Cultivating Humility, Part 1

1 Peter 5:5-6

Our culture often tells us to believe in ourselves, but Jesus points us in a different direction: blessed are the poor in spirit. In this message, Colin Smith explores why humility is essential to Christian growth and how recognising our need of God opens the way to his grace.

From 1 Peter 5, discover how humility helps us face hardship, strengthens love in our relationships, and keeps us depending on Christ rather than ourselves.

100:00:00,760 –> 00:00:13,520It sometimes seems that parents and teachers, and counsellors, and politicians,200:00:13,520 –> 00:00:24,200and advertisers are all conspiring together to tell us how great we are.300:00:24,799 –> 00:00:29,559And apart from a miracle of God’s Grace,400:00:31,200 –> 00:00:32,279we will believe it.500:00:32,279 –> 00:00:35,419Welcome to Open the Bible with Pastor Colin Smith.600:00:35,419 –> 00:00:36,200I’m David Pick.700:00:36,200 –> 00:00:37,459Glad you joined us today.800:00:37,459 –> 00:00:41,860And Colin, many of us recognize that we’re bombarded in that way.900:00:41,860 –> 00:00:46,200And although if we have children, we think they’re wonderful, wonderful,1000:00:46,200 –> 00:00:49,720of course, and they can grow up and to do anything they want,1100:00:49,720 –> 00:00:52,080your saying there’s a bit of a danger in that.1200:00:52,360 –> 00:00:55,660Yeah, well, the first thing to say is that affirmation is important.1300:00:55,660 –> 00:00:57,580We are to encourage each other.1400:00:57,580 –> 00:01:02,459The problem is that I think that an unbroken diet of affirmation1500:01:02,459 –> 00:01:07,099ends up creating exactly the opposite of what we want in our kids.1600:01:07,099 –> 00:01:09,239A sense of self-sufficiency,1700:01:09,239 –> 00:01:14,279a sense that actually, I end up being in the position of God,1800:01:14,279 –> 00:01:16,440which is, of course, the ultimate idolatry.1900:01:16,440 –> 00:01:19,320And we’re looking today at the first beatitude where Jesus says,2000:01:19,320 –> 00:01:21,440blessed are the poor in spirit.2100:01:21,599 –> 00:01:25,879Well, you know, a constant diet of affirmation actually goes against2200:01:25,879 –> 00:01:30,000the very first thing that Jesus speaks to us about as being blessed,2300:01:30,000 –> 00:01:31,760which is I have an awareness of my own need.2400:01:31,760 –> 00:01:33,680So you’re a grandparent now.2500:01:33,680 –> 00:01:40,019How do we talk to those kids in a way that is truthful but doesn’t leave them crushed?2600:01:40,019 –> 00:01:43,959Yeah, well, I think one of the ways of doing that is to do it in a personal way.2700:01:43,959 –> 00:01:48,500We’re not speaking to our children as if there was something that they needed2800:01:48,500 –> 00:01:49,879that we did not.2900:01:49,900 –> 00:01:53,059So it’s a great thing to be able, as a parent or as a grandparent,3000:01:53,059 –> 00:01:54,480to start with yourself.3100:01:54,480 –> 00:01:57,120Dad, Grandad needs this.3200:01:57,120 –> 00:02:03,260Grandad needs this, Savior, and to be able to communicate our own sense of need3300:02:03,260 –> 00:02:06,500so that our children, and indeed, for that matter, our grandchildren3400:02:06,500 –> 00:02:10,360are going to gain something of what Jesus is speaking about here.3500:02:10,360 –> 00:02:11,899Blessed are the poor in spirit.3600:02:11,899 –> 00:02:16,399Blessed are those who say, I need what I cannot find in myself3700:02:16,399 –> 00:02:18,460and what I can only find in Christ.3800:02:18,679 –> 00:02:21,639So today’s message is called Cultivating Humility.3900:02:21,639 –> 00:02:25,979So join us if you can in 1 Peter, Chapter 5.4000:02:25,979 –> 00:02:27,779Here is pastor Colin.4100:02:27,779 –> 00:02:30,660We’re looking together at the Beatitudes,4200:02:30,660 –> 00:02:34,179these great pronouncements of blessings from the Son of God.4300:02:34,179 –> 00:02:38,059We began last week, you may recall, in Matthew, Chapter 5, and verse 3,4400:02:38,059 –> 00:02:39,660with the statement of Jesus,4500:02:39,660 –> 00:02:45,580blessed are the poor in spirit, for their is the kingdom of heaven.4600:02:45,580 –> 00:02:50,039We saw that Christ calls us to recognize our poverty before God.4700:02:50,039 –> 00:02:53,539You may have much to offer your family, your business, your