Anger, Fear and a Broken Promise

1 Samuel 18:6-16
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The sermon recounts how David went from a humble shepherd to gaining public attention after defeating Goliath, highlighting God’s providence. Pastor Colin explains that Saul’s life descends into disaster as he succumbs to jealousy and hatred towards David, emphasising the destructive power of sin.

As Pastor Colin delves into the process of sin gaining control in a person’s life, he outlines a four-stage pattern: an impulse of the heart, a habit of the mind, a pattern of behaviour, and a cycle of frustration. Using Saul and David’s story, he illustrates how unchecked sin leads to one’s downfall, urging the congregation to deal with sin and temptation early.

He then turns to the story of David, highlighting the paradox of walking with God. Despite God’s favour and success, David faces relentless trials and opposition, including attempts on his life by Saul. This, he explains, is part of God’s spiritual formation for high callings.

Pastor Colin briefly discusses Jonathan, Saul’s son, who unlike his father, submits to God’s will by making a covenant with David, acknowledging him as the future king. Jonathan’s sacrifice and loyalty to David serve as a model of faith and submission to God’s anointed one.

In conclusion, Pastor Colin contrasts Saul’s path leading to destruction with Jonathan’s narrow path to life. He calls on the congregation to examine their own lives, urging them to choose the way of faith and submission to Christ, the Lord’s anointed.

1 00:00:00,000 –> 00:00:06,600 Please open your Bible then at 1 Samuel, chapter 18. 2 00:00:06,600 –> 00:00:13,240 And continuing our series in the story of Saul and of David, these two kings who moved 3 00:00:13,240 –> 00:00:15,120 in radically different directions. 4 00:00:15,120 –> 00:00:16,879 Saul going in the path of rebellion. 5 00:00:16,879 –> 00:00:19,240 He’s a great warning sign in the Bible. 6 00:00:19,240 –> 00:00:20,240 This is not the way. 7 00:00:20,240 –> 00:00:21,240 Do not walk in it. 8 00:00:21,240 –> 00:00:22,540 Do not be like Saul. 9 00:00:22,540 –> 00:00:26,420 His life is a disaster as we’re following the story. 10 00:00:26,420 –> 00:00:29,980 And then David who is held up as a wonderfully encouraging example to us. 11 00:00:29,980 –> 00:00:31,459 The Lord’s Anointed. 12 00:00:31,459 –> 00:00:38,520 He points us to Jesus Christ consistently in this book and is a marvelous example to 13 00:00:38,520 –> 00:00:42,060 us of grace under pressure. 14 00:00:42,060 –> 00:00:48,779 We got to the point in the story last week where David in a remarkable overruling providence 15 00:00:48,779 –> 00:00:52,939 of God, he’s brought into the royal court, the shepherd is brought into the royal court 16 00:00:52,939 –> 00:00:56,419 without ever knocking on the door. 17 00:00:56,419 –> 00:01:06,779 And then something happened that shot David from obscurity into remarkable public attention. 18 00:01:06,779 –> 00:01:09,279 And that story of course most Christians know very well. 19 00:01:09,279 –> 00:01:16,279 It is in 1 Samuel chapter 17, it is the story of David and Goliath. 20 00:01:16,279 –> 00:01:21,199 And God’s hand was so on David that with a stone and with a sling he is able to fell 21 00:01:21,639 –> 00:01:26,959 this giant who had mocked and depressed the people of God and we take up the story today 22 00:01:26,959 –> 00:01:34,680 in chapter 18 where we learn from the path that was chosen by David and by Saul and then 23 00:01:34,680 –> 00:01:38,260 also just very briefly by Jonathan. 24 00:01:38,260 –> 00:01:44,199 First then I want us to think about Saul and I’ve called this the broad road that leads 25 00:01:44,199 –> 00:01:47,059 to destruction. 26 00:01:47,120 –> 00:01:54,680 Now, we spent some time last week on this remarkable statement that there was a harmful 27 00:01:54,680 –> 00:02:02,940 spirit that tormented Saul and as we come to chapter 18 I want you to notice that this 28 00:02:02,940 –> 00:02:08,320 theme occurs again in chapter 18 and chapter 19 and then it never occurs again after that 29 00:02:08,320 –> 00:02:11,119 and I want to point out the significance. 30 00:02:11,119 –> 00:02:17,380 When Saul rebelled against God and we saw that beginning from chapter 15, he found himself 31 00:02:17,380 –> 00:02:23,059 increasingly in the company of spirits that shared his rebellion. 32 00:02:23,059 –> 00:02:28,779 God gave Saul up to the very path that he had chosen and therefore he found himself 33 00:02:28,779 –> 00:02:34,919 in that company and this harmful spirit occurs again in chapter 18 and verse 10 and then 34 00:02:35,000 –> 00:02:38,380 also at chapter 19 and verse nine. 35 00:02:38,380 –> 00:02:41,679 And then we never hear of this again. 36 00:02:41,679 –> 00:02:46,039 And there is a Dutch writer by the name of de Graaf who makes a very fascinating, I think 37 00:02:46,039 –> 00:02:48,820 insightful comment on this. 38 00:02:48,820 –> 00:02:57,940 He says, during this period, Saul was possessed by the evil spirit only occasionally, later 39 00:02:57,940 –> 00:03:01,419 we do not read about the evil spirit anymore. 