Family, Part 1

Proverbs 3:1-18

In this broadcast, we’re diving into the Book of Proverbs to explore the timeless wisdom it offers for family life. Whether you’re a husband, wife, parent, child, brother, or sister, Proverbs holds a treasure trove of insights for nurturing and strengthening these vital relationships.

Pastor Colin unpacks practical lessons from Proverbs, guiding us on how to bring joy to our parents, appreciate our spouses as gifts from the Lord, and handle sibling relationships with care. We learn how these foundational biblical principles can transform family dynamics by fostering love, understanding, and respect.

Join us in Proverbs chapter 3 to discover God’s wisdom for your family. Whether you’re dealing with a challenging relationship or simply looking to cultivate a loving home environment, there’s something here for everyone.

100:00:01,000 –> 00:00:11,160The book of Proverbs gives wisdom for husbands and for wives for parents and for children200:00:11,160 –> 00:00:17,000and for brothers and for sisters. So, whatever your situation in life300:00:17,000 –> 00:00:22,520there is something here for each and every one of us today.400:00:22,520 –> 00:00:27,820Welcome to Open the Bible with Pastor Colin Smith, I’m David Pick, glad you could join us today.500:00:28,180 –> 00:00:33,860We’re looking today at the Book of Proverbs again and its wisdom for families.600:00:33,860 –> 00:00:39,299Yes, and you know, I suppose that Proverbs would not be the place that we would look first700:00:39,299 –> 00:00:44,740in regards to wisdom and family life. The other places in the Bible that come, I think, much800:00:44,740 –> 00:00:51,220more quickly to mind. But what I’ve found in delving into this Book of Proverbs is that God900:00:51,220 –> 00:00:58,599has given us a treasure trove of wisdom for all the relationships of family life. So,1000:00:58,599 –> 00:01:03,419you know, do you have a difficult relationship with a sister or a brother? Are you struggling1100:01:03,419 –> 00:01:09,160in some way with a father or a mother or a son or a daughter? All of the relationships1200:01:09,160 –> 00:01:15,519in family life are addressed very specifically and the wisdom that is given to us – because1300:01:15,519 –> 00:01:21,160it’s the wisdom of God in Scripture – you just read it and then you find yourself saying,1400:01:21,440 –> 00:01:27,760God knows what it’s like to be in this particular relationship and he’s giving me wisdom as1500:01:27,760 –> 00:01:31,919to how to handle it well. So, I’m so glad that we have the opportunity of being in the1600:01:31,919 –> 00:01:37,440book of Proverbs and looking at these really important relationships of family today.1700:01:37,440 –> 00:01:43,720Join us today, if you can, in Proverbs chapter 3 as we begin a message of family. Here’s1800:01:43,720 –> 00:01:44,800Pastor Colin.1900:01:45,120 –> 00:01:53,239Now, Proverbs gives us wisdom for the whole of life and we’re looking at 5 themes in particular.2000:01:53,239 –> 00:02:00,180Last week we looked at the theme of friendship and today we are looking at the theme of family.2100:02:00,180 –> 00:02:06,519And the book of Proverbs gives wisdom for husbands and for wives, for parents and for2200:02:06,519 –> 00:02:13,500children and for brothers and for sisters. So, whatever your situation in life, there2300:02:13,500 –> 00:02:17,759is something here for each and every one of us today.2400:02:17,759 –> 00:02:27,960We’re going to begin with wisdom for brothers and sisters. And I want to draw your attention2500:02:27,960 –> 00:02:35,520to Proverbs 18 and verse 19 where