sports team,4800:02:53,539 –> 00:02:55,940your friends, but when you stand before God,4900:02:55,940 –> 00:02:58,740you are in an entirely different position.5000:02:58,740 –> 00:03:02,419What do we have that we did not receive?5100:03:02,419 –> 00:03:07,220But we saw that in this poverty of spirit, there is also a surprising blessing.5200:03:07,220 –> 00:03:11,139Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.5300:03:11,139 –> 00:03:12,580We saw this wonderful gift5400:03:12,580 –> 00:03:15,539that there is a taste of heaven now for the humble5500:03:15,539 –> 00:03:18,779because God has promised to dwell with them.5600:03:18,779 –> 00:03:23,500Heaven comes to the humble before the humble are in heaven.5700:03:23,500 –> 00:03:25,220And therefore, today,5800:03:25,220 –> 00:03:28,339we’re trying to take the second step in this journey5900:03:28,339 –> 00:03:30,039and to ask the question,6000:03:30,039 –> 00:03:35,460how, then, can we cultivate this kind of humility?6100:03:36,380 –> 00:03:39,039Now in the introduction to the series,6200:03:39,199 –> 00:03:42,740we noted that there is a progression in the beatitudes.6300:03:42,740 –> 00:03:44,080A number of folks have written saying6400:03:44,080 –> 00:03:47,279that was a fresh insight to them,6500:03:47,279 –> 00:03:51,080but there clearly is a movement within the beatitudes,6600:03:51,080 –> 00:03:55,520and we pictured that as being like a series of rings.6700:03:55,520 –> 00:03:56,619And there they are.6800:03:56,619 –> 00:04:00,059There’s humility and there’s mourning and there’s meekness6900:04:00,059 –> 00:04:04,759and there’s righteousness and mercy and purity and peace.7000:04:04,759 –> 00:04:06,600And the rings at the end7100:04:06,979 –> 00:04:10,460are really the ones that we often reach for.7200:04:10,460 –> 00:04:14,399Pastor, I really would like to have purity of heart,7300:04:14,399 –> 00:04:19,320but how can I deal with all the stuff that messes me up?7400:04:19,320 –> 00:04:22,820I really would like to be a person who can forgive,7500:04:22,820 –> 00:04:24,519but what do I do about the wounds7600:04:24,519 –> 00:04:27,320that make that so hard for me?7700:04:27,320 –> 00:04:30,640I really would like to have a greater peace in my own soul.7800:04:30,640 –> 00:04:33,420I’d like to be able to bring peace to other people,7900:04:33,420 –> 00:04:35,239but what do I do about all of the turmoil8000:04:35,420 –> 00:04:36,899that is inside of me?8100:04:36,899 –> 00:04:39,859So, we want to get after the rings8200:04:39,859 –> 00:04:41,839at the end of the line, as it were,8300:04:41,839 –> 00:04:45,359but these are the ones that often seem to be beyond us.8400:04:45,359 –> 00:04:47,459We’re saying, how can I get to purity?8500:04:47,459 –> 00:04:49,779How can I get to being merciful?8600:04:49,779 –> 00:04:53,399How can I get to a greater measure of peace8700:04:53,399 –> 00:04:55,540amongst others?8800:04:55,540 –> 00:04:59,019And so often, these things seem to be beyond us.8900:04:59,019 –> 00:05:01,040And the analogy that we’re using,9000:05:01,040 –> 00:05:02,820therefore, is a very simple one.9100:05:02,859 –> 00:05:05,440The Beatitudes are a series of rings.9200:05:06,299 –> 00:05:10,040And the way that you get to the ones at the end9300:05:10,040 –> 00:05:12,440is by swinging first from the ones9400:05:12,440 –> 00:05:14,079that are at the beginning.9500:05:14,079 –> 00:05:16,399You move to the next ring9600:05:16,399 –> 00:05:20,779with the momentum that you gain from the last.9700:05:20,779 –> 00:05:23,920And taking this image of the monkey swing9800:05:23,920 –> 00:05:25,959as we settle that in our minds,9900:05:25,959 –> 00:05:28,839momentum, of course, is the key.10000:05:28,839 –> 00:05:30,839So, the momentum that one gains10100:05:30,859 –> 00:05:33,779from laying hold of the first ring10200:05:33,779 –> 00:05:35,500clearly is critical.10300:05:35,500 –> 00:05:37,700It’s that that will take you to the second10400:05:37,700 –> 00:05:39,100and the momentum of the second10500:05:39,100 –> 00:05:41,619will take you to the third and so forth and so on.10600:05:41,619 –> 00:05:42,779We’re seeing here, then,10700:05:42,779 –> 00:05:46,440a pattern of Christian growth and progress.10800:05:46,440 –> 00:05:47,480May also be described10900:05:47,480 –> 