40 00:03:02,320 –> 00:03:10,660 The reason is that Saul’s situation had become worse, not better. 41 00:03:10,660 –> 00:03:17,679 By that time, he had consciously surrendered to the evil spirit of hatred, therefore it 42 00:03:17,679 –> 00:03:25,039 was no longer necessary for the evil spirit to attack him violently from time to time. 43 00:03:25,080 –> 00:03:31,720 I take time over that because I want us to see today that there is a process by which 44 00:03:31,720 –> 00:03:37,399 sin gains control in a person’s life. 45 00:03:37,399 –> 00:03:42,839 Saul kept opening the door of his life to sin until eventually sin got a kind of choke 46 00:03:42,839 –> 00:03:47,059 hold, a strangle hold if you like, in his life. 47 00:03:47,059 –> 00:03:52,520 I want you to see from the Bible today how that happened, how it still happens in human 48 00:03:53,139 –> 00:03:54,139 today. 49 00:03:54,139 –> 00:04:00,339 We need to know how sin gains power in a person’s life so that we may know how we can raise 50 00:04:00,339 –> 00:04:03,660 our defenses against it. 51 00:04:03,660 –> 00:04:05,820 Now I want you to see this four fold pattern. 52 00:04:05,820 –> 00:04:09,779 It’s very clear in the Scripture that’s before us. 53 00:04:09,779 –> 00:04:14,559 Sin begins with an impulse of the heart. 54 00:04:14,559 –> 00:04:20,899 And you see that arising out of the song in chapter 18 and verse 7. 55 00:04:21,160 –> 00:04:25,600 After David has come back from this great triumph in which he’s defeated Goliath, 56 00:04:25,600 –> 00:04:30,160 we read there that the women sang to one another as they celebrated. 57 00:04:30,160 –> 00:04:32,179 And here is the song. 58 00:04:32,179 –> 00:04:39,940 Saul has struck down his thousands and David his tens of thousands. 59 00:04:39,940 –> 00:04:47,720 Now it has to be said that this rather gory song claiming all of these lives was not particularly 60 00:04:47,720 –> 00:04:49,399 helpful. 61 00:04:49,399 –> 00:04:55,640 How much better it would have been if these women, like some from an earlier generation, 62 00:04:55,640 –> 00:05:01,920 had chosen to give glory to God rather than to David for this victory over Goliath. 63 00:05:01,920 –> 00:05:08,540 In fact, it is rather helpful to compare this with another occasion when we hear about women 64 00:05:08,540 –> 00:05:10,600 celebrating a great victory. 65 00:05:10,600 –> 00:05:15,959 And that is after an even greater miracle which was the crossing of the Red Sea. 66 00:05:15,980 –> 00:05:21,459 And in Exodus in chapter 15, you may recall there, we’re told about Miriam who took 67 00:05:21,459 –> 00:05:27,760 a tambourine and began leading the women of Israel in praises, but they did not sing a 68 00:05:27,760 –> 00:05:32,459 great song after the Red Sea that said, Glory, Hallelujah to Moses. 69 00:05:32,459 –> 00:05:39,140 What they did was they sang a song that said give praise to the Lord, for he has triumphed 70 00:05:39,140 –> 00:05:46,040 obviously the horse and the rider he has thrown into the sea. 71 00:05:46,040 –> 00:05:48,000 So here’s a great contrast. 72 00:05:48,000 –> 00:05:54,339 After the Red Sea, here are women who are rejoicing and are worshiping God and they’re 73 00:05:54,339 –> 00:06:00,779 giving praise to him for the miracle of what he has done, but after the slaying of Goliath, 74 00:06:00,779 –> 00:06:06,079 we have women who do not have the same level of faith or of discernment and what they’re 75 00:06:06,119 –> 00:06:12,679 doing is they’re giving praise to the personality God used the particular person of David. 76 00:06:12,679 –> 00:06:17,399 And then they compare him as over against Saul, and they say one of Saul he slain thousands 77 00:06:17,399 –> 00:06:21,200 but David has slain his tens of thousands. 78 00:06:21,200 –> 00:06:23,519 Where is God in that? 79 00:06:23,519 –> 00:06:28,720 How is God glorified by what these folks are singing? 80 00:06:28,720 –> 00:06:35,500 These folks should have said, look what God has done in delivering us from Goliath. 81 00:06:35,540 –> 00:06:36,640 But they don’t do that. 82 00:06:36,640 –> 00:06:40,040 They say, look at what David did! 83 00:06:40,040 –> 00:06:46,399 And of course now we see that David is even better than Saul. 84 00:06:46,399 –> 00:06:57,440 And that very unwise and ungodly kind of talk caused all kinds of trouble. 85 00:06:57,440 –> 00:07:02,820 And I just want to remind you, it is in our casual conversation. 86 00:07:02,820 –> 00:07:04,559 It’s in the way that we speak with friends. 87 00:07:04,640 –> 00:07:08,540 It’s in the way that we speak over breakfast or over lunch. 88 00:07:08,540 –> 00:07:12,100 That we betray how we really think. 89 00:07:12,100 –> 00:07:17,220 And these folks, it seems, really thought that it was David who did it. 90 00:07:17,220 –> 00:07:20,480 As if he had the power of being the victor within himself. 91 00:07:20,480 –> 00:07:25,540 We are going to be winners because we got David, and hey we got Saul as well. 92 00:07:25,540 –> 00:07:27,220 We got the winning team. 93 00:07:27,220 –> 00:07:31,519 And they’re betraying in the very way that they speak about their leaders. 