we learn that close relationships are vulnerable to2600:02:35,520 –> 00:02:47,500deep wounds. Proverbs 18, 19. A brother offended is more unyielding than a strong city. And2700:02:47,500 –> 00:02:56,880quarreling is like the bars of a castle. The reference is to a sibling, and if I were to2800:02:56,880 –> 00:03:03,539ask how many of us here in this service have a strained relationship with a sibling, a2900:03:03,639 –> 00:03:09,119brother or a sister, I’m not going to do this, but I were to ask for a show of hands, I think3000:03:09,119 –> 00:03:15,300there would be plenty. If you have a sibling, how do you get on with your brother? How do3100:03:15,300 –> 00:03:21,919you get on with what is your relationship like with your sister? And what we’re being3200:03:21,919 –> 00:03:27,240told here very clearly is if you have a good relationship with your brother or your sister,3300:03:27,240 –> 00:03:35,759cherish it, and guard it, because proverbs reminds us that close relationships are especially3400:03:35,759 –> 00:03:45,839vulnerable to deep wounds, that don’t heal easily. A brother offended is more unyielding3500:03:45,839 –> 00:03:51,500than a strong city. Now of course, you see this throughout the Bible. You remember that3600:03:51,500 –> 00:03:56,800the first two children born into the world were both boys, Cain and Abel. And one of3700:03:56,800 –> 00:04:04,080these brothers was jealous of the other, and you know that that story didn’t end well.3800:04:04,080 –> 00:04:13,460Then you have Jacob and Esau, then you have Joseph and his brothers, in the gospels you3900:04:13,460 –> 00:04:20,440have a man who comes to Jesus asking if Jesus can settle a dispute that he has with his4000:04:20,440 –> 00:04:23,500brother over inheritance money.4100:04:23,500 –> 00:04:25,359How often has that happened?4200:04:25,359 –> 00:04:33,279Squabbling and quarreling in families between brothers and sisters over who gets what.4300:04:33,279 –> 00:04:40,600And then we are told, in regards to the family in which our Lord Jesus was raised, that the4400:04:40,600 –> 00:04:52,119family of Jesus, that is his brothers and sisters, said that he was out of his mind.4500:04:52,119 –> 00:05:01,720So if jealousy of a brother or sister is a trial in your life, then know that the Lord4600:05:01,720 –> 00:05:08,320Jesus has been there, and he knows what living with this is like.4700:05:08,320 –> 00:05:17,239A brother offended is more unyielding than a strong city and quarreling is like the bars4800:05:17,239 –> 00:05:18,880of a castle.4900:05:18,880 –> 00:05:28,440Now, what that’s telling us is that when quarreling takes root, it locks a person in5000:05:28,440 –> 00:05:34,380so that it’s as if you’re behind the bars of a castle on the one side and your brother5100:05:34,459 –> 00:05:40,100or sister is behind the bars of a castle on the other side.5200:05:40,100 –> 00:05:46,500And the closer the relationship, the stronger the bars can be.5300:05:46,500 –> 00:05:49,940So close relationships are vulnerable to deep wounds.5400:05:49,940 –> 00:05:57,399And so we are to handle them with special care and to be very careful not to quarrel5500:05:57,399 –> 00:06:00,799with a brother or with a sister.5600:06:00,799 –> 00:06:06,239And another of the Proverbs, this is Proverbs 17 and verse 14 says that5700:06:06,239 –> 00:06:19,980the beginning of strife is like the letting out of water, so quit before the quarrel breaks5800:06:19,980 –> 00:06:21,739out.5900:06:21,739 –> 00:06:27,320Wonderful wisdom from the word of God, guard those relationships that are vulnerable with6000:06:27,320 –> 