00:05:50,279as a pattern for the rebuilding of a marriage,11000:05:51,820 –> 00:05:54,000the restoration of a life.11100:05:55,200 –> 00:05:57,859There’s a whole counseling model right here11200:05:57,859 –> 00:05:59,679in terms of what we’re looking at11300:05:59,679 –> 00:06:01,279in the scriptures11400:06:01,279 –> 00:06:03,320and I want us, therefore, to learn it deeply11500:06:03,320 –> 00:06:06,619and that is why we’re moving through these Beatitudes11600:06:06,619 –> 00:06:08,299with deliberate pace11700:06:08,299 –> 00:06:11,760so that we ponder them and grasp them well.11800:06:11,760 –> 00:06:14,859That is why grasping this first ring11900:06:14,859 –> 00:06:17,739to be poor in spirit is so important12000:06:17,739 –> 00:06:19,920because this is the gateway blessing12100:06:19,920 –> 00:06:21,420that leads to all the others.12200:06:21,420 –> 00:06:24,500There isn’t another place to begin apart from this.12300:06:24,500 –> 00:06:26,339You can’t jump on the fourth ring12400:06:26,339 –> 00:06:29,279without starting from the first and so forth.12500:06:29,320 –> 00:06:32,459The way to purity and peace and forgiveness of others,12600:06:32,459 –> 00:06:36,059it begins right here.12700:06:36,059 –> 00:06:37,420An intensely important question,12800:06:37,420 –> 00:06:40,019how do I get on this first ring?12900:06:40,019 –> 00:06:42,040Poverty of spirit.13000:06:42,040 –> 00:06:43,700Three things today.13100:06:43,700 –> 00:06:46,720First, I want us just to ponder for a few moments13200:06:46,720 –> 00:06:47,959the curse of pride,13300:06:47,959 –> 00:06:52,399the sheer difficulty of pursuing humility.13400:06:52,399 –> 00:06:56,119Second, I want us to see the range of blessing13500:06:56,940 –> 00:07:01,940that comes from grasping what Christ is calling us to hear.13600:07:02,279 –> 00:07:05,640And then thirdly, some practical directions13700:07:05,640 –> 00:07:09,720for laying hold of the first ring.13800:07:09,720 –> 00:07:12,040Poverty of spirit.13900:07:12,040 –> 00:07:13,739Let’s begin here, there,14000:07:13,739 –> 00:07:16,600and I hope your Bible is open at 1 Peter, in chapter five.14100:07:17,440 –> 00:07:20,859The curse of pride is stated here in verse five,14200:07:20,859 –> 00:07:25,220God opposes the proud.14300:07:26,600 –> 00:07:28,339Isn’t that a striking statement?14400:07:29,279 –> 00:07:30,940And it’s all the more striking folks14500:07:30,940 –> 00:07:32,140when you remember that Peter14600:07:32,140 –> 00:07:35,079is definitely writing to Christians.14700:07:36,320 –> 00:07:37,959This is a letter to believers.14800:07:37,959 –> 00:07:39,399It says so at the beginning.14900:07:40,679 –> 00:07:42,859And he is telling us15000:07:44,600 –> 00:07:49,600that pride blocks the blessing of God.15100:07:50,459 –> 00:07:52,640If I give way to pride,15200:07:53,799 –> 00:07:56,739God will stand against me.15300:07:58,399 –> 00:08:00,320I will come under his discipline.15400:08:02,540 –> 00:08:05,000God stands in the way of the proud,15500:08:05,000 –> 00:08:07,019he opposes them,15600:08:07,019 –> 00:08:12,019but he gives grace to the humble.15700:08:15,079 –> 00:08:17,559Now for every thinking person who believes this,15800:08:17,640 –> 00:08:19,640every thinking person who believes this,15900:08:19,640 –> 00:08:20,940the conclusion is obvious,16000:08:20,940 –> 00:08:23,239the last thing in the world I want16100:08:23,239 –> 00:08:25,760is for God to stand in my way.16200:08:26,679 –> 00:08:29,459If God opposes me, what hope is there for me?16300:08:31,000 –> 00:08:33,400And so the conclusion that I have to draw16400:08:33,400 –> 00:08:35,080is right there in verse six,16500:08:35,080 –> 00:08:37,500I want God to be for me, not to be against me,16600:08:37,500 –> 00:08:38,599so what must I do?16700:08:38,599 –> 00:08:42,359Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God16800:08:42,359 –> 00:08:46,080so that at the proper time he may exalt you.16900:08:48,200 –> 00:08:50,559This battle against pride really is17000:08:50,559 –> 00:08:53,960a lifelong kind of a conflict.17100:08:53,960 –> 00:08:57,599Think about this, humility, first beatitude,17200:08:57,599 –> 00:09:01,159is the first grace that is given to a Christian.17300:09:01,159 –> 00:09:03,880There’s no way into experience of God17400:09:03,880 –> 