94 00:07:32,239 –> 00:07:39,000 That they have misplaced their confidence, and that they do not give glory to God, and 95 00:07:39,000 –> 00:07:44,279 that they are not trusting in Him at all. 96 00:07:44,279 –> 00:07:53,160 Folks when Christians get focused on the people God uses, it is a sure sign that they have 97 00:07:53,160 –> 00:07:58,480 taken their eyes off the Lord. 98 00:07:58,480 –> 00:08:00,959 And you remember that’s what happened in the church at Corinth. 99 00:08:01,140 –> 00:08:03,200 You remember how people increasingly said, 100 00:08:03,200 –> 00:08:04,920 well, I really like the ministry of Paul? 101 00:08:04,920 –> 00:08:07,000 And then others said, well, I’m of Apollos. 102 00:08:07,000 –> 00:08:09,399 And others said, well I’m of Peter, and so forth. 103 00:08:09,399 –> 00:08:11,619 And you remember how Paul responded to that? 104 00:08:11,619 –> 00:08:13,239 He said, Now, what are any of us? 105 00:08:13,239 –> 00:08:14,239 What is Paul? 106 00:08:14,239 –> 00:08:15,279 What is Apollos? 107 00:08:15,279 –> 00:08:16,279 What is Peter? 108 00:08:16,279 –> 00:08:17,619 We’re only servants. 109 00:08:17,619 –> 00:08:23,320 And we’re only serving the church for the sake of Jesus Christ. 110 00:08:23,320 –> 00:08:32,599 And Paul can plant, and Apollos can watered, but it is only God who can make things grow. 111 00:08:32,599 –> 00:08:39,380 Well, now, I want you to see that this faithless kind of talk, that came from among these particular 112 00:08:39,380 –> 00:08:43,679 women, on this occasion became a snare to Saul. 113 00:08:43,679 –> 00:08:48,640 Because verse 8, Saul, here’s what is being said in these conversations and he becomes 114 00:08:48,640 –> 00:08:52,159 very angry, he becomes displeased. 115 00:08:52,219 –> 00:08:56,520 And I don’t suppose that the women thought that they were setting a snare or a temptation 116 00:08:56,520 –> 00:09:01,320 for Saul, or indeed creating a difficulty for David by the way in which they were talking, 117 00:09:01,320 –> 00:09:03,320 but they were. 118 00:09:03,320 –> 00:09:11,479 And their song provoked this jealous impulse in Saul’s heart, and instead of recognizing 119 00:09:11,479 –> 00:09:17,200 that it was a sin and Saul coming before the Lord and just confessing it, what he did was 120 00:09:17,200 –> 00:09:18,919 he took it into his heart. 121 00:09:18,919 –> 00:09:22,059 He pondered it, it stayed there. 122 00:09:22,059 –> 00:09:25,840 It stayed there and remained. 123 00:09:25,840 –> 00:09:29,320 So, here’s this impulse that comes to his heart. 124 00:09:29,320 –> 00:09:32,260 How does sin get a grip on a person’s life? 125 00:09:32,260 –> 00:09:33,260 It begins there. 126 00:09:33,260 –> 00:09:38,659 Here’s the second stage, it’s all about a habit of mind. 127 00:09:38,659 –> 00:09:41,580 Do you see verse nine? 128 00:09:41,580 –> 00:09:51,039 From that moment on we find that Saul eyed David from that day on. 129 00:09:51,080 –> 00:09:52,280 You can picture that, can’t you? 130 00:09:52,280 –> 00:09:55,679 He eyed David and he’s watching David. 131 00:09:55,679 –> 00:09:56,679 What’s David doing? 132 00:09:56,679 –> 00:09:59,020 What are people saying about David? 133 00:09:59,020 –> 00:10:01,659 What’s David involved in now? 134 00:10:01,659 –> 00:10:07,559 And you understand the problem here, as long as Saul’s eyes are on David, Saul’s eyes cannot 135 00:10:07,559 –> 00:10:11,580 possibly be on the Lord. 136 00:10:11,580 –> 00:10:20,960 Now, folks, what we have here, very simply, is an example of professional jealousy. 137 00:10:21,280 –> 00:10:27,880 Remember kings went to war and led their armies into battle. 138 00:10:27,880 –> 00:10:32,020 That was part of their job, that was part of their calling. 139 00:10:32,020 –> 00:10:37,739 Leading an army into battle was something that Saul was particularly good at. 140 00:10:37,739 –> 00:10:40,739 He had indeed struck down his thousands. 141 00:10:40,739 –> 00:10:41,979 He was known for it. 142 00:10:41,979 –> 00:10:45,780 He’d been praised many times by the women for it. 143 00:10:45,820 –> 00:10:50,340 But now David comes along and David is even better. 144 00:10:50,340 –> 00:10:55,700 And the talent that David has now outshines the achievements of Saul. 145 00:10:55,700 –> 00:11:01,200 Friends, whatever the sphere of life or influence which you’ve given yourself, whatever your 146 00:11:01,200 –> 00:11:07,059 particular talents, there will be people who are better than you at it who will come along. 147 00:11:07,059 –> 00:11:09,979 And you need to know how to deal with that. 148 00:11:10,780 –> 00:11:17,880 And their talents, they will be your temptation. 