Reach Out to Others, Part 1

Jude 20-25

Today we dive into the inspiring message titled “Reach Out to Others,” focusing on sustaining spiritual health through ministry. Pastor Colin, with his 40 years of experience, enlightens us on the dual nature of ministry — it may be draining, but is also wonderfully nourishing, much like Jesus described His mission as His food. Tune into this enriching discussion as we explore the seven spiritual exercises from the book of Jude, showing us how to maintain spiritual fitness. Remember, reaching out to help one another not only aids others but refreshes our own souls.

100:00:00,780 –> 00:00:01,780book-moving sermon200:00:03,440 –> 00:00:08,480Now I want to remind you that although ministry is in many ways draining300:00:08,480 –> 00:00:15,600it is also wonderfully nourishing. Jesus said my food is to do the will400:00:15,600 –> 00:00:21,680of the father who sent me, and you will find that God sustains you500:00:21,680 –> 00:00:25,200in your walk with him as you are intentional600:00:25,200 –> 00:00:28,480about reaching out to others in ministry.700:00:28,480 –> 00:00:32,560Welcome to Open the Bible with pastor Colin Smith, I’m David Pick, I’m glad you800:00:32,560 –> 00:00:36,720could join us today and Colin with 40 years of ministry behind you900:00:36,720 –> 00:00:40,320I’m sure this is something you have personal experience of.1000:00:40,320 –> 00:00:44,959Oh this is such a wonderful truth. I remember oh it’s more than 20 years ago1100:00:44,959 –> 00:00:49,279Now I heard Warren Weir speak. Wonderful pastor, just make this1200:00:49,279 –> 00:00:53,439point. You know people say that ministry is draining and there’s truth in that1300:00:53,520 –> 00:00:58,400But it’s also nourishing. Jesus said my food is to do the will of him who sent1400:00:58,400 –> 00:01:01,040me. That has helped me for decades now. It1500:01:01,040 –> 00:01:05,839really has and talking to younger guys in ministry, lay1600:01:05,839 –> 00:01:10,080people in ministry, I find folks are often afraid of if1700:01:10,080 –> 00:01:13,839I really give myself to serving the Lord, you know am I going to end up being1800:01:13,839 –> 00:01:16,559totally beaten up and just sort of cast by the wayside?1900:01:16,559 –> 00:01:20,639Am I going to destroy myself? What heavenly Father would allow that to2000:01:20,720 –> 00:01:23,839be the case? It’s a wonderful truth that you extend2100:01:23,839 –> 00:01:27,599yourself in serving the Lord and this is actually nourishing. He has2200:01:27,599 –> 00:01:31,440his own way of sustaining his own people and the very2300:01:31,440 –> 00:01:35,199act of reaching out to others and serving others2400:01:35,199 –> 00:01:38,959and getting into the lives of others, that’s the richest thing2500:01:38,959 –> 00:01:42,160in my life and in my experience. What a privilege that is.2600:01:44,660 –> 00:01:46,400You can’t end up having a barren life if you give yourself to others.2700:01:46,400 –> 00:01:50,959So join us if you can in Jude verse 22 today2800:01:50,959 –> 00:01:54,400as we begin the message reach out to others.2900:01:54,400 –> 00:01:55,260Here is Colin3000:01:55,260 –> 00:01:59,839we all know what it is for your body to feel out of shape3100:01:59,839 –> 00:02:04,000and we’re recognizing that the same thing can also happen with regards to3200:02:04,000 –> 00:02:07,599your soul so whatever stage you’re at in the3300:02:07,599 –> 00:02:11,279christian life we’re recognizing the need to be intentional3400:02:11,279 –> 00:02:14,559about keeping yourself in spiritual shape3500:02:14,559 –> 00:02:19,279and jude has identified seven ways in which we will all be helped3600:02:19,279 –> 00:02:23,440to do that you find them listed at the end of the book of jude i hope you3700:02:23,440 –> 00:02:25,919found it now just before the book of revelation3800:02:25,919 –> 00:02:31,039beginning at verse 20 and we’ve covered these so far from verse 203900:02:31,039 –> 00:02:35,360build yourselves up in your most holy faith that was the first