way and that can be true of 563 00:38:50,120 –> 00:38:54,360 you whatever you’ve done look at how it 564 00:38:54,360 –> 00:38:58,580 happened they decided the Philistines 565 00:38:58,580 –> 00:39:02,320 to have a party a great party in the 566 00:39:02,320 –> 00:39:04,760 temple of their God which was of course 567 00:39:04,760 –> 00:39:07,320 the control and command center for the 568 00:39:07,320 –> 00:39:10,659 entire Philistine operation this great 569 00:39:10,659 –> 00:39:13,300 temple was dedicated to their God an 570 00:39:13,320 –> 00:39:16,699 idol by the name of Dagon and they 571 00:39:16,699 –> 00:39:18,879 decided in this party in which they were 572 00:39:18,879 –> 00:39:21,979 throwing up praise to Dagon 573 00:39:21,979 –> 00:39:24,620 declaring that he was greater than the 574 00:39:24,620 –> 00:39:27,600 God of the Bible because Samson the 575 00:39:27,600 –> 00:39:30,100 hero of God’s people had been delivered 576 00:39:30,100 –> 00:39:32,800 into their hands they’re praising Dagon 577 00:39:32,800 –> 00:39:34,479 and they’re throwing this wild and 578 00:39:34,479 –> 00:39:36,419 lavish party and they decide that it 579 00:39:36,419 –> 00:39:37,919 would be great to bring out chain 580 00:39:37,919 –> 00:39:40,959 Samson and to have some sport with him 581 00:39:41,439 –> 00:39:45,000 and rather like a circus or a sideshow 582 00:39:45,000 –> 00:39:46,879 at a fair no doubt they gave him some 583 00:39:46,879 –> 00:39:49,000 iron and bits and pieces to try and show 584 00:39:49,000 –> 00:39:50,879 his strength and to laugh at what he 585 00:39:50,879 –> 00:39:54,560 could not do and here’s Samson can you 586 00:39:54,560 –> 00:39:56,800 imagine anything lower or darker than 587 00:39:56,800 –> 00:39:59,000 this to be in the command-and-control 588 00:39:59,000 –> 00:40:02,600 headquarters of the enemy a temple to 589 00:40:02,600 –> 00:40:07,760 Dagon? to be a prisoner? to be surrounded 590 00:40:07,760 –> 00:40:10,600 by this cacophony of laughter and of 591 00:40:10,600 –> 00:40:13,800 mocking and of jeering from this crowd 592 00:40:13,800 –> 00:40:18,800 of reveling drunken leaders of the enemy 593 00:40:18,800 –> 00:40:21,159 the top brass of their military? 594 00:40:23,280 –> 00:40:26,239 it’s the lowest moment of Samson’s life 595 00:40:26,239 –> 00:40:28,879 He is utterly helpless humiliated and 596 00:40:28,879 –> 00:40:31,820 hopeless and in the utter darkness of 597 00:40:31,820 –> 00:40:34,300 Dagon’s temple whoever would have 598 00:40:34,300 –> 00:40:36,800 imagined that God’s hero could come here 599 00:40:36,860 –> 00:40:39,340 He cries out to God 600 00:40:40,219 –> 00:40:42,860 Chapter 16 verse 28 601 00:40:43,199 –> 00:40:47,840 Sovereign Lord he prays remember me 602 00:40:48,179 –> 00:40:52,840 strengthen me just one more time 603 00:40:53,719 –> 00:40:56,760 and God heard him 604 00:40:57,260 –> 00:41:00,459 and God did strengthen him 605 00:41:00,459 –> 00:41:02,719 Samson said to the one who had brought 606 00:41:02,719 –> 00:41:04,739 him to the temple Oh take me to the 607 00:41:04,739 –> 00:41:06,419 pillar he said so I can lean against 608 00:41:06,580 –> 00:41:09,840 it and rather naively the servant did 609 00:41:10,820 –> 00:41:13,540 and feeling the two main support pillars 610 00:41:13,540 –> 00:41:15,060 of this vast temple 611 00:41:16,139 –> 00:41:18,820 Samson pushes with all his might and 612 00:41:18,820 –> 00:41:21,560 he literally brings the house down 613 00:41:22,100 –> 00:41:25,479 the command and control center of the 614 00:41:25,479 –> 00:41:28,360 enemy with all the top brass gathered 615 00:41:28,360 –> 00:41:30,899 together on that occasion and the whole 616 00:41:30,899 –> 00:41:33,080 lot comes tumbling down 617 00:41:34,080 –> 00:41:36,719 Samson dies in the event 618 00:41:37,840 –> 00:41:40,280 he goes out as a martyr and as a 619 00:41:40,280 –> 00:41:43,679 courageous hero he dies in a blaze of 620 00:41:43,679 –> 00:41:48,679 Glory and in his death the very control 621 00:41:48,679 –> 00:41:50,760 and command center of the enemy that 622 00:41:50,760 –> 00:41:53,080 has oppressed the people of God for 40 623 00:41:53,080 –> 00:41:55,360 years comes tumbling down 624 00:41:56,520 –> 00:41:57,120 now, of course, 625 00:41:57,120 –> 00:41:59,560 all that points us forward 626 00:42:00,280 –> 00:42:05,040 to a deliverer of greater gift and of 627 00:42:05,040 –> 00:42:09,320 nobler character than Samson who in his 628 00:42:09,320 –> 00:42:12,760 death pulled down the entire command and 629 00:42:12,760 –> 00:42:15,919 control center of our great enemy the 630 00:42:15,919 –> 00:42:20,120 devil and on the third day rose again to 631 00:42:20,120 –> 00:42:25,139 lead all his people out of oppression to 632 00:42:25,139 –> 00:42:28,800 the power of passion and into a 633 00:42:29,800 –> 00:42:34,320 victory that Jesus