149 00:11:17,880 –> 00:11:24,280 If you’re good at sports, your temptation is gonna come from the guy who threatens to 150 00:11:24,280 –> 00:11:29,919 take your place in the team and you’re gonna be eying him and it’s gonna begin to trouble 151 00:11:29,919 –> 00:11:31,880 you. 152 00:11:31,880 –> 00:11:40,280 You can multiply examples into the world of music, into the world of business, into the 153 00:11:40,280 –> 00:11:46,919 world of academia, into the world of awards, into the world of promotions, into the world 154 00:11:46,919 –> 00:11:52,359 of ministry, into all the worlds in which there are different kinds of recognition for 155 00:11:52,359 –> 00:11:56,520 particular achievements, and it’s very easy, when you’ve been given a particular talent 156 00:11:56,520 –> 00:11:59,280 to say, now why is that with them and not with me? 157 00:11:59,280 –> 00:12:04,679 There is a stay at home mom, and others are recognized and are asked to be counselors 158 00:12:04,679 –> 00:12:08,640 and mentors, and you say, now why them and not me? 159 00:12:08,640 –> 00:12:16,559 And it immediately becomes a source of difficulty and of temptation to you. 160 00:12:16,559 –> 00:12:28,039 When someone is praised in an area in which God has gifted you, you will be tempted. 161 00:12:28,039 –> 00:12:30,000 Why him? 162 00:12:30,000 –> 00:12:35,419 Why her and not me? 163 00:12:35,419 –> 00:12:36,940 And so, expect this. 164 00:12:36,940 –> 00:12:43,039 We’re wanting to be on our defenses because Satan’s strategies are revealed to us in Scripture. 165 00:12:43,039 –> 00:12:49,640 The enemy of your soul will draw your attention to a person in your field of endeavor who 166 00:12:49,640 –> 00:12:56,500 has greater gifts, who has had greater opportunity, who is a greater blessing than you have had. 167 00:12:56,500 –> 00:13:06,260 And that is precisely what happens as Saul is tempted, and he falls for it, hook, line, 168 00:13:06,260 –> 00:13:07,260 and sinker. 169 00:13:07,260 –> 00:13:11,280 An impulse of the heart. 170 00:13:11,280 –> 00:13:15,260 But then a settled habit of the mind, watching. 171 00:13:15,260 –> 00:13:19,400 Who is doing better than me. 172 00:13:19,400 –> 00:13:22,179 And that then develops into a pattern of behavior. 173 00:13:22,179 –> 00:13:26,919 Notice that in verse 11, and what a terrible behavior this is too. 174 00:13:26,919 –> 00:13:34,219 Saul hurled the spear for he thought I would pin David to the wall. 175 00:13:34,219 –> 00:13:37,000 But David evaded him twice. 176 00:13:37,219 –> 00:13:40,679 Now notice there is a pattern here. 177 00:13:40,679 –> 00:13:48,020 A temptation has come into Saul’s heart through this tactless and this faithless song. 178 00:13:48,020 –> 00:13:53,179 But instead of recognizing that what was coming into his heart was sin, and then coming and 179 00:13:53,179 –> 00:13:59,539 bringing it before the Lord, Saul embraces it, he eyes David, and sin’s building its 180 00:13:59,539 –> 00:14:02,419 power in his soul over time. 181 00:14:03,140 –> 00:14:08,099 The strangle holds becoming tighter and the grip of sin is becoming stronger. 182 00:14:08,099 –> 00:14:13,760 His hurt feelings have hardened into jealousy and then jealousy is beginning to harden into 183 00:14:13,760 –> 00:14:16,559 a hatred. 184 00:14:16,559 –> 00:14:21,140 This is how Satan works in a human soul. 185 00:14:21,140 –> 00:14:26,619 And eventually there comes a point when, on a moment of impulse, Saul does something 186 00:14:26,619 –> 00:14:32,840 that a few months before would have been utterly unimaginable even to him. 187 00:14:32,840 –> 00:14:37,979 He’s sort of fingering his spear that he holds in the palm of his hand as it’s there beside 188 00:14:37,979 –> 00:14:45,140 him, and then in a moment that he hardly understood himself, he flings a spear at someone he once 189 00:14:45,140 –> 00:14:49,219 professed to love. 190 00:14:49,219 –> 00:14:53,479 And you say, how could he have done such a thing? 191 00:14:53,479 –> 00:14:57,979 And the answer is this thing has been building its power within his soul for a long time, 192 00:14:57,979 –> 00:15:04,719 ever since he first had the thoughts that came to his heart when he heard the women 193 00:15:04,719 –> 00:15:09,419 sing that song. 194 00:15:09,419 –> 00:15:13,719 That sin that he’s welcomed into his heart has now built such a position in his soul 195 00:15:13,719 –> 00:15:22,719 that he no longer has the power, or even the desire, to deal with it. 196 00:15:22,719 –> 00:15:23,719 And it’s a pattern. 197 00:15:23,719 –> 00:15:26,960 That’s why it’s very significant the Bible says he did this twice, because this is now 198 00:15:26,960 –> 00:15:28,239 becoming a pattern of behavior. 199 00:15:28,239 –> 00:15:32,400 And you will notice that the rest of the book of 1 Samuel, as we go through it, you just 200 00:15:32,400 –> 00:15:38,479 find Saul ever more bizarre attempts as trying to get rid of David, and he’s always trying, 201 00:15:38,479 –> 00:15:41,380 and he’s never succeeding. 202 00:15:41,380 –> 00:15:45,780 And that leads me to the fourth thing here, there is the cycle of frustration. 203 00:15:45,780 –> 00:15:52,359 Verse 29, Saul was David’s enemy continually. 204 00:15:52,500 –> 00:15:57,460 And as you read through the story, we’re going to follow most of it over these next 205 00:15:57,460 –> 00:15:58,460 weeks. 206 00:15:58,460 –> 00:16:04,940 But if you want to read ahead, you’ll find it’s almost comical, if it were not so sad, 207 00:16:04,940 –> 00:16:09,900 because the point of the story is that Saul is always coming up with new ways to try and 208 00:16:09,900 –> 00:16:11,119 get rid of David. 209 00:16:11,119 –> 00:16:14,960 And every time he comes up with a new way of trying to get rid of David, he always fails. 210 00:16:14,960 –> 00:16:18,020 Nothing he ever does ever works. 