workout4000:02:35,360 –> 00:02:39,520second pray in the holy spirit third4100:02:39,520 –> 00:02:43,839keep yourselves in the love of god and then last time we looked at the fourth4200:02:43,839 –> 00:02:47,279workout wait for the mercy of our lord jesus4300:02:47,279 –> 00:02:52,240christ to bring you to eternal life we saw remember that this is not paradise4400:02:52,240 –> 00:02:55,759here that we cannot make it into paradise but4500:02:55,759 –> 00:02:59,199rather we are waiting for the coming of the lord jesus christ4600:02:59,199 –> 00:03:02,479he will create the new heaven and the new earth that will be the home of4700:03:02,479 –> 00:03:07,279righteousness he will make everything new and so if4800:03:07,279 –> 00:03:10,639we are to live healthy christian lives we need Jude tells us4900:03:10,639 –> 00:03:14,639to learn to wait and we saw that that waiting can be5000:03:14,639 –> 00:03:19,360one of the most constructive experiences and disciplines5100:03:19,360 –> 00:03:24,800within the spiritual life when our coming to that point the obvious question that5200:03:24,800 –> 00:03:27,839follows is well what are we to do while we’re5300:03:27,839 –> 00:03:34,080waiting what are we to do between now and the day when jesus christ returns5400:03:34,080 –> 00:03:38,559in glory and takes us into his nearer presence and the answer5500:03:38,559 –> 00:03:43,279to that question that gives us is very simply you are to give yourselves5600:03:43,279 –> 00:03:48,559until that day to ministry and that’s the focus of our fifth workout5700:03:48,559 –> 00:03:54,160verse 22 and verse 23 be merciful to those who doubt this is5800:03:54,160 –> 00:03:57,360what you have to do while you’re waiting snatch5900:03:57,360 –> 00:04:04,880others from the fire and save them god calls every one of us to6000:04:04,880 –> 00:04:09,039ministry there are people in need all around6100:04:09,039 –> 00:04:12,399about us and so from now until the time when6200:04:12,399 –> 00:04:16,959jesus comes or calls for you give yourself to the work of ministry6300:04:16,959 –> 00:04:19,119this is what it will look like judith says6400:04:19,119 –> 00:04:22,399it will involve being merciful to those who doubt and6500:04:22,399 –> 00:04:25,440snatching others from the fire to save them so6600:04:25,440 –> 00:04:28,559our fifth workout which is our focus today is very simply6700:04:28,559 –> 00:04:32,160that god calls us to reach out to others and that for6800:04:32,160 –> 00:04:38,799you will be part of spiritual health now i want to remind you that although6900:04:38,799 –> 00:04:43,760ministry is in many ways draining it is also7000:04:43,760 –> 00:04:49,600wonderfully nourishing jesus said my food is to do the will of7100:04:49,600 –> 00:04:54,480the father who sent me and you will find that god sustains7200:04:54,480 –> 00:04:57,920you in your walk with him as you are7300:04:57,920 –> 00:05:02,399intentional about reaching out to others in ministry7400:05:02,399 –> 00:05:06,480in fact to be a healthy christian we’re learning this morning7500:05:06,480 –> 00:05:10,000you need to be intentional about reaching out7600:05:10,000 –> 00:05:14,799to others now many of us know this from our experience7700:05:14,799 –> 00:05:21,279because you’re already doing it for others our greatest need7800:05:21,279 –> 00:05:27,760if we are to get into spiritual shape is to get into some kind of ministry7900:05:27,760 –> 00:05:32,399and serving to reach outside of ourselves to become aware8000:05:32,399 –> 00:05:35,839and sensitive and responsive to the needs of others8100:05:35,839 –> 00:05:40,559because the whole of our lives has simply become about ourselves8200:05:40,559 –> 00:05:44,239i love the balance of scripture you see as judah’s8300:05:44,239 –> 00:05:47,760telling us what it means to live a healthy christian life he’s talked8400:05:47,760 –> 00:05:50,880about your faith he’s talked about your prayer life he’s8500:05:50,880 –> 00:05:54,239talked about the love of christ keeping yourself in the love of god8600:05:54,239 –> 