00:06:35,380special care and especially be careful not to quarrel with your brother or with your6100:06:35,380 –> 00:06:36,579sister.6200:06:36,579 –> 00:06:42,799Second, wisdom for husbands and wives, there’s so much here in Proverbs, I want to just touch6300:06:42,799 –> 00:06:49,720on one thing and that is to remind those of us who are married that your spouse is a gift6400:06:49,880 –> 00:06:51,619from the Lord.6500:06:51,619 –> 00:07:02,320Proverbs 18, verse 22, he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from6600:07:02,320 –> 00:07:03,320the Lord.6700:07:03,320 –> 00:07:10,179Now, remember, these are the words of wise King Solomon to his son, Rehoboam and here6800:07:10,179 –> 00:07:17,839you have therefore, a wise father commending marriage to his son as a good thing, it’s6900:07:17,839 –> 00:07:22,679a good gift from the Lord, son this father says.7000:07:22,679 –> 00:07:30,899Now, this is very important for us to remember because we live in a culture that often flaunts7100:07:30,899 –> 00:07:33,000what it calls freedom.7200:07:33,000 –> 00:07:40,660So, you get a question like, well who wants to be tied down.7300:07:40,660 –> 00:07:46,359But you see the Bible has a very different view of marriage from that.7400:07:46,359 –> 00:07:49,559A much higher view of marriage.7500:07:49,559 –> 00:07:59,959Solomon says to his son, chapter 12 and verse 4, an excellent wife is the crown of her husband,7600:07:59,959 –> 00:08:03,899the crown of her husband.7700:08:03,899 –> 00:08:14,019And, as many of you well, the book of proverbs ends with a poem composed by a wise husband7800:08:14,140 –> 00:08:18,299in praise of his good and godly wife.7900:08:18,299 –> 00:08:23,140Proverbs 31 and verse 29, here’s what the husband says of his wife.8000:08:23,140 –> 00:08:31,940Many women have done excellently, but you surpassed them all.8100:08:31,940 –> 00:08:40,179Now, from this, from Proverbs chapter 31, where a wise husband expresses his appreciation8200:08:40,299 –> 00:08:44,979and valuing of his wife and all that she does.8300:08:44,979 –> 00:08:52,159From this, we learn, husband, tell your wife where she excels.8400:08:52,159 –> 00:08:55,979Build her up with this kind of appreciation.8500:08:55,979 –> 00:09:01,820A wise husband expresses the praise of his wife.8600:09:01,820 –> 00:09:09,900Ray Ortland, a pastor who has a very fine book on the book of Proverbs points out that8700:09:09,960 –> 00:09:15,599the meaning of the word husband—I wonder if you’ve ever thought about this.8800:09:15,599 –> 00:09:17,280What is a husband?8900:09:17,280 –> 00:09:19,380What does that word mean?9000:09:19,380 –> 00:09:28,239When the word husband is used as a verb to husband, it means to cultivate.9100:09:28,239 –> 00:09:30,460Think of this—husbandry.9200:09:30,460 –> 00:09:37,320Husbandry is about the art of caring and cultivating.9300:09:38,119 –> 00:09:47,679So if God has entrusted you with a wife, your job is to husband her—that is, to create9400:09:47,679 –> 00:09:51,700the conditions in which she can flourish.9500:09:51,700 –> 00:09:57,380That is by definition what it means to be a husband.9600:09:58,039 –> 00:10:07,520Husbands love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.9700:10:07,520 –> 00:10:13,739So we read from chapter three this morning, let love and faithfulness never leave you.9800:10:13,739 –> 00:10:15,520Bind them around your neck.9900:10:15,520 –> 00:10:21,440In other words, let your love and let your faithfulness be evident to all because it’s10000:10:21,440 –> 00:10:25,479visible, bind them around your neck, but also let it be in your heart.10100:10:25,880 –> 00:10:31,619Write them on the tablet of your heart, then you will win favour and good success in the10200:10:31,619 –> 00:10:35,340sight of God and of man.10300:10:35,340 –> 00:10:38,500You’re listening to Open the Bible with Pastor Colin Smith.10400:10:38,500 –> 00:10:42,119And we’ve got to pause the message briefly there, but we’ll be back very shortly.10500:10:42,119 –> 00:10:44,059So do stay with us.10600:10:44,059 –> 00:10:50,039Our message today is called Family and it’s part of our series, Wisdom for Life based10700:10:50,039 –> 00:10:53,599on the Book of Proverbs and Chapter Three.10800:10:53,599 –> 00:10:57,320If you ever miss one of the messages in the series, don’t forget, you can easily catch10900:10:57,320 –> 00:11:01,940up or go back and listen to any of the messages which have already been broadcast by coming11000:11:01,940 –> 00:11:06,400to our website – opensbible.org.uk.11100:11:06,400 –> 00:11:07,640Back to the message now.11200:11:07,640 –> 00:11:09,559Here again is Pastor Colin.11300:11:09,559 –> 00:11:16,599So the Book of Proverbs, it is full of wisdom, and particularly we are given wisdom in relation11400:11:16,700 –> 00:11:23,880to sibling relationships, your brother and your sister, in relation to marriage, husband11500:11:23,880 –> 00:11:26,559and wife.11600:11:26,559 –> 00:11:34,400But by far the largest number of proverbs that relate to family life are directed towards11700:11:34,400 –> 00:11:37,599the relationship between parents and children.11800:11:37,599 –> 00:11:41,780And I want to focus in especially on that today.11900:11:42,739 –> 00:11:45,159And first, for us to see together12000:11:45,159 –> 00:11:50,820the wisdom of God that is given to us here for children.12100:11:50,820 –> 00:11:56,320And two things for all who are younger, but also all of those of us who are older as well,12200:11:56,320 –> 00:11:57,900that I want us to see clearly.12300:11:57,900 –> 00:12:04,940The first is, always seek to bring joy to your parents.12400:12:05,880 –> 00:12:12,320And I have the privilege of speaking especially now to those who are younger,12500:12:12,320 –> 00:12:18,239to the children, young people who are here in the congregation today.12600:12:18,239 –> 00:12:28,280I want you to take this in that the Word of God calls you to always bring joy to your12700:12:28,280 –> 00:12:32,780father and to your mother.12800:12:32,820 –> 00:12:39,780And look at this – a wise son makes a glad father – a GLAD father.12900:12:39,780 –> 00:12:45,039But a foolish son is a sorrow to his mother.13000:12:45,039 –> 00:12:54,140Proverbs 23 and verse 25 – let your father and mother be glad.13100:12:54,140 –> 00:12:58,260Let her who bore you rejoice.13200:12:59,219 –> 00:13:03,780Of course, this is very simply an application of the fifth commandment.13300:13:03,780 –> 00:13:06,280The commandment in which God says to us,13400:13:06,280 –> 00:13:10,080Honor your father and your mother.13500:13:10,080 –> 00:13:13,260And that is a commandment that speaks to children,13600:13:13,260 –> 00:13:17,059but not only to children – there’s not a time limit that’s put on it –13700:13:17,059 –> 00:13:19,739throughout life, here is the commandment of God –13800:13:19,739 –> 00:13:23,239that you honor your father and your mother.13900:13:23,239 –> 00:13:26,059Now, what does that mean?14000:13:26,059 –> 00:13:30,039Well, very simply, the word honor means,14100:13:30,039 –> 00:13:32,940give weight to14200:13:32,940 –> 00:13:36,340or regard as heavy.14300:13:36,340 –> 00:13:39,640That’s what the word honor means.14400:13:39,640 –> 00:13:44,719So, when your