211 00:16:18,020 –> 00:16:22,219 And you see it beginning here, verse 11, he throws the spear, but twice, David 212 00:16:22,299 –> 00:16:23,599 evades him. 213 00:16:23,619 –> 00:16:29,260 Verse 21, he then gives his daughter, Michael, to David to be his wife, because he says there, 214 00:16:29,260 –> 00:16:33,960 she’ll be a snare, I can get to him through her, but what happens is that Michael actually 215 00:16:33,960 –> 00:16:39,179 loves David, and ends up being the means of delivering him from her father’s anger. 216 00:16:39,179 –> 00:16:43,659 Verse 25, Saul decides, well, I’ll send him to the Philistines, and it’s just the law 217 00:16:43,659 –> 00:16:46,940 of average, is if I keep sending him out to battle, one of the Philistines will get him 218 00:16:46,940 –> 00:16:48,859 eventually, so he keeps sending him out. 219 00:16:48,979 –> 00:16:52,900 And every time David comes back with more glory and more triumphs, and more praise from 220 00:16:52,900 –> 00:16:55,900 the women, it’s terribly frustrating for Saul. 221 00:16:55,900 –> 00:17:01,340 Eventually, in chapter 19, he sits down with his own son, Jonathan, who, surely more than 222 00:17:01,340 –> 00:17:05,939 anyone else, is going to have reason to want to be rid of David, he’s the king’s son, but 223 00:17:05,939 –> 00:17:11,660 unbeknown to Saul, Jonathan has come to have a deep love and indeed, a deep covenant with 224 00:17:11,660 –> 00:17:16,380 David, and therefore, tells David about Saul’s murderous plans. 225 00:17:17,140 –> 00:17:26,219 So, the rest of the book just goes on and on like this, Saul is always fighting David, 226 00:17:26,219 –> 00:17:31,660 and nothing that he does ever works. 227 00:17:31,660 –> 00:17:34,439 And do you know why? 228 00:17:34,439 –> 00:17:43,180 It’s in verse 12, Saul was afraid of David because the Lord was with him, but had departed 229 00:17:43,560 –> 00:17:47,300 from Saul. 230 00:17:47,300 –> 00:17:50,400 There’s the root of the problem, isn’t it? 231 00:17:50,400 –> 00:18:01,699 The Lord was with David, and so Saul was actually fighting against God. 232 00:18:01,699 –> 00:18:09,719 And he finds himself in these endless cycles of frustration, because, friends, nobody who 233 00:18:09,719 –> 00:18:14,500 fights against God ever wins. 234 00:18:14,500 –> 00:18:18,660 Nobody who fights against God ever wins. 235 00:18:18,660 –> 00:18:21,619 And so here’s this man who’s gone down this path. 236 00:18:21,619 –> 00:18:27,400 I’ve described it as the broad road that leads to destruction. 237 00:18:27,400 –> 00:18:29,660 The agonies of it. 238 00:18:29,660 –> 00:18:31,180 This is not the way. 239 00:18:31,180 –> 00:18:34,739 Do not walk in it. 240 00:18:34,739 –> 00:18:36,339 And what do we learn from this? 241 00:18:36,380 –> 00:18:41,599 We learn this, that the best time to deal with any sin and temptation is early. 242 00:18:41,599 –> 00:18:46,699 There is never a better time to deal with sin and temptation than now. 243 00:18:46,699 –> 00:18:52,119 Will you ask God today as I have asked God this week in preparation? 244 00:18:52,119 –> 00:18:54,780 You have to do that if you’re preparing to speak. 245 00:18:54,780 –> 00:19:04,140 But will you now ask God today to search your heart with regards to professional jealousy? 246 00:19:04,160 –> 00:19:09,800 To search your heart lest there be an impulse within you that would end up with you taking 247 00:19:09,819 –> 00:19:14,479 your eyes off the Lord, having your eyes on what’s happening with regards to His blessing 248 00:19:14,479 –> 00:19:18,180 on others and how He’s using others. 249 00:19:18,839 –> 00:19:25,359 For such would harden into your heart and eventually lead you down a path that is going 250 00:19:25,359 –> 00:19:34,400 to take you not only into sin but into increasing patterns of defeat and of frustration. 251 00:19:35,420 –> 00:19:41,520 And if sin has gained a hold in your life, a strong hold in your life, if you say, well 252 00:19:41,520 –> 00:19:42,959 now you’ve described exactly me. 253 00:19:42,959 –> 00:19:45,000 I’m in the cycles of frustration. 254 00:19:45,000 –> 00:19:50,540 I’ve lost the will, I’ve lost the desire, I don’t know how to get out of this power 255 00:19:50,540 –> 00:19:52,119 that sin now has over me. 256 00:19:52,160 –> 00:19:54,280 It’s got me in a stranglehold. 257 00:19:54,280 –> 00:20:01,540 Friend, the root problem is not your compulsive behavior. 258 00:20:01,540 –> 00:20:05,280 The root of your problem is your continued rebellion against God. 259 00:20:05,280 –> 00:20:08,859 That’s what we learn from the story of Saul here today. 260 00:20:08,859 –> 00:20:11,500 And that is the fight that has to end. 261 00:20:11,500 –> 00:20:16,619 For only when you come to the place of getting on your knees and saying, oh God, I need you 262 00:20:17,579 –> 00:20:21,300 If you are apart from me, I have no hope. 263 00:20:21,300 –> 00:20:24,859 I come to you in repentance, I come to you in faith. 