00:05:58,079he’s talked about the hope that’s ahead of us anticipating paradise8700:05:58,079 –> 00:06:02,000these are all things that are between you and jesus8800:06:02,000 –> 00:06:05,119but the christian life is much more than jesus8900:06:05,119 –> 00:06:11,359and me and if all you have is a personal relationship with jesus christ9000:06:11,359 –> 00:06:14,880in which you know sweet times of prayer and of bible study9100:06:14,880 –> 00:06:19,200then your christian life is out of balance if that’s all you have9200:06:19,200 –> 00:06:22,799it is simply not healthy you need some exercise9300:06:22,799 –> 00:06:28,720you need as it were some fresh air to come into your soul9400:06:29,279 –> 00:06:32,880i found this i have to tell you to be of enormous9500:06:32,880 –> 00:06:38,480practical benefit sometimes at the simplest level9600:06:38,480 –> 00:06:43,760for example when i was still a teenager i knew at that time and sensed that god9700:06:43,760 –> 00:06:47,519was calling me to the ministry and i remember hearing one of my9800:06:47,519 –> 00:06:52,320own former pastors a former pastor of my home church his name was jay sidlo9900:06:52,320 –> 00:06:54,880baxter some of you may have heard of him10000:06:54,880 –> 00:07:00,000giving a talk on how he sustained a life of ministry10100:07:00,000 –> 00:07:03,839and he began to describe it’s vivid in my memory10200:07:03,839 –> 00:07:10,559how he coped with a grey tuesday afternoon i think he just chose10300:07:10,559 –> 00:07:14,320tuesday as a representative uh day but and i know that10400:07:14,320 –> 00:07:17,440it’s very difficult to imagine a grey day on a beautiful day like this but10500:07:17,440 –> 00:07:20,320just live in britain for a little while you’ll understand10600:07:20,320 –> 00:07:24,640what a gray day is all about you know the sort of day when the rain10700:07:24,640 –> 00:07:28,880just never seems to stop and everything seems terribly gloomy10800:07:28,880 –> 00:07:32,239now you know what it’s like to have a grey day10900:07:32,239 –> 00:07:36,320in your soul to have one of these days where you say i have no energy11000:07:36,320 –> 00:07:40,959i’ve lost my motivation i feel so low11100:07:41,440 –> 00:07:46,320now remember as a youngster listening to dr baxter saying what do you do11200:07:46,320 –> 00:07:53,040on a gray tuesday afternoon and this is what he said11300:07:53,040 –> 00:08:00,320i get out of my study and i go visit someone in need11400:08:00,320 –> 00:08:03,920and i don’t know if it does them any good11500:08:03,920 –> 00:08:09,679but it always replenishes my own soul i have found that again and11600:08:09,679 –> 00:08:14,480again to be a blessing in my life i was recently at another meeting for11700:08:14,480 –> 00:08:19,920pastors where our own pastor ted olsen was speaking briefly on the same subject11800:08:19,920 –> 00:08:24,880and gave some wonderful advice he used a phrase that i will never forget11900:08:24,880 –> 00:08:28,160and pass on to you because of its great value12000:08:28,160 –> 00:08:35,520he spoke about irrigating your soul in the joys and sorrows12100:08:35,520 –> 00:08:43,280of your people that’s beautiful, your soul will be watered12200:08:43,280 –> 00:08:50,239as you enter into the joys and the sorrows of other people12300:08:50,239 –> 00:08:54,000your soul will be watered as you get outside of your own12400:08:54,000 –> 00:08:57,919little world and reach out to touch somebody else12500:08:57,919 –> 00:09:03,280in love and in compassion and ministry now that’s the focus of this12600:09:03,280 –> 00:09:06,640fifth workout for a healthy christian life12700:09:06,640 –> 00:09:10,960be intentional about building this into your life12800:09:10,960 –> 00:09:14,799look for some way to bring the blessing of god12900:09:14,799 –> 00:09:18,320however simply into the life of one other person13000:09:18,320 –> 00:09:22,080look for some way to lighten somebody else’s load13100:09:22,080 –> 00:09:28,799and you will lighten your own load let there be somebody even at the end of13200:09:28,799 –> 00:09:34,479today who thanks god for you13300:09:34,479 –> 00:09:37,679well we have to pause the message briefly there but we’ll be back13400:09:37,679 –> 00:09:41,520very shortly the message is called reach out to others13500:09:41,520 –> 00:09:45,919it’s part of a series called keeping yourself in spiritual shape13600:09:45,919 –> 00:09:50,799seven workouts for a healthy christian life and it’s based on the book of jude13700:09:50,799 –> 00:09:54,640if you ever miss one of our programs you can easily catch up or go back and13800:09:54,700 –> 00:09:58,940listen again by coming online to our open the bible website13900:09:58,940 –> 00:10:04,700it’s at open the bible dot org dot uk or you can find us as a podcast and those14000:10:04,700 –> 00:10:08,460are on all the main podcast sites you can find it by searching the podcast14100:10:08,460 –> 00:10:14,059site for open the bible uk or by following the link from our website14200:10:14,059 –> 00:10:18,859in my family we enjoy hiking and it would be great to go on a hike with you14300:10:18,859 –> 00:10:21,659colin listeners have an opportunity to do that14400:10:21,780 –> 00:10:24,440with the hike through the Bible podcast14500:10:24,619 –> 00:10:26,739yes I am inviting you to join me on14600:10:26,739 –> 00:10:32,659a hike through the Bible and it is going to be a gentle easy piece of a hike each14700:10:32,659 –> 00:10:38,080week you’ll read a chapter of the Bible and a chapter of my book hike through14800:10:38,159 –> 00:10:43,200the Bible and in one year you’ll have read 50 chapters of the Bible you’ll14900:10:43,200 –> 00:10:47,479have grasped the big picture of the Bible’s story and most of all, 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Now there’s a hike through the Bible15100:10:52,619 –> 00:10:58,200podcast to help you on this journey in each episode I read a chapter of the15200:10:58,200 –> 00:11:02,840book and then I discuss it with some friends so get started now. You can15300:11:02,840 –> 00:11:07,400subscribe to hike through the Bible podcast wherever you get your podcasts15400:11:07,400 –> 00:11:12,359and you can find out more information on openthebible.org.uk15500:11:13,280 –> 00:11:14,840Back to the message now, here again is Colin.15600:11:14,840 –> 00:11:17,820Now before we get into the heart of15700:11:17,820 –> 00:11:22,500what Jude is saying to us here in this exhortation to give ourselves to15800:11:22,500 –> 00:11:27,400ministry, it seems to me that there are a number of important principles that we15900:11:27,400 –> 00:11:31,840can derive from the way that he states this and I want to commend them for16000:11:31,840 –> 00:11:37,000your consideration. Notice that Jude identifies in fact three groups of16100:11:37,000 –> 00:11:40,840people. Some people say there are only two here that may be the case but two or16200:11:40,840 –> 00:11:45,039three whatever, first there are those who doubt,16300:11:45,039 –> 00:11:50,900second there are those who are in the fire, third there are those who have16400:11:50,900 –> 00:11:56,200been stained by corrupted flesh. That’s the phrase that he uses. Don’t worry16500:11:56,200 –> 00:11:59,859about what these mean at the moment all I want you to notice is that he16600:11:59,859 –> 00:12:06,859identifies three groups of people. And it seems to me to be very significant16700:12:07,119 –> 00:12:13,559that he commends to us a distinct and even different approach to ministry to16800:12:13,559 –> 00:12:20,559each of these groups. Now, from that I learned this principle, that ministry can16900:12:20,640 –> 00:12:26,679never be reduced to a formula. You see, as soon as you get the idea that you can17000:12:26,679 –> 00:12:32,200learn one approach that’s going to work for everybody you eliminate dependence17100:12:32,559 –> 00:12:36,960upon the Holy Spirit. Now, I want to be careful and measured here17200:12:36,960 –> 00:12:41,619because I am not questioning the value of learning a framework of presenting the17300:12:41,619 –> 00:12:46,200gospel, nor am