00:09:06,280except the one that begins here.17500:09:06,280 –> 00:09:08,840It’s the first grace to be given to a Christian.17600:09:08,840 –> 00:09:11,260But while humility’s the first grace to be given,17700:09:11,260 –> 00:09:14,039pride is the last enemy to be subdued.17800:09:15,119 –> 00:09:17,479Pride was the first great sin to come into the world,17900:09:17,479 –> 00:09:19,859it will be the last to exit from it.18000:09:21,039 –> 00:09:24,039And the battle against pride that all of us are engaged in18100:09:24,039 –> 00:09:25,919throughout the course of our Christian lives18200:09:25,919 –> 00:09:27,900is a hard one for multiple reasons.18300:09:27,900 –> 00:09:31,380One is that humility of course goes against18400:09:31,380 –> 00:09:34,299the grain of a self-affirming culture.18500:09:35,640 –> 00:09:39,320Martin Lloyd-Jones writing half a century ago18600:09:39,320 –> 00:09:42,539in the U.K., of course, rather than the U.S.,18700:09:42,539 –> 00:09:44,880he describes something that’s absolutely true18800:09:44,880 –> 00:09:46,299of us still here today.18900:09:46,299 –> 00:09:47,280He says this.19000:09:47,419 –> 00:09:50,280Here’s the spirit of the age, he says, quote,19100:09:50,280 –> 00:09:55,140its express yourself, believe in yourself.19200:09:55,140 –> 00:09:58,859Realize the powers that are innate in yourself19300:09:58,859 –> 00:10:03,659and let the whole world see them and know them.19400:10:03,659 –> 00:10:06,979That he says is the spirit of the age and we recognize it.19500:10:08,059 –> 00:10:12,020And folks, candidly in a culture of affirmation19600:10:12,859 –> 00:10:17,859as robust as ours, it sometimes seems19700:10:18,179 –> 00:10:23,179that parents and teachers and counselors19800:10:24,820 –> 00:10:28,580and politicians and advertisers19900:10:29,780 –> 00:10:34,780are all conspiring together to tell us how great we are.20000:10:34,820 –> 00:10:37,940How great we are.20100:10:39,739 –> 00:10:43,320And apart from a miracle of God’s grace,20200:10:44,280 –> 00:10:45,859we will believe them.20300:10:47,299 –> 00:10:48,400We will believe them.20400:10:50,179 –> 00:10:54,700The teaching of Jesus is directly opposed20500:10:54,700 –> 00:10:56,659to the creed of life that says,20600:10:56,659 –> 00:10:58,539believe in yourself.20700:10:59,700 –> 00:11:02,020You need to think about that because that’s all around us.20800:11:02,020 –> 00:11:03,460It’s the air that we breathe.20900:11:05,020 –> 00:11:08,580The teaching of Jesus is directly opposed21000:11:08,580 –> 00:11:12,340to the creed that says believe in yourself.21100:11:12,340 –> 00:11:13,400What does Jesus say?21200:11:13,400 –> 00:11:16,719He does not say believe in yourself.21300:11:16,719 –> 00:11:18,419He says believe in God.21400:11:19,880 –> 00:11:24,880Believe also in me, that’s what he says.21500:11:25,099 –> 00:11:29,500It’s directly countercultural and so radically so21600:11:29,500 –> 00:11:31,520that we have to do a sort of double-take21700:11:31,580 –> 00:11:36,200to really think about it in order to take this in.21800:11:36,200 –> 00:11:38,119The person who is far from God21900:11:38,119 –> 00:11:41,719will often be speaking like this and thinking like this.22000:11:41,719 –> 00:11:43,619He or she will say why not, I’m up for this.22100:11:43,619 –> 00:11:46,179I can do this, I can do this, you see?22200:11:47,880 –> 00:11:49,880And the person who is close to God thinks22300:11:49,880 –> 00:11:51,479and speaks in a different way.22400:11:51,479 –> 00:11:54,159He or she will say something like this.22500:11:55,280 –> 00:11:57,239The Lord is at my right hand22600:11:58,679 –> 00:12:01,219and because the Lord is at my right hand,22700:12:02,419 –> 00:12:03,559I will not be shaken.22800:12:05,500 –> 00:12:07,280So, folks, we need to think about this deeply.22900:12:07,280 –> 00:12:12,280And you know, I’m a dad with, having raised two boys.23000:12:14,179 –> 00:12:16,280I’ve stood on the sideline of games23100:12:16,280 –> 00:12:18,260and shouted you can do it, you can do it23200:12:18,260 –> 00:12:20,080and all the rest of it.23300:12:20,080 –> 00:12:22,840And I regularly say to my kids, I’m proud of you23400:12:22,840 –> 00:12:26,619and I also say I thank God for you and many other things.23500:12:28,280 –> 00:12:31,080But let’s be very