264 00:20:24,859 –> 00:20:27,099 I ask that you will come back to me. 265 00:20:27,099 –> 00:20:30,680 I ask that you will accept me and forgive me. 266 00:20:30,680 –> 00:20:34,300 And that by your Holy Spirit you will fill me and that you will put me in the position 267 00:20:34,300 –> 00:20:39,300 in which I will be able to prevail over that which has prevailed against me. 268 00:20:39,939 –> 00:20:45,699 You can’t defeat this thing from the position of Saul because God has left them. 269 00:20:45,719 –> 00:20:50,099 You’ve got to come to the position of David and to ask that by his mercy for the sake 270 00:20:50,099 –> 00:20:55,359 of Jesus Christ, he’ll come and graciously that he will be with you. 271 00:20:55,359 –> 00:21:02,219 Saul, the broad road that leads to destruction. 272 00:21:02,219 –> 00:21:09,380 Now folks, much more briefly I just want to give you a shorter cameo today of David and 273 00:21:09,380 –> 00:21:13,619 then even more briefly his friend Jonathan. 274 00:21:13,699 –> 00:21:21,680 I just want you to notice about David the strange enigma of what it is like to walk 275 00:21:21,680 –> 00:21:24,219 with God. 276 00:21:24,219 –> 00:21:28,040 The blessing of God on David could hardly be clearer in this story. 277 00:21:28,040 –> 00:21:30,560 Three times we’re told that the Lord was with David. 278 00:21:30,560 –> 00:21:31,560 Do you see that? 279 00:21:31,560 –> 00:21:35,739 Verse 12, Saul was afraid of David because the Lord was with him. 280 00:21:35,739 –> 00:21:40,459 Verse 14, David had success in all his undertakings for the Lord was with him. 281 00:21:40,619 –> 00:21:45,680 Verse 28, Saul saw and knew that the Lord was with David, three times. 282 00:21:46,640 –> 00:21:49,920 Four times we are told about David’s success. 283 00:21:49,920 –> 00:21:54,060 Verse five, David went out and he was successful, whatever Saul sent him. 284 00:21:54,060 –> 00:21:58,339 Verse 14, David had success in all of his undertakings. 285 00:21:58,339 –> 00:22:01,280 Verse 15, Saul saw that David had great success. 286 00:22:01,280 –> 00:22:07,400 Verse 30, David had more success than all of the servants of Saul, so that his name 287 00:22:07,400 –> 00:22:09,079 was highly esteemed. 288 00:22:09,140 –> 00:22:13,479 So you could not miss it reading this chapter, God’s with David, and he has all kinds of 289 00:22:13,479 –> 00:22:14,359 success. 290 00:22:15,079 –> 00:22:18,619 Blessing follows him wherever he goes. 291 00:22:19,459 –> 00:22:24,439 You think of the story, by God’s grace, he’s been plucked from obscurity as a night-watchman 292 00:22:24,439 –> 00:22:25,439 with sheep. 293 00:22:25,439 –> 00:22:29,479 He’s been brought without even asking for it into the royal courts. 294 00:22:29,479 –> 00:22:35,900 By God’s kindness, he has been plucked from obscurity and placed next to the king. 295 00:22:35,939 –> 00:22:41,439 By God’s wisdom, and by God’s strength, he’s been able to overcome the great giant 296 00:22:41,439 –> 00:22:48,020 Goliath, who has been mocking the people of God and threatening the borders of their country. 297 00:22:48,020 –> 00:22:50,439 And David has become the great hero of God’s people. 298 00:22:50,439 –> 00:22:52,859 God just blesses him all the time. 299 00:22:52,859 –> 00:22:55,839 God is with him and gives him great success. 300 00:22:55,839 –> 00:23:00,979 Wouldn’t you just love to be David? 301 00:23:00,979 –> 00:23:04,579 Wouldn’t you just love to be David? 302 00:23:06,099 –> 00:23:09,699 Well, you’re not sure, and you’re right. 303 00:23:09,699 –> 00:23:17,500 Because here’s the thing, the strange enigma of walking with God, God is with him, God 304 00:23:17,500 –> 00:23:24,000 is blessing him, God is giving him good success. 305 00:23:24,000 –> 00:23:27,300 And Saul’s throwing a spear at him. 306 00:23:27,300 –> 00:23:31,319 And Saul’s daughter stands him up on his wedding day. 307 00:23:31,319 –> 00:23:32,599 And on, and on, and on. 308 00:23:32,599 –> 00:23:36,660 We’re going to follow the story of traps and snares and suspicion. 309 00:23:36,660 –> 00:23:40,959 You would think coming back from the defeat of Goliath that he would have been praised 310 00:23:40,959 –> 00:23:43,579 and thanked in the royal court. 311 00:23:43,579 –> 00:23:48,819 But instead, traps and snares are set for him by all kinds of people who instead of 312 00:23:48,819 –> 00:23:55,140 being grateful for his service, just would love to see him brought down. 313 00:23:55,140 –> 00:24:08,579 God placed David in a school of spiritual formation, and it was not a classroom experience. 314 00:24:08,579 –> 00:24:15,319 It was the school of hard knocks in which God was with him. 315 00:24:15,319 –> 00:24:19,599 I had lunch with someone from a Christian ministry this week, and in a memorable phrase 316 00:24:19,599 –> 00:24:23,939 they said, we only hire people who walk with a limp. 317 00:24:24,640 –> 00:24:30,140 If you’ve never really known what it is to be wounded within the service of God, 318 00:24:30,140 –> 00:24:34,280 you’re probably not yet much use. 319 00:24:34,280 –> 00:24:40,140 David’s Godly character that makes him so useful in the years that lie ahead is forged 320 00:24:40,140 –> 00:24:41,420 right here. 321 00:24:41,420 –> 00:24:47,500 It’s through enduring all this jealousy, all this talk behind his back, all this relentless 322 00:24:47,500 –> 00:24:53,640 suspicion, even the open attacks that are made on him that God shapes David into the 323 00:24:53,660 –> 00:24:56,479 kind of man that can really be useful. 