father or your mother14500:13:44,719 –> 00:13:47,020tell you to do something,14600:13:47,020 –> 00:13:52,659you are to give weight to what they say.14700:13:52,659 –> 00:13:55,479And in older life, in later life,14800:13:55,479 –> 00:13:57,539as father and mother may have needs,14900:13:57,539 –> 00:14:00,179you are to give weight15000:14:00,179 –> 00:14:03,619to their needs and to their circumstances.15100:14:03,619 –> 00:14:05,280That’s what it means to honor,15200:14:05,280 –> 00:14:09,780give weight to your father and your mother.15300:14:09,780 –> 00:14:12,000So, to put this as simply as I can,15400:14:12,000 –> 00:14:13,919especially for the children15500:14:13,919 –> 00:14:17,000and younger folks here this morning.15600:14:17,000 –> 00:14:19,900If your father or your mother15700:14:19,900 –> 00:14:22,900tells you to do something15800:14:23,340 –> 00:14:26,479and you don’t want to do it,15900:14:26,479 –> 00:14:29,640here’s what you should say to yourself.16000:14:29,640 –> 00:14:32,280You should say to yourself,16100:14:32,280 –> 00:14:36,679the person who told me to do this16200:14:36,679 –> 00:14:41,020is my mother.16300:14:41,020 –> 00:14:45,059You gotta give weight to your father.16400:14:45,059 –> 00:14:47,119We need to practice this.16500:14:47,119 –> 00:14:48,760Together please.16600:14:48,760 –> 00:14:52,340The person who told me to do this16700:14:52,460 –> 00:14:56,320is my mother, you see.16800:14:56,320 –> 00:14:58,059If it’s your mother who says it,16900:14:58,059 –> 00:15:00,179you give weight to that.17000:15:00,179 –> 00:15:02,119If it’s your father who says it,17100:15:02,119 –> 00:15:03,140you give weight to that,17200:15:03,140 –> 00:15:07,099that’s what it means to honor your father and mother.17300:15:07,099 –> 00:15:08,619When you do that,17400:15:08,619 –> 00:15:10,979you will bring joy to your parents.17500:15:10,979 –> 00:15:13,820A wise son makes a glad father.17600:15:13,820 –> 00:15:18,059Let your father and your mother be glad.17700:15:18,059 –> 00:15:21,140And since we’re in Proverbs,17800:15:21,140 –> 00:15:24,159and there are some ones that are very memorable.17900:15:24,159 –> 00:15:26,320If there should come a time18000:15:27,320 –> 00:15:29,700when you are ever tempted18100:15:30,659 –> 00:15:35,020to look at your father as if you despised him,18200:15:36,280 –> 00:15:41,280or to look at your mother as if you were going to defy her,18300:15:43,500 –> 00:15:46,179then just remember this from the book of Proverbs.18400:15:46,179 –> 00:15:48,900This is Proverbs 30, and verses 17.18500:15:48,900 –> 00:15:50,859What do you think of this?18600:15:50,859 –> 00:15:55,299The eye that mocks a father18700:15:56,419 –> 00:16:00,340and scorns to obey a mother18800:16:01,419 –> 00:16:06,419will be picked out by the ravens of the valley18900:16:08,419 –> 00:16:12,640and eaten by the vultures.19000:16:14,599 –> 00:16:19,179I think that means don’t ever defy your father.19100:16:19,400 –> 00:16:24,419Don’t ever despise your mother.19200:16:26,260 –> 00:16:29,760Okay, always seek to bring joy to your parents,19300:16:29,760 –> 00:16:32,239that’s the wisdom of the word of God.19400:16:32,239 –> 00:16:35,520And here’s the second thing, especially when we’re young,19500:16:35,520 –> 00:16:37,739but really it is a principle to keep with us19600:16:37,739 –> 00:16:40,580all through our lives, and it’s this,19700:16:40,580 –> 00:16:44,859always be willing and even eager to learn.19800:16:44,859 –> 00:16:49,099Always be willing and even eager to learn.19900:16:49,099 –> 00:16:51,219Look at Chapter 15 in verse 32,20000:16:51,219 –> 