thoughtful,23600:12:31,080 –> 00:12:34,380especially in the teachable moments of life.23700:12:36,780 –> 00:12:39,780It is not a good reflection of faith in Jesus Christ23800:12:39,780 –> 00:12:41,760for you as a father or for you as a mother23900:12:41,760 –> 00:12:44,099or for you as a counselor or for you as a friend24000:12:44,099 –> 00:12:45,619to be saying you can do it.24100:12:47,440 –> 00:12:50,780It is a reflection of discipleship to Jesus Christ24200:12:50,780 –> 00:12:52,799to be saying something like this.24300:12:53,760 –> 00:12:58,659The Lord is with you and He will not fail you24400:13:00,039 –> 00:13:03,820and in Christ you can do all things.24500:13:04,659 –> 00:13:07,159There’s all the difference in the world.24600:13:07,159 –> 00:13:09,299The one is godless.24700:13:11,020 –> 00:13:14,479The one has put man in the place of God.24800:13:15,739 –> 00:13:18,000The one has exalted the individual24900:13:18,000 –> 00:13:19,840to the place of the divine.25000:13:20,739 –> 00:13:24,520And the other reflects the humility of one who knows25100:13:25,460 –> 00:13:28,440that its strength or strength lies25200:13:28,440 –> 00:13:30,239in the presence and the blessing25300:13:31,380 –> 00:13:32,380of a sovereign God.25400:13:32,380 –> 00:13:34,320But folks, that’s so far from our culture.25500:13:34,320 –> 00:13:38,200We really need to stop and take it in.25600:13:38,200 –> 00:13:39,500You’re listening to Open The Bible25700:13:39,500 –> 00:13:40,700with Pastor Colin Smith25800:13:40,700 –> 00:13:43,539and a message called Cultivating Humility,25900:13:43,539 –> 00:13:46,099part of Momentum, our series about26000:13:46,099 –> 00:13:49,099how to make progress in your Christian life26100:13:49,820 –> 00:13:53,440and today’s message is based on I Peter, chapter five.26200:13:53,440 –> 00:13:56,440If you’ve missed any of our messages in this series,26300:13:56,440 –> 00:13:58,760you can easily catch up or go back and listen again26400:13:58,760 –> 00:14:03,039by coming to our website, openthebible.org.uk.26500:14:03,039 –> 00:14:06,299Also, you can find them on your favorite podcast site.26600:14:06,299 –> 00:14:08,400Search there for Open The Bible UK26700:14:08,400 –> 00:14:10,559or follow the link from our website.26800:14:11,479 –> 00:14:13,599In the run up to Christmas at Open The Bible,26900:14:13,599 –> 00:14:16,200we want to provide churches and groups27000:14:16,200 –> 00:14:18,479with great supporting material.27100:14:18,599 –> 00:14:22,539Here’s Open The Bible’s executive director, John Martin.27200:14:22,539 –> 00:14:25,400If you’re planning events for Christmas and Advent27300:14:25,400 –> 00:14:27,440for your church and community,27400:14:27,440 –> 00:14:30,080then Open The Bible has resources to help you,27500:14:30,080 –> 00:14:33,679a nativity script you can use outside or indoors,27600:14:33,679 –> 00:14:36,799sermon outlines for an Advent sermon series27700:14:36,799 –> 00:14:39,239and it’s all linked to our new little book,27800:14:39,239 –> 00:14:42,919Christmas Stories, Five First Person Narratives.27900:14:42,919 –> 00:14:47,640To find out more, go to openthebible.org.uk.28000:14:47,719 –> 00:14:51,039Back to the message now, here again is Pastor Colin.28100:14:51,039 –> 00:14:54,119Secondly, this battle against pride is really,28200:14:54,119 –> 00:14:55,440really hard for this reason28300:14:55,440 –> 00:14:59,979that humility goes against the trajectory of all religion.28400:14:59,979 –> 00:15:03,679Remember this, that religion works on the idea28500:15:03,679 –> 00:15:06,940that you must live a life that is pleasing to God28600:15:06,940 –> 00:15:08,979in order to win his favour.28700:15:08,979 –> 00:15:11,440But realise that in this first beatitude,28800:15:11,440 –> 00:15:13,479Jesus is saying precisely the opposite28900:15:13,479 –> 00:15:16,280of everything that you’ll hear in world religion.29000:15:16,900 –> 00:15:19,260And it’s radically different.29100:15:20,280 –> 00:15:22,479Jesus is telling us that the blessing of God29200:15:22,479 –> 00:15:23,799belongs to those who know.29300:15:23,799 –> 00:15:25,960They cannot win his favour.29400:15:25,960 –> 00:15:27,599Blessed are the poor in spirit,29500:15:27,599 –> 00:15:29,159for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.29600:15:29,159 –> 00:15:30,919Blessed are those who come before God and say,29700:15:30,919 –> 00:15:32,239I haven’t got it.29800:15:34,039 –> 00:15:36,400This is precisely the opposite of everything29900:15:36,400 –> 00:15:37,979that is said in world religion.30000:15:37,979 –> 00:15:40,080Religion says live a life that is pleasing to God30100:15:40,080 –> 00:15:41,419and then you will win his favour,30200:15:41,419 –> 00:15:43,580and then you will be blessed.30300:15:43,580 –> 00:15:45,500Every religion in the world friends,30400:15:46,179 –> 00:15:48,479offers some variation on that theme.30500:15:50,219 –> 00:15:52,080The gospel says the only thing you can do30600:15:52,080 –> 00:15:54,239is come empty-handed and receive the favour30700:15:54,239 –> 00:15:55,880and the mercy and the grace of God30800:15:55,880 –> 00:15:57,159so that you may then begin30900:15:57,159 –> 00:15:59,119to live a life that is pleasing to him.31000:16:00,659 –> 00:16:02,099It all starts from humility.31100:16:02,099 –> 00:16:03,340Not from achievement.31200:16:04,940 –> 00:16:06,000So this is a hard battle31300:16:06,000 –> 00:16:08,299because we’re against all the wins of the culture,31400:16:08,299 –> 00:16:09,799we’re against all the wins31500:16:09,799 –> 00:16:11,760of all the religions in the world.31600:16:12,700 –> 00:16:14,719No wonder Jesus was crucified.31700:16:16,299 –> 00:16:19,320And then it’s a hard and it’s a lifelong battle31800:16:19,320 –> 00:16:21,320because I wonder if you’ve noticed this,31900:16:22,260 –> 00:16:24,000that the very blessing of God32000:16:24,000 –> 00:16:25,659that comes to the humble32100:16:26,979 –> 00:16:30,780becomes something that makes maintaining humility harder.32200:16:32,640 –> 00:16:33,739Here’s the irony,32300:16:33,739 –> 00:16:37,400the poor in spirit experience the blessing of God.32400:16:37,400 –> 00:16:38,880That’s what Jesus said.32500:16:39,840 –> 00:16:42,940But the very blessing of God that is experienced32600:16:42,940 –> 00:16:44,900makes it difficult to remain in the place32700:16:44,900 –> 00:16:47,479where you truly are poor in spirit.32800:16:48,820 –> 00:16:51,119So the more successful you are,32900:16:51,119 –> 00:16:54,619the easier it is to believe that you really are something33000:16:55,880 –> 00:17:00,880and that the something really lies in you after all.33100:17:01,000 –> 00:17:02,119So for example,33200:17:03,239 –> 00:17:05,780if your children believe33300:17:06,900 –> 00:17:09,560when the children of others who are your friends33400:17:09,560 –> 00:17:10,920are in rebellion,33500:17:11,680 –> 00:17:14,640if your marriage prospers33600:17:14,640 –> 00:17:17,180when your friends is falling apart,33700:17:18,800 –> 00:17:22,540if your business succeeds when others are in decline,33800:17:24,400 –> 00:17:28,079if your ministry grows when others are failing,33900:17:29,339 –> 00:17:33,079if these blessings should be given to you,34000:17:33,079 –> 00:17:37,219it kind of gets into your mind34100:17:37,219 –> 00:17:40,239that you must have done something right.34200:17:41,660 –> 00:17:45,920Success of any sort, in any sphere34300:17:47,160 –> 00:17:51,319tends to make us think that we are something.34400:17:53,719 –> 00:17:56,140And thank God for the ministry of the Holy Spirit34500:17:56,140 –> 00:17:59,160who convinces us of sin and of righteousness34600:17:59,160 –> 00:18:03,579and of judgment, because apart from Him,34700:18:04,920 –> 00:18:06,500we would never know the blessing34800:18:06,500 –> 00:18:09,640that belongs to the poor in spirit.34900:18:11,359 –> 00:18:14,079So I’m suggesting to you that this is a hard battle,35000:18:14,079 –> 00:18:16,800it is a lifelong battle and it is no small thing35100:18:16,800 –> 00:18:18,920to lay hold of the first ring,35200:18:18,920 –> 00:18:22,359blessed are the poor in spirit.35300:18:22,359 –> 00:18:26,599Second, I want just to draw your attention to this,35400:18:26,599 –> 00:18:28,680the blessing of humility.35500:18:29,560 –> 00:18:33,439Look at 1 Peter 5 verse 5 here.35600:18:33,439 –> 00:18:35,640God opposes the proud35700:18:35,640 –> 00:18:40,040but He gives grace to the humble.35800:18:40,079 –> 00:18:43,800He gives grace to the humble.35900:18:43,800 –> 00:18:46,739Now, last time we saw that the Supreme blessing36000:18:46,739 –> 00:18:48,599that comes to the humble person36100:18:48,599 –> 00:18:51,439is of course that God lives with them,36200:18:51,439 –> 00:18:53,119nothing can top that.36300:18:54,439 –> 00:18:57,739But I want us to see today that with the presence of God36400:18:57,739 –> 00:18:59,599in the life of a humble person,36500:18:59,599 –> 00:19:03,000there are all kinds of other blessings36600:19:03,000 –> 00:19:08,000that come with the presence of God in a person’s life.36700:19:08,900 –> 00:19:11,760Let me just pick out four.36800:19:11,760 –> 00:19:13,619Number one, growing in humility36900:19:13,619 –> 00:19:16,560will help you to bear affliction.37000:19:16,560 –> 00:19:18,280I draw attention to that37100:19:18,280 –> 00:19:19,520because this is the point that Peter37200:19:19,520 –> 00:19:21,880is making in this letter.37300:19:21,880 –> 00:19:24,020If you look back to chapter four in verse 12,37400:19:24,020 –> 00:19:27,520he says, beloved, do not be surprised at a fiery trial37500:19:27,520 –> 00:19:28,520when it comes on you.37600:19:28,520 –> 00:19:30,400He says there’s trouble ahead,37700:19:30,400 –> 00:19:33,660you’re going to face real periods of difficulty.37800:19:34,640 –> 00:19:36,119And so how are they to prepare37900:19:36,119 –> 00:19:37,640for these periods of difficulty?38000:19:38,160 –> 00:19:40,319Here’s the answer, he says in chapter 5,38100:19:40,319 –> 00:19:43,239humble yourselves therefore under God’s almighty hand.38200:19:43,239 –> 00:19:44,060Why?38300:19:44,060 –> 00:19:46,699Because he gives grace to the humble.38400:19:46,699 –> 00:19:48,839This will be how you will face trouble38500:19:48,839 –> 00:19:51,060and how you will stand when you do.38600:19:52,719 –> 00:19:56,739Job’s wife was a proud woman,38700:19:58,680 –> 00:20:00,280and when trouble came she said,38800:20:00,280 –> 00:20:01,920why don’t you curse God and die.38900:20:02,920 –> 00:20:06,660Job was a humble man,39000:20:07,800 –> 00:20:11,020and when trouble came, he says,39100:20:11,020 –> 00:20:13,119the Lord gave and the Lord has taken away,39200:20:13,119 –> 00:20:14,719blessed be the name of the Lord.39300:20:16,260 –> 00:20:19,760Humility will make all the difference in the world39400:20:19,760 –> 00:20:24,219in the way that you face affliction when it comes.39500:20:24,219 –> 00:20:25,880It will help you to stand.39600:20:26,719 –> 00:20:28,800When the fiery trial comes,39700:20:28,800 –> 00:20:31,020here’s how you’re gonna stand, says Peter,39800:20:31,020 –> 00:20:33,939humble yourself under God’s almighty hand,39900:20:33,939 –> 00:20:38,079and in due time, He will lift you up.40000:20:39,660 –> 00:20:41,979Second, and these are just very practical things40100:20:41,979 –> 00:20:44,160touching every area of life,40200:20:44,160 –> 00:20:47,380the realities of life for us here today.40300:20:47,380 –> 00:20:51,900Growing in humility will nourish your love for others.40400:20:52,780 –> 00:20:57,140So someone here who is struggling in a marriage,40500:20:57,140 –> 00:21:01,020in a relationship where there is real, real difficulty,40600:21:01,020 –> 00:21:02,300perhaps after many years,40700:21:02,300 –> 00:21:05,000the quiet question is forming in your mind,40800:21:05,000 –> 00:21:07,920do I still love him?40900:21:07,920 –> 00:21:10,680Do I really love her?41000:21:11,959 –> 00:21:16,640The whole question of love in its decline is before us,41100:21:16,640 –> 00:21:17,739and the whole question41200:21:17,739 –> 00:21:20,800of how love can be revived is before us.41300:21:22,939 –> 00:21:25,060Now, what does the Scripture say to us about this?41400:21:25,119 –> 00:21:27,760Well, you know 1 Corinthians 13 very well.41500:21:27,760 –> 00:21:29,060Let’s think about love.41600:21:29,060 –> 00:21:31,719Love does not boast.41700:21:33,180 –> 00:21:35,439Love is not arrogant.41800:21:36,839 –> 00:21:40,660Love does not insist on its own way.41900:21:41,920 –> 00:21:44,599It is pride that is self-seeking.42000:21:44,599 –> 00:21:47,520It is pride that is easily provoked.42100:21:47,520 –> 00:21:49,140Think of it this way friends.42200:21:49,140 –> 00:21:52,579Pride will be like a bucket of cold water42300:21:52,579 –> 00:21:54,300poured on the fires of love.42400:21:55,420 –> 00:21:57,599You get a higher opinion as of