I questioning the value of learning some principles of counselling17400:12:46,200 –> 00:12:51,179and so forth. These things are very useful. They’re very valuable. But they do17500:12:51,179 –> 00:12:58,179have to be applied with sensitivity and skill. You see, some folks have learned17600:12:58,440 –> 00:13:05,880that the root issue with every problem goes back to sin. A sinful response to17700:13:05,880 –> 00:13:11,859God. You’ve read that, you’ve imbibed that, that’s your position. And so what17800:13:11,859 –> 00:13:15,799happens is that whenever you try and reach out to somebody else, you’re17900:13:15,799 –> 00:13:21,000looking for the sin that’s behind their problem. It’s the only thing you can see.18000:13:21,000 –> 00:13:25,500So this person’s got a fear of flying. Oh, there must be some unbelieving response18100:13:25,679 –> 00:13:30,119to God behind that, so you’re whack it to them. There are others who have been18200:13:30,119 –> 00:13:33,919brought up in a different tradition and are equally strongly convinced that18300:13:33,919 –> 00:13:40,340every person’s problem has its root in a lack of love or affirmation. So your18400:13:40,340 –> 00:13:44,359colleague at work is cheating on his wife. What’s your first instinct? To say,18500:13:44,359 –> 00:13:47,840my goodness, what made him do it? Poor fellow, his wife is cold. Oh, it’s18600:13:47,840 –> 00:13:54,059perfectly understandable. He needs to be loved. Now I could multiply examples. I18700:13:54,140 –> 00:14:01,320want to make this point that ministry cannot be reduced to a formula. Suppose18800:14:01,320 –> 00:14:05,359you have a pain in your chest and you decide that you’re going to go and see18900:14:05,359 –> 00:14:10,640the doctor. You expect a proper examination and you want a good19000:14:10,640 –> 00:14:15,659diagnosis before a prescription is made about your condition. Now suppose that19100:14:15,659 –> 00:14:20,039you go in to the doctors and you say, oh Doctor, I’ve got this pain in my chest.19200:14:20,500 –> 00:14:24,479And he says to you pain in the chest, oh I got just the thing for you.19300:14:25,140 –> 00:14:32,340Miracle Cure, all you say is miracle cure, it’s good for pains19400:14:32,340 –> 00:14:38,719in the chest is it? Oh miracle cure is good for everything he says, it does for19500:14:38,719 –> 00:14:43,820pains in the chest, it restores hair that you’ve lost, it works for arthritis, it19600:14:43,820 –> 00:14:47,700does overactive thyroid, underactive thyroid, piles. I mean whatever you’ve19700:14:47,820 –> 00:14:53,559got miracle cure does it. By the way I’ve seen some adverts they look suspiciously19800:14:53,559 –> 00:14:59,559like that, haven’t you? But we all know the difference between a doctor and a19900:14:59,559 –> 00:15:08,140quack, I hope you know the difference. Now the diseases of the soul are as varied20000:15:08,140 –> 00:15:15,020and as complex as the diseases of the body. So be very careful about an20100:15:15,020 –> 00:15:21,619approach to ministry that reduces everything to one formula. Jude warns us20200:15:21,619 –> 00:15:27,080against that different approaches to different conditions. You see that there?20300:15:27,080 –> 00:15:33,900Secondly and reinforcing this. Jesus Christ is our model of ministry. You20400:15:33,900 –> 00:15:38,359never have a better model of ministry than our Lord Jesus Christ and it’s20500:15:38,359 –> 00:15:43,080worth studying how his approach to the predicament of different people is20600:15:43,219 –> 00:15:50,340quite distinct. Nicodemus was a proud man who thought he knew it all. He needed to20700:15:50,340 –> 00:15:57,239be humbled. Zacchaeus was a social outsider with a long story of flagrant20800:15:57,239 –> 00:16:03,979sin. He needed the embrace of Jesus in his home. The rich young ruler had lives20900:16:03,979 –> 00:16:09,080a good life and thrown himself into the pursuit of excellence. He had to discover21000:16:09,099 –> 00:16:14,299what he needed to let go. The woman at the well whose life had been desperately21100:16:14,299 –> 00:16:19,000unstable and yet within her soul there was a deep longing and hunger for God.21200:16:19,000 –> 00:16:25,760She needed to know that God was also seeking after her. Now Jesus himself was21300:16:25,760 –> 00:16:32,500and is the answer to these and everyone else’s problem, but the way in which Jesus21400:16:32,500 –> 00:16:37,520ministered to these people was self-evidently tailored to the21500:16:37,559 –> 00:16:43,700particularities of their situation, and that leads to this third observation21600:16:43,700 –> 00:16:48,840that we are completely dependent in all ministry on the work of the Holy Spirit.21700:16:48,840 –> 00:16:53,400If ministry was simply applying a formula I could learn the formula college21800:16:53,400 –> 00:16:59,520and then go and apply it for the rest of my life, but whatever the level of your21900:16:59,520 –> 00:17:04,319skill, your knowledge, and your training, you are utterly dependent upon the22000:17:04,479 –> 00:17:09,819Spirit of God if you are to bring help to another person. If you are to be a22100:17:09,819 –> 00:17:16,420channel of God’s grace you need to walk with God in order to be used in that22200:17:16,420 –> 00:17:22,780kind of way. No two children are alike. What works with one may not be so22300:17:22,780 –> 00:17:28,339helpful with another. Parenting is not about applying a formula.22400:17:29,079 –> 00:17:36,959The wisdom and the discernment of the Holy Spirit to do this job well. I was so22500:17:36,959 –> 00:17:40,099thankful to talk with someone in our congregation just a few weeks ago who22600:17:40,099 –> 00:17:48,239said to me, it was the sense of the responsibility of being of father22700:17:48,239 –> 00:17:55,719that showed me first, my need of Jesus Christ. And maybe that’s where someone is22800:17:55,739 –> 00:18:01,260right here this morning. You realize that God has given you this incredible22900:18:01,260 –> 00:18:06,680responsibility. You can’t do it by applying a formula you need wisdom from23000:18:06,680 –> 00:18:15,140above. You need Jesus Christ and you need the help and the wisdom of the Spirit of23100:18:15,140 –> 00:18:22,239God. We are completely dependent upon the work of the Spirit. Now having established23200:18:22,239 –> 00:18:26,660these principles Jude now comes to give us some advice about the how of23300:18:26,660 –> 00:18:33,359ministry. Now the Bible is a wonderfully practical book. People talk about being23400:18:33,359 –> 00:18:37,979practical. If you read the Bible with open eyes you will see how practical it23500:18:37,979 –> 00:18:49,219is. How are we to go about this work of ministry? What are we to seek in reaching23600:18:49,280 –> 00:18:57,239out to others. Let me give you four areas of exercise for this fifth workout.23700:18:57,239 –> 00:19:03,920Number one, we’re to reach out to others in compassion. Notice how Jude puts it.23800:19:03,920 –> 00:19:12,760Be merciful. Be merciful to those who doubt. Now those who doubt of course would include23900:19:12,760 –> 00:19:18,439those whose faith has been undermined and those whose faith has not yet been24000:19:18,459 –> 00:19:23,239fully formed. People who have a general sort of faith in God but have not really24100:19:23,239 –> 00:19:28,900grasped the uniqueness and glory and saving work of our Lord Jesus Christ.24200:19:28,900 –> 00:19:32,359There would have been many people in the churches in Jude’s day who were24300:19:32,359 –> 00:19:35,680rather like this. Remember that earlier in the letter, he has told us24400:19:35,680 –> 00:19:40,599about false teachers? Verse four, who denied the deity of our Lord Jesus Christ24500:19:40,599 –> 00:19:46,680causes all kinds of confusion in the church. Now, Jude says there are many folks24600:19:46,680 –> 00:19:52,959within the sweep of a gathered congregation who are very unsure,24700:19:52,959 –> 00:19:57,119even when we sing a statement like, I believe in God the Father,24800:19:57,119 –> 00:20:01,199I believe in the Holy Bible. And there are many within the gathered24900:20:01,199 –> 00:20:07,180congregation who may have struggles with some of these affirmations of faith.25000:20:07,180 –> 00:20:10,800Now, how are you to reach out and help such a person?25100:20:10,859 –> 00:20:16,020Now, Jude is stating it very clearly. You would be merciful.25200:20:16,020 –> 00:20:21,560You’d be merciful. You’d be patient. You’d stand with to help, and to encourage,25300:20:21,560 –> 00:20:27,520and to support, to show, and to demonstrate. You see,25400:20:27,520 –> 00:20:32,180there’s a big difference between the person who struggles to believe25500:20:32,180 –> 00:20:36,459and the person who refuses to believe. If you can’t see the difference25600:20:36,459 –> 00:20:40,500between these two things, you’ll never be effective in ministry.25700:20:40,500 –> 00:20:45,219There’s a big difference between the child, to go to that family analogy,25800:20:45,219 –> 00:20:52,520who struggles to do what is right and the child who refuses to do what is right.25900:20:52,520 –> 00:20:57,540It’s a wonderful thing, by the way, that God can tell the difference.26000:20:57,540 –> 00:21:02,579Now, some of us are just natural confronters. And we need to hear this.26100:21:02,579 –> 00:21:06,859Your ministry will be more effective. Your parenting will be more effective26200:21:07,119 –> 00:21:14,839if you can learn to be merciful to those who doubt.26300:21:14,839 –> 00:21:18,819I don’t tell you to speak a private word as much as26400:21:18,819 –> 00:21:23,140you can do that in public, but I’m talking about an in-house word here.26500:21:23,140 –> 00:21:28,800I do sometimes wince when I hear reported things that have been said26600:21:28,800 –> 00:21:32,920from one to another member of this congregation.26700:21:32,920 –> 00:21:35,859A lady is bereaved.26800:21:35,880 –> 00:21:40,300And six months into it, she says to her friend that she’s still struggling,26900:21:40,300 –> 00:21:44,380and she gets told, you should be over it by now.27000:21:44,380 –> 00:21:47,979The person comes from another background, another kind of church where the Bible27100:21:47,979 –> 00:21:49,359was very, very little taught.27200:21:49,359 –> 00:21:51,319And they come with almost no knowledge about this.27300:21:51,319 –> 00:21:54,699Yet they regard themselves as a Christian, and they have a hunger27400:21:54,699 –> 00:21:55,839to seek more.27500:21:55,839 –> 00:21:57,099Which church did you come from?27600:21:57,099 –> 00:22:00,880Well, you won’t learn much there.27700:22:00,939 –> 00:22:09,439See, sometimes our flippant social remarks reveal who we are.27800:22:09,439 –> 00:22:15,420Learn that compassion is at the heart of ministry.27900:22:15,420 –> 00:22:23,140That mercy will take your words far further than judgment.28000:22:23,140 –> 00:22:28,920We have wonderful opportunities to help those who doubt, but the only way to do28100:22:28,979 –> 00:22:32,140it is to do it mercifully – to remember that some struggle with particular28200:22:32,140 –> 00:22:38,239frailties and we’ll do so all their lives. And please please please don’t28300:22:38,239 –> 00:22:44,359expect other people to learn in one week what God took 20 years to teach you.28400:22:44,359 –> 00:22:48,760It’s compassion. You see how that’s going to help ministry?28500:22:49,239 –> 00:22:52,439You’ve been listening to Open the Bible with Pastor Colin Smith and a message28600:22:52,439 –> 00:22:56,280called reach out to others and we’ll be back with the second part of that28700:22:56,280 –> 00:23:02,020message in our next program. For anyone who wants to grow their Christian faith28800:23:02,020 –> 00:23:07,380Jude has seven spiritual exercises and those are what we are examining in this28900:23:07,380 –> 00:23:13,040series. The series is called Keeping yourself in Spiritual Shape and if you29000:23:13,040 –> 00:23:16,319ever miss one of the series you can easily catch up or go back and listen29100:23:16,319 –> 00:23:23,079again by coming online to our website openthebible.org.uk. 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