324 00:24:56,479 –> 00:25:02,859 God gives special trials to people with high callings, and that’s why it says in the Bible, 325 00:25:02,859 –> 00:25:07,900 even our Lord, He learned obedience, how? 326 00:25:07,900 –> 00:25:11,900 Through what he suffered. 327 00:25:11,900 –> 00:25:17,739 So, here is this strange enigma, and this is a snapshot of the Christian life to take 328 00:25:17,739 –> 00:25:23,300 away, the strange enigma of what it actually looks like to walk with God. 329 00:25:23,540 –> 00:25:24,839 God was with David. 330 00:25:24,839 –> 00:25:26,060 Says it three times. 331 00:25:26,060 –> 00:25:27,060 He was with him. 332 00:25:27,060 –> 00:25:28,060 But, how was he with him? 333 00:25:28,060 –> 00:25:31,260 He was with him when the spear was thrown at him. 334 00:25:31,260 –> 00:25:34,560 He was with him when the woman he thought he would marry didn’t show up on his wedding 335 00:25:34,560 –> 00:25:36,180 day. 336 00:25:36,180 –> 00:25:41,839 He was with him when he was being eyed with all this relentless suspicion and distrust 337 00:25:41,839 –> 00:25:46,780 by the person he was loyally serving. 338 00:25:46,780 –> 00:25:51,300 He’s with him when he has no other option in chapter 19 but to escape through the window 339 00:25:51,300 –> 00:25:58,319 and to go out into the country and to flee for his life because Saul is after him. 340 00:25:58,319 –> 00:26:03,939 Oh says Peter in the New Testament to Christians, Do not be surprised at the painful trial you 341 00:26:03,939 –> 00:26:08,959 experience, but find joy in this, that when you suffer for the sake of Christ, when you 342 00:26:08,959 –> 00:26:20,160 suffer in the cause of serving Christ, then the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you. 343 00:26:20,719 –> 00:26:25,380 That’s how David became the man of God that he was. 344 00:26:25,380 –> 00:26:30,479 It was true of David, it was true of Jesus, it will be true of you. 345 00:26:30,479 –> 00:26:38,239 Saul, the broad road to destruction, David the strange enigma of walking with God, God’s 346 00:26:38,239 –> 00:26:43,459 with him and yet with him in all these extraordinarily difficult circumstances that God is using 347 00:26:43,459 –> 00:26:45,719 to shape his life. 348 00:26:45,719 –> 00:26:49,439 And here’s the very last thing in these last moments, just briefly, Jonathan, I want you 349 00:26:49,439 –> 00:26:54,520 to see this, I’ve never noticed this before, so it’s come fresh and very wonderful to me 350 00:26:54,520 –> 00:26:56,199 this week. 351 00:26:56,199 –> 00:27:02,219 The narrow path that leads to life, verse 3 of chapter 18, Jonathan made a covenant 352 00:27:02,219 –> 00:27:06,520 with David because he loved him as his own soul. 353 00:27:06,520 –> 00:27:12,040 Now, Jonathan, who we introduce to the story for the first time here in the series, he 354 00:27:12,040 –> 00:27:14,719 was Saul’s son. 355 00:27:14,719 –> 00:27:18,680 So he was the boy who was born to be king. 356 00:27:18,739 –> 00:27:24,400 Jonathan’s been raised in the royal court, he’s been mentored for this great position 357 00:27:24,400 –> 00:27:31,520 of leadership, and Jonathan could truly say, I was born to be the King. 358 00:27:31,520 –> 00:27:35,339 But now David is the Lord’s anointed. 359 00:27:35,339 –> 00:27:39,859 There is not going to be a succession in the line of Saul as we saw. 360 00:27:39,859 –> 00:27:45,319 And somehow after this great triumph that David was given by the Lord over Goliath, 361 00:27:45,319 –> 00:27:48,300 Jonathan knew that this was true. 362 00:27:48,400 –> 00:27:54,319 Jonathan, you are not the one. 363 00:27:54,319 –> 00:27:58,140 David will be the one to be king. 364 00:27:58,140 –> 00:27:59,979 God has chosen him. 365 00:27:59,979 –> 00:28:07,119 And somehow Jonathan became aware of this, David was the Lord’s anointed. 366 00:28:07,119 –> 00:28:15,500 And so I want us to end here that both Saul the father and Jonathan the son became gradually 367 00:28:15,560 –> 00:28:21,780 and progressively aware, certainly Jonathan first and then Saul later, they became aware, 368 00:28:21,780 –> 00:28:28,060 each of them, that David was the Lord’s anointed. 369 00:28:28,060 –> 00:28:35,920 And they have entirely different reactions to that which is revealed to them by God. 370 00:28:35,920 –> 00:28:40,420 David is the Lord’s anointed. 371 00:28:40,420 –> 00:28:42,839 And Saul says, I’ll fight him. 372 00:28:43,219 –> 00:28:46,500 I’ll fight him to the last. 373 00:28:46,500 –> 00:28:50,180 David is the Lord’s anointed. 374 00:28:50,180 –> 00:28:53,319 And Jonathan says, I’ll love him. 375 00:28:53,319 –> 00:28:57,640 I will love him to the last. 376 00:28:57,640 –> 00:29:03,420 Saul says, David must go, and he reaches for his spear. 377 00:29:03,420 –> 00:29:09,280 Jonathan says, David must reign, and I want you to notice what he does. 378 00:29:09,280 –> 00:29:11,319 Far from reaching for him his spear… 379 00:29:11,319 –> 00:29:15,819 Verse 3, Jonathan made a covenant with David, because he loved them as his own soul. 380 00:29:15,819 –> 00:29:21,500 And Jonathan stripped himself of the robe that was on him and gave it to David, and 381 00:29:21,500 –> 00:29:29,579 his armor and even his sword, and his bow and his belt. 382 00:29:29,579 –> 00:29:33,920 Clothes, of course, signified the position of the person. 