yourself.42500:21:57,599 –> 00:21:59,319You know what it’s going to do to your marriage?42600:21:59,319 –> 00:22:00,459It’s going to pour water42700:22:00,459 –> 00:22:03,140on all the flames of love that were there.42800:22:03,140 –> 00:22:04,500It really is.42900:22:04,500 –> 00:22:05,380It’s a killer.43000:22:07,099 –> 00:22:10,959Humility in contrast fans into flame43100:22:10,959 –> 00:22:12,699the embers of a dying love.43200:22:12,699 –> 00:22:14,660Humility will do that.43300:22:15,900 –> 00:22:17,199Get on this first ring.43400:22:17,199 –> 00:22:22,000This is where hope of recovery in an ailing marriage begins.43500:22:23,520 –> 00:22:24,680Why is it ailing?43600:22:25,020 –> 00:22:26,819Why has love been damped down?43700:22:26,819 –> 00:22:31,239You can be sure that pride has a huge part in this.43800:22:31,239 –> 00:22:32,079A huge part.43900:22:32,079 –> 00:22:34,500Self-seeking, arrogant, irritable.44000:22:34,500 –> 00:22:35,739All these characteristics,44100:22:35,739 –> 00:22:37,020look through them and say44200:22:37,020 –> 00:22:39,180are these things in me?44300:22:40,619 –> 00:22:42,640They’re the killers of love.44400:22:44,180 –> 00:22:45,660You come to the place and you say44500:22:45,660 –> 00:22:47,660do I really love him anymore44600:22:47,660 –> 00:22:48,500and the world says44700:22:48,500 –> 00:22:49,979you got to think about yourself.44800:22:49,979 –> 00:22:50,819Well,44900:22:52,359 –> 00:22:55,359and Jesus says exactly the opposite.45000:22:56,619 –> 00:22:57,939He says each of you should look45100:22:57,939 –> 00:22:59,140not only to your own interests45200:22:59,140 –> 00:23:01,839but also into the interests of others.45300:23:01,839 –> 00:23:04,560Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus.45400:23:04,560 –> 00:23:05,380What did he do?45500:23:05,380 –> 00:23:06,959He humbled himself.45600:23:09,739 –> 00:23:11,479He humbled himself.45700:23:11,479 –> 00:23:13,979Good to be reminded there by Pastor Colin Smith45800:23:13,979 –> 00:23:16,780that we should do what Jesus did45900:23:16,780 –> 00:23:20,640and he humbled himself as a servant to others.46000:23:20,640 –> 00:23:22,020You’ve been listening to Open the Bible46100:23:22,020 –> 00:23:23,479with Pastor Colin Smith46200:23:23,479 –> 00:23:26,540and a message called Cultivating Humility.46300:23:26,540 –> 00:23:28,199Part of our series, Momentum.46400:23:28,199 –> 00:23:30,579How to make progress in your Christian life.46500:23:30,579 –> 00:23:32,160And if you’ve missed any of the series46600:23:32,160 –> 00:23:34,579you can catch up by coming to our website46700:23:34,579 –> 00:23:36,239openthebible.org.uk.46800:23:38,359 –> 00:23:39,479Also on our website46900:23:39,479 –> 00:23:42,020don’t forget about Open the Bible Daily.47000:23:42,020 –> 00:23:45,239That’s our series of two to three minute daily reflections47100:23:45,239 –> 00:23:47,160based on Pastor Colin’s teaching47200:23:47,160 –> 00:23:49,239and read this month by Annie Pick.47300:23:49,239 –> 00:23:50,599Open the Bible Daily.47400:23:51,459 –> 00:23:53,800If you tune in regularly to Open the Bible47500:23:53,800 –> 00:23:55,660you’ll know that we’re only able to bring 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00:25:03,660OpenTheBible.org.uk50900:25:03,660 –> 00:25:04,739For Open The Bible51000:25:04,739 –> 00:25:06,099and Pastor Colin Smith51100:25:06,099 –> 00:25:07,180I’m David Pick.51200:25:07,180 –> 00:25:08,520Thanks for being with us today51300:25:08,520 –> 00:25:09,439and I look forward to you51400:25:09,439 –> 00:25:11,180joining us again next time.51500:25:11,859 –> 00:25:22,160Music51600:25:22,160 –> 00:25:24,160If you grow in humility51700:25:24,160 –> 00:25:26,939you’ll reap a lot of other blessings.51800:25:26,939 –> 00:25:28,260Find out what they are51900:25:28,260 –> 00:25:29,099next time on52000:25:29,099 –> 00:25:30,140Open The Bible.

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Colin Smith is the Senior Pastor of The Orchard Evangelical Free Church in the northwest suburbs of Chicago. He has authored a number of books, including Heaven, How I Got Here and Heaven, So Near – So Far. Colin is the Founder and Teaching Pastor for Open the Bible. Follow him on X formerly Twitter.

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