00:16:55,219whoever ignores instruction, despises himself.20100:16:56,179 –> 00:17:00,780But he who listens to reproof gains intelligence.20200:17:00,780 –> 00:17:02,580Or chapter 13, and verse one,20300:17:02,580 –> 00:17:07,579a wise son hears his father’s instruction,20400:17:07,859 –> 00:17:12,839but a scoffer doesn’t listen to rebuke.20500:17:12,939 –> 00:17:16,540Now, one of the things that’s often true when we’re young20600:17:16,540 –> 00:17:20,260is that we can easily feel that we know it all.20700:17:21,239 –> 00:17:24,619And hopefully as we grow older,20800:17:24,619 –> 00:17:26,739we become a little more humble and realize20900:17:26,739 –> 00:17:30,219that we don’t know as much as we used to think.21000:17:30,219 –> 00:17:34,140There’s a great comment that I believe Mark Twain made21100:17:34,140 –> 00:17:36,160and it was something to the effect of,21200:17:36,160 –> 00:17:41,160when I was 14, I was convinced that my father knew nothing,21300:17:41,219 –> 00:17:43,599my father knew nothing.21400:17:43,599 –> 00:17:45,099By the time I was 21,21500:17:45,099 –> 00:17:47,040I was amazed at how much he had learned21600:17:47,040 –> 00:17:48,560in the last seven years.21700:17:51,260 –> 00:17:55,560Now, we read earlier from Proverbs 3 in verse seven,21800:17:55,560 –> 00:18:00,339do not be wise in your own eyes.21900:18:01,500 –> 00:18:04,300And that theme of the danger of being wise22000:18:04,300 –> 00:18:09,300in your own eyes is repeated throughout Proverbs.22100:18:09,339 –> 00:18:12,839For example, chapter 26 in verse 12, takes it up.22200:18:12,839 –> 00:18:17,760Do you see a man who is wise in his own eyes?22300:18:19,020 –> 00:18:21,699There’s more hope for a fool than there is for him.22400:18:22,859 –> 00:18:26,479See, Solomon was a teacher,22500:18:26,479 –> 00:18:31,140he was a king, but he was also a teacher of wisdom.22600:18:32,140 –> 00:18:37,140And as a teacher he discovered what all teachers know,22700:18:37,619 –> 00:18:40,699and there are some students who learn and others who don’t.22800:18:41,619 –> 00:18:45,699And what Solomon observes here is that those who don’t learn22900:18:45,699 –> 00:18:48,540are those who think they are wise already.23000:18:48,540 –> 00:18:51,219They’re wise in their own eyes,23100:18:51,219 –> 00:18:54,760and so they don’t think that they need to learn anything.23200:18:54,760 –> 00:18:57,140And Solomon says there’s more hope for a fool23300:18:57,140 –> 00:18:58,319than for that person.23400:18:58,319 –> 00:18:59,160Why?23500:18:59,160 –> 00:19:02,219Because the fool at least has the advantage23600:19:02,219 –> 00:19:04,020of knowing that he needs to learn.23700:19:04,959 –> 00:19:09,380And the very first lesson for all of us23800:19:09,380 –> 00:19:14,380in the school of wisdom is that all of us need to learn.23900:19:17,140 –> 00:19:19,459And that is why the Bible says that the fear24000:19:19,459 –> 00:19:22,239of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.24100:19:23,140 –> 00:19:28,140Wisdom begins when I come to see that I don’t have it.24200:19:28,400 –> 00:19:30,900I need to receive it.24300:19:30,900 –> 00:19:33,599And I need to receive it from the Lord24400:19:33,599 –> 00:19:36,599and I’ll receive it through his Word.24500:19:37,459 –> 00:19:40,699In other words, the greatest barrier to gaining wisdom24600:19:40,699 –> 00:19:43,619is the conviction that you already have it.24700:19:44,920 –> 00:19:48,500That is why in Romans chapter one and verse 22,24800:19:48,500 –> 00:19:52,859we read that people who thought themselves wise24900:19:52,859 –> 00:19:54,500became fools.25000:19:55,680 –> 00:19:57,859You see here are men and women who say,25100:19:57,859 –> 00:20:02,359we don’t need God, we’re wise, we’ve got all that we need.25200:20:02,400 –> 00:20:05,560And so they push God away and thinking themselves wise,25300:20:05,560 –> 00:20:07,760being wise in their own eyes, what happens?25400:20:07,760 –> 00:20:09,500They begin to live as fools.25500:20:10,640 –> 00:20:13,119That’s Romans chapter one and verse 22.25600:20:14,199 –> 00:20:17,319That’s why in first Corinthians chapter three in verse 18,25700:20:17,319 –> 00:20:22,319Paul says, if any of you thinks that he is wise in this age25800:20:22,319 –> 00:20:25,540let him become a fool in order that he may become wise.25900:20:25,540 –> 00:20:27,939In other words, the only way to really learn26000:20:27,939 –> 00:20:31,660is to begin by recognizing your own need.26100:20:33,239 –> 00:20:35,520So recognize that you need to learn.26200:20:36,439 –> 00:20:39,479Listen to those God has placed around you,26300:20:40,359 –> 00:20:44,599especially when you are young, listen to your parents.26400:20:45,680 –> 00:20:49,479Take in all that you can from the word of God26500:20:49,479 –> 00:20:53,020so that you will grow in the path of wisdom26600:20:53,020 –> 00:20:55,400because we are not born with it,26700:20:55,400 –> 00:21:00,400we need to receive it and to receive it from the Lord.26800:21:00,560 –> 00:21:03,280So here are some things especially for children26900:21:03,280 –> 00:21:07,099but clearly they remain with us all of our lives,27000:21:07,099 –> 00:21:12,239always seek to bring joy to your parents.27100:21:12,239 –> 00:21:15,319I spoke to so many folks in midlife27200:21:15,319 –> 00:21:18,000who are caring for older parents27300:21:18,920 –> 00:21:22,439and what a wonderful thing to be able to say27400:21:22,439 –> 00:21:25,979the smile of God is upon you as you are doing this.27500:21:26,760 –> 00:21:29,199It is a reflection of the wisdom27600:21:29,199 –> 00:21:30,579and the very heart of God27700:21:30,579 –> 00:21:35,219the way of Jesus, the way of a disciple27800:21:35,219 –> 00:21:37,339and always, always be willing27900:21:37,339 –> 00:21:39,739and eager to learn.28000:21:40,900 –> 00:21:42,619Well, we’ve got to pause our message there28100:21:42,619 –> 00:21:44,219until our next broadcast.28200:21:44,219 –> 00:21:45,920Message is called family28300:21:45,920 –> 00:21:48,859and it’s based on Proverbs chapter three.28400:21:48,859 –> 00:21:52,219It’s from our series called wisdom for life28500:21:52,219 –> 00:21:55,219and if you ever miss one of the messages in the series28600:21:55,260 –> 00:21:57,780you can easily catch up or go back and listen again28700:21:57,780 –> 00:22:02,520online at our website openthebible.org.uk.28800:22:02,520 –> 00:22:04,680I know many of you listen to podcasts28900:22:04,680 –> 00:22:07,660and we’re excited to tell you about a new podcast29000:22:07,660 –> 00:22:09,040for Open The Bible.29100:22:09,040 –> 00:22:11,880It’s a companion to Pastor Colin’s book29200:22:11,880 –> 00:22:13,540Hike Through The Bible.29300:22:13,540 –> 00:22:16,380Yeah and each week I’ll read a chapter from the book29400:22:16,380 –> 00:22:19,000and then I get to discuss it with some friends.29500:22:19,000 –> 00:22:22,260So if you join us on the podcast in 50 weeks29600:22:22,260 –> 00:22:25,099we’ll cover 50 chapters of the Bible together29700:22:25,180 –> 00:22:29,819and in a year you’ll have hiked through the entire Bible story.29800:22:29,819 –> 00:22:32,459Now if you think hiking sounds like hard work,29900:22:32,459 –> 00:22:37,400don’t worry, I promise