383 00:29:33,920 –> 00:29:38,219 This is the Royal Prince, and he’s taking off the royal robe, and he’s giving it to 384 00:29:38,219 –> 00:29:39,300 someone else. 385 00:29:39,300 –> 00:29:40,300 What’s he saying? 386 00:29:40,300 –> 00:29:41,300 What’s he doing? 387 00:29:41,319 –> 00:29:47,719 Well, he’s confessing, and he’s affirming that as far as his will is concerned, the right 388 00:29:47,719 –> 00:29:52,140 of succession is being passed from him to David. 389 00:29:52,140 –> 00:29:56,739 He’s positioning himself not as his own king, but as one who will be the loyal servant of 390 00:29:56,739 –> 00:30:01,280 David, and so not only does he take off the robe, but remember ancient kings in those 391 00:30:01,280 –> 00:30:07,079 days, the first thing an ancient king would do is murder all the rival claimants in order 392 00:30:07,079 –> 00:30:10,680 to secure his own position. 393 00:30:10,680 –> 00:30:12,359 But what does Jonathan do? 394 00:30:12,359 –> 00:30:15,680 He says, here’s the robe. 395 00:30:15,680 –> 00:30:17,400 Now let me take off my armor. 396 00:30:17,400 –> 00:30:19,160 Let me give you my sword. 397 00:30:19,160 –> 00:30:22,319 Let me give you my belt. 398 00:30:22,319 –> 00:30:25,319 You are never gonna have any trouble from me, David. 399 00:30:25,319 –> 00:30:27,000 I’m gonna lock arms with you. 400 00:30:27,000 –> 00:30:35,479 I’m gonna be your most loyal supporter and your closest ever follower. 401 00:30:35,479 –> 00:30:38,520 Jonathan makes me think of John the Baptist. 402 00:30:38,560 –> 00:30:43,959 Do you remember how he pointed all who followed him to Jesus? 403 00:30:43,959 –> 00:30:47,520 And he said, behold, the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world. 404 00:30:47,520 –> 00:30:53,319 And then he said, he’s got to be more. 405 00:30:53,319 –> 00:30:57,000 And I’ve got to be less. 406 00:30:57,000 –> 00:30:59,339 Only faith makes that possible. 407 00:30:59,339 –> 00:31:04,839 And Jonathan responds with faith to that which is revealed with regards to the purpose of 408 00:31:04,839 –> 00:31:05,839 God. 409 00:31:05,839 –> 00:31:08,119 And submits himself to God’s anointed king. 410 00:31:08,119 –> 00:31:10,680 I will never fight against God’s anointed King. 411 00:31:10,680 –> 00:31:15,079 I will be your most loyal supporter. 412 00:31:15,079 –> 00:31:19,319 And David, of course, points us to the Lord Jesus Christ, who is the Lord’s anointed. 413 00:31:19,319 –> 00:31:21,180 That’s what the whole story of David is, therefor. 414 00:31:21,180 –> 00:31:26,680 The scripture says he must reign until all things are put under his feet. 415 00:31:26,680 –> 00:31:34,859 And friends towards Jesus Christ, who is David’s greater Son, the Lord’s anointed, there will 416 00:31:34,859 –> 00:31:36,280 always be these two reactions. 417 00:31:36,500 –> 00:31:40,680 Some will respond to Christ like Jonathan did. 418 00:31:40,680 –> 00:31:46,420 And some will respond to Christ like Saul did towards David. 419 00:31:46,420 –> 00:31:53,560 Some will, in their hearts like Saul’s, say of God’s anointed, I will fight him. 420 00:31:53,560 –> 00:31:56,079 Give me my spear. 421 00:31:56,079 –> 00:32:01,119 I have to protect the throne that is my own life. 422 00:32:01,180 –> 00:32:10,300 The Christ who came to serve receives no thanks, no praise from such people, only suspicion, 423 00:32:10,300 –> 00:32:15,920 only resistance, only continued antagonism and rebellion. 424 00:32:15,920 –> 00:32:20,540 And then there are others who like Jonathan in their hearts will say of God’s anointed, 425 00:32:20,540 –> 00:32:23,660 I will love him. 426 00:32:23,739 –> 00:32:31,579 He is the conqueror of the enemy I could never have defeated, and the very best thing that 427 00:32:31,579 –> 00:32:37,000 I could do with my life is to offer my life in his service. 428 00:32:37,000 –> 00:32:42,800 To take off the robe and as it were to place it on him, and to take off all the weapos 429 00:32:42,800 –> 00:32:45,079 that could ever be used to fight against him. 430 00:32:45,079 –> 00:32:51,719 And then to place them in his hands, that I may stand with him, and that he may fight 431 00:32:51,719 –> 00:32:52,719 for me. 432 00:32:52,719 –> 00:32:55,719 I will serve him, I will love him, I will follow him. 433 00:32:55,719 –> 00:33:02,420 Saul walked the broad road that led to destruction, and Jonathan walked the narrow road that leads 434 00:33:02,420 –> 00:33:09,979 to life, and every one of us and every other person you meet is on one of these two roads. 435 00:33:09,979 –> 00:33:12,479 Let’s pray together. 436 00:33:12,479 –> 00:33:16,859 Father hear our prayers and work your word into our hearts. 437 00:33:17,719 –> 00:33:25,359 For these things we ask in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and our Savior, and all of 438 00:33:25,359 –> 00:33:28,459 God’s people together said, Amen.

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