Christ makes possible 634 00:42:34,320 –> 00:42:37,020 Samson story leaves us saying, Oh we need 635 00:42:37,020 –> 00:42:39,199 a better deliverer than you Samson and 636 00:42:39,199 –> 00:42:42,300 Jesus Christ is the answer to that cry 637 00:42:42,300 –> 00:42:45,719 he can deliver you. And maybe there are 638 00:42:45,719 –> 00:42:47,399 some as we come to the end this morning 639 00:42:47,399 –> 00:42:49,760 and as we’ve listened to the story you’ve 640 00:42:49,760 –> 00:42:52,919 said I’ve made such wretched choices in 641 00:42:52,919 –> 00:42:56,600 my life if I could go back 20 years and 642 00:42:56,600 –> 00:43:00,179 undo what I did I’ve gone on a track 643 00:43:00,179 –> 00:43:02,219 that is different from what I wanted 644 00:43:02,219 –> 00:43:07,399 I’ve played the fool but whatever you’ve 645 00:43:07,399 –> 00:43:09,939 done and whatever the dark place it may 646 00:43:09,939 –> 00:43:14,179 have brought you to today there is a 647 00:43:14,179 –> 00:43:20,500 Redeemer there is grace Christ can 648 00:43:20,500 –> 00:43:23,959 restore you he may not restore you to 649 00:43:23,959 –> 00:43:26,540 where you would have been if it had not 650 00:43:26,540 –> 00:43:29,199 been for these choices but he can 651 00:43:29,199 –> 00:43:31,840 restore you to more usefulness in his 652 00:43:31,840 –> 00:43:34,100 kingdom than you will ever be able to 653 00:43:34,100 –> 00:43:37,659 imagine the grace of God cannot only 654 00:43:37,659 –> 00:43:40,899 restore you but the grace of God can 655 00:43:40,899 –> 00:43:45,500 keep you it can teach you to say no to 656 00:43:45,500 –> 00:43:48,899 worldly passions and you need that 657 00:43:48,899 –> 00:43:55,500 grace and it is offered to you in Jesus 658 00:43:55,500 –> 00:44:01,620 Christ. Let’s come and pray as we feel 659 00:44:01,620 –> 00:44:07,219 our need of him today Lord apart from 660 00:44:07,219 –> 00:44:11,780 your grace we are at the mercy of 661 00:44:11,780 –> 00:44:16,639 worldly passions that would sweep us to 662 00:44:16,639 –> 00:44:22,620 disaster and so we thank you that you 663 00:44:22,620 –> 00:44:24,780 have not left us at the mercy of our 664 00:44:24,780 –> 00:44:29,879 passions but you have sent Jesus Christ 665 00:44:29,879 –> 00:44:34,739 the Great Deliverer into the world. Only 666 00:44:34,739 –> 00:44:38,620 you know the intensity of the struggles 667 00:44:38,620 –> 00:44:41,620 the battles the defeats failures 668 00:44:41,620 –> 00:44:45,979 victories there are represented as we 669 00:44:45,979 –> 00:44:50,800 bow before you you know all our private 670 00:44:50,800 –> 00:44:52,520 lives and all of our private thoughts 671 00:44:52,540 –> 00:44:58,540 all of our secret habits you know the 672 00:44:58,540 –> 00:45:07,699 pull of the passion of every heart and 673 00:45:07,699 –> 00:45:09,580 we ask that we may be able to receive 674 00:45:09,580 –> 00:45:17,300 and believe your Word today. Christ can 675 00:45:17,300 –> 00:45:21,699 restore you some of us feel right now 676 00:45:21,719 –> 00:45:26,500 such wretched failures some of us wish 677 00:45:26,500 –> 00:45:28,760 we could undo the stupid things we did 678 00:45:28,760 –> 00:45:33,620 and we thank you that even our most 679 00:45:33,620 –> 00:45:39,500 stupid mistake our most reckless folly 680 00:45:39,500 –> 00:45:48,060 cannot overturn your purpose to use us 681 00:45:49,060 –> 00:45:51,760 and to make our lives count for your 682 00:45:51,760 –> 00:45:59,300 kingdom so take us dear Lord as we offer 683 00:45:59,300 –> 00:46:04,000 ourselves to you asking that you will 684 00:46:04,000 –> 00:46:07,600 make us what you want us to be and put 685 00:46:07,600 –> 00:46:10,000 us on a path in which we can genuinely 686 00:46:10,000 –> 00:46:11,840 become useful in the work of your 687 00:46:11,840 –> 00:46:17,340 Kingdom and then as you restore us 688 00:46:17,820 –> 00:46:21,399 thank you that you can keep us thank you 689 00:46:21,399 –> 00:46:25,320 that there’s no need to fall and where 690 00:46:25,320 –> 00:46:27,699 we have for us not to fall in the same 691 00:46:27,699 –> 00:46:32,120 way again thank you that your grace 692 00:46:32,120 –> 00:46:34,179 teaches us that we can learn that we 693 00:46:34,179 –> 00:46:38,679 can grow thank you that you have made a 694 00:46:38,679 –> 00:46:43,679 Godly life possible and even as the 695 00:46:43,679 –> 00:46:46,080 devil screams in our minds that that’s 696 00:46:46,100 –> 00:46:50,399 not true help us by your grace to 697 00:46:50,399 –> 00:46:55,899 believe it and then to act upon it 698 00:46:55,899 –> 00:47:00,179 hear our prayers and make this a turning 699 00:47:00,179 –> 00:47:06,419 point for many for these things we ask 700 00:47:06,419 –> 00:47:11,100 in Jesus name and God’s people said 701 00:47:11,100 –> 00:47:14,100 amen

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