you this hike will be an easy gentle pace.30000:22:37,400 –> 00:22:39,020There’s a link to the podcast30100:22:39,020 –> 00:22:45,479and lots more information on our website at openthebible.org.uk.30200:22:45,479 –> 00:22:47,880Open The Bible is supported by our listeners.30300:22:47,880 –> 00:22:50,459We’re able to bring you Pastor Colin’s teaching30400:22:50,459 –> 00:22:53,180on the radio, internet, and podcasts30500:22:53,359 –> 00:22:56,599as a result of the generosity of listeners like you.30600:22:56,599 –> 00:22:59,119So if you already give to support our work,30700:22:59,119 –> 00:23:02,239thank you so much, we do appreciate it.30800:23:02,239 –> 00:23:05,719This month when you begin to support Open The Bible for the first time,30900:23:05,719 –> 00:23:10,420we’d love to say thank you by sending you a copy of Pastor Colin’s brand new book,31000:23:10,420 –> 00:23:11,579Grow in Faith.31100:23:11,579 –> 00:23:14,680This devotional book is not yet available in the UK,31200:23:14,680 –> 00:23:17,239so our offer is very exclusive.31300:23:17,239 –> 00:23:19,660Colin, why did you write this book?31400:23:19,859 –> 00:23:22,739Well, the Bible speaks to us repeatedly31500:23:22,739 –> 00:23:27,699about the central importance of faith and of hope and of love.31600:23:27,699 –> 00:23:29,439At the end of 1 Corinthians 13,31700:23:29,439 –> 00:23:32,439Paul speaks about everything else is going to pass away,31800:23:32,439 –> 00:23:34,339but these things are going to remain.31900:23:34,339 –> 00:23:36,439Faith, hope and love.32000:23:36,439 –> 00:23:38,219So they’re of central importance.32100:23:38,219 –> 00:23:42,099And of course they speak to the needs of our world today.32200:23:42,099 –> 00:23:44,400I mean, we’re living in days where so many people32300:23:44,400 –> 00:23:48,359experience fear and a sense of gloom32400:23:48,359 –> 00:23:50,219and where there’s so much conflict.32500:23:50,219 –> 00:23:52,599We need faith, hope and love.32600:23:52,599 –> 00:23:56,339And so Grow in Faith is actually the first of a series32700:23:56,339 –> 00:24:00,540of three books that are coming out beginning this month32800:24:00,540 –> 00:24:02,760and then in the two months that follow.32900:24:02,760 –> 00:24:06,959Really excited and grateful for the opportunity to do this.33000:24:06,959 –> 00:24:10,319If God’s people can grow in faith,33100:24:10,319 –> 00:24:14,119grow in hope and grow in love,33200:24:14,119 –> 00:24:17,520then the world is going to see something distinct about us33300:24:17,520 –> 00:24:20,319that is very powerfully attractive.33400:24:20,319 –> 00:24:23,119And so I hope that these books are going to be a means33500:24:23,119 –> 00:24:25,640of God’s blessing and encouragement to many.33600:24:25,640 –> 00:24:27,920Start this month with Grow in Faith33700:24:27,920 –> 00:24:30,599and follow up next month with Grow in Hope33800:24:30,599 –> 00:24:33,000and the month after that with Grow in Love.33900:24:33,000 –> 00:24:35,339Well, Pastor Colin’s book, Grow in Faith,34000:24:35,339 –> 00:24:37,920is our special offer to you this month34100:24:37,920 –> 00:24:40,040when you support Open the Bible Financially34200:24:40,040 –> 00:24:43,819for the first time with a one off gift of £60 or more34300:24:44,099 –> 00:24:48,979or a monthly direct debit of £5 per month or more.34400:24:48,979 –> 00:24:51,619Full terms and conditions are on our website.34500:24:51,619 –> 00:24:56,500That’s at openthebible.org.uk and you can give online.34600:24:56,500 –> 00:24:59,540Please do remember to leave your 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